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15种策略应对任性的孩子

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15种策略应对任性的孩子

Name: 15种策略应对任性的孩子
Brand: Jingdong book
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任性是孩子普遍存在的问题，特别是在孩子小的时候，这个问题尤其严重。如果父母不能正确而恰当地处理，就可能给孩子的成长和发展带来危害。《15种策略应对任性的孩子》立足孩子的任性表现，从孩子学习以及生活的各个方面切入，以15种策略作为突破口，详尽而细致地阐述了如何应对任性的孩子，力图给还在受孩子的“任性”折磨的父母提供一些行之有效的办法，让孩子拥有健全健康的个性，让父母掌握良好的教育方法。

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策略1 让孩子放松对父母的警惕
孩子的任性源于安全感的缺失
慎用“批评”和“惩罚”的艺术
懂得向孩子“求助”
认真倾听孩子的想法
要懂得对孩子说“对不起”

策略2 来点小幽默，缓解气氛
幽默是最具有亲和力的语言
幽默让任性的孩子多一分快乐
幽默教育绝非无视和纵容孩子的缺点
用幽默的方式化解孩子的任性

策略3 把“任务”变成有趣的游戏
游戏是孩子最爱的活动
用游戏推动孩子目标的完成
让劳动变成孩子快乐的游戏

策略4 让孩子自觉地接受“任务”
正确认识和看待孩子的任性
在家庭中建立父母的威信
立足孩子的兴趣点
懂得顺应孩子的内在要求

策略5 善于利用孩子的逆反心理
逆反心理导致孩子任性
如何引导孩子的逆反心理
给予孩子一定的挫折教育
懂得转化孩子的任性行为

策略6 让孩子明白父母的意图
注意与孩子交谈的技巧
给予孩子及时恰当的解释
以平等尊重的姿态对待孩子

策略7 要懂得和孩子轮流来
让孩子知难而退
为孩子的言行做好表率

策略8 适当地冷落一下孩子
纠正对孩子的溺爱和放纵
不要太“在意”孩子的任性行为
懂得适时地给孩享“泼冷水”
不要在情感上冷落孩子

策略9 孩子一般都喜欢自己来
“自己来”是孩子成长的标示牌
用“简单”代替对孩子的说教
给孩子的行为设定限制
策略10 鼓励孩子做个好榜样
孩子的成长需要鼓励和肯定
鼓励孩子主动劳动
用鼓励纠正孩子的任性
用好胜心克服孩子的任性

策略11 让孩子学会自己作选择
把孩子当成一个独立的个体
让孩子权衡利弊得失
对孩子要有足够的耐心

策略12 强制孩子休息片刻
注重解读孩子行为背后的含义
“强制休息”是应对任性的良方

策略13 转移孩子的注意力
清楚孩子注意力发展的特点
给孩子多一种选择

策略14 给孩子-个轻柔的暗示
暗示有一股神奇的魔力
对孩子的劝说不要太直接
懂得保护孩子的人格尊严
用恰当的方法暗示孩子

策略15 培养孩子自我管理的意识
让孩子学会克制和忍耐
提高孩子分辨是非的能力
培养孩子的自控能力

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研究发现，孩子的逆反心理包含着许多积极的心理品质。从孩子成长发展的规律来看，随着孩子年龄的增长，孩子出现逆反心理，是其天性的自然流露。孩子好奇心重，对新鲜事物总是有一种探究和追寻的欲望，加上孩子独立意志和自我意识的发展，孩子常常会对一些事物有属于自己的看法和观点。因此，孩子的逆反心理从另一个方面反映出了孩子自我意识强，好胜心强，勇敢，有闯劲，能求异，能创新。所以，孩子的逆反心理也是一把双刃剑，如果积极引导，巧妙转化，孩子逆反心理的积极的一面就会发挥作用，成为主导。
同时，随着社会的发展，社会竞争的日益激烈，孩子的生存能力和生存资本已成为一项必要的生存技能。而现代社会迫切需要具有创新性思维，能开拓、能进取的人才。因此，作为孩子的父母，在教育孩子的过程中，最重要的是善于发现孩子逆反心理中的创造性品质和开拓意识，并合理引导。只要合理引导，懂得转化孩子的逆反行为，那么孩子的逆反心理就会发挥积极的作用，从而有效地避免孩子的任性行为。
而且，孩子的逆反心理在某些程度上，还能够防止一些不良的心理品质的形成。对孩子来说，逆反心理较强的孩子，在遇到不顺心的事或是在遭受挫折和失败的情况下，积郁在心中的愤懑、压抑、不满情绪往往敢于发泄，他们不会把不愉快的事情长期滞留在心中。但是，与此相反，逆反心理较弱的孩子，在挫败和失意面前产生的不良情绪，往往不敢宣泄，找不到释放自己的途径，从而使自己的身心健康遭受巨大的威胁。甚至，孩子的不良情绪长时间得不到释放，会让孩子产生畏缩心理、压抑心理，从而变得懦弱、保守、逆来顺受。可见，孩子的逆反心理也不是什么坏事，父母大可不必“谈虎色变”，对孩子的逆反心理过于敏感。孩子的逆反心理在一定程度上也能成为孩子不良情绪的释放口，有利于维持孩子的身心健康。
另外，父母还需要注意一点，孩子的逆反心理很大程度上也是父母不恰当的教育造成的。比如，许多年轻的父母不了解孩子的年龄特点和身心发展规律，对儿童提出的要求过高，让孩子承受的学习任务过重；或是不知道孩子具有多方面发展的潜能和资质，具有多方面的兴趣和爱好，为孩子过早定向，强制儿童过早地从事长时间的专门训练。也有些父母脾气暴躁，动辄对孩子打骂、罚跪、罚站甚至逐出门外；还有一些父母却相反，视自己的孩子为“太阳”，一切以孩子为中心，对孩子百依百顺，本来孩子可以独自很好完成的任务，父母却要唠叨半天，甚至包办代替等。
可见，在实际生活中，不少父母在孩子成长发展的过程中，对孩子过于苛刻，孩子难以达到，就会产生逆反心理和抵抗行为。久而久之，就会改变性质，出现各种各样的问题。还有的家长不懂得尊重孩子，动不动就贬斥孩子，甚至在外人面前也会对孩子毫无顾忌地责骂，孩子为了保全自己的面子，就出现了逆反心理和逆反情绪，从而出现任性对抗的行为。所以，孩子产生逆反心理，很大程度上就是父母的这些教育弊端造成的。可见，孩子逆反心理的形成是“事出有因”的，它在一定程度上敦促父母对孩子的教育作出改进和转化。只要父母能够转变自己的教育方式，规避不良的教育方法，就能有效地避免孩子的逆反心理向不良的方向发展。所以，作为孩子的父母，在教育孩子的过程中，还要考虑自身的因素，对自己的教育提出更高的要求。这样，孩子就能健康快乐地成长，就能有效地避免孩子出现任何不良的行为。
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