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我不是教你诈,是教你保护自己。免得鸭子煮熟,才到嘴边又飞了!
这社会很残酷,你错,没人告诉你,只偷偷修理你。你一辈子不发现,就吃亏一生!
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《我不是教你诈3:现代处世篇》里主要谈的就是“你”。因为许多问题,如同疾病,在怪别人传染的同时,也得怪自己。你得的病,说不定大部分都因为你自己吃坏了、做错了。所以,当你骂别人使诈的时候,先要想想是不是自己出了问题:在你怪别人“多心”的时候,先该想想是不是自己“不小心”。
看章回小说或电影,一个人被谋害,临死之前会要求“我只想知道是谁害了我”。那原本可以由后面一刀,把对手解决的人,也常对那将死的人说:“转过身,看清楚!是我把你干掉,别死得不明不白。”
我希望本篇,不是教你到“那一刻”才转身;而能早早转身,改变自己的命运。
本篇里的故事都经过策划,包括了政治、商业、黑白两道以及一般人际关系的题材,你可能发现一串故事,由“办公室开始,最后却带到夫妻朋友;或是由一个装潢工人开始,最后却谈到政治家。
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刘墉,著名作家、画家。籍贯北京,生于台北,现居美国。曾任美国丹维尔美术馆住馆艺术家、纽约圣若望大学专任住校艺术家、圣文森学院副教授。出版中英文文学、艺术作品八十余种,被称为“沟通青少年心灵的专业作家”。应邀在世界各地举行画展近三十次。
创作的原则是“在感动别人之前,先感动自己”“为自己说话,也为时代说话”。处事的原则是”不负我心,不负我生”。现主持水云斋,有一颗很热的心、一对很冷的眼、一双很勤的手、两条很忙的腿和一种很自由的心情。
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第一章
猪八戒照镜子里外不是人。
当新人进入洞房
如果你做中间人,要忠实地传达,不可添油加醋,如果你做调解人,要不听丑话,只说美言。
第二章
打仗的时候躲在别人背后,以为安全的人,很可能被敌人一枪打一串!
合作大封杀
“心直口快”常常足以坏事,因为人与人之间不是直的,在“弯曲”的人际,太“直”常容易造成伤害。
沙发上的战场
你到底该用自己的眼睛,还是用别人的眼睛,甚至别人朋友的眼睛
第三章
当撒旦头上有了光环,你还能不下地狱吗?
小袁的艳遇
当你已经“站得住”的时候就别再添油加醋编织任何谎言使自己的“理直”成为“理亏”
第四章
说“我该死”的总是先升官,说“我没错”的总是先滚蛋。
“哀”兵必胜的老廖
许多人吃亏,都因为他们事先自认为可以很“无情”,到头来却不能不“有情”。
第五章
害跳伞专家摔死的,常是制伞的小工人;害整个公司垮台的,可能只是一个接线生。
多甜美的黄小姐
当你私下去找制造商买东西的时候,常常反而比向“代理商”买得还贵。
小心留下脚印
要知道,人是非常敏感的。他能抓住每个蛛丝马迹分析对比然后猜测、查证。
第六章
人扮猪吃老虎不稀奇,猪扮老虎吃人才稀奇。
点火救火的沈局长
可惜的是,这世上的好老虎总碰上坏狐狸。
丁老太太的千女儿
当人们攀上交情往往就忘了“调查对方的来历”。
美美的爱心
当她们站在冷风中,向你介绍“那个理想”的时候,她们所说的每句话都是肺腑之言。
……
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“叫那贱人出来!” “她没来。” “我不信。” “没来就是没来,不信,你进去搜。”小欣往门边一让,手一挥。 “好,我就搜。”志刚居然大步冲进去,每个房间跑了一圈,差点把小 欣的女儿珊珊撞倒。 “对不起!对不起!”志刚抱歉地对珊珊说,“叔叔吓到你了。”说完 ,居然抱着珊珊呜呜地哭了起来。 把珊珊牵开,小欣递了几张面纸过去:“怎么啦?不要这么激动嘛!是 不是又吵架了?” “我不是激动!”志刚抬起头,红着眼睛指着小欣,“你不要说我激动 哟!我今天非常冷静,我非跟她离婚不可,不离我是狗,我都已经打电话找 离婚公司了,她居然跑掉了。”他突然仰着脸大喊,“你这贱人,你够种, 你出来啊!你不是敢把我的钱拿出去给人家花吗?” “她给谁花了啊?” “天知道给谁,她那么多男人。” “那么多男人?” “嘿!”志刚歪着头,对着小欣,“你跟她认识这么久,你会不知道她 有多少男人?” “我,我当然知道。” “没什么了不起,我告诉你,我的女人更多,我是风流,不是下流。你 知道她有多淫,有多贱吗?”他咽了口口水,做出一脸鄙夷的表情,“有一 回我去桃园跑业务,骑着那辆烂机车,才到她家,她居然等不及我洗完澡, 就说‘我好需要哦!我好需要哦!’你知道她会急得在浴室外面敲门吗?” “她爱你嘛!” “得了吧!那时候谁不知道她跟你们老板好?你不知道?” “我当然知道,但那是以前的事了。” “谁知道现在还来不来往?”志刚把睑一板,“好!我问你,她现在是 不是还跟那个王八蛋往来?你敢确定没有?” “我不知道,那是你们的事。” “好!我们的事,你少管。她八成会到你这儿来,我非把她逮到不可。 ” 说完就冲出门去。 志刚才走,小欣还扶着门发愣呢,小霞居然就呼地一声,将小欣推进门 ,把门关上。扑在小欣身上哭了起来: “他说我拿了他的钱,我根本没拿,我连看都没看过,谁知道他藏了那 么多钱……” “唉!男人嘛,常偷偷存钱,在外面搞鬼。你又不是不懂男人。” “可是我没拿他的钱哪!” 两个人正说着,电话响。 “八成是他打来的。”小霞挥挥手,“说我不在。” 小欣正要过去接,电话铃停了。跟着珊珊笑嘻嘻地走出来:“我接了, 是志刚叔叔,我就把它挂了。” 正说,电话又响。 珊珊又跑过去,把话筒拿起再放下,咯咯咯地笑了起来。 又过不久,门铃响。小欣先把小霞推进卧室,再去应门。 果然是志刚。可是态度全不一样了,满脸泪痕朝屋里喊:“小霞!小霞 !是我错了,钱我找到了……” 不超过十五分钟,两个原来已经非离婚不可的人,居然搂着、抱着,走 出小欣的公寓。 “好好地过!不要吵了!毕竟是夫妻。”小欣在楼上阳台,伸着头叮嘱 。 “好好地过!不要吵了!”志刚学着小欣的声音,关上车门,搂了搂娇 妻,“得了吧!我看你这个朋友根本不是朋友。” “我本来也没这么认为。” “你知道吗,她居然说你以前有一堆男人,还说你跟老板好。” “你信吗?” “我当然不信。” “她也说你存私房钱,是在外面捣鬼。” “我那钱是为了在情人节,买个让你惊喜的礼物。” “我猜也是。”小霞亲了亲志刚。 “我才不会信她呢,她啊!是唯恐天下不乱,希望大家跟她一样。”志 刚咬了咬牙,“那个珊珊也浑蛋,居然敢挂你电话。” 【想一想】 天哪!世界上怎么会有这种恩将仇报的人? 看完上面的故事,你会不会这么想? 可不是吗? 当你把故事最后一段盖起来,只看到小欣在阳台上叮嘱两个人“好好过 ”。你一定心想“这是多么好的结局”,对不对?你怎么可能料到志刚和小 霞一上车,就反咬小欣一口? 处世的学问就在这儿了。 你必须知道,许多时候你当“调人”,人家和好了,你自以为居功甚伟 ,后来才发现自己不但没得好报,反而被诬陷。 中国有句俗语——“新人送进房,媒人踢过墙”。不要以为这是玩笑话 ,其实里面有大道理。 当两个人(或两个团体、两个国家)有了矛盾、产生了争执,双方又不愿 意“当面对话”,他们靠谁?靠中间人!也可以说靠调人。 “你告诉他我绝对要怎样!” “你也告诉他我不可能让步!” 两边你一句、我一句,全靠这位调人传话。 这时候最神气的就是调人了。因为争执的双方,都得从调人的一张嘴里 ,得知对方的反应。 于是“红口白牙”的调人,可以把一方的“小气”说成“大怒”:也能 把一边的“大怒”说成“微愠”。似乎“风云变色”或“雨过天晴”,全看 这调人怎么“调”。 这调人可以把事情夸大,把矛盾加深,他知道双方的误解愈久,他这调 人的角色,也就可以维持得愈长。 终于有一天,他调解成功了,两边见了面、把酒言欢、重归旧好。 这不都是调人的功劳吗?两边不都应该好好向这调人致谢吗? 当然!你会发现当双方和好时,第一杯酒往往都是敬那位在中间奔走、 “化干戈为玉帛”的调人,调人总是居首功。 调人还在饮酒,和好的双方已经互相敬酒,勾肩搭背地谈笑,甚至告别 宾客,步入“洞房”。 他们“和好”或者“合好”了。如果原来是敌人,现在成为了不打不相 识的战友;如果原来是“怨偶”,现在成为愈打愈亲爱的夫妻。 人家都上床了,你这媒人还在这儿得意什么?人家成为了无话不谈的枕 边人,还需要等你传话吗? 听听,他们在枕边说些什么? “其实我根本没这意思,你误会了。” “我也认为你不会这么绝,怎么搞的?阴错阳差,差一点我们就万劫不 复了。” 请问,他们下一句要怎么说?他们要把彼此的误会往谁身上推? 当然往你身上推! 他们不推给你,又推给谁?过去那么长的时间,他们根本不“对话”, 全靠你“传话”。“听拧了意思”,除了怪他自己的耳朵,当然只能怪你。 世上有几个人会怪自己呢7何况在这浓情蜜意的时刻,只怕什么错,都 推到你身上。 他们的枕边话,你听不到了,你过去传话中的任何“语病”或“添的油 ,加的醋”,现在都在当事人的“对质”之下“现形”了。 就如同前面故事里,当志刚问小欣“你会不知道她有多少男人?”小欣 答:“我当然知道。”还有,当志刚问:“那时候谁不知道她跟你们老板好 ?你不知道?”小欣答:“我当然知道,但那是以前的事了。”当志刚问: “她现在是不是还跟那个王八蛋往来?”小欣说:“我不知道,那是你们的 事。” 表面看,小欣都没说假话,也都说得客观。但是落在志刚的耳里,就都 有了“实质的意思”,那印证了他长久以来怀疑的事情。 记住!人在生气的时候,会口不择言,把自己不确定的事全说成确定的 事,你最好别乱答,更不可附和,甚至说,你最好用话岔开,不要听。 道理很清楚—— 被你印证的事,就算在他们言归于好的“蜜月期”不发作,也会埋在心 底,有一天再吵架,口不择言地吼出来。 谁说的? 你! P3-12

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