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“在日益独立化的社会里，我们除了自己，为何还需要对另外一个陌生人不离不弃、生死不渝？”
她说：为什么我在奋斗，你却在原地踏步？他说：现在生活得好好的，为什么你总要不停地给我压力？是他没有长大，还是她不成熟？
她知道，陈轩说他自己淡泊名利，就等于是在指责她浅薄，因为她整天不是盼着自个儿发家致富，就是眼红别人升官发财。郑佩儿说，我倒不想浅薄呢，我也想淡泊名利，喝茶看书，弹琴插花。可是房子贷款谁来付？孩子出生以后拿什么钱读好学校？想要什么没有什么，活在世上意义何在？我们的父母怎么跟他们的朋友说我们？世界这么广阔有那么多事情可以去做可我们永远只有一种活法，那就是想干什么都得受制于金钱！不，如果你觉得这是你的理想，我尊重。但我告诉你，它不是我的。绝对不是！啧啧，瞧这口气，岂止怨妇，还有点泼妇呢。
我们是同林岛，双栖双飞，才能有更美好的生活、人生和爱情。
我飞，你不飞！所以，我只有单飞！
我以为我自己可以单。但是，没有你这另一半翅膀，我飞累了，飞不动了，飞不起来了。
事实是，没有你，我根本就没有真正地飞起来过！
新浪网情感倾诉热线主持人、女性专栏作家、《同林鸟》作者夏景，首次提示70后婚变潮·爱拯救中“失同步化”的内在病因。“我在奋斗，你却在逃避！”
2008～2010年，世界经济寒冬，中国婚恋震荡周期。中青版“薪女性小说”系列密集火力出版，聚焦70后80后婚恋震荡中的三大主题：青春·爱与梦的艺术、身心灵的成长励志和婚恋大智慧。为20、30、40的薪女性，提前预备“过冬的粮食”。
“孩子的第一声啼哭”，能否化解70后正在遭遇的普遍危机？
概述70后结婚十年典型的20、30、40婚姻成长模式，拷问70后三十几岁
，婚恋家庭伦理的最大悬疑问题
70后男女普遍患上“失同步化”的婚姻病，三十几岁婚变潮·爱拯救集体危机的“同林鸟”方！
病因：婆媳矛盾、不嫁农村男、小三年、金钱战争……错！错！错！
病症：我在奋斗，你却在逃避？”……莫！莫！莫！
药方：夫妻本是同林鸟，双栖双飞把家还。……对！对！对！
“女人在奋斗，男人却在逃避！”浪网情感倾诉热线主持人、女性专栏作家夏景，首次揭示
70后婚变潮·爱拯救中。“失同步化”的内在病因，“亲爱的，什么时候，我们不再一起飞了？”
不再一起梦想。不再一起奋斗；爱不再执子之手地默契，婚姻不再相濡以沫地灵犀。
我们的人生不再同步！

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《同林鸟》小说从一对70后年轻夫妇面临婚变潮?爱拯救中的失同步化危机八手，讲述他们结婚十年里浓情渐淡、婚姻战争、婚变、爱拯救、心灵成长、重生或新生的婚姻病愈过程。从彼此亲爱彼此关怀，到彼此折磨彼此伤害，最终走过了十年婚姻中最艰难的磨合期，在背叛和温存中，渐渐衡量出了自己可以承担的幸福，他们代表了大多数70后男女已经、正在和即将经历的普遍而典型的20、30、40“婚姻成长模式”。
郑佩儿和陈轩曾是一对从大学校园里走出来的恋人，也曾有过十分相爱相互信任的青葱岁月。进八婚姻生活后，面对现实的纷繁，个人对生活的态度开始有所不同：郑佩儿要强，上进，咄咄逼人；陈轩安逸，粗心，贪玩。两人纯爱的心境渐渐发生了改变，看对方的眼光也开始改变。郑佩儿很想改变陈轩，希望他能按着自己的想法来生活；陈轩则不满郑佩儿的严厉，敏感，天天向上。在双方的爱情已由浓变淡的状态下，他们的任性和简单，都严重地伤害到了彼此的自尊心。
作为一对平淡的“薪青年”夫妻，正是不满于此种平淡，两人矛盾丛生：不再心有灵犀，不能一起奋斗，不再人生同步，“我在奋斗，你却在逃避！？”从肤浅的虚荣到深刻的痛苦，从疏远到绝望再到相互的重新认识。两个人都变了，曾经不那么幸福的婚姻，仅仅是因为物质欲望的不能满足，但此时此刻，这份不幸福，却来源于失去了彼此的信任和情感的荒芜。它更令人伤痛，也更令人绝望。即便在各自婚外的感情中，他们也深深地陷人了焦虑和忧伤中。
经历过风雨之后，陈轩意识到了自己肩头的责任，郑佩儿意识到了爱情并不是一场比赛。当彼此产生了谅解和沟通的愿望时，他们开始向着各自曾经希望的对方的样子在改变了。重新回到家庭的两个人，都在小心翼翼地经营着这份并不稳定的感情。陈轩做生意后，再次失败，郑佩儿怀孕后失去了工作。无奈和妥协的琐碎困境中，他们学会了直面和坚强。随着孩子的一声啼哭，标志这一对年轻人走过了婚姻十年里最艰难的磨合期。
但是，一个最大的悬疑问题便诞生了：从小说到生活，大多数70后的婚姻故事，都是以结尾处“孩子的一声啼哭”，来化解一切婚姻、爱情、家庭和伦理的危机，这是一种现实，还是一种幻想？即便是真的这样的化解，是对，还是错7幸，抑或不幸？

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夏景，女性专栏作家，国内多家报刊杂志撰稿人，新浪同女性频道情感热线倾诉主持人，新浪网情感论坛答疑专家。
有大量关于婚姻家庭纪实、男女情感随笔、都市爱情小说、女性心理的文章和书籍发表出版。其写作风格典雅内敛，文字冷静幽默，机智深刻，在女性读者、尤其是知识女性中有着广泛的影响和好评。
著有《幸福旁边》，《男人病得不轻》、《看看安妮的宝贝》、《看好你的手机》、《婚恋·婚炼》、《你要婚姻干什么》、《爱尚爱》等。

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第一章她可不是花骨朵
第二章向着婚姻冲刺吧
第三章男人当自怜
第四章分居！分居
第五章重逢许晓芸
第六章婚外恋？谁不会呀
第七章说不清理还乱
第八章离婚吧离婚吧
第九章携款外逃
第十章晚上我买菜好吗
第十一章你怎么脸红了
第十二章烂人老何
第十三章怀孕反应
第十四章孕期不许离婚
第十五章陈吉星来了
小说外＠70后女性访谈录
我在奋斗，你却在逃避

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郑佩儿点点头，又摇摇头，说：“生气的时候也特想离。但真离了，想想又觉得怪可怜的，他虽然挺能虚张声势的，可毕竟混得确实不好。我啊，真是哀其不幸，怒其不争哪。”
萧子君扑哧笑道：“你可活得真累。现代人谁还提爱啊，同情啊，感情呀什么的。这也太虚无了。”
“提爱情就虚无了？那现代人都提什么呢？”
萧子君说：“需要啊。相互需要才是唯一的标准，尤其适用于男女之间。”
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醍醐灌顶，萧子君的话对郑佩儿来说，无疑比直接离婚更有一定的实际操作性。她甚至开始幻想，怎么和陈轩摊牌，陈轩又怎么突然猛醒，认识深刻，然后一夜之间，洗心革面，向着她所希望的样子奋勇前进。
那么，她到底希望他变成什么样子呢？
说到完美男人，郑佩儿的心里其实有个模型。他叫宋继平，但不幸的是，他却是她大学同班同学千叶的丈夫。她在一次订货会上见到过他，宋继平为金利的保健餐饮菜谱而来。但她没有对他更进一步介绍自己，所以他不知道她和千叶的关系。
千叶的婚姻，对郑佩儿来说，一直是一个小小的谜。千叶金盘花园的住宅，复式结构，两百多平方米，小区有游泳池和网球场。每次去，郑佩儿都站在窗口端详良久，再三叹日：“学得好不如嫁得好。”
千叶知道她内心的小九九，更替她叹日：“长得好不如嫁得好。”

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