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?资深金融人沉淀数十年生活经验的跨界力作

?都本基、张亚东等多位名人联袂推荐

?一部揭秘北漂奋斗生活的血泪史

?喧哗时代下的精神空虚，金钱面前爱情的无奈与幻灭

?新贵阶层的城市梦：光鲜坦途还是迷惘歧路？

【内容梗概】

本书讲述了以男主人公刘铁为代表的“北漂”一族在北京的浮沉漂梦。大学毕业后，梦想成为金融巨子的刘铁，与青梅竹马相爱多年的女友那雪辗转来到北京追寻梦想。然而，巨大现实压力让他们开始正视生存的艰难，这一群曾心怀理想的年轻人，难免被现实烫伤，留下难以抚平的烙印。社会家庭、男女情爱、生活的酸甜苦辣尽在其中，嘲讽着他们的天真与幼稚，让他们措手不及。刘铁与那雪先后所经历的友情、爱情，乃至亲情的巨大转变，最终走出了完全不同的人生道路。他们的命运成为“北漂”生活的真实写照，书写了新富阶层在权利与欲望中的挣扎，刻画出他们在拜金背后的情感需求。

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申尔，金融学博士，多年从事金融证券工作。2010年跨界，先后出版了小说《归程》；投资了2012年世界超级模特大赛“中国区总决赛”；创建了“大爱江河（北京）文化传媒公司”及其“美中华”文化自主品牌；《到爱情为止》是作者第二部心力之作。

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《到爱情为止》以真诚呼唤真爱，是一部难得的接地气的力作。

——都本基（著名艺术家）

爱情是生命中的真诚遇见。到爱情为止，谢谢生活！

——瞿颖（著名艺人）

《到爱情为止》是一部触及灵魂之作。

——张亚东（著名音乐人）

这是一部有文化情怀的金融人写的诚意之作。

——卞留念（著名作曲家）

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第一章、欲望的生活

1.1 躁动的骚年

1.2 放肆的灵魂

1.3 爱和性的分离

1.4 还剩了多少摧不毁的爱情

第二章、囚禁的残梦

2.1 那些无法释怀的日子

2.2 路途艰辛，在一起

2.3 脸上写着爱情的姑娘

2.4 阡陌缘，亦凌乱

2.5 每个故事都有一个密码

第三章、爱上了爱情

3.1 没有一朵花是错开的

3.2 忘了怎么哭了

3.3 想要一个支撑下去的理由

3.4 一个人走出的风景

3.5 过去的现在的是遇见的

第四章、颠倒的梦想

4.1 出租房离梦想有多少街区

4.2 被欲望强暴的梦想

4.3 轮回的节奏

4.4 窗外的青春很无奈

第五章、到爱情为止

5.1 活在北京，挣钱养梦

5.2 最温柔的背叛

5.3 不要怕，有我在

5.4 这个城市是个战场

5.5 一转身，便是一生

第六章、爱基于欣赏

6.1 假装着没有假装

6.2 一辈子的情人

6.3 心痛的是，已不再心痛

6.4 懂得是一种难言的柔情

第七章、爱的能力

7.1不是不想爱，是不敢再爱

7.2 爱无能，性很能

7.3 还有多少人会说我爱你

7.4 北京的盖茨比

第八章、真诚的勇气

8.1谁是可以随时说话的人

8.2 一天一天数着寂寞

8.3 还剩下多少真诚的勇气

8.4 我看见了爱情，你呢？

第九章、生命的执念

9.1 快乐得痛不痛？

9.2 最后的疼爱是放手

9.3 虚妄的执念

9.4 有一种公平叫因果

第十章、救赎的光

10.1 谢谢我们还活着

10.2 谁拿流年，乱了浮生

10.3 离开时，无人说再见

10.4 越过山丘，感恩生命

后记致时代的爱情

Book Abstract

《到爱情为止》以真诚呼唤真爱，是一部难得的接地气的力作。

——都本基（著名艺术家）

爱情是生命中的真诚遇见。到爱情为止，谢谢生活！

——瞿颖（著名艺人）

《到爱情为止》是一部触及灵魂之作。

——张亚东（著名音乐人）

这是一部有文化情怀的金融人写的诚意之作。

——卞留念（著名作曲家）

Introduction

致时代的爱情

四年，四十万字。一个资深的金融人，一个资深的北漂，骤然停住了追逐名利的脚步，掷出了一刻千金的光阴，抑遏了内心贪婪的欲望，以文化的态度，静心写一本小说，确实鼓起了一份勇气,下了一番决心。

小说是用来记录时代的，是写生活、写人性的。所以，在动笔的第一天，自己就很清楚所要做的，就是老老实实地做一个时代的记录者。《到爱情为止》试图从自己的生活感悟中，从一个侧面，真实地记录当今的生存状态及爱情符号。

不同的时代，不同的生存状态，有着不同的爱情符号。《山楂树之恋》的爱情纯粹、《归来》的爱情守望、《阳光灿烂的日子》的爱情混沌以及《与青春有关的日子》的爱情躁动等，都不同程度地折射出了特定时代的生存状态。

那么，当下的生存状态、爱情符号又是什么呢？

不难发现，随着经济的高速发展，物质生活的极大提高，人们看上去越来越高大上了。但你有没有发现，一些面孔却越来越冷漠、内心却越来越惶恐了？生活像上了发条，人们像打了鸡血，每天像是要去掠夺什么似的。一切似乎从金钱开始，又都从金钱结束了。试想，睁开眼，推开窗，走出门，我们还剩下什么是不可以买卖的？我们已走得太快，已走得太远，走到了没有是非标准，走到了没有底线。我们的脑子乱了，心空了，灵魂放肆了。

关于爱情，经常听人调侃，“传奇”都离婚了，“中国好老公”都出轨了，“国民好女婿”都嫖娼了，再也不敢相信爱情了；也经常听人抱怨，现在的男人太不靠谱了，女人太现实了，谁认真谁就输了。滚蛋吧，爱情！于是，不再相信和付出，成了人们保护自己的最后手段了。爱情也成了一场名利粉饰下的步步为营、斗智斗勇、精心计算的交易了。

一代代打拼的人们，生存在同一片天空下，必然都在重复相同的故事。面对生存，为了能有尊严地活着，有多少人，碎了爱，再见了爱情？面对梦想，为了能红了、火了、牛了、发了，有多少人，迷了路，弄丢了爱情？面对欲望，为了能满足“我想要的”，又有多少人，乱了心，放纵了爱情？

一代代打拼的人们，那份最初的爱情，势必都逃脱不了生存、梦想和欲望的挑战和考验。令人遗憾的是，我们看到的结果往往是，很多人不得不告别了爱情！的确，生活很累，爱情很贵，出租房离梦想究竟有多少街区，经历过的人才知道；梦想很近，现实很远，在这个残酷的战场上，所能做的或许只剩下梦了。都说不忘初心，但在令人血脉喷张的欲望面前，还有多少人记得来时的梦想？

说好的永远呢？其实，我们最初的梦想，在不知不觉中，早已被欲望替代了、被欲望颠倒了、被欲望强暴了。试想，欲望的生活面前，还剩了多少不可以摧毁的爱情？到爱情为止，因为我们，不得不！一声叹息，多少辛酸史！

现实让我们不得不现实，让我们很无奈、很挣扎、甚至很绝望……难道这就是我们未来的出路吗？

作为千千万万打拼的人之一，我也曾有过一段刻骨铭心的爱情，有过一段不择手段的追逐，有过一段骄奢迷乱的生活，有过一段不知满足的贪婪，有过一段浮华人生的沉浮，有过一段不知何处是归程的迷茫……有一天，当拥有了一份曾经引以为豪的所谓“成功”时，却发现了自己一颗打拼得粗糙不堪、千疮百孔的心，并早已失去了爱的能力。

有一天，猛然问自己，难道这就是自己想要的生活吗？难道这就是自己打拼的目的吗？想到曾有一位榜样级别的朋友患抑郁症跳楼自杀了；想到曾在汶川大地震现场做义工时看到的一幕一幕……顿觉灵魂被震撼了，进而不得不对生活的本质、乃至生命的意义产生了无数的问号。

人生，三万天，一瞬间。是否应该让自己活得明白点儿？是否应该敬重生命中的每一天，静静领悟，想好了，再出发？

是的，人生不仅仅是一场物质的盛宴。我们的灵魂需要找到一个归宿，精神需要找到一个支点，而拥有一份属于自己的真爱，应是令人生完美的最终归宿。真爱是生命中一场不经意的真诚遇见，是一场打败时间的执手到老，是一场精神欣赏的执手不厌。人性中对真爱的追求，就像一道救赎的光，始终驱策我们坚守、追逐……到爱情为止，因为我们，不得不。

《到爱情为止》讲述了在北京打拼的70、80、90后三代人的故事，讲述他们在闯生存、梦想和欲望的“三关”时，对待爱情的态度。真实是最有力量的。《到爱情为止》力求讲出你我他的故事，说出你我他的心里话。真诚是通往真爱的唯一路径。《到爱情为止》始终呼唤以真诚追求真爱。虽说可能很苍白，也不敢奢望能改变什么，但至少我发出了自己的呼唤。因为总有一次真诚的遇见，会唯美了整个曾经。《到爱情为止》讲述了文化的力量。无论是在商场还是在情场，最终都是文化的较量。另外，小说已改编为电影剧本，即将在大荧幕上与您见面。

最后，个人认为，当下错乱的社会怪象、扭曲的价值观，都源自于我们对民族主体文化的摒弃、否定和破坏。值得欣慰的是，我们正在告别一个经济高速发展、精神却无处安放的旧时代，经历着一个民族文化和民族信仰复兴的划时代的阶段。是时候让无处安放的、放肆的灵魂，回归到民族文化的精神家园了！

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