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婚姻一世,暖爱一生。爱,是恒久的恩慈,是漫漫岁月中肩承彼此。
婚恋情感天后连谏为情爱挣扎中的男女精心烹制的婚姻料理
道尽婚恋中爱情与亲情最痴缠的守候与诀别
绑架了自己的婚姻,他是否能心甘情愿地坚守一辈子?
因为爱情,她忍气吞声是否是解决婚姻的唯一出口?
一场猝不及防的疾病绑架了他的人生;
一次突如其来的相遇改写了她的命运。
她卑微地渴求他回报一份同等的爱情;
他却坚忍挣扎地给了她一份飘渺的恩情。

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出身于草根家庭的女主人公胡美杉,因与老师的绯闻而中途辍学,跟继父打理一家馄饨店,而认识了在楼上租房、每天到馄饨店打发晚饭的大学助教陆易州。由于胡美杉暗恋他而主动提出,和他办假结婚取得集资分房资格。其间,陆易州检查出身患绝症,本是假结婚的胡美杉勇敢地承担起了照顾陆易州的重担。陆易州心生感动,在康复后和她假戏真做,成了夫妻,却遭到了望子成龙的母亲的反对。胡美杉用爱逐一感动了身边的每一个人,而康复后步步高升的陆易州却逐渐意识到,自己并不爱胡美杉,当初之所以决定和她在一起,不过是想报恩……面对一直深爱着自己的豪门女小邵,有心离婚却又良心难安的陆易州内心承受着煎熬,被胡美杉逐渐感知。胡美杉悲凉地意识到,原来所谓因被感动而来的爱,卑微而短暂,于是,主动提出了离婚。然而,再一次飞来横祸,击中了这个原本就风雨飘摇的家……

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连谏,女,本名连淑香,山东高密人,现居青岛,职业码字人,高产作家。中国婚恋情爱小说写作第一人。报刊、图书、影视界最抢手的三栖明星作家。其作品流通率高,被读者戏称为“有爱情的地方,就有连谏”。著有《门第》《家有遗产》《别对我撒谎》《请对我撒谎》《凉爱》《魅妆》《迷香》等十余部畅销小说,《门第》电视剧已热播并获广泛好评,其余相关影视剧正在拍摄中。

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第一章
很久以后的后来,胡美杉想,她对晏老师的感情,其实是暗恋,和晏老师没半毛钱的关系。

第二章
胡美杉第一次明晰地感觉到,自己心疼这个男人,心疼得想像个小母亲一样把他揽在怀里,轻拍着他的后背,告诉他不要怕,会好的。

第三章
胡美杉晓得,她怪不得莫素素,人能把自己的人生承担好就不错了,再去承担别人的人生,不是每个人都有这种力量的。

第四章
胡美杉和陆易州从家呈出来,张望着偌大的城市,生平第一次有了丧家犬的感觉,那种家在咫尺却不能归的感觉,糟糕透了。

第五章
胡美杉总觉得这日子里缺了点什么,就像她习惯了在馄饨碗里撒一把香菜末一样,突然不撤了,就少了青翠可人。

第六章
她抱着孩子,坐在陆易州特意找来的泡沫箱子上,看着窗子上明晃晃的阳光,突然觉得人生像一场幻觉。

第七章
在业已过去的那个夏天里,胡美杉过得一点也不快乐。何秋萍像空投的司令官一样,被命运空投进了她的生活。

第八章
胡美杉就觉得“小邵老师”这四个字,从陆易州嘴里说出来,暖昧极了,就像男人说的小贱人呀小妖精呀,对,就这种味道。

第九章
结婚这么久以来,她从没像这天晚上似的,觉得踏实得暖盈盈的,好像整个世界都在呵护着自己。

第十章
胡美杉在一本杂志上看到过,一个男人对一个女人最高的礼赞,就是想娶她和她过一辈子。

第十一章
一个满意于自己婚姻的女人,最幸福的表情,就是每每张望自己的婚姻,便会嘴角上翘。胡美杉是这么认为的。

第十二章
胡美杉就咧着嘴、闭着眼无声无息地大哭,好像要把这几年来忍受的屈辱,全部化成泪水倾倒出来一样。

第十三章
胡美杉的心就跌进了冰寒纪的万丈深渊,但脸上没任何表情,只是更加清楚地明白了,陆易州是嫌弃她的。

第十四章
很多入觉得安详是个多么美好的词汇啊,可胡美杉觉得安详是化了妆的绝望。
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《你是我最疼爱的人》:
晏老师是胡美杉的数学老师,和老胡他们家住同一单元,吃同一根自来水管里的水,走同一根管子的下水道,唯一不同的是晏老师住七楼顶,老胡他们家是一楼。
其实,胡美杉正是因为遇到了晏老师,才晓得数学也蛮有意思的。她喜欢听晏老师讲课。晏老师总是喜欢笑,笑得那么轻松,好像在调侃这个世界一样,露出两颗不是很显眼的小虎牙。晏老师喜欢在课堂上讲笑话,一本正经地讲,同学们都哄堂大笑了,他还装模作样地拿黑板擦子拍着讲桌说:“笑什么笑?好好听课!”然后,像憋不住的玉米花一样,砰地绽出一脸的笑容。每当这时候,胡美杉就觉得,整个世界都是阳光灿烂的,像被暴雨清洗过的天空。所以,当某天早晨,骑着摩托车去上班的晏老师在楼下看见她,犹豫了片刻,说:“胡美杉,你搭我车吧。”
胡美杉呆呆地看了晏老师片刻,不敢相信这是真的,晏老师就又喊了她一声:“胡美杉,你傻什么傻?上来呀。”
胡美杉就上去了,但一路上紧张极了,心怦怦狂跳得厉害。从那以后,她每天早晨都能从无数双下楼的脚步声里,准确无误地分辨出晏老师的脚步声,然后背着书包出门,和正在单元门口发动摩托车的晏老师相遇……大概过了一个月,有天,晏老师的媳妇提着一把菜刀去了胡美杉家。当时,家里只有胡美杉一个人。晏老师的媳妇脸色蜡黄,直勾勾地看着胡美杉,把菜刀的刀刃在摊开的另一只手掌上翻来覆去地摩擦着,活像身体孱弱却心思狠毒的屠夫,在瞄准着一只让她生气的小鸡小鸭什么的。她面无表情地说:“你这个狐狸精,你这个狐狸精。”翻来覆去地重复着这六个字。
胡美杉吓得大气不敢喘,低着脖子,恨不能把脑袋埋进胸膛里,一步步地往房间退,快退到门口时,晏老师的媳妇恨恨地问:“你还勾不勾引我老公了?”
胡美杉说她没有。
晏老师媳妇就咣的一声把菜刀剁到了门框上,“你不要脸,你耍赖。不光我,还有整条丹东路上的人都看见了,他天天驮着你上学!你说你们睡几次了?”晏老师的媳妇越说越难听,越说越离谱,甚至追问她是不是偷偷地给晏老师生了野种,让她这就交出来,她要把那个野种剁成肉泥,丢进马桶,冲进下水道,成为青岛人屎尿的一部分。
那会儿的胡美杉不过是个怀春少女,心思干净得跟纯净水似的,很快就被晏老师媳妇用赤裸裸的下流话给攻击得如同精神上赤身裸体游了大街,小脸涨得通红,满眼是要夺眶而出的泪水,只会反复地说“你瞎说,你瞎说”,倒退进了自己房间,然后猛地关上了门。晏老师的媳妇从门框上拔下了菜刀,边骂边砍门,胡美杉吓得尖叫不已。
老城区的人家,街坊邻居都相互熟稔得很,极少相互提防,夏天大都习惯了开门窗纳凉。胡美杉家也不例外。事后,胡美杉想,她的尖叫像吹破了午夜的哨子一样高亢而锐利,每一个路过的人都能听得见吧?可是,没人来救她。也是在那个时候,胡美杉明白了一个让她受用一生的道理,不管遇上什么事,哭、叫不仅没用,还白费力气,更恶心的是还有可能招徕看热闹的。也就是说,你的痛苦,很可能会娱乐一批人渣。那天,幸亏老胡回来得及时,一把抓住了晏老师的媳妇的手腕。当时她正全神贯注地砍胡美杉卧室的门,压根就没听见有人来到了身后。老胡拎起她,像拎一只柴鸡,拎出门,丢在散发着果蔬腐臭的垃圾箱旁,指着她的鼻子一字一顿地骂:“就你这种怪胎女人,就应该像垃圾一样被扔在街上!”晏老师的媳妇毫不示弱地拿那把已经砍卷了刃的菜刀剁马路牙子,但这吓不住老胡。他说如果再有下次,不,如果让他看见她胆敢站在离胡美杉五米以内的地方,他都会毫不客气地打得她满地找牙!
在房间里缩成一团的胡美杉泪流满面,为老胡的担当和爱。虽然她和老胡没半点血缘关系,可一直以来,在她心里,老胡就是她的爸爸。
那是个周末,晏老师原本是不上班的,可是,他媳妇因为抑郁症不上班好久了,为了给媳妇挣药钱,他的周末都在辅导机构兼职。所以,丹东路一带的女人训斥老公不晓得疼老婆时,都会拿晏老师做正面教材。这天傍晚,晏老师还没到家时就被邻居告知,他媳妇又闯祸了,把胡美杉家的一扇门劈得跟悬挂着晾干的面条一样。据晏老师隔壁的邻居说,他回家训了媳妇几句,他媳妇就不知又从哪儿翻出一把菜刀,要抹脖子了。
……

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我想,我写这本书是因为,大多婚姻总是从盲目的推崇开始,从缺少真诚的尊重开始匮乏。
而尊重和感恩在婚姻里的重要性,就像鲁菜里的盐和酱油,它们是比道德、责任感还要具有美感的东西。
在我们的婚姻里,我们喜欢挂在嘴上的是道德和责任感,它们确实重要,但它们是后天对自我的约束,甚至是纪律——所有能成为纪律的东西,和人的天性,都是相违背的。而在我的个人感觉里,这世界上再也没有比动辄就要遵守纪律更糟糕的事了,譬如我就学不会遵守某些纪律,像跳交谊舞,学多少次都学不会,因为它是有节拍的,要遵循着它迈步,我做不到,也就永远学不会。于是,还会有些人觉得自己可能难以遵守
婚姻的纪律,选择了永远不结婚。我很佩服这一种人,就像佩服那些知道自己不可能成为虔诚教徒的人坚持没有受洗,而不是去做个可以博取他人好感的伪教徒。
婚姻的伪教徒太多了,以至于有太多颗心受了伤。
我从不否认在生存上,女性是弱者。多少年来,女性一直在探讨怎样才能得到一份感觉上温暖完美的爱情,我们尝试了很多方法,最后都铩羽而归。
女人在婚姻的战场上屡战屡伤,从不言馁。有时候,我会悲伤地觉得,在爱情的道路上,每个女人都是战风车的堂吉诃德,太在意爱情,却总是收获伤口。
就像在小说中胡美杉的故事里,我们看到的是在社会价值观上不对等的爱情,但,不管弱者还是强者,在爱情中,永远没有人胜券在握,生活永远比戏剧精彩。
爱,是给予,但恩情的回馈不过是被动的换果果游戏,疲惫和厌倦在所难免。
爱,也不是经济上的高高在上,所有姿态强势的爱情,到最后总会潦倒如秋草,因为爱,真的和金钱没关系。
爱,是恒久的恩慈,是漫漫岁月中肩承彼此。

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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