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这是一封有温度,更有态度的情书。

那些能一下子说到孩子心里的话,都在这里。

送孩子一个真正强大和优等的心。

那些你想让孩子尽早知道的道理,那些你希望孩子永远带在身边的叮嘱,就让这本书替你一次讲完吧。

告诉孩子,正处在人生好的年纪的他,究竟应该做什么;

告诉孩子,有些事,你必须一步一步慢慢来,根深才能叶茂,这是永远的真理;但是,人生,只有走出来的美丽,没有等出来的辉煌,你要知道,有些事,现在不做,一辈子都不会做了;有些事,一旦错过了,就无法再挽回。

所谓的一辈子,其实并不如你想象的那样漫长,别在应该吃苦的年纪,选择了安逸。人生没有草稿,你的每一步,都应该是弥足珍贵,步履芬芳。


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围绕亲子关系这一当下热点,数十篇亲子美文,内容涉及奋斗、心态、修养、成长、生存、自信、挫折、幸福等8大主题。

让为人父母的你,从中找到佳的对话方式,在孩子的成长、成熟过程中,在孩子需要开导、劝慰的时候,以温柔、温暖、有力量的话语,进行劝勉、鼓励、启发。

好父母,不单是让孩子天冷加衣、病了吃药,而是成为他们的闺蜜、死党,真正成为他们人生路上的良师益友,告诉孩子,人生没那么多以后可等,有些事现在不做,就一辈子都不会做了;有些机会一旦错过了,就再也无法挽回了。

好父母,以自己全部的人生阅历和期待,写好这封送给孩子的情书,告诉他,世上所有的困难,其实都是化了妆的祝愿,你过去了、扛住了,它就是你的护身符,过不去、求饶了,它就是你的无底洞。

你要让孩子知道,人,应该以怎样的风骨,在这个世界上站立;

你要让孩子知道,生活,可以简简单单,却绝不能随随便便,遇到了困难,永远不要急说你别无选择;

你要让孩子知道,人,必须活得大气、争气,做人,就该要有自己的态度、自己的姿态,而所谓的“青春”,绝不应该过把瘾就算了,而是要过得值得。


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杨杨,沈阳远流书刊发行有限公司专职编辑,曾参与编写《无论爱与不爱,下辈子,都不会再见》、《每个人都是过客,每片记忆都是曾经》、《在故事的结尾不说对不起》等多种图书作品。

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写给奋斗

002 • 对未来的真正慷慨,是把一切献给现在

004 • 你若不努力,谁能许你未来

007 • 人生没那么多以后可等

010 • 幸运的前提,是你足够努力

013 • 不轻言放弃

015 • 学生时代是你积累自信的黄金时代

017 • 要始终相信努力奋斗的意义

021 • 不怕万人阻挡,只怕自己投降

024 • 失败的背面就是成功

027 • 生活不是用来妥协与将就的


写给心态

030 • 人生不必绝对提纯

033 • 淡了,静了,生活才会听你的安排

036 • 你是你人生的作者,何必把剧本写得苦不堪言

039 • 给心灵卸装

041 • 何必为昨天的泪,打湿今天的阳光

044 • 心若没有栖息的地方,去哪里都是在流浪

047 • 计较是麻烦的开始

050 • 人生如茶,静心以对

054 • 你只有变得更好了,才有资格影响别人

057 • 谁的生命都有缺口

059 • 不要盯着别人,经营好自己


写给修养

062 • 学会看待吃亏

066 • 路留一步,味让三分

069 • 偷来的巧,其实是致命的拙

074 • 每个人都有别人羡慕不已的东西

077 • 面对复杂,保持自己

080 • 尖锐中必须藏着柔软,泼辣中也要学会温柔相待

084 • 微笑是一种修养

088 • 花未全开,月未全圆,是好的境界

090 • 生活难免会刁难我们,要一笑而过


写给成长

094 • 别人是以你看待自己的方式看待你

097 • 成年不等于成熟

100 • 大学能给你什么

102 • 别让抱怨形成习惯

105 • 一生需要做对三件事

108 • 换个角度,世界就是另外的样子

111 • 耐得住寂寞,才能不寂寞

114 • 二十岁之后的人生,需要你好好经营

117 • 先衰老不是容貌,而是那份不顾一切的冲劲

119 • 隔着苦痛,品尝人生的甜蜜

122 • 读懂自己,让生活安好


写给生存

142 • 好的生命不是完美,而是值得

147 • 你的生命来自父母,任何时候都要珍而重之

150 • 人生只有走出来的美丽,没有等出来的辉煌

154 • 朋友之树

156 • 你该交怎样的朋友

160 • 世界是你自己的,与他人毫无关系

162 • 生命就是上天给你好的礼物

164 • 这样的人,是你的贵人

166 • 生活可以简简单单,但不能随随便便


写给自信

170 • 跟那些不同路的人分道扬镳

174 • 你的自信从何而来

177 • 不必仰望别人,自己亦是风景

180 • 相信自己的价值

184 • 养好你的大气

187 • 喜欢一个人,就要相信自己配得上他

189 • 告诉自己,今天是好的一天

191 • 给自己一个微笑

194 • 做好的自己,才能碰见好的别人


写给挫折

198 • 学会劝解自己

202 • 把微笑送给打击你深的人

204 • 在深的绝望里,一定有美的风景

207 • 学会放下

211 • 命运不会偏爱谁,就看你能坚持多久

214 • 人生是条河,深浅都要过

217 • 与不完美的生活和解

219 • 做人要能屈能伸

222 • 向前走,走过不属于你的风景

224 • 挫折即是转折



写给幸福

228 • 别让爱你的心冷掉

230 • 现实的爱情观会让你更幸福

232 • 爱情中绝不需要暧昧

236 • 别让爱情的燃点太低

239 • 婚姻,细水长流才是真理

241 • 等着别人来爱你,不如自己努力爱自己

244 • 好的恋人要相互装傻

246 • 爱是一种责任

249 • 你是谁,便遇见谁


Book Abstract

对未来的真正慷慨,是把一切献给现在


女儿,爱做梦、爱幻想的日子应该在你的学生时代就结束了。从现在开始,你要做的是认真工作。累也好,苦也罢,如果你现在对自己各种放纵,你指望以后用什么条件和资本来放松?

人生中,有太多太多的东西,经不起等待。贫穷不能等,因为时间久了,你将习惯于贫穷,忘记梦想,庸庸碌碌地过一辈子;

梦想不能等,因为努力晚了,心老了就无能为力;

学习不能等,因为懂得少了,就没本事梦想成真;

孝敬不能等,树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待;

健康不能等,因为身体垮了,人生的一切就都没了。

二十几岁,是你这辈子有价值的年龄。女人都不是景泰蓝,不会一直随着年龄的增长而愈加有光彩、有“市场”。所以,那些该做的事,要义无反顾地去做;而那些该结束的惰性,就干净利落地结束吧。

孩子,你要更加努力,你想要的,只能你自己给。别人给的,你问问自己,拿得起吗?

对未来的真正慷慨,是把一切献给现在。

你现在若不努力,还能指望什么?再苦再累,撑不住的时候发发牢骚是可以的。但是,别人的安慰终究只能是安慰,如果谁打算依赖着别人的安慰活着,那么,他的人生就毁了。

你要记住,走好自己的路,不是每次跌倒都有爬起来的机会。

要知道,每一个你所浪费的今天,都是昨天死去的人曾经奢望过的明天。每一个你所厌烦的现在,都是未来的你想回也回不去的曾经。


Introduction

孩子,我希望,你自始至终都是一个理想主义者。


你可以是农民,可以是工程师,可以是演员,可以是流浪汉,但你必须是个理想主义者。

童年,我们讲英雄故事给你听,并不是一定要你成为英雄,而是希望你具有纯正的品格;少年,我们让你接触诗歌、绘画、音乐,是为让你的心灵填满高尚情趣。这些高尚情趣会支撑你一生,使你在严酷的冬天也不会忘记玫瑰的芳香。

理想会使人出众。

孩子,不要为自己的外形担忧。理想将纯洁你的气质,而美貌的女人也会因为庸俗而令人生厌。通向理想的途径往往不尽如人意,而你亦会为此受尽磨难。

但是,孩子,你尽管去争取,理想主义者的结局悲壮而绝不可怜。在貌似坎坷的人生里,你会结识许多智者和君子,你会见到许多旁人无法遇到的风景和奇迹。选择平庸虽然稳妥,但绝无色彩。


不要为蝇头小利放弃自己的理想,不要为某种潮流而改换自己的信念。

物质世界的外表太过复杂,你要懂得如何拒绝虚荣的诱惑。理想不是实惠的东西,它往往不能带给你尘世的享受。因此,你必须习惯无人欣赏,学会精神享受,学会与他人不同。


我希望,你是一个踏实的人。


人生太短,而虚的东西又太多,你很容易眼花缭乱,终一事无成。

如果你是个美貌的女孩儿,年轻的时候会有许多男性宠你,你得到的东西太过容易,这会使你流于浅薄和虚浮;如果你是个极聪明的男孩儿,又会以为自己能够成就许多大事而流于轻佻。

记住,每个人的能力有限,我们活在世上能做好一件事足矣。写好一本书,做好一个主妇。不要轻视平凡的人,不要投机取巧,不要攻击自己做不到的事。你长大后会知道,做好一件事太难,但绝不要放弃。


我希望,你要懂得和珍惜感情。


不管男人女人,不管墙内墙外,相交一场实在不易。交友会有误会和摩擦,但想一想,世界之大,有缘结伴而行的能有几人?你要明白,朋友终会离去,生活中能有人伴在身边,听你倾谈,倾谈给你听,就应该感激。

要爱自己和爱他人,还要懂自己和懂他人。你的心要如溪水般柔软,你的眼波要像春天般明媚。你要会流泪,会孤身一人坐在黑暗中听伤感的音乐。你要懂得欣赏悲剧,悲剧能够丰富你的心灵。


我希望,你不要媚俗。


你是个独立的人,无人能抹杀你的独立性,除非你向世俗妥协。学会欣赏真,在面具下看到真。世上圆滑标准的人很多,但出类拔萃的人极少,而往往出类拔萃又隐藏在卑琐狂荡之下。

在形式上我们无法与既定的世俗争斗,而在内心我们都是自己的国王。如果你的脸上出现谄媚的笑容,我将会羞愧地掩面而去。

世俗的许多东西虽耀眼却无价值,不要把自己置于大众的天平上,不然,你会因此无所适从,人云亦云。


在具体的做人上,我希望你不要打断别人的谈话,不要娇气十足。你每天至少要拿出两小时来读书,要回信给你的朋友。不要老是想着别人应该为你做些什么,而要想着怎么去帮助他人。

借他人的东西要还,不要随便接受别人的恩惠。要记住,别人的东西,再好也是别人的;自己的东西,再差也是自己的。

孩子,还有一件事,虽然做起来很难,但相当重要,这就是要有勇气正视自己的缺点。


你会一年年地长大,会渐渐遇到比你强、比你优秀的人,会发现自己身上有许多你所厌恶的缺点。这会使你沮丧和自卑。但你一定要正视它,不要躲避,要一点点地加以改正。

你要知道,战胜自己比征服他人还要艰巨和有意义。不管世界潮流如何变化,人的优秀品质却是永恒:正直、勇敢、独立。


我希望,你是一个优秀的人。


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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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$1.66 $1.99 83折

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