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意林名人致青春

暖心超级IP《意林》杂志重量级作品全新推送

百万粉丝热捧青春导师吴淡如、毕淑敏、李尚龙、辛夷坞、杨澜、俞敏洪等首度开讲!

与你围炉夜话,共话青春,比“开讲啦”更热血、更有态度!


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每个人在成长过程中,难免要经历许多挫折。而在这漫长得而成长过程中,我们只有得到正确之人的合理指导和激励,才能不断丰富经验,增长智慧,进而有能力应对各种挫折的冲击,直到有所成就。所以,对每个人来说,提高情商,学会交往都是很有意义的人生必修课。

正如美国著名学者丹尼尔·戈尔曼所言,一个人的成功,智商的作用只占20%,其余80%则取决于情商。这就意味着,光靠聪明,我们的人生未必能稳操胜券,而情商高、懂得处理人际关系,却能弥补天分的不足。的确没有人能帮助你成功,但能得到他人的帮助,你离成功的距离会更近。那时,不必讨好,想要的你也能得到。


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意林编辑部旨在打造中国励志品牌图书,坚持“一则故事改变一生”的理念,倡导积极的人生态度,坚持传递智慧的火种,坚持传播人间的爱与温情,为读者奉献更多更好的经典之作!本编辑部先后出版了十几个系列一百多种图书,均受到广大读者的高度认可。其中畅销图书有励志馆、励志小说馆、少年励志馆、意林七彩校园、意林上学那些事儿、意林学科那些事儿等。

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人生要卓越,情商比智商更重要

教养是永远要有的张勇/ 002

所谓的成熟,就是不抱怨吴淡如/ 004

当大家脸色不好的时候刘墉/ 006

从汪涵给我开门说起冯小风/ 008

我要心形的三毛/ 011

拐弯抹角的刘震云墨生/ 013

有时暴脾气,也有好运气清风慕竹/ 016

讲话有三忌,不可不知国馆/ 019

请先学会帮对方节省时间天竺葵/ 022

宠辱谁能不动心南怀瑾/ 024

送人自信是最大的慷慨余显斌/ 026

假装你很爱我沈嘉柯/ 028

高贵,缘于羞涩菡萏/ 031

把糟糕的一天变为快乐的一天[ 美 ] 西奥译 / 尹名/ 033

拒绝宝玉的人张宝峰/ 036

完美的爱[ 日 ] 村上春树编译 / 林少华/ 038

不要欣赏让你摔倒的那个坑黄永玉/ 040


若要成功,先在人群中与众不同

042 /辉姑娘任你撒野

044 / [ 日 ] 松浦弥太郎译 / 张富玲没人讨厌逗你笑的人

045 /哲木野“毒舌男”叔本华

047 /马未都富及他人

049 /张亚凌相处

050 /唐剑锋感知别人的痛苦

052 /焕晨30 厘米的尊严

054 /徐长才忍中有德

056 /大江东去恩怨都要讲分群

058 /李尚龙不合群的青春,值得感激

060 /杨熹文去接近一个充满正能量的人

063 /马华兴“好朋友”是麻烦出来的

065 /杨澜把世界问了,让自己回答

067 /毒舌奶奶我为什么总是惹人厌

069 / [ 澳 ] 埃森娜译 / 依明网络让我失去了真实的爱

071 /刘韩斐炫耀会让你离你想要的更远

074 /秦湖沈尹默的独特“拜师”法


交对朋友,你和谁在一起很重要

齐白石的四个贵人陈鲁民/ 076

金庸与马云的侠者之交方荛荛/ 078

别急于达成交易 [ 美 ] 道森编译 / 刘祥亚/ 081

好朋友就是相爱相杀汤小小/ 084

如果你发现自己在微信里被人拉黑冯雪梅/ 087

我拉黑了一个朋友杨熹文/ 089

到头来微信弄丢了朋友渡渡渡大爷/ 091

我们如何相遇,又如何作别六神磊磊/ 093

别让“付出感”扰乱你的生活柳主任/ 095

人最容易消失在人群里廖之坤/ 097

你缺少人生经历,是因为你从来不求助谢姣姣/ 098

你不仁,我有义李景义/ 100

点赞永远融入不了那个不属于你的群体休闲璐/ 102

闲汉李逵乱世生存的特殊技巧赵楚/ 104

开“枪”,为朋友送行李贵平/ 106

害羞其实是只纸老虎[ 美 ] 伊丽莎白译 / 吴明/ 108


你不优秀,认识谁都没用

112 /慕容素衣长得不漂亮,那就努力活得丰盛

115 /苏芒做了再说,是年轻人的大智慧

117 /国王 KING你有社交恐惧吗

120 /沈嘉柯你可以拥有自己想要的生活

123 /蔡澜人生不该在小节上浪费工夫

125 /卞毓方看人看什么

127 /王玉珏慢慢来,才会比较快

130 /张晓风在“有限”里造出个“无限”来

132 /林清玄独乐与独醒

135 /诺华森你那么好,男神为什么还是不喜欢你

137 /简媜 大气的人

138 /王璞不跟你玩了

139 /王石我们靠什么突破自己

141 /周宏翔存在感从来不是别人给的

144 /陆小墨对不起,我不是随便的人

147 / [ 美 ] 查理·芒格编译 / 李继宏生活的道理

149 /游识猷6 种时间观决定你的人生

151 /刘墉后面总要留一手

154 / [ 美 ] 丹尼斯译 / 陈荣生找一个迷人的理由


内心强大的人,前途无量

迷茫时,就去寻找生活的乐趣李健/ 156

先调整你的表情吴淡如/ 159

觉得别人晒,可能是你缺琢磨先生/ 161

嫉妒的 A 面张晓晗/ 163

莫忘初心连岳/ 165

可以任性,但要领情辉姑娘/ 167

心理的奴隶黄勤慧/ 170

只要游戏没结束,你就有成为神的可能李月亮/ 172

你一定得了怕麻烦这种病王大纯/ 174

你的什么态度最容易伤害别人佚名/ 177

抢红包时看清钱这个东西六六/ 179

你的傲娇一文不值 正儿/ 181

无论如何都不必自怜 吴淡如/ 183

你什么都没有,凭什么要求岁月静好 十年后/ 185

当对方说“NO”时机会就来了[ 日 ] 松浦弥太郎译 / 张富玲/ 187

黑暗之心押沙龙/ 189

大师的雅量崔鹤同/ 192


不顺时,提高你的人生技能

196 /鲍安顺大师向大师的承诺

198 /流沙藏住苦难

200 /闫红千疮百孔的爱

203 /清山有本事的人没脾气

205 /王章材莫善于诚

207 /村中小芳不想知道小人是谁

209 /俞敏洪与其有钱不如值钱

211 /马德在两面三刀的世界里活到正直

213 /童栩撒贝宁善与人交往

215 /大可价值“四百万”的友谊

217 /江东旭这些能力很重要,你却没有

219 /徐长才与贤为友

221 /伊名最好的交往,是保持距离

223 /许石林大人应有大气度

225 /唐宝民不说破

227 /菲尔图控场


Book Abstract

朋友圈子其实就是你的世界

◇贾平凹

朋友是磁石吸来的铁片儿、钉子、螺丝帽和小别针,只要愿意,从俗世上

的任何尘土里都能吸来。

现在,街上的小青年有江湖义气,喜欢把朋友的关系叫“铁哥们儿”,第

一次听到这么说,以为是铁焊了那种牢不可破,但一想,磁石吸的就是关于铁

的东西呀。这些东西,有的用力甩甩就掉了,有的怎么也甩不掉,可你没了磁

性它们就全没有了。

昨天夜里,端了盆热水在阳台上洗脚,天上一个月亮,水盆里也有一个月

亮,突然想到:这就是朋友吗?

我在乡下时,有过许多朋友,至今几十年过去,来往的还有一二,八九皆

已记不起姓名,却时常怀念一位故去的朋友。

我个子不高,打篮球时只有他肯传球给我,我们就成了朋友,数年间形影

不离。后来分手,是为着从树上摘下一堆桑葚,说好一人吃一半的,我去洗手

时他吃了他的一半,又吃了我的一半的一半。那时人穷,吃是第一重要的。

现在是过城里人的日子,人与人见面再也不问“吃过了吗”的话。在名与

利的奋斗中,我又有了相当多的朋友,但也在奋斗名与利的过程中,我的朋友

变换如四季……走的走,来的来,你面前总有几张板凳,板凳总没空过。

我有过大概的统计,有危难时护佑过我的朋友,有贫困时周济过我的朋

友,有帮我处理过鸡零狗碎事情的朋友;有利用过我又反过来踹我一脚的朋

友,有诬陷过我的朋友,有加盐加醋传播过我不该传播的隐私,而给我制造了

巨大麻烦的朋友。

成我事的是我的朋友,坏我事的也是我的朋友。

有的人,认为我没有用了便不再前来;有些人我看着恶心了主动与他断

交;但难处理的是那些帮我忙越帮越乱的人,是那些对我有过恩却又没完没了

地向我讨人情的人。

地球上人类最多,但你一生交往最多的却不外乎方圆几里或十几里的人。

朋友的圈子其实就是你人生的世界,你为名为利的奋斗历程,就是朋友好与恶

的历史。

根据我的性情、职业、地位和环境,我的朋友可以归为两大类:一类是生活关照型。人家给我办过事,比如买了煤,把煤一块一块搬上楼,家人病了找车去医院,介绍孩子入托。我当然也给人家办过事,写一幅字让他去巴结他的领导,画一张画让他去银行打通贷款的关节,出席他岳父的寿宴。或许人家帮我的多,或许我帮人家的多,但只要相互诚实,谁吃亏谁占便宜就无所谓,我们就是长朋友,久朋友。

一类是精神交流型。具体事都干不来,只有一张八哥嘴,或是我慕他才,或是他慕我才,在一块谈文道艺,吃茶聊天。

在相当长的时间里,我把我的朋友看得非常重要,为此冷落了我的亲戚,甚至我的父母和妻子儿女。可我渐渐发现,一个人活着其实仅仅是一个人的事,生活关照型的朋友可能了解我身上的每一个痣,却不一定了解我的心,精神交流型的朋友可能了解我的心,却又常常拂我的意。

快乐来了,最快乐的是自己。苦难来了,最苦难的也是自己。

然而我还是交朋友,朋友多多益善,要生活就不能没有朋友,因为出了门,门外的路泥泞,树丛和墙根又有狗吠。


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