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《老爸是个“土教练”》收录:
·“土教练”的别样育几观
·培养自立的品格,让孩子获得成就一生的财富
·从自身条件出发,培养孩子的多方面兴趣
·挫折教育,孩子必不可少的成长教育
·加强体质锻炼,培养健康好少年
·让孩子拥有大“爱”之心
·教给孩子安全知识,成就孩子完整人生
·“打”孩子也是一种管教孩子的好方法
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彭水明,他是“小大人”(指孩子们)健康均衡成长的实践者,做过农民、建筑施工员、基层团干、媒体记者、家庭教育高级指导师、国家乒乓球二级裁判员、《师生》杂志编辑指导委员会委员、杭州市首届市民代表、上城区优秀家长、学校家委会主任、校外辅导员,是媒体眼里的杭州“虎爸”,儿子(彭衢杭)心中的“土教练”。
2011年3月24日,《都市快报》头版头条用3个版面报道了他的儿子彭衢杭11岁就获得了94项荣誉、24项技能的事迹。其后,全国各地不同媒体陆续对其教育理念进行了采访报道,引起了教育人士、家长、学生的强烈反响。
如果想更多地了解他和彭衢杭的情况,可以直接在百度中搜索他们父子的名字。他希望有机会和更多的家长一起交流探讨家庭教育的不同成功途径,他认为只有这样,中国的孩子将来才能成为品德高尚、身心健康、阳光决乐、均衡成长的幸福的人,只有这样的人才能成为让家庭和睦、社会和谐的幸福之人。他希望自己能做一名家庭教育的探索者、传播者,把自己的教育心得通过各种途径和更多的家长去交流和分享。
他要为孩子们高声呐喊:家长们该醒醒了,尽早跳出阿拉伯数字教育的包围圈,让孩子们在确保品德、身心健康的前提下学好知识;让学习文化知识成为孩子们快乐幸福的工作;让孩子们学习各种正面兴趣爱好的权利得到充分尊重和支持:让更多的家庭能走上正确的教育轨道上来……
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第一章 “土教练”的别样育儿观
孩子出状况,先从家庭找原因
要想教出优秀的孩子,家长首先就要转变育人理念
不要将进“名校”当做孩子成才的唯一标准
应试不是教育的唯一目标,不要让应试教育捆绑住孩子
爱孩子要有度,不要让家庭教育成为溺爱的工具
学习不仅仅是为了分数,不要让学校教育沦为升学的工具
不要用条条框框束缚孩子,还孩子完整的成长人生
家长会做“土教练”,孩子快乐又幸福

第二章 培养自立的品格,让孩子获得成就一生的财富
溺爱是一副枷锁:家长常见的十大溺爱方式
给孩子自由成长的空间
不能用现行的教育体制认定“好孩子”的唯一标准来要求孩子
家长要成为一名优秀的指挥家,不要成为一名勤劳的实干家
巧做懒惰家长,培养勤快孩子
孩子所学的技能要在家长引导下自愿去学
引导孩子自觉做家务,培养孩子的动手能力
让孩子假期回农村,丰富生活体验
见到大人,叫声“叔叔”,让孩子礼貌待人
让孩子自己学会照顾自己
引导孩子形成正确的价值取向
让孩子自己去选择正确的人生道路
不要小看自己的孩子

第三章 从自身条件出发,培养孩子的多方面兴趣
培养身心健康、兴趣广泛的孩子
为了培养孩子兴趣,家长就要投入其中
如何让兴趣的生命延长
对课外辅导机构多些了解,做理智家长
尊重孩子,平等地看待自己的孩子
不要低估了孩子的能力和潜力
动手能力是在熟练中培养起来的
让孩子成为品德高尚、身心健康的小市长

第四章 挫折教育,孩子必不可少的成长教育
温室里,可以育花、养草,但长不出参天大树
频频出现的“问题少年
……
第五章 加强体质锻炼,培养健康好少年
第六章 让孩子拥有大“爱”之心
第七章 教给孩子安全知识,成就孩子完整人生.
第八章 “打”孩子也是一种管教孩子的好方法
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陆晓将母亲逼到墙角,用自己的两只手掐住母亲的脖子,姥爷看到了这一幕,劝他:“你再掐,我砍你哈!”可是,陆晓根本就没有将外公放在眼里,狠狠地说:“你砍!你砍啊!”
姥爷无奈地看着被外孙砸坏的家,只好报了警。下午4点左右,警察赶到现场,陆晓就跑到角落里,手拿一把菜刀和一把匕首,和警察僵持起来。
陆晓右手持匕首,左手拿菜刀,蹲在木材加工作坊的一个角落里,警方距离他约20米左右。陆晓扬言,一旦有人靠近,他就会使用武力。考虑到陆晓情绪激动,警方一直没有靠近,而是采用了温和劝说的方式。可是,多次劝说后陆晓并没有听进去。不仅如此,他还将刀架到自己脖子上,威胁说,如果警察再过来就自残。
7点20分左右,特警到达现场,和现场民警一起商量行动方案。7点40分左右,特警开始第一次强制制服行动,不料陆晓突然跳入墙角边的一条河沟中。
为了防止发生意外,警方还叫来了120现场待命。最后,公安局出动了谈判专家。通过耐心的劝说、讲道理,在谈判专家的努力下,陆晓最终放下了手中的刀,自己走了出来。随后他被警方带走接受调查。
◆17岁少年威胁母亲“哪天杀了你”
小强现在17岁,在母亲的记忆中,儿子一直都很懂事。在广州读初中时,经常帮忙做饭,一家人其乐融融;16岁时,第一次打工挣了200元钱,回家给奶奶祝寿时,还给亲戚家的小孩每个人发了10元钱……然而,现在这一切都变了,儿子不肯去找正当工作,一开口便是要钱,不给就狠命地踢打母亲,母亲都快要被他打死了,真不知道该怎么办。
母亲很无奈,只好求助于媒体。第二天下午,记者就来到了他们家。在一间昏暗的出租屋,记者和母子俩交谈了很长一段时间,希望能改变小强对母亲的态度,重新树立正确的价值观。然而,当天傍晚,小强把正在上班的母亲叫回家,关上房门将她暴打了一顿。母亲的手臂被打得青一块紫一块,头发也不知揪下多少。家里被小强砸得一团糟,当晚,母亲不得不住到了妹妹家。
第二天,母亲悄悄回家探望,小强看见母亲后便向她要5000元钱,他说要去东莞带回一个女孩,然后“卖”到广州的休闲会所。母亲实在拿不出钱,而且她也不敢拿钱给儿子做违法的事情,为此又招来儿子一顿暴打。
第二天下午,电视台记者来采访,然而当出租屋内的小强看到摄像机后,猛地反锁了房门,随后就传出猛烈的砸东西的声音。母亲知道,那是儿子在发脾气,家里的电视机遥控器、冰箱都被他砸烂了,这下新买的电饭锅也没了。
砸东西的声音持续了十几分钟,之后更惊人的一幕出现了:小强气冲冲地从屋里冲出来,当着外人的面狠狠甩了母亲几个耳光;之后,使劲地拉着母亲的头发,将她拉到楼梯口角落里踹了几脚。母亲哭了,然而儿子并没有停手。他不停地踢打着母亲,并大声吼骂。附近邻居都悄悄地关上了门,一位大伯过来劝阻,小强却指着大伯大吼不要他管:“小心我哪天不高兴把你杀了。”
……
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家长要学会做一名“土教练”
不可否认,人类的未来属于下一代,只有下一代勇敢地担起社会责任,具有积极乐观的生活态度、活泼开朗的性格和良好的品德、健康的身心、丰富的知识才能成就良好的人际关系,才能在社会上有所作为。任何一个人都不喜欢和性格沉闷、心胸狭窄、斤斤计较、身体脆弱的人交往,如果在他们的儿童时代能够接受正确的公共生活教育,必然会为他们的一生奠定良好的基础。
“土教练”是儿子从小对我的尊称,因为我有很多东西都不会,却把他教成了全面发展的小子;平时训练和比赛的时候,我一般都会给予他指导,可是我却没有考取过什么教练资格证,因此,他便叫我“土教练”。
对于儿子的这个称呼我很是喜欢,非常乐意做“土教练”,因为在陪他一起训练比赛的过程中,看着儿子健康快乐地成长和进步,我也从中收获了无限的乐趣。
作为一个媒体工作者,每当我看到或听到孩子成长过程中存在的问题,特别是独生子女的家庭教育问题的时候,对孩子的教育就颇为上心,因此我对孩子的教育显得特别用心和严厉。
小时候,我是在贫苦的农村长大的,从来都没有学习过书本以外的体育技能。因此,看到今天的孩子有如此多的好机会,羡慕不已。为了让儿子能多学习一些体育技能,在他很小的时候,我就开始有意识地锻炼他的身体素质和独立动手能力了。
其实,从孩子多学一门技能和锻炼身体的角度来说,家长们都愿意让孩子学一些技能,可是很多家长都为孩子的兴趣生命力短暂而苦恼。生活中,经常会有家长问我:“为什么我的孩子没学几天就没兴趣了、放弃了,没有一样能坚持下来?”
我觉得,这种情况之所以会出现,很多时候并不能将全部的责任都归咎于孩子,关键还是在家长。在孩子学习技能的时候,绝大多数的家长都没有真正地投入到孩子学习的项目中去,甚至还一味地指责孩子不够努力……如此这般,必然会让孩子在最短的时间里失去兴趣。
我儿子的兴趣很广泛,身心很健康,而且所学项目都能获得教练的表扬,在同等训练时间下也能名列前茅,我可以自豪地说:“这和我这个'土教练'有着直接的关系。
比如:乒乓球项目。儿子8岁时,有一次我带他到学校附近玩,他看到一位同学正在和自己的妈妈打乒乓球,非常羡慕。第二天,我就去商店买了一副球拍。其实,当时我根本就不会打乒乓球。为了不打击孩子的自信心,我让儿子先在小区练习。慢慢地,当儿子有了一定基础知识的时候,我才让他去和同学比赛。

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