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Name: 我的孩子变了！
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近些年，双职工的父母越来越多，孩子们早早地就被托付给他人照看。即使不是双职工，也会把孩子早早送到幼儿园，孩子“上学”的年龄是越来越小了。孩子一天中的绝大部分时间是在幼儿园中度过的，回到家中玩上一会儿一天就过去了。长此以往，孩子们的生活逐渐失去了平衡，压力也越来越大。

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申澈嬉，毕业于韩国淑明女子大学儿童福利学专业，先后在东德大学、淑明女子大学、中央大学幼儿教育系执教，并兼任淑明女子大学家庭·儿童福利学系儿童福利学教授。申澈嬉同时也是韩国行为科学研究所研究员，曾任园光儿童咨询中心所长，现任韩国游戏治疗学会理事、申澈嬉儿童青少年咨询中心所长。作者有20余年的幼教实践经验，曾在《朝鲜日报》的固定专栏连载《申澈嬉老师的幼教咨询课》，分析孩子们身上常见的异常行为，为家长提供合适的解决方案。并以首席顾问的身份参与SBS《我的孩子变了！》、《夫妻解决方案》、EBS《IQ大发现》、MBC《家庭的力量》、EBS《父母的时间》等众多广播电视节目，是化解父母与子女之间矛盾，解决儿童青少年问题的知名专家。著有《明智的父母善于倾听孩子的心声》、《游戏治疗带来的改变》、《如何与子女谈心》等专著。

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前言孩子的问题就是父母的问题
Part 1 读懂孩子问题行为掩盖下的心声
01 表面无事，内心痛楚的孩子
·“过得好”不是“忍得下”
·孩子闹情绪肯定有原因
·新习惯是“累”的暗示
·好胜的孩子其实内心脆弱
理解第一步：表达温暖的母爱
02 沉迷是因为缺乏爱，所以要用爱化解
·沉迷是因为过于期待
·没有一个孩子会喜欢一个人玩儿
·爱能化解沉迷
理解第二步：积累快乐的经历
03 孩子为填补心中的空虚而做出的奇怪举动
·为了吸引父母的注意而偷东西
·用说脏话来排解心中的压力
·心中空虚而做出自慰的举动
理解第三步：了解孩子的内心想法
04 父母的矛盾会让孩子很痛苦
·夫妻不合会引发孩子的不安
·只有父母快乐，孩子才会快乐
理解第四步：父母要学会寻找自己的幸福
Part 2 建立良好的亲子关系
01 建立良好亲子关系的先决条件
·父母变了，孩子才会变
·与孩子对话是以相互信赖为基础的
·急躁的父母毁掉孩子
和谐第一步：与孩子换位思考
02 调教固执的孩子
·不要总站在孩子的对立面
·用智慧的阳光融化孩子固执的心结
·称赞能让我们的孩子手舞足蹈
和谐第二步：让孩子自己改掉固执的习惯
03 针对孩子对离别的不安感，父母要用爱来解决
·以孩子与妈妈之间的信赖感去消除这种对离别的不安
·孩子最需要的是父母本人的照顾
·职场妈妈：下班后的30分钟很重要
和谐第三步：确保与孩子待在一起的绝对时间
04 孩子会故意做出一些惹人发火的古怪行为
·在孩子故意惹父母发火时，父母首先要试着去了解孩子的内心
·乱发脾气是破坏亲子关系的元凶
和谐第四步：通过交流了解孩子的内心
05 培养孩子克服恐惧的社会陛
·丰富的经历会消除恐惧
·基础打得牢固，社会性也就会培养起来
和谐第五步：尽情玩耍，累积社会性
06 用愉快的假期计划打开孩子的心扉
·假期过得好，孩子也会变得不一样
·暑假：只要孩子快乐去哪儿都可以
·寒假：培养孩子的自觉性比学习更重要
和谐第六步：利用假期培养自觉性
Part 3 把握好过度关心与不关心的尺度
01 退半步的父母会培养出独立的孩子
·帮助孩子在入学前就独立
·能够照顾好自己，学习自然也会好
·不要追着孩子喂饭，与其这样还不如饿着他
·精神负担会造成孩子身体不适
·要有活力才会有信心
宽容第一步：再小的事情也要让孩子自己做
02 规范与和谐保证家庭的幸福
·父母的角色对孩子影响很大
·根据具体情况调整奖惩程度
·造成兄弟矛盾的根源是想独占父母的爱
宽容第二步：调节家庭成员间的关系
Part 4 妈妈要让孩子自然发展
01 让孩子自然发展才能培养出健康的孩子
·健康的孩子VS不健康的孩子
·孩子不想做的事情，家长不要勉强
·不要做伤害彼此感情的事
·如果要让孩子健康成长，就要减少学习压力
放松第一步：做妈妈的要减少自己的欲望
02 得到关心的孩子，行为也与众不同
·认识到问题，家庭才会幸福
·放下自己的贪念，让孩子从学习低谷中走出来
·多关心孩子，让他们从游戏世界里走出来
·注重孩子情操的培养，而不是眼前的学习成绩
·不要一味地责骂，而是静下心来解决问题
放松第二步：培养孩子高尚的情操
03 父母的养育方式决定孩子的性格
·父母的唠叨让孩子产生反抗心理
·父母的压力会导致孩子情绪低落
·表扬也会有副作用
放松第三步：无条件地爱孩子
Part 5 治疗孩子受伤的心灵
0l 明智的处理方法可以减少孩子的心理创伤
·孩子遭受性骚扰时，父母的态度对孩子很重要
·关心爱护才是防止孩子受到孤立的捷径
·及时化解孩子因病痛而承受的压力
·治疗因期待过高而产生的忧郁症，
最好的方法是做游戏
疗伤第一步：抚慰孩子的伤口
02 能够表现出悲伤的孩子更健康
·对孩子因离别而表现出的悲伤要予以认可
·向孩子坦诚解释父母离婚的事实
·要给予孩子想念已离婚父母的权利
疗伤第二步：让孩子充分表达自己的感情
03 单亲家庭孩子的成长
·父母坦坦荡荡，孩子也会自信
·重视并解决好孩子因父母离婚带来的压力
·父母应敞开心扉，广交朋友
·不要过度强调经济问题
疗伤第三步：创建健康和谐的家庭
后记孩子行为上的转变来自其内心的变化

Book Abstract

我和正植谈话后了解到，正植认为妈妈很讨厌自己。妈妈对正植也确实开始产生厌恶心理。母子关系很令人担心。上小学一年级的美秀，无论是做作业还是做练习，本来十分钟之内就可以做完，她却要做一个多小时。有一次还做了四五个小时。做完一道题就干点儿别的，或者做完一道题就和妹妹玩会儿，有时候就呆呆地坐着。如果妈妈坐在旁边指导她，她就完成得很快，而如果让她自己做，不去管她，她就总是这样。这样折腾了半天作业，孩子因为没有了和朋友们玩儿的时间而感到很累，妈妈也抱怨说十分辛苦。
为什么正植和美秀什么事都往后推，什么事都不愿意自己做？那是因为小的时候没有自己试着做，没有产生自觉性的缘故。正植的妈妈在生正植之前，就因为交通事故留下了后遗症，身体总是不舒服，没有耐心帮助正植学会做力所能及的事情，而是遇到问题就唠叨，或是很不耐烦，然后替他做。美秀的妈妈由于过于担心，不让美秀出去玩儿，而把她关在家里，自己把能做的都替美秀做了，是一种典型的过保护态度。
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孩子的问题就是父母的问题
近些年，双职工的父母越来越多，孩子们早早地就被托付给他人照看。即使不是双职工，也会把孩子早早送到幼儿园，孩子“上学”的年龄是越来越小了。孩子一天中的绝大部分时间是在幼儿园中度过的，回到家中玩上一会儿一天就过去了。长此以往，孩子们的生活逐渐失去了平衡，压力也越来越大。
孩子社会性的培养离不开父母的关爱和与同龄人的交往。许多父母都认为上幼儿园就能培养孩子的社会性，这是不正确的。因为社会性的基础是亲子关系。孩子只有得到了父母充分的爱才有可能学会喜欢别人，才能轻松地与人交往。等稍长大一些，孩子就会先找到一个玩伴，体会到交朋友的快乐。等再大一点，孩子就会有一群小伙伴，在快乐的玩耍中不断学习进步。这些都是在家庭和邻里生活中自然形成的。

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