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15们著名妈妈如果说:女孩都是天使。 我这样做女儿,我这样做母亲,把爱传出去,把幸福带回家。 家族教育专家郑委联合15们著名妈妈为家长量身定做的母亲教育。
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《女孩都是天使》共分三辑:母亲对我的教育;我最初接受的教育;我对孩子的教育。作者有苏青、冰心、丁玲、杨沫、李银河、舒婷……这些情深意长的文章有的是母亲写的,有的是孩子写的。母亲写自己的母亲,同时,也写自己的孩子。我们从这些文章中可以看出:无论时代如何变迁。母爱的核心永远是“付出不求回报”! 《女孩都是天使》讲得更多的“母亲教育”,却不像市场上那些充满了 “方法”的书,讲一大堆或许有用的方法,却不讲原理。这《女孩都是天使》是反过来的。从这些大家们的文章里,您能看到母亲教育的原理:而方法。需要从文字中去感悟。
打开《女孩都是天使》,您会发现:“即使你的孩子是全世界最差的孩子,只要你还爱他,告诉他,不论别人怎么看你,你都是我最爱的孩子。这就是母爱!”
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郑委,著名教育专家,中国家长教育领域的开拓者和实践者,CPEP家长教育研究所副所长,中国家长教育工程全国运营中心主任。 郑委先生坚持“有效果比有道理更重要”的家庭教育操作理念,大力倡导“用工学原理解决社会学问题”的新方法,率先提出“姻缘关系重于血缘关系”的新家庭教育模式,构建了家长教育“1-5-8”理论模型、“爱与幸福”理论模型和“智慧家长六步走”理论模型。他近年来精心研发和搭建“中国家长教育工程服务平台”,并吸引了越来越多的志愿者踊跃参与,必将开创中国家庭教育事业的新篇章。 近五年来,郑委先生在全国各地巡回演讲数百场,受到各地学校、机关以及广大家长的热烈欢迎,令数十万家庭和孩子受益,他所倡导的“把爱传出去,把幸福带回家”的口号已经在全国广为流传。
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第一辑:母亲对我的教育
苏青/母亲的希望
丁玲/我母亲的生平(节选)
冰心/回忆母亲
宗璞/花朝节的纪念
舒婷/妈妈的味道
李银河/妈妈印象:出类拔萃
黄蓓佳/两代母亲
陈染/与母亲有关

第二辑:我最初接受的教育
苏青/我国的女子教育
丁玲/我的中学生活片断——给孙女的信
冰心/童年杂忆
宗璞/那青草覆盖的地方
李银河/童年往事
舒婷/童年絮味
蒋韵/阅读的时光
陈染/走过
笛安/灰姑娘的南瓜车

第三辑:我对孩子的教育
苏青/教子
丁玲/远方来信
杨沫/儿子老鬼
陈燕慈/与陈染生活小记
程乃珊/吾家有女初长成
王小鹰/我是女儿的陪读妈妈
舒婷/写给儿子的临别赠言
李银河/儿子壮壮
蒋韵/李笛安看《三国演义》
赵玫/幸福的牵扯
王小妮/把孩子交出去
黄蓓佳/牵手
洁尘/成为一个母亲
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昨天我抱了菱菱到母亲处去,那孩子一会儿撒尿,一会儿要糖吃的怪会缠人,母亲看着我可怜,替我委屈起来,不胜感慨地叹口气道:“做女人总是苦恼的吧?我千辛万苦地给你读到十多年书,这样希望,那样希望,到头来还是坐在家里养孩子!” 我正被孩子缠得火冒,听见母亲还来唠叨着瞧不起人,忍不住顶起嘴来:“那么,你呢?还不是外婆给你读到十来年书,结果照样坐在家里养养我们罢了,什么希望不希望的。” “你倒好,”母亲气得嘴唇发抖,“索性顶撞起我了——告诉你吧:我为什么仍旧坐在家里养你们?那都是上了你死鬼爸爸的当!那时他刚从美国回来,哄着我说外国夫妇都是绝对平等,互相合作的,两个人合着做起来不是比一个人做着来得容易吗?于是我们便结婚了,行的是文明婚礼。他在银行里做事,我根本不懂得商业,当然没法相帮。我读的是师范科,他又嫌学教员太没出息,不但不肯丢了银行里的位置来跟我合作,便是我想独个子去干,他也不肯放我出去。他骗我说,且待留心到别的好位置时再讲。可是不久第一个孩子便出世了。我自己喂奶,一天到晚够人忙的,从此只得把找事的心暂且搁起,决定且待这个孩子大了些时再说。哪知第二个、第三个接踵而来,我也很快地上了三四十岁。那时就有机会,我也自惭经验毫无,不敢再作尝试的企图了。可是我心中却有一个希望,便是希望你们能趁早觉悟,莫再拿嫁人养孩子当做终身职业便好。无论做啥事总比这个好受一些,我已恨透油盐柴米的家庭什务了。” “那也许是你没有做过别事之故吧?”我偏要和她反对,“做裁缝的顶恨做裁缝,当厨子的恨透当厨子,划船的恨划船,挑粪的恨挑粪,他们都希望自己的儿子不要再拿裁尺、菜刀、木浆、粪桶,当做终身职业了,谁又相信管这些会比管家务与孩子更好受一些呢?” “但像你这样一个大学生出去做事,总不至于当个裁缝或粪夫吧。” “是的,我或许可以做个中学教员。”我不禁苦笑起来,“但是中学教员就好受吗?一天到晚拿了粉笔在黑板上写了又揩,揩了又写,教的是教育部审定的书,上的是教务处排定的课,所得的薪水也许不够买大衣皮鞋。秋天到了,开始替校长太太织绒线衫。没有一个女教员不恨校长太太,人家替她一针针织着花纹,她却躲在校长办公室里讨论教员缺席的扣薪问题。” “你也不用瞎挖苦人,”母亲忽然转了话头,“做个职业文学家也不坏吧?” “写文章白相相也许开心,当职业出售起来却也照样得讨闲气。第一先要通过书店老板的法眼,那法眼是以生意经为瞳子的。文章优劣在于销路好坏,作家大小全视版税多寡,因此制造作品就得着制造新药的样子,梅毒克星、固精片、补肾丸、壮阳滋阴丹之类最合社会需要,获利是稳稳的。若不知这种职业上秘诀,人家都讲花柳第一而你偏来研究大脑小脑、神经血管之类,不惟无法赚到钞票,还须提防给人家加上‘不顾下部阶级’、‘背叛生殖大众’等罪名。倘若你得了这类罪名以后,相客性质的编辑者们便不肯替你吹嘘兜销了,除非你能证明血管就是卵管,脑汁等于精液。” 母亲皱紧了眉头,半晌叹口气道:“想不到你这么没能耐,这事做不来,那事吃不消,害得我白白希望一场。” “你的希望要你自己去设法达到,”我也大大不高兴起来,“我可没有以你希望为希望的义务。老实说吧,照目前情形而论,女子找职业可决不会比坐在家里养孩子更上算。因为男人们对于家庭实是义务多而权利少,他们像绿鸯捕鱼一般,一衔到鱼就被女子扼住咽喉,大部分都吐出来供养他人了。” “这样说来,你是宁愿坐在家里扼人家咽喉抢鱼吃的人,好个依赖成性没志气的人!唉,我真想不到这许多代的母亲的希望仍不能打破家庭制度… …” “这倒用不着你来担心,”我急忙打断她的话头,“家庭制度是迟早总会消灭了的,至少也得大大改革。不过那可是出于男人的希望。你不听见他们早在高喊‘女子独立’、‘女子解放’了吗?只为女子死抱住不肯放手,因此很迟延了一些时光。真的,惟有被家庭里重担压得喘不过气来的男人才会热烈地提倡女权运动,渴望男女能够平等,女子能够自谋生活。娜拉可是易卜生的理想,不是易卜生太太的理想。他们只希望把女子鼓吹出家庭便够了,以后的事谁管你娘的。可是,妈妈,你自己却身为女子,怎可轻信人家闲言,不待预备好一个合理的社会环境,便瞎嚷‘跑出家庭,跑出家庭’吗?” “你到底总还是孩子见识,”母亲轻声笑起来了,眼中发出得意的光芒,“你以为社会是一下子便可以变得完完全全合理的吗?永远不会,我的孩子,也永远不能!假如我们能够人人共同信仰一个理想,父死子继,一代代做去,便多费些时光,总也有达到目的之一日。天知这世界上的人实在太多了,智愚贤不肖,老幼强弱,贫富苦乐,人人各殊,你相信的我偏不相信,你要前进我便来阻碍,因此一个理想不必等到完全实现,它的弊病便层出不穷了。于是另一个新理想又继之而起,又中途而废,自古迄今就没有一种理想实行过,没有一个主义完成过。我真觉得社会的移动委实太慢,而人类的思想进步得多快!一个勇敢的女子要是觉得坐在家里太难受了,便该立刻毫无畏惧地跑到社会上去,不问这个社会是否已经合理。否则,一等再等,毕生光阴又等过了。”
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寻回真正的母爱 我想告诉大家的是:真正的母爱是伟大的! 还有很多“母爱”根本不能冠以“伟大”作为修辞,因为那不是“真正的母爱”! 不懂得母爱,你就迷失了生命的真谛。
我敢说:“社会的急功近利造成当代社会下,很多母亲的母爱不再伟大。” 请处在急功近利社会下的每一个母亲摸着自己的胸口问问自己:“什么是母爱?怎么样做才是真正的母爱?”,您有答案吗?您的答案正确吗?最近几年,这个问题我问过无数的妈妈,让我悲哀的是,绝大多数妈妈都说不出答案!说出答案者大部分会是以下四种错误答案。
“溺爱”——满足孩子的一切需求,这不是真正的母爱,这是溺爱。多少母亲不顾自己的感受,无限制地满足孩子的一切需求,培养出的孩子以自我为中心,自私自利,不会考虑别人的感受。这样的爱根本不能冠以“母爱 ”的光环,那是对“母爱”的亵渎。
“瞎爱”——没有原则的爱,不是真的母爱,那是瞎爱。多少母亲爱孩子时,自己没有原则或者自己的原则总是变来变去,让孩子无原则可以遵循或总是处在无所适从的状态。这样的爱根本不能冠以“母爱”的光环,那是对“母爱”的不尊重。
“交换”——有条件的爱,不是真的母爱,那是交换。多少母亲会说出这样的话:“我们爱孩子不就是为了他将来有出息吗?”“妈妈这么不容易,你还考个这样的成绩。”“你要是不好好学习,长大考不上大学找不到工作,我可不管你!”“你说妈妈容易吗?起早贪黑!你还这么不听话。”… …这些爱的方式都不是真正的母爱,“爱孩子是仅仅因为他是你的孩子”,这才是母爱的真谛。
“照顾”——把责任当做爱,不是真正的母爱,那是照顾。很多母亲曾对孩子说:“我伺候你吃,伺候你穿……”请问母亲不该管孩子吃,管孩子穿吗?这是母亲的责任,母亲的本分,这是照顾,是您该做的事情。还有些母亲曾对孩子说:“我出外挣钱,承担这么多的压力,你还……”请问母亲不应该出外挣钱吗?母亲不应该承担压力吗?这是照顾,是您该做的事情。
他们是孩子,他们必须在家里免费吃、免费住……很多母亲把照顾当关心,把照顾当真爱。
我常常和家长们开玩笑说,“现在这个社会,我发现——亲妈像后妈,后妈像亲妈”。在很多人的印象里,想起亲妈就想到了温暖,想起后妈就想到了虐待。这些年来离婚率持续上升造成结果之一是再婚家庭越来越多。我接待过很多“后妈”的咨询,后妈最常常问的话是:“郑老师,我想和你学习学习,你告诉我怎么做才能取得孩子的信任,才能让孩子感受到我爱他? ”“后妈”在学习“真爱”。我每天也在接待“亲妈”的咨询,亲妈常常问的话是:“郑老师,打都没有用了,我怎么就生了这样的东西,请你告我说,怎样做才能收拾他……”有的妈妈甚至会说:“早知道我就不生他了。” 有的后妈在想方设法学习真爱学习如何去爱,有的亲妈在想法设法“虐待” 孩子—— 这就是我为什么要编这本书的原因! 这本书与《男孩都是天才》一书一样,共分三辑:母亲对我的教育;我最初接受的教育;我对孩子的教育。作者有苏青、冰心、丁玲、杨沫、李银河、舒婷……有些文章是妈妈写的,也有些是孩子写的。母亲们书写自己的母亲,同时也书写自己的孩子。我们从这些文章中可以看出:不管时代如何变迁,真正的母爱核心永远是:付出不求回报! 母爱的核心不是付出,而是付出不求回报。不论是冠以“为了你优秀” 、“为了你出息”这些堂皇的理由,还是冠以“为了挣大钱”、“为了当大官”等功利色彩的理由,都不是真爱。真正的爱没有理由,也不求回报。母亲们,请记住“爱孩子就是因为他是你的孩子!” 这本书讲的更多的是“母亲教育”,不过,这本书不像市场上那些“方法论”的书,讲一大堆方法,却不讲原理。这本书是反过来的,从这些名人大家们的文章里,您能看到母亲教育的原理,而方法,需要您自己总结。
打开这本书,您就会明白:真正的母爱关键在于母亲榜样力量! 著名教育专家 中国家长教育领域的开拓者和实践者
郑委 2011年7月13日于北京

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    Local Express is $5.99 (Available in Parts of CA, NJ, MA & PA). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    2-Day Express (Includes Alaska & Hawaii) starts at $19.99.

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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Service Guarantee

Yami Cross-store Free Shipping over $69
Yami 30-days Return

Yami-China FC

Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

Shipping Information

Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

Sold by JD@CHINA

Service Guarantee

Free shipping over 69
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Shipping

Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Seller will ship the orders within 1-2 business days. The logistics time limit is expected to be 7-15 working days. In case of customs clearance, the delivery time will be extended by 3-7 days. The final receipt date is subject to the information of the postal company.

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Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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