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特别狠心特别爱（套装共两册）

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严家风，迟满足，慢教养
上海犹太母亲培养世界富豪的手记
★经典畅销400，000册！
★融合中国传统和犹太民族教育精华的家风传承
★中华民族和犹太民族在文化碰撞中的家庭教育反思及启示录
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★中央电视台《读书》栏目、鲁豫有约等三百多家媒体纷纷报道

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《特别狠心特别爱1》
《特别狠心特别爱1》作者沙拉借鉴了中国教育和犹太教育的理念与经验的精华，让原本衣来伸手饭来张口的儿女，不到30岁就实现了世界富豪梦。
《特别狠心特别爱1》是一部怎样将子女培养成亿万富豪的教育手记。作者的有偿教育机制不仅挖掘了孩子的造富潜质，造就了孩子善于编织人脉的本领，也培养了孩子心理调适与自我约束的良好素养。沙拉还意外获得了三个孩子送给她的三把钥匙：别墅、豪车与珠宝箱的钥匙。
《特别狠心特别爱1》是一部有助于讨论、探究与解决当下中国家庭教育问题的书。那些一味地超量满足孩子的家长将从本书中学会“延迟满足教育法”，让孩子学会忍耐，增强孩子被拒绝的心理承受力，培养孩子获取成功必备的重要“逆商”。除此之外，“延迟满足”还训练孩子在延后享受中磨炼意志，砥砺对人生的期许，变得更有弹性，从而更好地适应社会竞争。
父母真正成功的爱，就是让孩子尽早作为一个独立的生命个体，以独立的人格面对世界。放手越早，孩子就会越早走上独立之路。溺爱是害，狠心是爱，家长学会爱，孩子赢未来！

《特别狠心特别爱2：赢在家风》
怎样立家规，孩子才乐于接受并能严格执行？哪些是家长必须给孩子确立的原则和底线？营造良好的家风有哪些方法和技巧？……
《特别狠心特别爱2：赢在家风》是《特别狠心特别爱》作者沙拉的最新作品。在书中，她与读者们分享了她营造良好家风获得成功的教子经历。沙拉不仅吸取了犹太家风的精华，如培养契约精神、模拟家境、“富养”女孩、培养读书传统等，同时也创造性地把中国传统文化的理念用于教育，如“育儿如烹饪”、巧妙地培养敬畏之心、用孩子的优点战胜孩子的叛逆等。沙拉还在教子方法中融入了现代科学家教理念，给读者生动地讲述了她如何在逆境中成功培养出亿万富翁的故事。
沙拉以家风化人的理念，以家风育人的方法，值得学习和借鉴。

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沙拉，上海社会科学院特聘研究员、上海市虹口区政协委员。她出生在中国上海，也是目前所知唯一还留在上海的犹太后裔，育有两子一女。中以建交后，在“回归故土”的召唤下，也为了让孩子们能够在不同的环境下体会磨难、学会坚强、领会人生，沙拉放弃了上海的优越生活，带着三个孩子来到了战火纷飞的以色列，开始了一段跨国教育的特殊经历。
她通过借鉴中国教育和犹太教育的精华，自创“特别狠心特别爱”的教育方法，创造性地通过延迟满足、家风育人等理念，让原本衣来伸手、饭来张口的两个儿子不到三十岁就实现了世界富豪梦。
沙拉曾受到以色列总理拉宾的接见，拉宾对她说：犹太人爱子女，跟中国人一样，也是全世界有名的。如今，沙拉的传奇教子故事已经吸引了中央电视台《读书》栏目、《鲁豫有约》等三百多家媒体纷纷报道。

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★家庭教育无时无刻不在滋养着孩子的身心，影响孩子的成长。合格的家长懂得如何学习、倾听和言传身教做示范，营造宽松向上具有良好习惯的家风家规。家庭教育是一个润物细无声的过程，本书作者将不同民族文化教育思想进行有机结合，她的家庭教育风格和理念值得更多中国家长参考借鉴。
——谢军，国际象棋世界冠军、教育学博士后

★沙拉教导孩子要做个谦虚、不张扬的人，要“学会在逆境中生存”。她还经常在爆炸间歇带自己的孩子观看爆炸现场，教育孩子女在战争中成长，在磨难中砥砺人生。
——国际先驱导报

★为了让孩子尽早独立，沙拉要求孩子们知道，谋生是一项艰苦的工作，每一分钱都来之不易。
——新华网

★“我一直要求自己做一个人品端正的人，这个要求激励了我半个人生。我也要求自己的孩子和我一样，讲道德文明，把中国人的面貌展示给同胞看。”沙拉如是说。
——新民晚报

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《特别狠心特别爱1》
一、“特别狠心特别爱”
我的教育成就了孩子的富翁梦
我曾是个典型的中国妈妈
别把那种教育带到以色列
篝火之爱VS子宫之爱
走出爱孩子的四大误区
特别狠心特别爱

二、在有偿生活机制中爱孩子
“孩奴”VS“啃老族”
理财术从娃娃抓起
有偿生活机制基础课
生存教育VS技能教育
挖掘每个孩子的富翁潜质
仅仅知道干活是不够的
与人交往的心灵钥匙
有意识培养孩子的管理能力
世界富豪这样起步

三、以爱的名义延迟满足
超量满足孩子给家长带来隐痛
如何让孩子理解父母
“适当不满足”的艺术
超量满足培养“草莓族”
左手赏识，右手逆商
模拟家境的好处
不患不爱，患知爱而不知教

四、越爱孩子越要后退一步
“过度抚养”VS“慢养”
剪不断理还乱的脐带
不培养“超龄婴儿”
让兴趣督促孩子学习
找准孩子们学习的好领袖
不做管家做军师
授人以鱼，不如授人以渔

五、狠下父母心，深深爱
同心协力经营爱
心灵零距离
后退，却不放任自流
为爱播洒阳光
别让不幸婚姻影响他
后记爱你一辈子

《特别狠心特别爱2：赢在家风》
序言爱本身就是一种教育
一、好家风源自好父母
成人比成才更重要
真正的输赢在弯道
孩子的公德心就是家长的公德心
我很高兴妈妈你一直在学习
带孩子做志愿者
每个人挑一个有问题的梨
给孩子留自己画的空间
洗车的意义

二、好家规成就好教养
犹太人这样立家规
难产的蛋糕
怎样教孩子抵制诱惑
以生命的重量压制孩子碰毒
犹太人的契约精神
六小时后再吃冰激凌
仪态修养是最好的装饰品
敬畏之心不可丢，感恩之心不可少
宽容是一种力量
继父喜欢住我家

三、逆境磨出好家风
“模拟家境”，让孩子体验吃苦
培养孩子的抗挫折能力
有偿教育≠用钱培养孩子
孩子不是你的附属品
及时给孩子精神“断奶”
隔代教育危害大
尊重而不放纵的淑女教育
狠心，也要适时伸援手

四、营造好家风的十大技巧
育儿如烹饪，要因材施教
用孩子的亮点打垮他的叛逆
让孩子了解家庭，融入家庭
以色列父母怎样“富养”女孩
父母是孩子的社交训练师
单亲家庭的幸福秘籍
亲子关系比教育更重要
发现孩子的兴奋点
将心比心，沟通无碍
金玉良言是父母最好的礼物
附录

Book Abstract

一、“特别狠心特别爱”
我的教育成就了孩子的富翁梦

寻找遗失的爱子秘籍
20世纪30年代，我的父亲立维?伊麦斯逃离苏联，一路颠簸流离，来到中国上海，这也是继“二战”后，没有家园的犹太人第二次客居上海这个诺亚方舟。
父亲立维?伊马斯来上海二十余年后，凭借犹太人的韧性与智慧闯出了一片天地，过上了富足平安的日子。年幼时的缤纷记忆中，我住在一个花园般的院子里，四周绿色的草坪上面点缀着鲜花，童年时代的我最喜欢在院子里采花追蝶，喜欢在头上戴着花环，像希腊古典少女一样，生动美丽。我接受的教育是混杂的。在外面，我和普通的小朋友一起接受社会主义小学教育，信仰共产主义，能说普通话和上海话，甚至苏北话。在家里，我接触的都是犹太人联合会里的犹太人，我和他们用英语交流。父亲还教给我一些犹太礼俗和宗教信仰，还有“衣地喜”(一种古老的希伯来语)。
在我十二岁的时候，父亲突然去世了，童年的甜美顷刻间化为乌有。祸不单行，1967年，身为犹太后裔的我也没能逃过“文革”的劫难。我被人赶出了家，还被剪掉了天生卷曲的头发，以色列政府寄来的信件也被查抄，就连父亲在青浦吉安公墓的墓地也没有保住。由于“文革”，我只读到初一就辍学了。
1971年，我进了上海铜厂，做了一名靠体力吃饭的女工。但是，我很开心，因为终于可以自食其力了。
后来，我像其他中国女人一样结婚，生儿育女。我的三个孩子——长子以华、次子辉辉和小女儿妹妹，分别出生在20世纪70年代末、80年代初。
90年代初，中以建交。我想到父亲生前魂牵梦萦的故乡以色列去看一看。另外，我还有一个异想天开的念头，我听说犹太人的教育观享誉全世界，我想去以色列取教子经。当时，我刚离婚，是个失败的妻子，但我想做一个成功的母亲，于是我带着三个孩子从上海回到了以色列，这一去就是十余年，我的三个孩子的青少年时代都是在以色列度过的。
回首来时路，我很感恩。感谢中国和以色列两片睿智的土地，让我在得天独厚的跨国教育中，在世界上最爱子女、胎教文明开展最早的两个民族的对话中，懂得了爱子女的真正价值。
当年，因为我是第一个从中国返回以色列的犹太后裔，受到了时任以色列总理拉宾的接见。
拉宾总理跟我说：犹太人爱子女，跟中国人一样，也是全世界有名的，他让我相信这片土地会让我找到爱子秘籍。
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