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全职爸爸手把手教您做家长
与《谁绑架了中国父母》一样值得珍藏
这是一本妈妈一定会买,爸爸一定会看、少儿不宜随便翻阅的书
会玩的孩子会学习 大人要讲孩子的理
好孩子不该被耽误 两不误导致两头误
会养狗就会养孩子 尊重孩子的疲劳期
让孩子听他自己的话 不干预是最好的干预
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《没有不好的孩子:和年轻妈妈们的聊天报告》是作者在出版《谁绑架了中国父母》引起社会广泛关注后,与众多家长在网上聊孩子、聊教育的部分忠实记录,其中有帮助家长解决亲子关系中的具体棘手问题的应急药方,更多的还是他一贯主张的“帮助孩子确定理想目标,然后始终从效果想办法”的人生信条贯彻在教育孩子中的具体原则。
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孙生龙 男,1965年11月出生,祖籍江苏,定居上海,本科文化。历任中学语文老师、报社记者编辑、执行总编辑、全职陪读爸爸。今生最大的梦想是:爱并爱到孩子,做天底下最优秀的爸爸,进而让天底下更多的爸爸、妈妈们越发优秀起来。2010年9月,依托女儿孙同同学习音乐成长成功的背景,写作出版了《谁绑架了中国父母》,在海内外引起强烈反响和广泛关注。
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孙生龙之所以选择陪读,是因为中国的教育实在叫人难以放心。
——这是一位普通网友的真情评说。

一个实现个人千姿百态梦想而有多种路径的国家,必是一个好的国家。孙生龙放弃高额年薪,回家做全职爸爸,辛苦十几年,把女儿培养成小提琴家,至少,这种做法的个案是成功的。普通中国人的梦想应该被尊重。
——《环球时报》发表了“顾德宁”先生的署名文章。

孙生龙说过的每一句话都很实在,至今所见报道中,他对人们的告诫和提醒明显多于经验侃谈。而这每一句实在话都是建立在他10年走过来,女儿今天已实现理想的现实之上的,是他们的经验总结,而不是可以前设的命卦。
——《北京晚报》的整版报道

所谓名人,就是经常被人喊着名字骂的人,做名人就要有这番心里准备。爸爸,你不同,不代表你不对。虚心接受各方意见,才能更好地成长成功自己呀。所有的意见都要听到,但一定不要全部听进。
——女儿孙同同的声音

10年前,孙生龙这一举动无异于“实验先锋”和“行为艺术”。10年后,据上海社科院调查,全职父母的家庭分布率达到16%,其中全职爸爸甚至超过四成。全职爸爸集保姆、营养师、厨师、私人家教于一身,专业度和敬业度丝毫不亚于全职妈妈。 社会学者和教育学者分析,全职爸爸现象的出现,源于女性社会地位的提高、性别角色的转变,也是父亲参与、重视家庭教育的新信号。
——《南方都市报》连续几个版面的文章
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1 因为陪读,所以陪聊(代序)
黄色孙生龙
有个村庄叫朱港
是故事,还是事故
家长学校已经开张

2 该不该晚一年上学
可以报两个兴趣班吗
怎样找到孩子喜欢的兴趣
红包解决不了的问题
不是“猪”的错

3 全职妈妈的兴趣烦恼
根好才能苗壮
会玩的孩子会学习
好孩子不该被耽误
每个孩子都有鲜活期
“金婚”才稀奇
简单就是效率
尊重孩子的疲劳期
允许东张西望
吃饭也是学问

4 到底有没有卖关子
“周全”制造了“缺陷”
服气才会服从
会养狗就会养孩子
满负荷必然不快乐
岂可随便吃苦
大人要讲孩子的理
逃跑是一种抵抗

5 优秀老师遭遇撒谎女儿
搞不定女儿的老师
真爱是把双刃剑
最怕半懂不懂
笔谈不能泄愤
留心处处能借力
做老师先学做真人
勇于向孩子示弱
不让劣势影响优势
谁把孩子弄哭了
东西坏了,还是孩子坏了
打孩子也要打出生产力

6 大学老师停了小学儿子的课
妈妈做老师的弊端
学校教育不可替代
不能生班主任的气
谁家孩子剪眉毛
家长小心成炮灰
真妈妈想抽身吗
小老外是最好的老师
儿好还是女好
假舅舅的真烦恼
“梦想”离不开“现实的钱”
建议有知有价吗
警惕人品末流的老师

7 律师妈妈无尽的发问
要学奥数吗
要背单词吗
一定要讨厌夏天吗
能有几个比尔盖茨
怎样用心做家长
要走两极吗
要懂“三农”吗
写字要认真吗
分数重要吗
老师为何不宽容
要和儿子同仇敌忾吗
为何读书
怎么丢手
会不会恶性循环

8 “海上佳人”怪我不是“司马迁”
强势发问,可包容不可纵容!
无语作答,借口有事匆忙下线
学习音乐,不仅仅需要钱
天才学校,挤出来才算本事!
考上了,就一定要上吗?
“司马龙”之心,谁人能知?

9 公务员父母敌不过初一女儿
允许孩子放下学习
最要改变的是大人
父母和女儿一起追星
利用恋爱让孩子进步
帮孩子圆这个谎
公务员要换朋友处
不要在后怕中迷失
等待孩子恢复弹性
不该让孩子洗碗
孩子老抄作业怎么办
用“喜欢”代替“喜欢”
让笑容不再勉强
家长必须经历的煎熬
不该发生的手机大战

10 愿用生命换儿子好好读书
聪明儿子只爱玩
妈妈是否牺牲不够
讨厌“老家伙”
喊我“龙伯伯”
没有搞不定的孩子
让孩子听他自己的话
“妈妈,我爱您!”
担心妈妈毁约
不再打牌了
坚持的路上遭遇险情
一定不能放弃
倒计时,儿子想回家
中考前,儿子出走
妈妈也要出走
不干预就是最好的干预

11 好老师想做好妈妈
家长学校无法开办
心到自然成
两不误导致两头误
“小学生妈妈”要不要升级
“潜规则”和“钱规则”
父母婚变要告知孩子

12 岂能给老师送脚盆
出征上海,三试卡住了
双重打击,落榜后失恋
儿子逃课,妈妈想一死了之
排名第七,前途一片渺茫
亡羊补牢,岂能送老师脚盆
曲线救国,总算留在上海

13 我是我爸的一条狗
14 简明问答
15 有聊总比无聊好(后记)
Book Abstract

读《色眼识人》,先后很认真地做了两次测试。我是“黄色人”,一切以目标和结果为导向,不达目的,誓不罢休。我的确如书中所说的那样,认定逆境是个伟大的教师,笃信那些生都走着平坦大道的人是培养不出力量的,黄色性格通过逆着潮流而不是顺着潮流游泳来培养出他们的力量。
读《前世今生》,我明白了,我已然收获的丰硕成果,是个巨大的福报,这不仅仅和我一个人有关,也不仅仅和我这辈子有关。这本书让我更加心甘情愿地去做些看似没有回报的付出,因为,人欠你,天还你。
我的星座是天蝎座,外冷内热,始终不失神秘感。我的血型是O型,乐于牺牲,愿意让自己和伟大的意义连接。我的生命数是五,特别崇尚自由。学习中,我越发全面立体地了解了白己,搞定了自己。学习使人进步,让人安静,静能生慧。我就是我,我选择做全职爸爸是种注定。
读书学习、面对媒体、迎对家长提司、写真情涌动的文章,是我最近年正常的必然的生活。于是,有了第二本书。为利于更多家长的词读,彻底丢弃“文人”和“专家”的盔甲,反复推敲确定了本书的定位:一个陪读爸爸陪聊的分享,只说人话、真话、实话,不说假话、大话、套话,只说个孩子爸爸的养育感悟,不狐假虎威地请什么名家帮腔,延续“散文化笔调说教育沉重”的文风。
我的出身背景、成长故事、从业经历,是后续主体文章的头和魂。为能更好地理解我后面的陪聊分享,特别建议各位亲爱的读者,定耐心读完这些最前面的文字。
两本书的思想和文风一脉相承,可以相互参照阅读。如果说第本书以“谁绑架了中国父母”为题,有所顾忌了家长们的颜面,希望以问句的形式激发家长朋友们内心的自觉自悟的话,那么,第二本书以“没有不好的孩子”为题,就算是直接把家长置身于被拷打的境地了。态度更为鲜明:孩子没有错,大人真要打。
“没有不好的孩子”作为书名,好就好在:口语化,有潜台词,值得玩味;思想明确,但不失尊重;陈述的句式里面藏着一个大大的疑司:没有不好的孩子,那现实中为什么会有那么多不好的孩子呢?
……

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