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好爸好妈分享系列《让孩子成为深交小达人（中学版）》是在教育一线工作教师的教育心得，同时也是一个妈妈的教育心得。
中学阶段，是孩子人生最珍贵的一段时期。这时候的孩子，身心发展进入快速时期，他们不仅关注学业，更关注生活中的每一个细节。
《让孩子成为社交小达人（中学版）》结合中国优秀的国学理论和经典故事，引入社交问题；同时，书中“专家分析”栏目给家长们解读孩子为何会有这种社交问题，不仅让我们知道该怎么做，更知道为什么要这样做！
读懂中学生的社交行为，从《让孩子成为社交小达人（中学版）》开始。

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儿童心理学家哈塔布曾说：“预测一个孩子成年后的生存能力，不是看他现在的学习成绩，也不是看他乖不乖，能不能遵守课堂纪律，最好的也是唯一的方法，就是看孩子能不能跟其他孩子合得来。”
北京某医院对北京市1000多名中小学生调查表明：学生中曾出现社交恐惧症状者高达80%，其中严重者占1.4%。也就是说大多数孩子存在一定的社交障碍。
由于害怕和回避社交，那些有此类症状的孩子们，其正常的学习和生活都受到了或大或小的影响。相对于社交能力强的孩子，他们的学习和社会技能锻炼的机会减少，人际交往能力下降，从而产生孤独、自闭等不良心理。
社交障碍已经成为阻碍青少年正常心理塑造的一个大问题，会深深影响他们今后心理的健康发展。希望家长们能够重视孩子的社交技能，参考《让孩子成为社交小达人（中学版）》指导孩子充分掌握社交技巧成为真正意义上的“社交达人”。

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第一章父母是孩子的良师和益友
“父母者，人之本也。士庶有人善，本诸父母。”父母，这是一个充满光芒的词语，更是一个沉甸甸的词语。尤其是对于中学生的父母来说，我们要做的，不仅是他的老师，更是他的朋友。做孩子的内心倾听者，心态平和地与孩子沟通，帮助孩子解决人际交往中的心理障碍，信任自己的孩子……这样的你，才是称职的父母；这样的你，才能拥有一个社交能力过硬的孩子！

1.了解孩子——父母与儿女友好相处的前提
2.彼此尊重——让自己成为孩子生命里的良师益友
3.打铁先要自身硬——做和孩子一起成长的父母
4.温和的性格——做好脾气父母，感知孩子的情绪
5.沟通——走进孩子的内心世界，进行心与心的对话
6.平等——告诉孩子，“我”不是一切
7.相信自己——不再信奉“龙生龙、凤生凤”
8.相信孩子——你的信任可以带给他巨大的力量
9.独立意识——将孩子的自主性从沉睡中唤醒
10.不做“笼中鸟”——帮孩子摆脱“社交恐惧症”

第二章叛逆是孩子一生中必须要经历的阶段
“人不叛逆枉少年。”身为父母的我们会发现，孩子一旦进入中学阶段，会与少儿时期有明显的不同：总是和父母耍性子，动不动就嚷嚷着离家出走。甚至，他们会刻意与父母进行前所未有的冷战。也许父母会觉得，孩子这样做无妨，这是他的正常发育期。
但事实上，过分的叛逆不仅不利于他和父母之间的交流，更会影响与别人的社交关系。毕竟，没有人会喜欢一个总是浑身带刺的少年。所以，引导孩子正确走过叛逆期，他们才能成为真正的社交达人。

1.说出来——家长要学会跟中学时期的孩子沟通
2.大逃亡——孩子离家出走，家长怎么办
3.父母爱唠叨——只会助长孩子的叛逆心理
4.角色认同——做孩子的朋友，而不是做他的家长
5.合理约束——肆无忌惮只能助长孩子的任性妄为
6.学会克制——脾气可以有，但不可以随便发

第三章中学同学是一辈子的好人脉
“桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情。”这句诗词，是形容朋友之间深厚友谊的经典诗句。其实，身在中学阶段的孩子，同样也渴望拥有这样的友情。可是，不知道是什么原因，他们总是遇到各种各样的问题：总是和同学发脾气、看不惯同学比自己优秀、没法理解别人对自己的批评……
更有甚者，父母还会戴着有色眼镜看孩子的朋友，逼迫着孩子退出社交。没有朋友的人生是不完整的，想要让孩子在中学收获纯真的友谊，就需要我们和孩子一起努力。

1.真诚——为孩子摘得鲜艳的友谊之花
2.宽容——有度量的孩子有人缘
3.热心——同学有困难，要及时给予帮助
4.不攀比——允许自认为不如自己的人超过自己
5.接受批评——帮孩子茁壮成长
6.不“势利”——对于不如自己的同学不要报以冷眼
7.不做“刺头”——摒除孩子的报复心
8.真正的友谊——并非是什么都说“好”
9.小小考验——朋友之间，闹别扭是难免的
10.透过现象看本质——让孩子听懂好赖话，不要被表象蒙蔽
11.一视同仁——不戴有色眼镜看孩子的朋友
12.孩子也有影响力——用积极的情绪，感染周围的人

第四章让孩子学会处理感情问题
“情窦初开，梦里皆是他（她）。”走进青春期的中学生，自然会产生一种让父母如临大敌的情愫：有了喜欢的异性，甚至走上了早恋的路。于是乎，父母打骂、老师训斥……可是父母不知道，这样做只能将孩子推向深渊。
父母要明白，对异性产生好感，这是每个青少年的正常心理发育，只有恰当地引导和疏通，他们才能释放心结。否则，孩子们会“憎恨”家长的蛮不讲理，不仅导致亲子关系破裂，还会产生严重的心理问题：恐惧与异性交流、不知道怎样面对异性……相信这一切并不是我们愿意看到的。

1.情窦初开——我偷偷关注那个女生好久了
2.少女怀春——他就是我梦中的“白马王子”
3.朦胧的爱——处理好早恋问题
4.身体的冲动——好想和她来一次“亲密接触”
5.网恋——中学生的网恋是不会有结果的
6.告诉孩子——对老师的爱只是崇拜
7.失恋不可怕——帮助孩子走出失恋的阴影
8.适度最重要——正确引导孩子与异性交往
9.过于依恋父母——这样的爱不正常

第五章帮助孩子养成跟老师沟通的好习惯
“师者，传道授业解惑也。”在孩子的中学过程中，除了父母和朋友，最亲密的人就当属老师了。没有一个老师会憎恶孩子，然而总有太多的孩子和老师出现各种各样的摩擦：认为老师讨厌自己、觉得老师总是给自己穿小鞋、没办法和老师进行合理的沟通……
面对这样的孩子，我们当然忧心忡忡——和老师没有良好的沟通，那么怎么可能学到真正的知识？所以，我们不要总是做孩子的“帮凶”，指责老师的不对，而是应当帮助孩子走出心理困惑，让他明白：其实老师都是为了学生好！

1.告诉孩子——老师其实没那么讨厌
2.父母协助——帮助孩子养成跟老师沟通的好习惯
3.教育不是改造——别让孩子觉得家长和老师是一伙的
4.被冤枉了——孩子你该怎么办
5.老师的威严——家长别当“骂老师”的帮凶

第六章认识陌生人，扩大孩子的交往范围
“孔融谈笑风生，顿时赢得赞许一片，旋即成为座上宾。”少年孔融面对陌生人时的从容自得，相信每个父母都非常羡慕。可是，自己的孩子为什么做不到这一点？紧张、胆怯、张不开嘴、分不清好人坏人、不懂得保护自己……身为父母的我们，不禁忧心忡忡。
其实，孩子之所以表现出“陌生人恐惧症”，这和他的人生阅历有着直接的关系。对于这样的孩子，我们要做的不是训斥，而是应当鼓励和引导：鼓励他敢于说话、鼓励他找笔友、鼓励他站在台上、引导他分辨善恶……

1.引导示范——让孩子接触大人的社交规范
2.自我介绍——让孩子亮出第一张“名片”
3.合理引导——让网络伴随孩子健康成长
4.“鸿雁传书”——鼓励孩子找笔友
5.练就火眼金睛——培养孩子分辨善恶的能力
6.面对诱惑——孩子需要自制力
7.自我保护——与陌生人交往要学会保护自己

第七章提高警惕，防止恶习
“养不教，父之过。”青春期的孩子，总会遇到各种各样的诱惑：不良的影视作品、看似潇洒的烟酒、宛如大侠的抢劫……所以，有太多的孩子在这个阶段养成了抽烟喝酒、偷窃、做“古惑仔”、撒谎、赌博等恶习。
对于此，首先我们应当自责，正是因为不合理的家教方式，让孩子和那些不良少年混在一起。我们要进行积极的引导，提醒孩子防止恶习。“一个人有什么样的朋友，他就会是同样的人。”万万不可掉以轻心，让孩子在邪门歪道上越走越远！

1.英雄崇拜——孩子，你不是“古惑仔”！
2.从众压力——孩子为什么突然间学坏了
3.不要做“三只手”——别让偷窃成为习惯
4.杜绝谎言——识破中学生越编越圆的谎话
5.远离烟酒——抽烟喝酒是孩子恶习的开始
6.黄、赌、毒——如何让孩子不沾边
7.不做“山寨王”——告诉孩子，抢劫的后果很严重

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