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培养女儿上北大:一个普通家庭的教子经验

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教育孩子,就是日常生活,只要你爱自己的孩子,就不会感到教育孩子是一件辛苦的事情,反而觉得是一种很大的乐趣和享受。
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《培养女儿上北大:一个普通家庭的教子经验》从孩子刚出生的喂奶、取名开始,到慢慢地教她不撒谎、多鼓励等看似很小的细节,教你怎样在孩子面前树立好榜样,这其中不乏大的人生观、教育观等抽象的概念,而作者用来自生活本身的各种细节(例如参加各种各样的培训、功课负担重、上网成瘾、独生子女在夸赞中长大、孩子早恋等问题)来诠释这些道理,教你如何面对、如何处理,在轻松的阅读中获得教育孩子的方法,正所谓“在小故事中呈现大道理”,不仅是家庭教育的好帮手,也是为人父母、做好父母的教育指南。
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史生荣,毕业于师范大学,教过小学、中学,现在某大学中文系任教。教学经验丰富,对家庭教育及中小学教育颇有研究并身体力行。作者的女儿在小学、中学期间,被评为团中央少工委手拉手好少年和市级三好学生,2005年以优异的成绩考入北京大学,大学毕业后,被保送继续在北京大学攻读硕士学位。
作者系中国作家协会会员,主要作品有长篇小说《所谓教授》、《大学潜规则》、《所谓大学》、《县领导》、《所谓商人》五部,发表中篇小说六十余部,短篇小说二十多篇,总计四百多万字。获“首届甘肃省中青年德艺双馨文艺工作者”称号。
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我是一名从教多年的教师,读了这本书之后感想特别多,原来教育孩子有这么多简单易行的方法。同时,我发现自己以前教育孩子有点盲目,没有动脑筋细想这么多的问题,读了这本书,才知道教育好孩子不但不难反而轻松愉快。这本书道理说得透彻,例子举得通俗易懂、生动有趣。最重要的是作者把家庭教育和学校教育结合了起来,既能指导父母配合学校和老师做好家庭教育,又能给老师提供科学教育孩子的方法。我真诚地希望更多的父母和老师能读一读这本书,思考一下我们的教育。
——一位老师的读后感
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第一章 早期的训练
1 教育孩子,从喂奶开始
2 锻炼孩子的大脑和思维
3 通过活动身体锻炼孩子的大脑
4 训练语言、认识事物,从图片开始

第二章 给孩子带好路
1 起名也是门学问
2 多给孩子讲故事,培养孩子的求知欲望
3 培养孩子的逻辑思维能力
4 允许孩子玩自己的游戏,多带孩子外出走走

第三章 好父母 好榜样 好孩子
1 父母的言行,是孩子模仿学习的榜样
2 让孩子学习,父母先要学习
3 培养孩子不怕困难努力进取的意识
4 培养孩子的家庭观和责任心
5 孩子敬佩父母才会听从父母

第四章 让孩子养成良好的习惯
1 从小培养孩子遵守纪律的习惯
2 让孩子从小参与家庭事务成为小主人
3 让孩子懂得艰苦奋斗
4 教孩子学习,方法很重要
5 教育孩子不说谎,但不要求孩子完美无缺

第五章 最好的教育是鼓励教育
1 培养孩子的上进心和荣誉感,以及战胜困难的决心和信心
2 鼓励教育不等于完全没有惩罚
3 教育孩子,要了解孩子,并化身为孩子
4 把孩子的奖状挂起来,尊重和看重孩子的荣誉
5 鼓励孩子当班干部,勇于承担责任
6 不要有意识地监督孩子,但要过问参与孩子的事情
7 不要轻易贬低孩子,更不要羞辱孩子

第六章 配合学校教育孩子
1 孩子崇拜老师,才会用心听老师讲课
2 孩子上学前,应了解学校的情况和规矩,有充分的思想准备
3 要和孩子一起制订学习计划,培养孩子安排自己的学习
4 如何正确对待孩子做作业的问题
5 适当参加培训班,培养孩子的综合素质
6 不轻易给孩子转学,好学校不一定适合你的孩子

第七章 如何与同学相处
1 和同学友好相处,营造和谐的学习环境
2 教育孩子用善意去理解别人
3 团结同学不等于拉帮结派

第八章 学习方法教育
1 教孩子理解记忆,学什么都容易
2 课堂上如何做到认真听讲
3 语文是基础,先学好语文,才能学好其他知识
4 写作文就让孩子写熟悉的事,既要真情实感,又要培养想象力
5 数理化的学习是有序的学习,不要轻易打乱教材编排顺序
6 练习题并不是做得越多越好,而是要善于总结

第九章 课外知识教育
1 广泛阅读是提高孩子理解能力的最佳途径
2 让孩子适当看电视会受益匪浅
3 阅读的方法
4 如果孩子有了网瘾,最好的办法是转移孩子的兴趣
5 孩子学习压力太大时怎么办?
6 饭桌上和孩子交流,可以更好地了解孩子

第十章 成长教育
1 开朗善良的人,是受欢迎的人
2 让孩子懂得,要勤奋努力才能获得成功
3 不要给孩子算命,命运就掌握在自己手里
4 多赞扬努力的过程,别只看重结果
5 独生子女同样需要挫折教育
6 让孩子既要有远大的理想,又要脚踏实地
7 孩子如果早恋,父母该怎么做?

第十一章 人生观和传统道德品质教育
1 给孩子讲清人生观和快乐观
2 教育孩子看问题要全面,学会倾听别人的意见
3 传统美德教育必不可少
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第一章 早期的训练
1 教育孩子,从喂奶开始
大家都知道印度狼孩的故事,狼孩被发现时,行为习惯已经是和狼有着相同习性的狼了,狼孩回归人类后,虽然得到了人的精心培养,但因为错过了早期人类的教育,尽管大脑结构没有问题,但狼孩活到十七岁,终究也没成为真正的人,智力也只相当于三四岁的小孩。这就告诉我们,孩子的早期教育最为重要,它关系到孩子的一生。那么从什么时候开始对孩子进行教育,其实孩子一出生,教育也就开始了。
孩子出生后,母亲给孩子喂奶,这时就应该有教育孩子的意识,其实也就是教育的开始。如果仔细分析,喂奶也包含了许多教育的学问,如果不是把乳头或者奶瓶直接喂到孩子的嘴里,而是把乳头贴近孩子让孩子自己去寻找,不管能不能马上找到,但这个过程,就是对孩子大脑的锻炼,也是最初的教育。让孩子自己找到乳头自己含到嘴里,孩子就有了一个第一次学习、实践和思考的机会,也可以说对孩子的教育从此拉开了序幕。我们知道,孩子寻找吃奶,这一过程应该是孩子的本能,所有的哺乳动物出生不久就能寻找到乳头,但我们人类的这个本领反而因人类的智慧而被弱化,原因是母亲会不假思索轻而易举地就把乳头喂进孩子的嘴里。当然,有些孩子生下来几天都没有寻找乳头的本领,尽管这样,我们也要引导孩子,使孩子不要失去这个学习和锻炼大脑的机会。如果你仔细想想,你就会觉得孩子能够寻找到乳头,是需要付出相当的智力和体力的,这一过程不亚于地质科学家寻找到矿藏,而且孩子每次的寻找,对孩子来说,都是智力和体力的考验,孩子都要经过自己的思索、自己的判断,还要自己努力来转动小脸,这一思索和判断,就是对孩子大脑的锻炼和促进。孩子寻找乳头的过程,对孩子来说也许是费时的,也许是艰难的,但正是这费时和艰难的寻找,才能使孩子不断掌握本领,不断进步成长。
另一方面,教育从喂奶开始,也是对父母的一个提醒,也是父母的一个责任,不管喂奶本身的教育作用大小,但父母这样做,从喂奶开始,至少是有一种想把孩子教育好的强烈愿望,有了这样的强烈愿望,父母就会处处想到教育孩子,而且处处都是在教育孩子。因为教育孩子也不是一时一事的事情,更不需要什么特殊的场合和庄重的形式,对孩子的教育就在孩子的日常生活中,是和孩子的生活紧密相伴的,而且父母的一言一行,都是在教育孩子,都会对孩子产生影响。父母有了这样的认识和意识,父母就时时刻刻会有一种教育孩子的责任感,就会在日常生活中时时刻刻想到教育孩子,就不会把教育和生活分开,更不会形成想起来就教育一阵孩子,想不起来就不管不顾,或者是没把平日的生活也当成是对孩子的教育,在孩子面前随意随便,甚至是教育孩子时说的是一套,在平日里做的又是另一套,让孩子无所适从。因此,如果父母不随时想到教育孩子,不把自己的言行当做是教育孩子,在孩子面前随意乱说,而且说了就不当回事,更不算数,久而久之,孩子也就不会把父母的话当一回事。
我的女儿出生在一家地区医院,那时不能母婴同室,而是孩子出生后,就被护士抱到了婴儿室,我当时站在产房外只看了女儿一眼。第二天下午,我和妻子去婴儿室提出看一下孩子,值班护士问清姓名床号,便把孩子从窗口递了出来。女儿出生时体重三千八百克,是一个很健康的孩子。妻子把女儿抱在怀里看一阵后,便想给女儿喂奶。在妻子将要把乳头塞到女儿嘴里那一刻,我突然想到小狗小羊生下后不久就自己寻找乳头吃奶,便灵机一动,说不要喂,让她自己找,看看咱们的女儿聪明不聪明。妻子领会了我的意思,只把乳房靠在女儿的脸上,女儿便立即侧过脸来,睁大了双眼,然后嚅动小嘴,做出一副吃奶的样子来寻找奶吃。再稍稍靠近了一点,女儿很快就找到了奶头并且含进了嘴里。这一过程把我俩逗乐了,都觉得女儿还聪明,至少是不傻。过后我们才想到这应该是教育孩子,而且应该是最初的、最原始本能的教育,因此我俩决定,以后一段时间,都要让女儿自己找奶吃,而且逐渐增加难度,不断提高她的智力和能力,这样我们一直坚持了好多天。
但这样一个极其重要的学习机会,却往往会被我们做父母的轻易地剥夺,特别是爱子心切的妈妈,每次都是轻易地把乳头喂到孩子的嘴里,使孩子失去了最初的学习,也使孩子的大脑失去了最初最早的锻炼。
心理学家经过观察实验认为,幼儿时期是大脑和智力发展最迅速的时期,四岁前,就能达到百分之五十。印度狼孩的事实又告诉我们,尽管孩子的大脑结构没有问题,但教育和不教育有天壤之别,孩子接受人的教育,孩子才能变成人,孩子接受狼的教育,孩子就会变成狼,而且能够完全具备狼的所有习性。可以这样说,孩子生下来,大脑基本上就是一张白纸,也相当于没装软件的计算机,要想让白纸有内容,要想让计算机能工作,就需要我们父母帮助安装软件、填写内容。所以说,孩子接受什么样的教育,就会成为什么样的人;接受何种程度的教育,就会成为何种程度的人,如果想让孩子有出众的智慧,就要从孩子一落地就接受教育,这不仅是不输在起跑线上的问题,也是关系到孩子大脑早期开发的问题。
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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

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$1.66 $1.99 83折

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