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男孩穷着养女孩富着养(畅销升级版)

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从来富贵多淑女,自古纨绔少伟男。“穷养男,富养女”不仅仅是家教古训,更是具有科学依据的教育方法。男孩与女孩不同的性别特征和不同的内心需求构成了孩子健康成长的多元化思维。父母只有尊重性别差异,因材施教,才能培养出优秀的孩子。在如今国内大多数家庭都是独生子女的今天,过分溺爱孩子所导致的结果想必已经在社会及家庭中凸显,我们是应该多学习外来的先进技术与经验,但千万不能忽视本民族自身所具有的优良品质与文化遗产,男孩穷着养,女孩富着养这一千百年来的古训我们应该时刻牢记,并结合现代的先进教育理念,根据不同的孩子给予不同的教育,充分挖掘孩子的潜能,让孩子自然健康地成长,为他们美好的未来打下一个良好的基础。
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上篇 穷养的男孩有出息
穷养就是让孩子独立、自主、有担当
替孩子包办一切,实则是害!
让“蛋壳心理”远离孩子
现在让孩子吃点苦,将来他才少受苦
受苦、节约的孩子早当家
让孩子明白:自己才最可靠
穷养,就是教孩子承担和负责
爱孩子,但别阻挡孩子自立
男孩扫得一屋,方能行走天下
给男孩一个独立的机会
自主,给男孩选择的权利
外面的世界更适合男孩
少给男孩立规矩
男孩不可不学的生存技能
经历磨难:不磨不成器,经历挫折的男孩才强大
经历过挫折的孩子才能走得更远
让孩子在挫折中成长
让孩子学会:哪儿跌倒哪儿爬起
不养“啃老族”,把孩子推出家门
不要剥夺孩子尝试失败的机会
真正的男子汉是打不垮的
克制物欲:给男孩正确的金钱观
让孩子懂得:只有工作才有收入
让男孩明白坐享其成是种耻辱
杜绝男孩乱花钱的习惯
培养男孩勤俭节约的品质
培养孩子良好的储蓄习惯
男孩要想花钱,让他自己挣
留心男孩如何支配零花钱
掌握好金钱奖励的度
承担责任:让小男子汉学会勇敢和担当
让男孩觉得自己被需要
敢于担当是男孩的必修课
从小培养男孩的责任心
生活中激发男孩内心的勇气
做事有始有终也是一种负责
孩子犯错,不能一味迁就
仁义礼教:穷养出更绅士的男孩
教孩子尊重长辈、孝敬父母
……
下篇 富养的女孩最优秀
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冰心说:“世界上如果没有女人,这世界至少要失去十分之五的真、十分之六的善、十分之七的美。”这句话从某种程度上说,女性比男性更能代表“美”的概念,而女孩更是和“美丽”紧密相连。
现在是最注重仪表形象的时代,家长要从小给女孩灌输女孩要终生保持美丽的理念,让女孩从小树立形象美。
爱美是女孩的天性,大部分女孩从很小的时候就喜欢照镜子端详自己,喜欢漂亮的衣服和裙子,而且很在意别人的评价。女孩的父母们也愿意给孩子买漂亮的衣服、鞋子、头饰,把自家的女儿打扮成一个人见人爱的小公主。
然而,孩子在小的时候是不会形成一套属于自己的审美观念的,她们通常爱模仿母亲和身边亲密女性的穿着打扮,甚至是电视里自己喜欢的人物装扮。还有些爱美心切的女孩,趁父母不在家,便偷偷拿出妈妈的衣服、鞋子、化妆品,为自己“精心”收拾一番,往往弄得家长哭笑不得。所以,女孩的妈妈们,要注意从小引导女儿的审美观,给孩子一个中肯的形象建议。
值得一提的是,家长要告诉孩子,不是说任何服饰穿戴在任何人身上一定都能产生美感。形象美诸如服饰,只有与穿戴者的气质、个性、身份、年龄、职业以及穿戴的环境、时间协调一致时,才能真正达到美的境界。正确着装,不仅能够给他人留有一个好的印象,也能给自己增添一份自信与魅力。
英国首相撒切尔夫人,素有“铁娘子”之称,个性鲜明,在服饰穿戴上也有自己独到的见解。她说:“我必须体现出职业特点和活力。”她认为,女性过分化妆容易给人以男人的玩物、花瓶之类的“浅薄感觉”。所以,她爱着深色、凝重的服装,这样显得严谨、高雅、庄重,突出了一位女政治家的个性风采。
家长要教育女孩子,穿戴没有必要太过华丽,也不一定“跟风”就是好,干净、整齐、合适一定是最重要的,对女孩而言,要选择那些适合自己的、能够彰显自己气质的衣服,才是正确的。另外,如果孩子过分在意他人对自己形象方面的评价,难以容忍自己身上的一些小缺陷,父母就要多多引导孩子,让孩子能够正确地审视自己。
有一些家长,担心女孩太爱“臭美”,会影响她以后的心态和价值观,担心孩子养成虚荣、攀比的坏习惯。有位家长在女儿的穿衣打扮上,坚决不给女儿商量的余地,只让女儿穿家长自己选择的衣服,告诉孩子“你要不穿我给你拿的,要不就什么都别穿”,结果孩子在她的强压之下,每次只好乖乖地穿上她选好的衣服。试想,这个被剥夺了“臭美”天性的女孩,生活又怎能快乐?
……
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自古男女有别。因为男孩女孩的生理天性,导致男孩和女孩在成长过程中,扮演的角色和承担的责任都有所不同,因此男孩女孩的家庭教育方法也应该有所不同。
俗语说:富养女,穷养男。性别是我们的天性,性别所给予孩子的天生的特质和潜能,家长应该充分发掘,并尊重孩子的这种性别潜能,让孩子做自己擅长的事,自然健康成长,而不应该贪大求全,要求孩子“全能”,而是真正帮助孩子成为他自己。
为什么说要穷养男孩呢?因为现代社会赋予男孩的压力比任何时代都大,男孩最终会成为家庭的顶梁柱,社会的主要力量。性格赋予男孩的这份沉甸甸的责任,男孩长大了就得扛起来!因此,父母就要从小对男孩进行挫折、坚强、自立、自信、仁义等方面的教育和培养,从而让男孩多经历风雨,让他变得更成熟和坚韧,从而成为家庭和社会所需要的顶天立地的男子汉。
为什么女孩要富着养呢?因为女孩的天性是感性、娇柔和纤弱的,需要更多人的爱护,这样才能开心快乐地成长。富养女孩,还要让女孩开眼界,见世面,拓展女孩的视野,培养女孩的阅世能力,增长她们的见识,这样培养出来的女孩才知性、大方、自信、聪慧和优雅,才能经得起诱惑,才能让身边的人和家人生活得更幸福。
知道了男孩女孩不同的天性以及人生不同使命,家长就应该有针对性地对自己的孩子进行培养。如果把一个男孩用女孩的方式养育,他们长大后就很容易失去应有的“男子汉”的风骨。同样,如果把女孩当成男孩培养,她们的行为就会怎么看怎么像个男孩,从而失去了一个女人最具魅力的“女人味”。

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