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父母和孩子之间的相处,就从正确“爱”的方式开始!《爱得对,父母不会累》从七大面向、42个法则,帮助父母与孩子建立起正确的沟通模式,培养出在爱中成长且快乐、自信的孩子。
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现代父母常感叹和孩子之间出现了代沟,种种以“爱”之名但掺杂了太多的期望的行为。反而让孩子产生了抗拒。父母对孩子的爱出自于本能,但并非所有爱的方式都是正确且理智的。爱得对,爱是最好的沟通方式;爱得不对,爱反而会变成压力和障碍。《爱得对,父母不会累》分成七大部分,从42个法则,指导父母以正确的态度和方法来爱孩了,教养孩子不仅变得轻松、愉快,也能培养孩子乐观且正向发展的人格。
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Part 1 爱孩予,先放下父母的架子
01 孩子不是你的私有物品
02 蹲下身子,进入孩子的世界
03 改变孩子,先改变自己
04 允许孩子和自己争辩
05 多站在孩子的立场思考问题
06 向孩子学习,与孩子一起成长

Part 2 爱孩子,要对孩子敞开心胸
07 父母不是超人
08 让孩子参与家庭会议
09 与孩子坦诚相对
10 与孩子分享喜怒哀乐
11 你的孩子喜欢你吗?
12 给孩子爱我们的机会

Part 3 让菝子知道你爱他
13 爱要表达出来
14 真爱是无条件的
15 爱要接纳孩子的全部
16 孩子,你是独一无二的
17 每天留一点与孩子单独相处的时光
18 倾听,成为“听话”的父母
19 拥抱,让他感受家的温暖

Part 4 让孩子成为“有想法”的人
20 不要为孩子安排一切
21 给孩子独立思考的机会
22 放手让孩子做决定
23 让他对自己的决定负责任
24 孩子需要引导而不是指责
25 帮孩子找到最好的自己

part 5 做孩子成长的加油站
26 每个孩子都是不完美的天使
27 不要拿孩子的缺点去比别人的优点
28 将孩子的缺点变优点
29 孩子,你一定办得到
30 每天找出孩子值得夸赞的地方
31 挫折也是一种成长
32 和孩子一起面对问题

Part 6 爱中滋养孩予的阳光心态
33 阳光的父母,培养出阳光的孩子
34 提高孩子的沟通能力
35 懂得关心他人.才会真正快乐
36 以宽容面对伤害
37 带领孩子乐观面对问题

Part 7 培养孩子独立生活的能力
38 要孩子独立,先学会放手
39 让孩子学着规划自己的生活
40 鼓励孩子多动手
41 培养孩子科学的理财观
42 引导孩子找到自我价值
……
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身教重于言教 孩子很多举止都是跟大人学的。所以,在抱怨孩子不好教的时候,父母应该先检讨自己的行为是否带给孩子负面的影响。孩子的模仿性很强,容易受到父母的影响。父母的行为在教育孩子的过程中有着重要的作用。想象一下:父母一边对孩子说“不能随便扔垃圾”,一边将果核丢在地上;一边教育孩子要爱惜花草,一边在绿草上践踏……日常生活中,父母无声地影响着孩子,像这样的教育对孩子是没有说服力的,孩子自然也变得难教。有一次,我去一个同事家拿资料。当时她的孩子正在午休,孩子的奶奶在自己房间里乐滋滋地哼着戏曲,同事对老人喊道:“你这个老太婆,孩子正睡觉呢,你那么大声,不把孩子给吵醒了啊!”听到这样的话,不禁叫我咋舌。如果此时孩子听见自己的妈妈对奶奶用这样的口气说话,他今后对待自己的妈妈,将会是什么态度呢?真是难以想象。孩子是父母的镜子,孩子的表现常常是父母行为的投影,好的父母教出好的孩子,父母的行动会直接影响孩子的行为。如果想让孩子有所改变,那就要时刻检省自己的行为。包容比苛责更有效 经常听到一些父母说:“我家孩子上中学之后,反叛心理越来越严重,每次说不到几句就开始和我顶嘴,严重的时候索性不说话,我做的饭,孩子都不吃……” 问他是什么原因导致这样的结果时,回答可能是:孩子的成绩不理想,又下降了;老师说他上课答不出问题;最近孩子总是背着我打电话给同学等。其实,当父母在言行上表现出对孩子的不满时,孩子的反叛心理就开始作怪了,他们听不进父母的训斥和唠叨,和父母之间的冲突也就理所当然。父母不妨改变说话态度,以和缓的语气来和孩子说话,既能表达出意愿,还能缓解和孩子之间的矛盾。换一种表达方式,比方说:“是不是刚换了一位老师,你还没适应,所以成绩才会下滑啊?”“你上课答不出老师的问题,是不是因为没听清楚啊?”“你和同学打那么久的电话,是不是遇到什么不开心的事情了?跟爸爸(妈妈)说好不好?” 宽容孩子,首先要改变对孩子苛责的态度,选择用期待、赞赏的眼光来看待自己的孩子。这么一来父母会发现,孩子每天都在变化,每天都在逐渐接近优秀。一旦父母用这样的语气和态度对待孩子,孩子会感受到父母的改变,他就会愿意来接受父母,以正面的姿态出现在父母面前,亲子冲突也会减少很多。有个真实的案例。一个男孩成绩优异,他的父母也经常在外面炫耀自己的孩子有多么优秀。每次开家长会,这个孩子都会被选为学生代表发言,而他的爸爸也会代表家长讲话。开完家长会之后,他的爸爸都会说:“下次你也要考第一,不许给我丢脸。”多年来他都是这样的态度。直到有一次考试,这个男孩发烧,没考好,回家和他爸爸说了之后,迎接他的就是劈头盖脸的训斥。没想到,孩子竟然将所有书本撕碎了,精神出现了问题。

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