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◎中国“十大有影响力家教专家成墨初”新力作!
◎妈妈的观念,是孩子的起跑线!好妈妈培养男孩实用手册!让你的男孩成为自信自立、勇敢坚强、勤俭持家、奋发图强的男子汉!
◎男孩顽皮、好胜、自尊心强,喜欢冒险,也更不容易管教。妈妈应该怎样和男孩沟通?妈妈应该给男孩塑造一个怎样的成长环境?妈妈怎样才能培养男孩独立、坚韧、自信的品质?……在这里,将会给您答案!

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《谁说妈妈教不出男子汉(实战版)》是中国“十大最具影响力家教专家成墨初”最新力作!
妈妈的观念,是孩子的起跑线!好妈妈培养最棒男孩实用手册!让你的男孩成为自信自立、勇敢坚强、勤俭持家、奋发图强的男子汉!
男孩顽皮、好胜、自尊心强,喜欢冒险,也更不容易管教。妈妈应该怎样和男孩沟通?妈妈应该给男孩塑造一个怎样的成长环境?妈妈怎样才能培养男孩独立、坚韧、自信的品质?……在这里,将会给您答案!
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成墨初,●家教名家,2009年中国十大最具影响力家教作家。入选中国教育之声论坛2013年年度教育人物。
●腾讯教育名家博主,亲子教育终身从业者和践行者,多家教育机构顾问。多家亲子教育类刊物特邀撰稿人。出版亲子教育专著40余种,举办讲座近千场。上百家媒体报道过其人其作。
●作品常年盘踞国内各类图书畅销榜。作品荣入“2010-2011年十大家庭教育图书”、全国读书月推荐书目等。代表作《不打不骂教孩子60招》单本销量35万册,繁体版位居金石堂教育类月榜第一。个人作品总销量突破200万册。
●以“有感动、有感悟”为创作原则,开发出集实用性和娱乐性于一体的故事化新文体,让读者们在“悦读”中学到教子智慧。其作品以故事见长,说理精辟,被誉为“最会讲故事的教育人”。

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第01 章 男孩危机,妈妈必须解决的教育难题
你怎么像个女孩似的——发现男孩面临的教育危机/2
你是男子汉,不要哭——对男孩的教育至关重要/6
要守信用——教育男孩,妈妈是最重要的力量/10
我不要弹钢琴——男女孩性格不同,教育方法也不同/14
你就是太爱面子了——妈妈要掌握教育男孩的艺术 /18
第02 章 了解男孩,让他在符合规律的教育下长大
声音变粗是很正常的——了解从婴儿到男子汉的生理发育变化/24
只是对异性有好感——熟悉男孩的心理变化/28
你还是比较适合跆拳道——了解性格特征,才能因材施教/32
他变得疏远我了——找出男孩情感发展的规律/36
你的观察力真是太好了——男孩的潜能超乎想象/40
我就是要洗碗——叛逆不是捣乱,而是另有“隐情”/44
第03 章 打造坚强品质,小小男子汉就要更坚强
一定可以战胜这座山——用困难锻炼男孩的勇气/50
你要敢于面对批评——批评使人进步,让男孩乐纳批评/54
没事,我下次会赢得——无论输赢,男孩都应坦然面对/58
你们太沉不住气——让你的男孩更加镇定自若/62
你要像他一样勇敢——榜样,可以让你的男孩更坚强/66
你一定可以跑完——坚持再坚持,磨炼出坚强品质/70
第04 章 越早放手让男孩“实习”,男孩越早能独立
鞋带是这样系的——妈妈可以指导,但不能代替/76
你不答应我,我就哭——溺爱,是无知的爱,是最大的害/80
你自己想办法解答——独立思考是独立的最根本要求/84
我不知道选择哪个——放手,让男孩学会自己做选择/88
他在发明比赛中获奖了——体验加深认识,实践产生真知/92
去参加一下公益活动吧——男孩是社会动物,要学习应对社会/96
第05 章 能力是立足之本,塑造男孩的超强能力
让孩子自己约束自己——自制力是男孩一生的方向舵/102
知道先干什么再干什么——计划力,让男孩做事更有条理/106
妈妈,我的表现没让你失望吧——发掘、优化男孩的决策能力/110
“ 没有人是完美的”——反省,给男孩完善自我的机会 / 114
想想更简单的方法——随机应变,让男孩更加灵活/118
第06 章 学习是很重要的,妈妈要帮男孩提高成绩
学习还需要计划呀——制订计划,让学习更加轻松/124
按时完成学习目标——让目标成为男孩学习的催化剂/128
你有没有学习笔记——掌握学习方法,少做无用功/132
怎么分配时间才合理——学习科目多,合理分配时间是关键/136
妈妈,我去查资料了——自学,让男孩真正拥有学习的核心能力/140
课文背会了吗——高效记忆法,让学习省时省力/144
你是最棒的——学习应试技巧,考试才能考得好/148
第07 章 人离不开社交活动,从小培养男孩的社交能力
儿子,你讲得很棒 ——会表达,才能展开社交活动/154
我们都不喜欢他——矛盾很正常,独立解决即可/159
我很喜欢,谢谢阿姨——重视礼仪,做个社交场上的小绅士/163
阿姨,您今天真漂亮——赞美别人,也能让男孩受欢迎/167
让妹妹坐我这吧——乐于助人的男孩收获更大/172
放下面子,学会对他人微笑——让男孩拥有打动人心的微笑/176
我这就去买——说到做到,信守对他人的承诺/180
第08 章 财商决定孩子的钱途,给男孩不一般的财商教育
这书多少钱啊——观念决定行为,树立理财观念/186
再也不超支了——量入为出才是正确的消费观念/190
这是我打工赚的钱——自己赚钱自己花,鼓励男孩打工赚钱/194
今天你买菜贵了五毛钱——让男孩当家,锻炼理财能力/198
除了名牌,我什么都不要——改变认识,不让男孩追捧名牌/202
我有自己的账户啦 ——有备无患,让男孩养成储蓄的习惯/206
第09 章 心理决定人生,给男孩一颗美好的心灵
老爷爷需要别人帮助——让男孩的心灵充满爱/212
你筷子脏不脏呀——让你的男孩心怀感恩/216
把积木放进玩具箱——培养拥有责任心的男子汉/220
沿着河走,就能走出森林——让孩子的内心坚强起来/224
我留下来照顾奶奶——让男孩拥有一颗善解人意的心/228
一定可以说好英语——心态很重要,让男孩保持乐观心态/232
还是住到姥姥家吧——让理智控制内心的非理性/236
拿了第一又怎样——男孩争强好胜只是天性使然/240
第10 章 教育路上陷阱多,妈妈一定要避开
不想弹钢琴——不要过度指挥,剥夺男孩的自由/246
不听话,我就揍你——不要举着爱的旗号打骂男孩/250
我只想画画——只看重成绩,不重视综合素质培养/254
小辉是个小财迷——过度的经济奖励犹如饮鸩止渴/258
我儿子的钢琴弹得好——拒绝攀比,男孩不是你炫耀的工具/262
你都不知道他有多笨——孩子有自尊,不要随意打击他的自信/266
Book Abstract

你就是太爱面子了
——妈妈要掌握教育男孩的艺术
教育男孩是一门艺术,妈妈只有掌握了其中的要领,才能把男孩教育成男子汉,才能成为引导男孩成长的良师益友。
妈妈在教育男孩时,首先要对男孩进行品格教育,这是教育艺术最根本的要求之一。一个拥有良好品质的男孩才是值得称赞和骄傲的人,妈妈要学好这门艺术。
王梅是一个单亲妈妈,她的儿子飞飞是个品德良好的孩子,这一切都归功于王梅的努力。王梅从儿子小时候就告诉他,一个人是否拥有良好的品德,是赢得大家敬佩和尊重的根本。
在飞飞身上,有很多闪光点都让我很感动。有一次,王梅告诉我这么一件事。
周五晚上,飞飞从学校里带回一小袋好吃的饼干,是同学的妈妈从国外带回来分给大家的,飞飞也分到了一小袋。回来之后,飞飞小心翼翼地把饼干放在了桌子上,一动也没动。吃晚饭的时候,飞飞看到大家都到齐了,才高兴地拿起饼,给每个人都分了一块,而他自己则吃了碎了的饼干。
“飞飞,就这么一小袋饼干,你怎么还特意从学校带回来分给大家啊?”王梅看到飞飞的这一举动,很感动。
“因为这种饼干大家不容易吃到,所以我就拿了回来,跟你们一起分享。”飞飞一副理所当然的样子。
“那为什么你自己吃碎了的啊?”
“呵呵,因为我想让你们多吃点。”飞飞能这么想,我真的非常开心。
男孩的品质是比其他一切成绩更难能可贵的东西。培养男孩的优秀品质是妈妈不容忽视的重要课程之一,一个品质低下的人,永远难以得到大家的认可与尊重。让男孩拥有良好的性格也是妈妈要掌握的教育艺术,性格决定了男孩的命运,所以,妈妈要用正确的方法,塑造男孩的完美性格。
朋友叶子的班上有一个男生,性格特别好,几乎所有的人都喜欢他。每次班里选举班干部的时候,毫无悬念地大家都会选他。记得叶子刚教他们的时候,班里所有人都选这个男生当班长,她非常诧异。叶子教学的时间也不短,但从来没有遇到这样令人吃惊的事。
于是,叶子打电话给男生的妈妈,想要了解一些情况。那时,她有些怀疑,这个男生是不是贿赂同学了。但是,见了男生的妈妈之后,叶子就感觉自己错了。那位妈妈一看就是那种性格特别明朗、乐观干练的人。
“塑造男孩的性格是件非常重要的事,从他小时候我就开始教他,要时时为他人着想,要懂得奉献,要积极乐观。我常带他去参加公益活动,他越来越能体会到我的良苦用心。在长久的言行和实践教育之下,我儿子就形成了良好的性格,几乎谁都喜欢他。”
叶子还记得,当初听了男孩妈妈的话,顿时对她钦佩不已,在她长时间的艺术教育下,男孩几乎形成了完美的性格,不得不说,她真的很伟大。
在塑造男孩性格的时候,方法有很多,但选择适合的才是最重要的。这是一种需要很多妈妈不断探索的艺术,只要掌握了其中的精髓,相信男孩肯定会有良好的性格。除了性格,让男孩养成良好的习惯也是不能忽略的教育艺术,良好的习惯可以让男孩受益一生;相反,坏习惯会让男孩慢慢堕落,最后一事无成。妈妈要学会培养男孩良好的行为习惯。
栋栋与大多数的男孩一样,每次在家里做作业都磨磨蹭蹭,总是一边写,一边玩,本来一个小时就能完成的作业,他会拖到两个多小时。妹妹感觉很苦恼,便向我求助。在听了妹妹的详细诉说后,我来到栋栋房间看了看,指了指玩具说:“把这些玩具全都收起来。”
当天,栋栋放学回来,去房间转了一圈之后,跑出来不可思议地看着妈妈说:“妈妈,我的房间怎么变样子了?我的玩具都去哪里了?”
“你的房间是我收拾的”,妹妹解释道,“你的玩具我都收起来了,做完作业再玩。我今天给你们老师打电话了,他说一般情况下写完作业只需要一个小时,妈妈给你看着时间,你赶紧去写吧,写完了再出来。”
“可是,我想先吃饭。”栋栋又开始找借口拖延。
“一个小时后开饭,有你最喜欢吃的糖醋鱼,如果到时候你写不完,我们就只能先吃了。”一听说爸爸妈妈要先吃饭,栋栋立刻跑回房间写作业去了。
一个小时之后,栋栋非常得意地拿着作业出来了:“妈妈,你看看,我今天真是太厉害了,居然这么一会儿就写完作业了,我可以吃饭了吧。”
“嗯,今天的表现真不错”,妹妹满意地表扬他,“以后每天都要这样,知道了吗?你很快地写完作业就可以干喜欢的事了,这不是很好吗?”
栋栋听了乐坏了,傻呵呵地站在一旁挠头。慢慢地,栋栋就养成了专心做事的好习惯,很少再犯三心二意的毛病。
让男孩养成良好习惯的最好老师就是妈妈,最好的地方就是家里。妈妈要利用自己的优势,引导男孩养成让他们受益一生的良好习惯,这是给他们最好的礼物。不是每位妈妈都能教育出好男孩,如果不懂这门教育艺术,必然会出现很多不和谐的地方。所以,妈妈要有学习教育艺术的意识,只有这样,才能培养出优秀的男孩。
妈妈一定要对男孩有充分的了解,如此才能根据其特征找出最好的教育方式,培养出良好的性格和行为习惯。
成老师给妈妈的教子建议
1. 妈妈在教育男孩的过程中难免会进行批评,这也需要讲究艺术手法。批评男孩的时候不要在人多的地方,要顾全孩子的尊严。这样,男孩才能听进去妈妈的教育。
2. 妈妈还要多跟男孩交流,毕竟如果摸不透孩子心里在想什么,是很难进行正确教育的。不妨定期开个家庭会议,大家可以各抒己见,这是彼此沟通了解的好机会。
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    2-Day Express (Includes Alaska & Hawaii) starts at $19.99.

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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Yami Cross-store Free Shipping over $69
Yami 30-days Return

Yami-China FC

Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

Shipping Information

Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

Sold by JD@CHINA

Service Guarantee

Free shipping over 69
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Shipping

Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Seller will ship the orders within 1-2 business days. The logistics time limit is expected to be 7-15 working days. In case of customs clearance, the delivery time will be extended by 3-7 days. The final receipt date is subject to the information of the postal company.

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Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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