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孩子，你很重要

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孩子，你很重要

Name: 孩子，你很重要
Brand: Jingdong book
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★ 0~12岁孩子的父母、教育者必读

★ 畅销世界20国，芬兰式不责骂孩子的教养。利用五大法则，轻松养出自主思考的孩子

★ 独创“五指大法”，一手解决与孩子的沟通难题

★ 搭配活泼插画，一看就懂，马上应用！

★ 如果你希望摆脱焦虑的情绪，与孩子共同快乐成长，并从养育孩子的过程中获得成就感，那这就是你想要的书。

★ 学习使用书中的养育之道，慢慢地，你会发现自己对孩子的喊叫少了，与伴侣的争吵也少了，你会越来越享受与孩子在一起的亲子时光。

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《孩子，你很重要》教你以温和、尊重的方式建立与孩子的沟通桥梁，引导孩子走上独立自主的成长道路。

在孩子的成长过程中，大人和孩子会共同面对很多问题。对于孩子来说，有注意力不集中、不爱干净、不会和其他小朋友交往等很多不好的日常行为习惯；对于大人来说，则是如何让孩子听话，如何帮孩子摆脱上述问题，如何解决与其他大人的教养分歧……

芬兰式不责骂孩子的教养，利用五大法则，帮助解决孩子成长路上的困扰。

★ 法则1 好孩子是表扬出来的——什么样的赞美和鼓励最有效？

★ 法则2 活用“五指大法”——如何让孩子听话？

★ 法则3 大人统一了意见，孩子就会明白——出现了教养分歧怎么办？

★ 法则4 责备无用——10个小步骤，孩子的成长问题迎刃而解

★ 法则5 就算做错也不惩罚——6大步骤，引导孩子不再犯错

Author Description

本·富尔曼，拥有芬兰政府承认的心理治疗师资格，是芬兰家喻户晓的焦点解决的大师，芬兰国家电视台心理节目知名主持人。

★ 他最擅长的领域为幼儿期与青春期孩子的心理健康，针对孩子成长过程中可能会出现的各类问题，开发了多种教养方法。

★ 在过去的30 年中，他面向心理专家、学校教职员、医务人员、家长、企业开办了无数训练班。他的工作室不仅遍布欧洲，美国、澳大利亚、新西兰、日本、墨西哥、加拿大、新加坡、马来西亚、中国、以色列、埃及等国也有他的身影。

★ 他已出版了20 余本著作，而这些作品也被翻译成了各种语言。

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我的信念是：孩子们生来就具足资源，他们能够克服自己的困难、能够自己解决自己的问题。我们的职责不是解决他们的问题而是欣赏他们的天赋，为他们的创造力注入活力，这样我们就可以尽力做到不干扰孩子的成长之路了。

——本·富尔曼

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推荐序给孩子成长的力量

自序孩子需要尊重与欣赏

法则1 好孩子是表扬出来的

● 多表扬孩子

● 掌握多种表扬方法

表扬方法1 用感谢表扬

表扬方法2 间接表扬

表扬方法3 不说出来的表扬

表扬方法4 用问题表扬

表扬方法5 表扬孩子的努力

表扬方法6 用幽默表扬

注意1 如果孩子不喜欢被表扬

注意2 所有孩子一起表扬，防止嫉妒

注意3 分享功劳，防止嫉妒

注意4 不要比较

法则2 用五指大法让孩子听话

● 孩子不会老老实实听话

● 用五指大法让孩子听话

大拇指—接触先让孩子把耳朵“转过来”

食指—要求明确告诉孩子“你希望他怎么做”

中指—好处让孩子充分理解缘由

无名指—鼓励鼓励孩子，调动孩子的积极性

小指—约定确认约定，定好暗号

法则3 大人必须建立统一战线

● 大人们要通力合作

● 大人之间的意见分歧后患无穷

方法1 表达感谢，宽慰对方

方法2 大人统一了意见，孩子就会明白

方法3 重点讨论解决方法

方法4 征求对方的意见

方法5 化批判为对话

方法6 细心体贴，但也得有一说一

法则4 别问“你为什么要这样”

● 10 个小步骤，帮你找到解决方案

要点1 找准孩子需要学习的技能

要点2 调动孩子的积极性

要点3 成为孩子的坚实后盾 99

法则5 别再惩罚犯错的孩子了

● 惩罚不会让孩子学乖

● 教导孩子要为自己的行为负责

步骤1 告诉孩子他做了什么

步骤2 让他认清自己给别人添了什么麻烦

步骤3 帮助孩子思考“该怎么道歉”

步骤4 帮助孩子思考“该怎么弥补”

步骤5 让孩子保证永不再犯

步骤6 给孩子做贡献的机会

要是孩子不肯认错怎么办？

Introduction

自序：孩子需要尊重与欣赏

多年以来，世界各地关于如何成功教养孩子的问题讨论不断。究竟是严厉的方式更为有效，还是柔和的方式更为有效？有人认为，成功的施教必须借助严厉的教育方式，也有人认为，只有柔和的教育方式才能带来更好的效果。而我本人则青睐后者，因为我受到了中国的古老智慧的启发。两千多年以前，中国一位名为老子的圣贤曾提出“以柔克刚，以弱制胜”的哲学。有一次，他的学生问他：“您如何证明柔能克刚，弱能制胜？”老子答道：“如果你觉得我说得不对，可以看看老人家的嘴里。那坚硬的牙齿早都没有了，但柔软的舌头却还在！”

本书讲述的是如何以一种柔和而尊重的方式教育孩子，如何在教育中让孩子和父母都获益匪浅。本书愿意帮助家长及其他照料者摆脱焦虑的情绪，学会在施教的过程中欣赏孩子、获得自我满足。此书献给所有想要重拾养儿乐趣的人们，尽情去享受孩子的成长、学习与成熟的过程吧！

世界上存在一种普遍的认识：为了孩子的健康成长，父母们必须让孩子尊敬自己，完全按照自己的意愿行事。但时过境迁，过去的方法已经不再适用。现在的孩子，无论来自哪里，都与以前大为不同了。在孩子犯错的时候去指责甚至惩罚他们，似乎都无济于事，甚至会让事情更加糟糕。现在的孩子渴望得到尊重，渴望平等的交谈，愿意同父母及其他照料者们共同解决问题。

现在，我们面对的是新一代的孩子，他们需要得到不一样的对待。他们是有智慧的“小大人”，能够理解我们的心意，愿意同我们一起去解决问题。当然，这需要我们温和地与他们沟通，即使在孩子们犯错误的时候也能让他们觉得自己受到了尊重与欣赏，而不应该用规则、要求、惩罚与结果来对待他们。

柔和地施教，这不仅能够愉悦你的孩子，也能让你摆脱紧张与焦虑的情绪，获得更大的快乐。学习使用本书中的养育之道，慢慢地，你会发现，你对孩子的喊叫少了，你与伴侣的争吵也少了，总而言之，你会越来越享受与孩子在一起的亲子时光。孩子是国家的未来，今天我们教育孩子的方式也将成为他们日后在学习、工作以及社会生活中对待他人的方式。

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