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天津卫视授权,献给所有为爱挣扎的你们!
爱情保卫战,为你的情感道路保驾护航!
赵川、涂磊、阎品红、瞿伟、陆琪、寇乃馨倾情推荐!
《爱情保卫战》作为天津卫视一档连续播出六年,拥有粉丝无数的情感节目,想要将它集结成书是有一定困难的,世上的爱情千千万,该如何选择才能成为众多爱情中的典型。栏目组精心挑选了他们认为很具有年轻人恋爱代表的典型案例,阐述了众多普通人在爱情中需要面临的问题,通过嘉宾和导师的点评,让当事人走出困境。
图书的体裁甚至比节目本身更加丰富一些,还会加入点评和感悟。节目毕竟时间有限,嘉宾也好、导师也罢,更多的还是在针对情感案例本身,而点评和感悟就将问题升华、拓展开来,更适合读者们在阅读之后,仔细思考,爱情究竟出了什么问题。
爱情并不是神话传说,爱情也不仅限于甜蜜和浪漫,它和我们一样也会“生病”,所以对症下药,才能保卫我们的爱情。

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《爱情保卫战》是天津卫视自2010年推出的一档情感类栏目,节目把现实中青年男女在恋爱过程中遇到的各种困惑与矛盾搬上舞台,双方通过交流、沟通与争辩把内心的痛苦与困惑全盘托出。节目现场邀请情感导师为情侣提供理性分析、科学考量、恋爱指导和情感忠告,倡导正确的恋爱观、婚姻观、幸福观。
自开播以来,节目中有很多情侣都讲述了他们的情感问题,这就好比是你我之间情感故事的缩影,都投射在这个舞台之上。有的人在爱情和面包之中无法抉择;有的人愿意为爱践踏着尊严;有的人看不清自己的内心;有的人完全不懂情为何物……
我们愿意为每一段值得坚持的“爱”护航,愿意去捍卫一段真正的情感,只得一人心,白首不相离,并不是遥远的传说,而是真实发生在我们身边的情感。爱情保卫战,保卫你的爱情!

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《爱情保卫战》是天津卫视自2010年推出的一档情感类栏目,节目把现实中青年男女在恋爱过程中遇到的各种困惑与矛盾搬上舞台,双方通过交流、沟通与争辩把内心的痛苦与困惑全盘托出。节目现场邀请情感导师为情侣提供理性分析、科学考量、恋爱指导和情感忠告,倡导正确的恋爱观、婚姻观、幸福观。同时也邀请明星夫妻等社会人士指导。
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世间的恋人千万种,可爱情的故事翻来覆去就几种,但要把这仅有的几种版本点评六年,言辞不重复,形式不一样,分析更细腻,观点更独特,难!况且,我每次都是*后发言,总结、提炼、补充、升华的责任舍我其谁?既是压力也是责任。但是就冲着观众们认可的掌声,值!冲着被点醒的当事人,值!冲着被保卫的爱情,值!《爱情保卫战》是我投入*多,也是收获*多,纠结*多,感慨*多......等等*多的节目!投入*多是刻苦学习,收获*多是观众认可,纠结*多是喜怒交加,感慨*多是阅尽爱情无数!
——著名主持人、评论人涂磊

6年《爱保》才出*本书,在电视迭代如此快的今天算是一个“缓慢”的传奇了。我看到了不一样的风格,编辑把对话体变成了故事体。在我看来,这正是《爱保》的节目风格,叙事为专家点评铺垫,故事为服务生活铺垫,结果为爱情理念铺垫。编辑很巧妙的用他的观点来提点故事,用故事本身来诉说情缘。
——著名主持人赵川
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第一章 守得住底线的,才叫爱情
第一节 爱一个人真的要低到尘埃里吗?......002
第二节 为什么男人都喜欢和别人搞暧昧?......018
第三节 爱情,容不得比较和试探......030
第四节 爱情的最底线便是忠诚......042
第二章 用最大的胸怀包容爱情
第一节 不完美的我,却值得你对我好......054
第二节 请你学会爱屋及乌......070
第三节 小女人也要大胸怀......081
第四节 每个人都有一段过去......094
第三章 安全感是最无形的保障
第一节 恋爱中最大的雷区——前任......112
第二节 爱情切忌猜来猜去......124
第三节 究竟用什么来表现爱意?......136
第四章 爱情与面包的选择
第一节 学会为自己的虚荣买单......154
第二节 我的目标是做一只“金丝雀”吗?......166
第三节 感情和物质该如何选择?......183
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第一节.爱一个人真的要低到尘埃里吗?
张爱玲说:“见了他,她变得很低很低,低到尘埃里。但她心里是欢喜的,从尘埃里开出花来。”在众多爱情故事中,我们常常会见到这样的模式:某一方很强,而另一方很弱,这里所说的强弱绝非是物质上的条件,而是指在爱情中的地位。
理想的爱情,双方的地位应该是平等的,然而,有人曾经说过这样一句话:“谁爱得深、爱得多,谁就处于被动的一方。”也有一个爱情中经典的问题:“你是选择你爱的人,还是选择爱你的人?”其实这些无一例外地都表现出爱情中的一个现象,地位不平等、情感的付出不平等。由于这些不平导致了内心中的不安定,或者变得愈发强势,或者变得愈发孱弱,而这些都不利于爱情的“保鲜”。
原来我一直是别人的替代品(节目日期2015年12月2日)
主人公:小沈(男,25岁,来自浙江,文员)&小秋(女,22岁,来自云南,文员)
“保卫战”主题:男方坚决要分手,女方苦苦挽留
25岁的小沈刚刚结束了一段让他心碎的爱情,带着满心的伤痛,他远走他乡,决定到一个没有人认识他的地方——丽江,独自去疗伤。人们常说,想要缓解失恋所带来的痛苦,就需要马上去投入到另一段爱情当中。小沈同样是这样做的,在这里,他认识了这个故事里的女主角——小秋。
小秋在小沈下榻的客栈里做前台服务,她看到这个从外地来的游客独来独往,很是孤单,就产生了怜悯之心。于是,她整日陪着小沈,带着他去丽江、大理游玩,推荐本地的美食。这样的时光轻松而自在,让小沈一时之间忘记了失恋的痛苦。谁说失恋必须要经过33天的痛苦洗礼呢?
在丽江游玩的大半个月的时间后,小沈和小秋终于走到了一起。但爱情并不只有快乐的游玩时间,紧接着,摆在他们面前的就是现实的选择——小沈在杭州有自己的工作,他只是为了躲避失恋的痛苦才到达的丽江,最终他仍然要回到杭州,回到属于他的生活。而小秋则是丽江本地人,在这里她有亲人、有工作,有属于她的世界。
还有一次,小秋回丽江一段时间,小沈的前女友恰好回到杭州,和小沈约好外出吃饭,前女友一眼就看到了小秋养的可爱的小狗,于是就开心地抱着小狗照了相。但没想到的是,两个人在出门的时候没有关好房门,小狗自己跑了出去,丢了。小秋回来之后没有看到狗,便询问小沈。小沈担心小秋难过,就含含糊糊地说被领导借走玩几天,可小秋最终在小沈的手机里看到了前女友和小狗的照片,也知道了真相。
经过这两件事情之后,小秋感到非常不安,一方面,她很爱小沈,也自认为为这段爱情付出了很多,可是小沈仿佛一点都不领情,另一方面,小沈和前女友之间的联系让小秋觉得自己活在前女友的阴影里。于是她开始捕风捉影,小沈和任何一个女孩有过接触都能够让她变身成为侦探。直到小沈无法忍受,提出了分手……
【丘比特问卷专家妙语】
情感导师涂磊:小秋站在舞台上说了这么多话,几乎所有的话的潜台词都透露着一句话——我哪里不如她?而小沈在台上说的话的背后含义也只有一句话——你哪里都不如她!小秋的心里非常不甘,有着年轻靓丽的外貌,并且从千里之外,为了爱情心甘情愿来到小沈的身边,我哪里不如她呢?但可惜的是,男生的所作所为都在印证着“你哪里都不如她”。两个女生如果真的放在天平上,一定是各有各的优点和缺点,可在小沈的心里,一方面是因为他的确还爱着前女友,而另一方面说出来很残忍,那就是小秋太过作践自己。如果前女友现在坐在下面看,不知道内心会作何感想?如果她心地善良一些,就会觉得这个傻小子,竟然因为我留下来的爱情伤痛会变成这样,不仅伤害了小秋也伤害了自己;如果她不够善良,或许现在正在偷笑,想不到我竟然有这等魅力,即便是甩了小沈,她还对我念念不忘。这样太过残忍,小秋已经把自己作践成这个样子,也无法赢得小沈的爱情。爱情是一门精准的科学,说爱几秒就几秒,说不爱就是不爱,偏偏有的人愿意自欺欺人。事已至此,只能对小秋说一句话:“垃圾是放错位置的人才。”或许在小沈这里,她不是真正的爱人,只是一颗供他疗伤的药丸,但在真正爱她的人身边,她就是那个人心口的宝贝,所以不要认为自己一文不值,也不要为了他不爱自己而感到心灰意冷。
……
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我与《爱情保卫战》共同成长——涂磊
如今,《爱情保卫战》于我而言,已经不再是一档电视节目,而是责任!如同对于爱人、孩子的责任一般,虽然这种责任和所有的责任一样,最初都是从不经意开始的。《爱情保卫战》是我做的时间最长的节目,而一开始,之所以参与,不过是像普通节目做客一样,万万没想到这一做,就是六年!
中国的情感节目不知从何时开始有了情感嘉宾(有的叫情感观察员,现在叫导师),大概是十几年前吧,而我是第一批,那时的我还年轻,不到三十!直到今天,放眼望去,当年活跃在情感节目中的老师,所剩无几!说实话,我挺自豪!没有什么事情可以随随便便,做节目嘉宾也是如此,如果只是混个通告费,迟早有混出局的那一天。要知道制作方和观众都不是傻子,你若没有一些干货或者不坚持学习,离开是迟早的事!而《爱情保卫战》是我投入最多,也是收获最多,纠结最多,感慨最多……各种最多的节目!投入最多是刻苦学习,收获最多是观众认可,纠结最多是喜怒交加,感慨最多是阅尽爱情无数!

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