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婴幼儿行为心理学

婴幼儿行为心理学

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6岁以下的孩子不会表达,但是他们的肢体语言可以告诉我们很多东西,这对把握孩子心理,找到照顾和教育他们的方法及其有帮助。龙老师在教养自己的孩子和观察身边人教养孩子的过程中,结合自己的行为心理学专业知识,总结出适合现今婴幼儿心理发展的教育方案,让大家尽快找到切实适合教养孩子的方法。

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《婴幼儿行为心理学》是著名行为心理学作家龙春华的新作;她针对0~5岁孩子的行为举止,从孩子的面部表情、惯用的行为、异常的行为以及说话等方面展开阐述,以真实的事例将难懂的行为心理学知识通俗化,切实解决新爸爸新妈妈面临的育儿实际问题,让新爸新妈迅速读透孩子心,找到科学、0烦恼教养孩子的方法。

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龙春华,20世纪80年代出生,畅销书作家,精通心理学,代表作有《行为心理学:瞬间读懂他人小动作背后隐藏的秘密》(已在台湾出版繁体,销售超15万册)、《行为心理学2:为什么我们总不能控制自己的行为》、《再苦也要笑一笑》(已出第3版)、《北大人生哲学课》、《心理调节术》、《推销攻心术》等10余部作品。

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第一章 读懂宝宝哭的语言,宝宝用哭的方式表达自己的内心需求

宝宝哭声抑扬顿挫,时间很短一一生理性啼哭 /2

宝宝白天睡得好好的,一到晚上就哭闹不休一一小儿夜啼 /6

宝宝从梦中惊醒后放声大哭,身体轻微抽搞一一惊吓性啼哭 /11

宝宝边哭边扭头寻找乳头,并舔嘴唇一一需要性啼哭 /15

宝宝突然哭闹,一阵一阵的一一病理性啼哭 /19

摔倒后,越哄哭得越厉害一一紧张恐惧性啼哭 /24

一不如意就坐在地上大哭大闹一一求获满足啼哭 /28

宝宝上幼儿园时号啕大哭一一分离焦虑期 /32

宝宝吐气泡一一要添辅食了 /38

宝宝瘪起小嘴看似委屈一一对父母有所要求 /42

宝宝红脸竖眉一一要大便 /45

宝宝先自己笑再把笑脸转向妈妈一一想要和妈妈分享喜悦心情 /49

宝宝双目凝视,紧紧盯着-样东西一一他感到好奇了 /53

宝宝眼睛无神一一身体不适的信号 /57

宝宝胶牙切齿一一表达自己的愤怒 /61

第三章 读懂宝宝的手部语言,宝宝会借助手势来传达内心信息

解放宝宝双手,让他邀你一起玩 /66

宝宝握紧拳头一一紧张害怕的表现 /69

宝宝张开双臂扑向熟人一一表示欢迎 /73

宝宝的小手爱抓拿东西了一一手的敏感期让他开始探索世界 /76

宝宝不停地来回倒东西一一他正在进行促进手腕灵活发展练习 /80

宝宝总喜欢敲敲打打一一他在寻找探索世界的方式 /83

第四章 留意宝宝的惯用身体语言,宝宝通过肢体动作表现心理活动

当陌生人一抱他就大哭一一宝宝开始认生了 /88

宝宝总是粘着妈妈一一宝宝安全感需求来了 /92

宝宝总是独占、抢别人的东西一一提防占有欲滋生 /96

宝宝总喜欢打断大人说话一一渴望引起注意 /100

宝宝总是喜欢上下走爬一一走的敏感期到来 /107

第五章 了解宝宝异常行为举止,宝宝用特有的行为表示各种敏感期的到来

宝宝总是爱吃手脚一一口腔敏感期 /114

宝宝总是喜欢反复说一个词一一语言敏感期 /118

宝宝爱不停地扔东西一一空间敏感期 /122

宝宝总是喜欢 破坏 东西一一精细动作敏感期 /126

宝宝总是去捡小玩意儿一一细微事物敏感期 /130

宝宝总爱模仿他人一一模仿敏感期 /134

宝宝热爱顺序生活了一一秩序敏感期 /138

宝宝不吃被胶过的食物了一一审美敏感期 /142

宝宝强烈要求认识每一个字一一阅读敏感期 /146

第六章 观察宝宝的个人喜好,从宝宝的个人喜好看懂他的内心世界

宝宝总爱问为什么一一询问期到了 /152

宝宝总喜欢反复昕一个故事一一宝宝在不断深入思考理解世界 /156

宝宝总是喜欢乱写乱画一一书写敏感期已经爆发 /160

宝宝对物品情有独钟一一从"完全依恋"转为"完全独立" /164

宝宝与小朋友抢玩具打架一一自我意识正在发展 /168

宝宝总是喜欢当大孩子的"小跟班"一一崇拜心理滋生 /172

宝宝"人来疯"一一表现欲让他渴望得到表扬 /176

第七章 解读宝宝身体姿势,宝宝身体姿势透露其内心秘密

宝宝挺直身体一一表示反抗 /182

宝宝爱跺脚一一表达自己的不满 /186

宝宝老是抱住妈妈不放手一一在表达爱意 /190

宝宝爱胶人一一亲热的表现 /193

宝宝总是胶衣服一一不安感正在增加 /197

第八章 认真倾听宝宝说话,从宝宝的言谈中听懂他的心话

"那个是我的l谁都不许碰l"一一宝宝开始建立自我意识 /202

自言自语"尔怎么了"一一外部语言正在向内部语言过渡 /206

"不,我不要"一一第一反抗期来了 /209

"我要踢死尔"一一诅咒敏感期让宝宝用语言伤人 /213

"谁来帮我拧水龙头"一一依赖性强让宝宝干等待 /217

"妈妈,我是从哪里来的?"一一宝宝的第一个性迷惑 /221

Book Abstract

宝宝对物品情有独钟——从“完全依恋”转为“完全独立”

妈妈早知道

在宝宝6个月至3岁时,很多妈妈发现宝宝对一些柔软物情有独钟,比如,小熊、小被等,不管走到哪里都要抱到哪里。如果妈妈不让宝宝抱,宝宝就会哇哇大哭。很多妈妈觉得宝宝这种行为不正常,强制性地将宝宝喜欢的柔软物拿走,结果让宝宝小小的心灵感到更加不安。

其实,对宝宝来说,他是想从一些柔软物中获得安慰感,是从“完全依恋”转为“完全独立”的一个过渡期。妈妈应该做的是给宝宝更多拥抱,增强宝宝的安全感。

龙妈妈的育儿事

六一儿童节,我跟老公带小龙去红领巾公园玩。那里有很多小朋友,他们玩沙子、滑滑梯、玩跷跷板、荡秋千……玩得不亦乐乎!

小龙一脱掉鞋,就走进沙子堆里,撅着屁股,玩起了沙子。他一会儿用铲子铲沙子,一会儿又用手抓沙子,有时候还把沙子铲桶里,再倒出来,然后再铲进去,再倒出来。看他玩得那么专注,我开心地笑了。

就在这时,一个陌生的声音在我的耳旁响起:“你看小弟弟一个人玩得多好,你去跟小弟弟玩,好不好?”

我回头一看,一个两岁左右的小女孩,长得眉目清秀,她怯怯地看着儿子,紧紧地靠在妈妈的怀里,不愿下地。我笑着说:“是呀,快来跟小弟弟玩!”

小女孩又怯生生地看了看我,又朝妈妈怀里挤了挤。这时,我注意到她的手里一直紧紧地抓着一只小熊,那只小熊看上去很长时间没洗了,旧旧的、脏脏的。

小女孩妈妈见我注意到了她手上的小熊,很不好意思地说道:“晶晶就喜欢这个小熊,不管做什么,都要自己抱着。白天玩的时候抱着,晚上睡觉也抱着。只要一拿开她就哭闹不停,我觉得她不正常,也不知道怎么回事?”

妈妈在说这话时,我看见小女孩的眉头皱了皱。于是,我笑着说:“看来,她很喜欢这只小熊。”

妈妈还想说什么,我打断了她的话说道:“晶晶,快来跟弟弟一起玩,你来看看弟弟在玩什么呢?”妈妈也附和着说道:“是呀,快去跟弟弟玩玩吧!”

晶晶看了看儿子,又看了看手里的小熊。我见此便说:“你可以抱着小熊来跟弟弟玩呀!”

听我这么一说,她慢慢地从妈妈怀里下来了,再慢慢地走到儿子面前,一手抱着小熊,一手抓沙子玩。

在她跟儿子玩时,我坐在那位妈妈旁边,压低声音说:“像孩子这种情况,不要当着她的面说她不正常。孩子需要正能量。再说了,两岁左右的宝宝对柔软物情有独钟是正常的,因为这些柔软物跟妈妈身上的头发、衣服,甚至乳头都非常接近,当妈妈离开时,她会感到不安,所以,她就用这些东西代替妈妈以获得安慰感。其实,这也标示着宝宝正在从‘完全依恋’转为‘完全独立’。妈妈一方面要将孩子喜欢的东西清洗干净,另一方面要多陪宝宝,多拥抱她,帮助她尽快度过这一时期。”

那位妈妈听了我的话,若有所思。过了好一会儿才说:“听你这么一说,我想起晶晶这一行为的前因后果了。前段时间,我出差了一个月,回来以后,就发现了她这一习惯。我一直试图把小熊拿走,都以失败告终。谢谢你的提醒!”

我笑了笑说:“没事,咱都是孩子的妈妈!”

说完之后,我跟她一起陪孩子们玩沙子。我指导小龙,她指导晶晶。孩子们玩得很开心,我们也很开心!

妈妈烦恼一扫光

随着宝宝越长越大,妈妈的烦恼也越来越多,比如,宝宝对某种物品产生了强烈的依赖感,睡觉时要抱着,白天出去玩时仍然抱着,好像一刻也不能离开。如果妈妈一把宝宝喜爱的物品拿走,他就哇哇大哭。就像故事中的晶晶不管走到哪里,都要抱着小熊。很多妈妈认为宝宝这一行为不正常,感到焦急万分。

其实,在成长的过程中,每个孩子都会或多或少地对某种物品产生一定的依恋。宝宝对物品的依恋是他从“完全依恋”转为“完全独立”的过渡期间所产生的行为。这种依恋行为通常发生在宝宝6个月到3岁之间,是一种正常的行为现象,妈妈不必强制改变宝宝这一行为。

也许有妈妈会问“既然是一种正常行为,为什么有些宝宝对物品依赖不强烈,而有些宝宝却对物品依赖那么强烈呢”。其实,这跟妈妈有很大的关系,有些宝宝因为妈妈能够长时间陪着他,让他感受到了妈妈的强烈爱意,建立了安全型依恋感,他对物品的依恋就没有那么强烈。

而有些宝宝却很不幸,有些妈妈在宝宝四个多月时就去上班了。宝宝因为长时间见不到妈妈,心里产生了强烈的不安感,尤其是白天转入黑夜时,宝宝想睡觉又害怕失去知觉时,不安全感就大大地增加了。每当这时,宝宝就会把某些物品作为妈妈的象征或替代品,从中获得安慰。对他们来说,这些物品就代表妈妈与安全,也是他们从“完全依恋”转为“完全独立”的拐杖。那么,妈妈应该如何帮助宝宝度过这一时期呢?

平常多拥抱宝宝。

妈妈平常应该多拥抱宝宝,多拍抚孩子的背部和头顶,以解其“皮肤饥饿”。即使宝宝做错了事,妈妈也应该拥抱他。因为妈妈无条件的拥抱会让宝宝觉得妈妈在他身边,产生妈妈爱他,他很安全的感觉,从而产生强烈的安全感。

多找替代品。

当妈妈发现宝宝对某一种物体特别感兴趣时,妈妈应该用宝宝感兴趣的其他东西来转移注意力,多找一些相似的替代品。这样,宝宝喜欢的东西一多,他对某一种物体就不会建立起特殊的喜好,也更难对某一件物品保持强烈的依恋。

宝宝睡觉时,要进行睡前安慰。

在宝宝睡觉时,妈妈最好一边拍着宝宝,一边给宝宝讲故事,让宝宝自然安详入睡。很多宝宝就是因为害怕在黑暗、不安中,而对某一种物体产生了特殊爱好。所以,妈妈应该等宝宝睡着以后再离开,这样就能让宝宝感到安全。

小脚踩在大脚上前进

游戏目标:锻炼宝宝身体平衡力与协调性,增进亲子感情。

游戏开始啦

1妈妈让宝宝与自己面对面,让宝宝的两只小脚丫放在自己的大脚背上,妈妈弯着腰,紧拉着宝宝的小手向后一步一步地退着走。

2妈妈一边走,一边念儿歌:“一二一,一二一,一二三四五六七,走呀走,妈妈宝宝手拉手,小脚踩在大脚上,迈开步子向前走。”从起点一直走到终点。

3妈妈让宝宝背对自己,小脚放到自己的两只脚背上,扶住宝宝向前走。

4 妈妈一边走,一边念儿歌:“一二一,一二一,一二三四五六七,走呀走,妈妈宝宝手拉手,小脚踩在大脚上,迈开步子向前走。”从终点回到终点。

5 妈妈改变方向,让宝宝体会朝不同方向走的乐趣。

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Jingdong book

步步惊心.上

$41.82
Sold by JD@CHINA
Jingdong book

步步惊心.下

$41.82
Sold by JD@CHINA

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