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其实对一个人的人生来说，心理学是极具意义的 ：有助 于了解自己，加强自我修养；解除内心的困惑和难题 ；为自 己增加人脉……总之，人的心理现象是多种多样的， 它们之 间也存在着错综复杂的关系。在这样一个竞争激烈的 社会之 中，面对这些，人们有必要对心理学有一个深层次的 了解， 而王宇编著的这本《不让别人看懂你》就是供读者畅 游心理世界并且解开一 些疑惑的最好平台。
心理学与人们的生活是息息相关的，本书不仅能 为人们 带来乐趣，更重要的是，它更是一本智慧之籍。
当你充分地运用心理学的力量为你在各类人际关 系中带来 的各种不同资源时，你的人生自然会变得轻松自如、 由你掌 控！书中的一些知识较有针对性与指导性，在不忽视 实用性的 基础上，增加了整书的可操作性，是不可多得的智慧 宝典。
在本书的指点之下，你将会意识到心理学的力量 无处不 在，从而在阅读中接受书中观点的指点与引导。
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第一章 不要让语言拆穿了你
语言需要思考加工
千万不要直言不讳
言语要懂得约束
人际中的语言艺术
恰到好处的谎言
第二章 肢体动作防护内心
在公共场合的举止
从走路姿势窥探内心
遇事做出积极的反应
坐姿也可以表现内心
小动作可以折射心境
第三章 不要让眼神出卖了你
眼神中的非语言行为
不要让自卑的眼神出现
热情积极的眼神传递
不要在眼睛里写上谎言
坚定的眼神带来无穷的力量
第四章 让表情武装你的内心
不要把心情挂在脸上
非语言的沟通和交流
微笑，是生活中的通行证
要懂得适当控制自己的表情
通过微表情便可知世界
第五章 让情绪成为你的保护色
不良情绪勿放工作中
抛开负面的情绪
克服紧张情绪，赢得自我
为人处世不要锋芒毕露
好情绪带来好心情
学会调整情绪很重要
第六章 看穿你的利器就是习惯
养成良好的餐桌礼仪
公共场合需要注意的习惯
吹牛背后所隐藏的危机
积极文明的人更容易被人肯定
不要有令人厌恶的口头禅
不要让“拖延症”拖你的后腿
第七章 生活中不要被别人看透
人际交往需要把好“度”
有时太认真会输的很惨
懂得“境由心生”的涵义
适当地让心情释放休息
从态度中看出你的诚意
不要被上司牵着鼻子走
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东汉末年，曹操率领83万大军向江南进攻。这一 天他刚对陆军大寨和 水军大寨视察完毕，天色已晚，只见月光下的长江就 好像一条宽大的白绸带 子，江水平静，曹操的心情非常好，下令在大船上摆 开酒席，弹奏音乐，大 宴文武官员。这时一群乌鸦叫着飞向南方。曹操问： 夜里乌鸦叫什么？有人 回答：月光明亮，乌鸦还以为天已经亮了，才又飞又 叫。曹操又大笑，拿起 兵器，泼酒祭江之后说：“我持这支槊，破黄巾，擒 吕布，灭袁术，收袁绍， 深入塞北，直抵辽东，纵横天下！”说着，面对着长 江的美景曹操朗诵了他 的“对酒当歌，人生几何”这首著名的诗《短歌行》 。文武官员都叫好。唯 独扬州刺史刘馥高声说：“大战在即，将士们马上就 要去战场上拼命了，为 什么丞相要说这样不吉利的话呢？”曹操问他：我说 了什么不吉利话？刘馥 说：你的诗里“月明星稀，乌鹊南飞，绕树三匝，无 枝可依”，就不吉利。
曹操听了之后非常的生气，说：“你竟敢扫我的兴！ ”一槊将刘馥刺死了。刘 馥已经跟随曹操了很多年，功劳也非常的多。而且他 “直言不讳”地也将当 前的形势讲了出来：马上就要大战了，千万不能骄傲 。但他当着众多官员， 一点也没有顾及曹操的面子，结果丢掉了自己的性命 。
从这个例子中我们可以看出来，不管有多么密切 的关系，你有多少功劳， 对他人都不能当众刺激。你这样做的话，就算是心胸 宽广的人听了之后心里 也会不舒服的。从这个地方就可以看出来，不分场合 ，不注意方式方法的 “直言不讳”的结果一般情况下都不会太好。
秘密在每个人的心里都会隐藏着一点。这些秘密 保守住了，对别人和自 己非常的有好处。秘密，并不一定就是损人的，说不 定也是为了某些人的利 益才保守住这些秘密的，每句话都可以告诉别人，这 种情况几乎不可能出现。
之所以人要有自己的秘密，有时是为了大局，或者不 想伤害了别人，做人做 事，这一门学问真的很大，样样都坦白直率，有时候 也并非是一件好的事情。
有时把真相和真话赤裸裸地说出来，这件事情真的太 可怕了。
有一个公司在开年终总结大会的时候，经理讲话 时出了个错，他说：“今 年我公司利润上升，到现在已经创利230万元……” 话音还没有落的时候， 一个中层领导站起来，冲着台上正讲得眉飞色舞的经 理纠正说：“讲错了！ 讲错了！这个数字是年中的，现在已达到430万元… …”结果全场的人都非 常的震惊，把经理羞得面红耳赤，顿时情绪低落，这 一句突如其来的话把他 的面子丢得干干净净。
说话没有遮拦的人，认为那些迂回曲折的表达方 式和人际交往中常用的 外交辞令表现的都是软弱和虚伪，他们认为不管是什 么样的话在任何场合都 可以说，不择场合和对象，并且经常以自己的“直言 不讳”而感到非常的骄 傲。然而，这样的人永远都不可能取得太大的成功， 尽管人们相信他们是诚 实的。
口没遮掩的人，一般都是心里面藏不住话，发现 别人的疏忽就想告诉其 他人，说话不经过脑子，直截了当地指出，别人是什 么样的感受他一点都不 在乎。这样的人，是个“直肠子”，想到什么说什么 ，没有城府，人们最忌 讳在众人面前丢脸、难堪，这一点他们却不知道。
现实生活中，因为说话太直、太过等有失分寸的 原因，导致非常多本来 不应该有的损失；因为办事太死、太乱等无视尺度的 原因，许多本该成功的 事马上化为乌有。所以，注意分寸在说话办事的时候 非常重要。
看起来开口说话非常的简单，实际上却不是那么 容易，会说不会说之间 有很大的区别。古人云：“一言可以兴邦，一言也可 以误国。” 苏秦凭借着自己的三寸不烂之舌身挂六国相印， 诸葛亮靠经天纬地之言 而比百万之师还要强大。
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