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★一本社交白痴的雷区大全——教你如何识别火车上、办公室、餐厅里战战兢兢的“社恐星人”。

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每天都自我感觉那么好，你不觉得无聊吗？本书是“社恐星人”的雷区说明书，获得超400万英国人泪赞的“自黑”大全。

拥挤狭窄的车水马龙，来来往往的人际社交，总有人说我们拧巴、阴郁，喜欢和自己作对，好像头上永远飘着一朵乌云。而8000千米外，常年笼罩在阴雨之中的“腐国”人民，即使沐浴着辉煌的历史文化，也和我们一样，日复一日挣扎在相安无事与情绪失控的临界线上。我们都恪守严格而不成文的行为准则，深怕冒犯他人，对于难堪的境况却也有着无限的包容力。这本书集结了英国超人气推特账户@SoVeryBritish 里*受欢迎的推文，用地道的英式毒舌让你的膝盖频频中箭。它犀利地破解社交生活中那些秘而不宣的潜规则，更是一份教你如何正确应对“社恐星人”的雷区说明书。如果你深受社交烦恼，请记住你并不是一个人在进行这场避开他人的持久战。

好了，这里是社恐的国度，看完以后请您快走。

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罗布•坦普尔（Rob Temple），英国《电报》（Telegraph）专栏作家，纪录片《大英烦事多》（Very British Problems）节目编剧，开设人气推特（Twitter）账号@SoVeryBritish，有超400万粉丝。

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日不落帝国虽已不复存在，但怪癖和纠结却从未退出过英国人的舞台。

——《纽约时报》

英国人真是一群傻瓜——说真的，他们什么都做不好。不过对于这一点，好像大家都还挺骄傲。

——《卫报》

爆笑。这是本会让你看起来像疯了一样的书，症状可能有：一个人傻笑、摇头、大声朗读出来，好让其他人可以加入你。

——Goodreads点评

大概自己前世是个英国人，感觉膝盖都要烂了。人生已经如此的艰难，有些事就不要拆穿了好吗？

——豆瓣网友@颜落寒

从精心设置的生活场景出发，结合具体问题，巨细无遗地向观众展示了普通英国人的内心横截面，一部值得玩味的英国社交潜规则入门指南。

——豆瓣网友@莫歌

Catalogue

中文版序

前言

第一章

保持风度

第二章

路上的规矩

第三章

典型性“ 英国病”测试

第四章

酒瓶里的不列颠

第五章

办公室礼节

第六章

轨道交通上的噩梦

第七章

典型英国式历史难题

第八章

不成文的规矩（以及当有人破坏它们的时候）

第九章

街上的陷阱

第十章

酒吧有风险

第十一章

典型英国式天气

第十二章

服务员带来的悲剧

第十三章

购物的陷阱

第十四章

保持平静，继续前行

第十五章

十件我们装作很享受……又热衷于抱怨的事

第十六章

吃喝难题

第十七章

我们的好天气

第十八章

抑制怒火

第十九章

典型英国式的轻描淡写

第二十章

道歉无止境

第二十一章

语言障碍

第二十二章

请勿谈性……

第二十三章

未来的典型英国式问题

第二十四章

当众发言

第二十五章

飞行难题

第二十六章

礼节的雷区

第二十七章

典型英国式词汇表

第二十八章

更多语言障碍

致谢

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第五章办公室礼节

▪把“ 致以诚挚的问候”改成“ 致以问候”，来警告对方你真的要生气了。

▪单位允许报销工作相关的采购，但你从不采购，因为不想多事。

▪饭还没热好你就把它从微波炉里拿了出来，好让后面排队的人不用等太久。

▪发了封怒气冲天的邮件，在收件人读到之前就遇见了对方……装作什么都没有发生。

▪有人带宝宝来办公室的时候，你精心计算着该站起来的时间，好让自己不会显得太冷酷。

▪等同事都出去了再独自吃午饭，这样就没人会看到你在座位上像饿死鬼一样的吃相。

▪真希望能别在同事折回来拿东西时冲对方又蹦一句“ 早上好”！

▪简历写得极为谦虚，唯恐显得自大。

▪在座位上吃薯片时，无法不担心自己嘴里发出的声音堪比建筑工地。

▪电梯里别人问你要去几楼，你一边回答“ 四楼，谢谢”，一边自己按了楼层键。

▪删除什么东西的时候，嘴上必须要说出“ 删除”这个词来。

▪过了一个成就感十足的周末，却在别人问起的时候回答说：“ 周末没干什么。”

▪“我们会把平时没有什么机会合作的人放在一组。”

▪去饮水机接水向来只接半杯就走，因为受不了那种压力。

▪顶着一头比平时短一丁点儿的发型走进办公室。

▪开会中途有个不得不接的电话，出去接的时候非要很夸张地踮着脚尖走。

▪消防演习的时候，一出门就能自动找到自己的同事，然后像一群兴奋的小学生一样嘻嘻哈哈。

▪发现老板也来坐电梯了，于是尽管身处38 层也毅然选择走楼梯。

▪每天带着自己那只400 英镑的iPad 上下班，却从未从包里拿出来过，生怕被人觉得你是在显摆。

▪回来时发现有人坐在你座位上和你邻座聊天……觉得还是过会儿再回来吧。

▪决定要向同事们展示真实的自我，于是换了个特别花哨的电脑桌面。

▪怀疑有人偷用了你的马克杯，遂提出辞职。

▪尽管那个培训师大半个下午都在睡觉，而且一身浓烈的波特酒味，可你填评估表时还是打了5 星。

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“如果一个人是英国人，就会显得怪怪的。” （那首歌是这么唱的吧？）英国人真的很怪，并且怪得很特别。

一天上午，我开始着手把这些古怪的文化列了个清单，虽然里面写的基本都源自我个人的经历，但立刻就有其他英国人表示：“ 嘿，我也这样。”之后世界各地的人都开始加

入我们的队伍。成千上万的人通过社交网络（推特账号@SoVeryBritish）和《大英烦事多》（Very British Problems ）系列图书，认识到这些我们共同患有的病症。

如今《大英烦事多》来到了中国。哈罗！非常感谢你能购买这本书，希望你读它的时候能像我写它的时候一样开心，我是说，希望你会觉得这本书还算值得一读，并且不会浪费你太多的时间。

所以我们烦的是什么呢？这本书里又具体讲到了哪些？很高兴你问了这些问题。首先呢，烦事会出现在许多场合，应该说是所有场合。这本书里从路怒症讲到英国办公室里的规矩，

再讲到超市购物的习惯，以及礼节、道歉（道歉实在太多了，拜托，消停点吧！对不起我不该冲着你喊这样的话，实在太没礼貌了），当然还有英国人对天气的过分热衷，尽管天气根本没什么新鲜的，无非就是一年有362 天都潮湿啦，下雨啦，阴天啦之类（英国每年也会有两天晴天，还有一天会下一点雪）。

我们还会通过一些英国名人名言（包括虚构角色和真实人物）来了解英国式的“举重若轻”。书后还贴心地附上了词汇表，来帮助你理解一些奇怪的英国短语。

这本书里还解释了英国人说话时各种奇怪的潜台词。如果一个英国人告诉你他“挺好的”，那他其实心情并不好。如果他接着又说“ 真挺好的”，那你就得赶快撤离他所在的房间，或者至少让他坐下来喝一杯加了牛奶的热茶。哦，对了，要是一个英国人问你“你好吗（how are you）?”只要回答“挺好的（fine）”就行了，千万别去倾诉你真实的心情，我们最讨厌那样了。这下连我都怀疑我会不会过度解读“ fine”这个单词了，而这还只是一个小小的例子，类似的词还有一大堆呢！真的，和英国人光是说个话都要不停地揣摩试探，否则一不小心就会触雷。

这本书会让你的心情如同坐过山车一般，先是迷惑，然后有点绝望，再觉得心累，尴尬，恼火……这些到底算不算心情？我觉得算，起码在英国这些是主流的心情。

总之再次感谢你买了这本书，我希望它能帮你理解英国及其国民自成一派的独特文化。老实说，我自己在英国生活了34年，都还没能完全摸清英国人的套路呢，因为实在太难懂了。

不过，写这本书的过程让我了解到，我还有许多的难友，我觉得这就挺好的。

罗布•坦普尔

2018 年于英国某处

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