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愿以这本书,送给那些曾和我一样焦虑迷茫、心中有痛又故作坚强的女人。

送给那些爱过伤过,终于无惧岁月无畏生长的女人。

别怕爱情千回百折,别怕前路崎岖坎坷。

愿你胸中有丘壑,眼里存山河。

愿你炼出钻石心,依然芙蓉面。

愿你心中有花,手里有剑。有慈悲心肠,有金刚手段。

愿你从此,是人生的定海神针,也是自己的钢铁之军。

★知名情感公众号“桃花马上石榴裙”李爱玲全新深情力作,写给千万女性的勇气之书。

★值得挑灯阅读的女性人生成长书。

★她的文章被疯狂转发70,000,000次,阅读400,000,000次,单篇点赞20,000,000次,实力吸引忠实粉丝1,000,000人,800,000女性因她改变。

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铿锵犀利桃花姐李爱玲全新深情力作,写给千万女性的勇气之书。

女人终于敢放胆,嬉皮笑脸,面对人生的难。

关于成长,关于独立,关于改变。

戳心又暖心,感性且理智,犀利也温情。

在这个残酷的世界里,你才是自己的过来人。

每个女人的际遇,都是特定的人生剧本。皆无须重复谁的来路,也不必参照谁的去程。

成熟不以年龄为界线。真正成熟的人,看得清自己,做得出选择,付得起成本,担得起责任。


Author Description

李爱玲

情感作家、职场女性、80后妈妈

百万读者心中铿锵犀利的桃花姐

白天奔波在职场,夜里流连于文字

与万千女性一起在情爱中成长蜕变

已出版作品《你若不伤 爱就无恙》

桃花姐语录

三十岁之后,再也不必拿谁的经验来指导自己的一生。

你才是自己的过来人。

流过的泪,要成为一条渡你的河。

受过的苦,要照亮你未来的路。

要在薄情世界里活下去,光靠深情根本不行。

要靠十八般武艺真本事,刀枪剑戟斧钺钩叉。

姑娘,别再对我说,拔掉刺会死,磨去棱角会疼。

它能让你多痛苦,就能让你多强大。

与自己和平共处,与生活两情相悦。

有独立的自我,也有绽放的自由。

我想要的,此刻都有。我未得的,努力去挣。

从此,不辜负每一次吃的苦,不辜负所走的每步路。


Catalogue

Chapter 1

先有公主梦,再修女王心


002 先有公主梦,再修女王心

009 一个姑娘的原则,就是最有力的武器

016没有人会对青春永开绿灯

022熟女不再爱大叔

028掌控人生的姑娘,从不活在PS里

036她看透了你,却依然爱着你

043用最努力的晨光,去匹配最年轻的皮囊

050你的快乐,对我那么重要


Chapter 2

用男人大脑思考,用女人身段生活


058 爱是克制,不是放肆

066 男人要的是尊重,女人要的只是宠

073 爱就像身材,一旦放纵就不再

079 用男人大脑思考,用女人身段生活

087 有些深情,无关风月

093 爱情是用来沦陷的,婚姻是用来解决的

101 你愿做奔月的嫦娥,还是下凡的仙女?

108 不去苟且,就没有暧昧


Chapter 3

能一个人精彩,才能与全世界相爱


116 能一个人精彩,才能与全世界相爱

123 战胜自己就是战胜一切

131 女人一生不只有一个标签

135 什么样的女人最有魅力

141 没有谁是天生的好命女人

149 未来的婆媳关系,拼的是你的格局和教育

158 职场里的悲欢,比情爱更易消散


Chapter 4

你才是自己的过来人


166 你才是自己的过来人

173 也许我们曾如此不堪地爱过一个人

181 生了孩子的女人到底输在哪?

188 人生的另一所修行道场

194 你可以选择放弃,永远别放弃选择

202 孩子,就是我们另一个自己

209 你有多热爱,就有多努力

216 从绝望主妇到傲骨贤妻,是条什么样的路

224 女人的大格局,从不是宫斗剧


Chapter 5

我爱自己,没有情敌


232 我爱自己,没有情敌

238 你不懂我来时路的每一步,都走得多孤独

245 爱情在别处,婚姻是江湖

252 给我片刻,让我和自己虚度时光

258 有几个当妈的不是神经病?

264 她比烟火更寂寞

272 什么比得上孩子带来的快乐

280 围城不复杂,迷城才可怕

287 你接受不了我最坏的一面,就不配拥有我最好的一面


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自序:与自己的狭路相逢

常常觉得,我真正的人生,是从三十岁才开始的。

前三十年,我和所有普通女子一样,经历了漫长恋爱,走到结婚生子的婚姻中去。这过程,看似循序渐近水到渠成,而当我置身其中,只觉得厚重生活如潮水般一波波迎面扑来,让人透不过气,无处喘息。

那几年,我听到最多的话是:你都三十了,也该长大了。你都结婚了,也该成熟了。你都当妈了,也该懂人情世事了。

女人被这样简单粗暴地贴上标签,然后就被理所当然地要求成为那个成熟、懂事、得体的角色。

这过程迅猛、决绝、单刀直入、不留情面,容不得丝毫差池与犹豫。

无人开路,无人引领,我们就在这个分水岭,被迫一夜长大。

初入围城的困顿与茫然,初为人母的辛苦和无助,浪漫爱情落地后的挣扎和撕扯,爱人朝夕相处中的龃龉和磨合,工作与家庭间的权衡与选择。当我一一经历了这些,才终于发现,这世上,一个女人想要婚姻的幸福,也想要自我的绽放,想要家庭的美满,也想要梦想的光亮,那就注定,比男人更难许多。

庆幸还能写字,让我梳理和反思自己,为我的人生打开一扇全新的窗。

我在文字里结识了数十万读者,看到了滚滚红尘里姿态万千的女人。

我看到一样的苦难,被不一样的人经历,会有不同的结局。同样的伤痛,在不一样的人身上,会有不同的疗愈。

有人在风雨中孤独哭泣,有人在迷雾中寂寞行走,有人在霜雪里勇敢绽放。

天后王菲唱:有生之年狭路相逢,终不能幸免。

也许人生,就是一场与自己的狭路相逢。

懂事之前,情动以后,大概就是黎明前最绝望的黑暗。我们都误以为,从此就这样暗无天日。

有人被同一块石头绊倒两次。有人在同一个地方多次摔跤。大半生就这样蹉跎过去荒腔走板。若我们每天重复过去的自己,这条路,就走得毫无价值,这些苦,就吃得全无用处。

请相信每件事的发生,每个时刻的存在,都有它的意义。即使它本身并没有,而你的每一次思考、探索、尝试、了悟、所感,都赋予它意义。

请相信一切都会过去,天幕终将启明。

我们不再是千年不变的海岸礁石,被动等待惊涛拍岸的洗礼。我们应该是涌动的浪,退回去又扑上来,与暗礁沙砾,完成一场场相互打磨。

一个伤心地,一段刻骨情,一场失心疯。那都是我们的朝圣路,我们在这条路上,不断检省、修正,完成一场场救赎,一次次自渡。

从此想清楚,然后活明白。

每个女人的际遇,都是特定的人生剧本。皆无须重复谁的来路,也不必参照谁的去程。

成熟从不以年龄为界线。真正成熟的人,看得清自己,做得出选择,付得起成本,担得起责任。


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