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我和你的大城小镇(豆瓣明星作者踏歌,数年打磨首发女性视角都市情感小说!方悄悄、静岛、毛路感动力荐!)

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◆豆瓣明星作者踏歌,数年打磨首发女性视角都市情感小说!

◆致徘徊在人生十字路口的每一个年轻人:我们无法让所有人满意,只做对得起自己的选择!

◆留不下的大城,回不去的故乡……直击80、90一代人的精神挣扎与生活痛点!

◆为什么我们没有坚持下去的信心, 也没有一走了之的勇气?

◆是选择一个人继续在大城市打拼,还是回归安逸的家乡小镇?
◆爱情、存款、尊严,你离你想要的生活,还有多远?!

◆当彼此再度相逢, 被大城市折磨的她,遇上想要逃离故乡的他, 双双站在了人生的十字路口……

◆前*未有的抓住“小镇男+大城女”的CP组合,制造失衡的恋爱关系。

◆大城和小镇生存环境的绝妙对比,从职场到人情,从习惯到风俗。有些玩法让你如鱼得水,有些则让你头破血流。

◆深入描写社会上争论不休的话题热点,全方位勾勒当代年轻人的生活处境。

◆女性在职场不上不下的尴尬、父母晚年对孩子的控制欲、三十岁没结婚不敢回家……这些发生在当代年轻人身上的困境,都将在书中角色身上一一体现,一一挣扎。


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杨溪,女,外企金领,月薪三万。
陶源,男,小镇民警,月薪三千。

在上海的杨溪,可以坐在外滩顶层吃晚餐,可以把大包 小包挂满 胳膊,也可以在假期飞往欧洲的海岸晒个太阳,但当她躺在孤身一人 的房间,她的脑海里只有老板、客户、业绩、房贷……
在小镇的陶源,日复一日在病床前照顾着父母,日复一日处理着 鸡毛蒜皮,日复一日应付着小地方复杂的人际、人情、人脉,这样的 日子每多一天,他就越想逃离。
十年前,他救过她的命,
十年后,她是他的梦想。
当彼此再度相逢, 被大城市折磨的她,遇上想要逃离故乡的他, 双双站在了人生的十字路口……


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人生*大的痛苦之一,可能无外乎一句话:我们回不去了。只有极少数的幸运儿能够“回去”,他们能够做到这一点,依靠的不是顾影自怜的怀旧、刻舟求剑的执迷,而是自省自强的清醒、百折不回的勇气。到最后,“回去”并非目的,“抵达”才是答案。《我和你的大城小镇》正是一本讲述抵达之旅的书,相信它能给其他旅者希望和帮助。

——静岛(豆瓣红人,《不过神仙和没事妖怪》作者)

《我和你的大城小镇》让人感动,小说精准找到了当代年轻人最需要考虑的问题,却没有轻率地给出答案。生活的表象有千百张面孔,但作者踏歌只是温柔的指引,她尽量让每一个读者都能感受到:只有跟随内心的生活,才是最好的生活。

——毛路(知名作家、编剧,《我们为什么会分手》作者)

《我和你的大城小镇》的故事很简单,一个想逃离小镇的男生,一个备受大城摧残的女生,都是生活在我们四周的普通人,可是小说里他们的每一次选择、每一次对话都充满了打动人心的力量,他们无比生动、无比真实。

——方悄悄(知名作家,《与情敌同居》《酒神的玫瑰》作者)

“留不下的大城,回不去的故乡”,作者踏歌用一个爱情故事去包装了这个时代残酷的一角,写出了一代人的精神挣扎,更是对他们的温柔寄语。希望每个爱着自己的城市与故乡,又被它们伤过的人,都能够从中找到力量。

——叶小辛(豆瓣红人,《空港▪云霄路上》作者)


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序 章
1 再见红着眼,也红着脸
2 人到中年,能有多惨?
3 勇敢的小警察,祝你幸福
4 做一个没有感情的成年人吧
5 爱情可以失踪,工作怎能失态?
6 讨厌意外,哪怕意外的礼物
7 小姑娘,你能容忍他有一个白月光吗?
8 休假,就是心安理得地把自己灌醉
9 处理你的事,就像处理自己的后事
10 人这一辈子,喜欢的都是同一个人
11 比向老板低头更惨的是向爸妈低头
11 比向老板低头更惨的是向爸妈低头
12 人在法国,品尝心碎
13 升职那天,竟然是我最慌的一天
14 你送我的戒指,当初是买给谁的?
15 留在浑蛋的上海,还是回浑蛋的故乡?
16 情敌相见,人间修罗场
17 我在上海买了房,但我现在想卖了它
18 总说为我好,可到底什么是好的?
19 还是跟以前一样,肉丝都是你的
尾 声
后 记


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后记

写下这两个字的时候,我正在首都机场候机。十一点半的飞机去往下一个出差地,到的时间太早,登机口还未确定,于是坐立不安地一会儿看一下手机上电子登机牌的变化,不停盘算着还剩多少时间可以让我写完这篇后记。

这种感觉和状态,真像是人生的缩影。

你有些计划,知道下一步要做什么,要去什么地方。但计划中又总有不确定部分,让你担心和焦虑。而同时你又知道担心和焦虑没什么用,因为哪怕是坐到了登机口等着,也有可能在最后一刻听到登机口变更的广播,于是拖着行李一顿狂奔。

就像杨溪,拼命努力走好通向美好生活的每一步,拼命努力顾及周围所有人的感受和真心,却在最后一刻才匆匆登上属于自己的幸福航班。而登上之后,回头看,才发现——其实也没什么好急的,一切都已安排好,你本来就注定要去那里。就算真的没赶上,买下一班,换高铁,想去一样去。

决定结果的一切,其实都是决心问题。

你决心要在大城市留下来,决心要过上平静富余的生活,决心要和最爱的人在一起,决心要做喜欢的事业,决心要实现小时候的梦想,决心要出一本书,创造一个世界……那么,你就可以——不论过程有多少曲折和不确定。

其实,我不是杨溪。

我并没有考上交大,毕业那年恰逢金融海啸,第一份工作税前月薪三千块,十二薪,没有年终奖。

这样的处境,即便在当年,也是相当惨的了。而我不想工作了还要家里补贴,甚至也不太想常常回家,因为一回去就会被全家游说“赶紧回来”“一个女孩何必在大城市过得那么累”“何况工资也不高”。

直到四年后,我才算在上海站稳了脚跟,家里对我的担心才渐渐平息,相信我可以在这里好好生活下去,而且会越来越好。

我没有杨溪那么优秀,也没有她那么惨。我从小生活在非常温暖和谐的家庭,亲戚们都很宠我,一大家子又热闹又开心。在这样的环境下,也许我回到小城,也可以过得挺不错——除了可能找不到喜欢的工作。

但工作太重要了啊,它占据了每一天的二分之一。我无法想象,如果这辈子的二分之一都要用来对付自己不喜欢的人,做自己认为没有意义的事,那该有多么难过呢?

人生这么短,我不敢浪费。

说到底,对于普通人来说,你选择的工作,就是你选择的人生。工作锚定了你的身份,你周围的人,你生活的场所,你吃饭和消费的地方,和你未来能看到的世界。

所以,虽然我不像杨溪那样没有退路,却还是咬住牙关没有回去。

我早早想通——在上海,最坏的是你只能靠自己;而最好的是,你可以靠自己。

我下定了决心,找到了一条路,并且不犹豫地走了下去。最后证明,我真的可以。

这些年,我自认为没有任何一年虚度和浪费。收入随着年龄在增长,见识和经验也持续在累积,一切都在稳步前进。

十多年了,简单和平静的生活,也许就是作为一个普通人,幸福的最高级。

我已经拥有了,这真令人高兴。

但是——我要讲但是了——在这之外呢?

很多时候,在早高峰拥挤的地铁上,在飞机起飞阶段无所事事的二十分钟里,我都在想:眼下的人生,足够了吗?

我真的就只能做个普通的外企白领吗?做我身边许许多多同事的翻版,走一条大多数人都这么走的路?

是不是,还有其他的可能性呢?我小时候的理想,还能实现吗?

我小时候……想做什么来着?

......

写小说,在工作之余写小说,在生活的缝隙里写小说,让我真得像开了挂一样,用柔软的指甲尖儿生生撬开了另一个世界。

我慢慢开始尝试所有的类型,写各种各样的人物,编织越来越大的世界。各有各的痛苦和精彩,但每一个字都是奇妙的体验。

与此同时,我又有了另一个“职业”身份,有了好多志同道合的作者和读者在身边,所以,真的挺高兴的。

感谢大家来读我的故事,来认识作者踏歌。

这是我的第一本书,但,绝不会是最后一本。

我们下个故事再见!


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