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[Little Cola's Book List] An excerpt from "The Counterattack of the Pattern"





Share a book that is helpful for small things, from life choices or career directions.

[Of course, personal opinions are different, and opinions vary. But I like it]





Keep your feet on the ground and look up at the stars.


The joys and sorrows of the little people in the big era are particularly representative.


"There are two hardest things in the world, one is making money in other people's pockets, and the other is changing other people's Concept.


A debate can never convince an opponent, all you need is to convince the judges. "


There is something to say to the real person, and there is food for the real person to eat. In other words, the Tao is different, and there is no conspiracy.

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I am afraid that the consciousness is too big, and the pattern is too small.


Everyone feels different, but it’s easy to categorize. You are no different You are the same as those who grew up around you.


Psychosis is repeating the same thing every day, expecting different results.


"Life is like World of Warcraft. Every race has its advantages and disadvantages. If you can overcome the shortcomings of your race, you will It is possible to become a talent in this race. And if you have the abilities of other races, then you may become a leader.


"Why I respect Sinology so much, it is because of the life experience you have finally summed up, occasionally flipping through ancient books, it turns out that ancient It's already there, express it more clearly and concisely than you.


The problem of your life is the problem of your level, your position in the society determines the level of your perspective on the problem .


Almost there is a gap, and a gap is a lot worse. span>


The difference between the extraordinary and the ordinary is a little transcendence. "


"The half-ninety-nineth person who travels a hundred miles; the prostitute has a good night scene, the fireworks of the whole life are unobstructed, the virgin woman loses her head in white, half her life There is no suffering.


Going is courage. Stopping is wisdom.< /p>


We say that people with high IQs must be able to accommodate two sets of contradictory values in their minds without hindering their actions.

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Even if you are invincible, as long as you are good, you will still inexplicably offend many people.


Things that conform to the rules are always growing, and those that don’t conform to the rules are eliminated.


Two important human abilities are the ability to communicate equally and the ability to gain the trust of others.


The world is blurry and random. What is not quantifiable cannot be relied upon.


The meaning of being bullied by a dog when a tiger falls in Pingyang is: when you are a tiger, be kind to the dog.


Value is at the heart of everything that matters, and price is just an expression of value."


In any case, don’t overdraw your value, because that’s overdrawing your future."


The current market situation is basically that everyone has awakened themselves, but has lost their duty.


"Those who think they are smarter than others usually end in tragedy. The degree of tragedy depends on when the truth is discovered. The later the discovery, the more tragic.


If you don’t climb a mountain, you don’t know the height of the sky; if you don’t go to a deep stream, you don’t know the thickness of the earth; There is no way to reach a thousand miles; no rivers and seas can be formed without accumulating small streams. One leap of Qiji can’t take ten steps; /p>


"You can never say something you have never seen before, so only by reading extensively can there be an understanding Basics.


"Most things in the world are based on information asymmetry, you know all the scams, and no one can lie to you ; You have seen all the business models, and no one can fool you; you know all the investors, and you will know whether the industry is starting to run out of money.


"Blind belief and blind unbelief are both unwise performances. Be sure to join your own thinking process, right or wrong is not important , at least for a logical reason.


The ability to stop loss and start from scratch is the most important ability for speculators.


When you are happy, don’t allow people; when you are angry, don’t answer people’s letters.


Later you will find that things at every stage of your life, as long as you do them seriously, will not be useless. They will all help you a lot at some point after you.


Nothing is a waste of time, nothing is worthless, as long as you do it seriously, more or less There will always be some gains, and those gains may benefit you many years later.


Either don’t do it, do it well, and do it without heart, that is a matter of responsibility, and in a big way, it is character The problem. Money can't be earned, but word of mouth can be finished.


Be responsible for things, be responsible for being a person, and be responsible for your destiny.


Being born is only a small achievement. If you want to cultivate a large achievement, you must join the WTO.


Smartness is a survival ability, and wisdom is a survival state.


No matter what you do, first, find your talented part; second, still pay100%effort.


At present, people in the society have a low level of effort, and most of the time they are not able to fight for talent.< span class="s1">”


If you want to do something big, you must have the courage to give up and give up all unnecessary things."


"Instead of encouraging a girl to reject an unreliable person, it is better to wait for her to be tricked and lend her a shoulder Crying works better.


Chinese people don’t like stories about preventing problems before they happen, but always like the bridges of working together to rescue disasters.

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The core of management is decision-making, that is, choice, and the core of choice is values. What you choose must be in your best interests , but this interest is what you think is best for you.


What matters to a person is not ideals, but self-knowledge. Knowing what you can do is more important than knowing what you want to do.


Successes are hard to replicate, but failures are mostly traceable.


"So the five greatest words in life can do everything: get used to it.


Don't think that knowing someone is great, great people need you, and you are great.


If you like it or not, it is a matter of hobby. Whether you do well or not is a matter of ability. to excuse yourself.


"In fact, when you look back, one's life is nothing more than two words: choice.


The biggest quantification in life is cost, and the biggest variable is emotion.


Groups are characterized by a low IQ and a high sense of morality. The mainstream trend of thought must be fairness first.


If you can’t do depth, you can only eat by breadth. "


Fairness is not about equal treatment for everyone, but about giving people of value a corresponding reward.


Groups are characterized by a low IQ and a high sense of morality. The mainstream trend of thought must be fairness first.


If you can’t do depth, you can only eat by breadth. "


Fairness is not about equal treatment for everyone, but about giving people of value a corresponding reward.


Virtue and talent are the best, virtue and no virtue are good products, and virtue and no virtue are waste products. Drugs.


Results are the sole criterion for evaluating performance.


Vulnerable people seem strong, and strong people are cynical.


With great ability comes great responsibility. With higher salary comes greater stress."


In fact, the longer you live, the more you realize that many things are more about fate than human power.


Intentional or not, it is God’s will.


The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it.


Unite capable people to do great things, unite mediocre people to do things, and unite small people to do good things."


Love what I choose, choose what I love. In the ancient Chinese saying, when it comes, let it go.


The so-called professionalism is to do a good job without any emotion; the so-called successful person is to do things well while doing it Still love it.


Happy people are often not strong people, but less demanding people.


No wonder poets have'If life is just like the first time I saw it'After everything is over, think about the beginning and feel that it is really It was great, but never going back.


Money is not the most important thing, but it is the clearest measure of value."


The fastest way to improve yourself is not to learn new things, but to make up for old shortcomings."


Remember that what you do is far less important than who you are."


For us, brilliance is optional, but innocence is a must.


The hardest thing these days is to pretend to be stupid, the harder to be smart, and the easiest to be really stupid.


Choice tells us that even boring things have meaning; opportunity tells us that any time is the best time.


Most of the time, the troubles come from: ordinary people yearn for extraordinary, people who don’t read are keen to think, people who are incapable People who want to take on heavy responsibilities and can't do things want to make more money, but they don't do what they are good at.


The biggest advantage is not eloquence, but not only eloquence, but also knowing to shut up.


The essence of success is value realization, and the essence of making money is spread.


"Human pain always comes from too high expectations, either too high for oneself, too high for others, or too high for society Too high for users. And the reality is cruel, always have the best expectations and the worst plans, it is better to never pin your hopes on others.”< /span>


It was the best of times, but the worst of times for lazy people.


Poverty is not low income, but the inability to obtain resources from society.


The knowledge that reading brings is only one aspect, the important thing is that it gives you the possibility to enter a new social level.

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So the threshold is a kind of screening, it gives you a way to become a minority.


A person must have a heart that can do big things and actions to make small money."




















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【小可乐的书单】《格局的逆袭》好句摘录





分享一本对小到做人做事,大到人生选择或事业走向都有帮助的一本书。

【当然个人观点不同,意见不一。不过我是我喜欢】





脚踏实地,仰望星空。


大时代下的小人物的悲欢,是特别有代表意义的。


这世界上有两件事最难,一件是赚别人口袋里的钱,一件是改变别人的观念。


辩论永远不可能说服对手,你需要的只是说服评委。


有话对真人说,有饭给真人吃。换句话说,道不同,不相为谋。


意识怕太大,格局怕太小。


每个人都觉得自己与众不同,其实都很容易分门别类。你没有什么不同 你和你差不多环境成长的人都是一样的。


所谓精神病就是每天重复同样的事情,却想得到不同的结果。


人生就像魔兽世界,每个种族都有优点和缺点,你能克服你这个种族的缺点,你就有可能在这个种族里面成为人才。而你假如拥有了其他种族的能力,那你就有可能成为一个领袖。


为什么我很尊重国学,就是因为,你现在好不容易总结出来的人生经验,偶尔一翻古书,原来古已有之,表达得比你更清楚简洁凝练。


你的生活问题就是你的层次问题,你在社会中位置的高低,决定了你看待问题角度的高低。


差不多就是有差距,有差距就是差很多。


不平凡与平凡之间,差的就是那么一点超越。


行百里者半九十;声妓晚景从良,一世之烟花无碍,贞妇白头失守,半生之清苦俱非。


进是勇气。停是智慧。


我们说高智商的人,脑中一定可以容纳两套相悖的价值观并行,并且不妨碍行事。


唯有相信,才有可能。


就算你与世无争,只要你是优秀的,你依旧会莫名其妙地得罪很多人。


符合规律的东西一直在生长,不符合规律的东西则被淘汰。


人的两大重要能力就是,平等沟通的能力和获取别人信任的能力。


世界是模糊和随机的。 不可量化的东西是无法依赖的。


虎落平阳被犬欺的意思就是:你当老虎的时候,也要对狗好一点。


价值是一切有意义的事情的核心,而价格只是价值的表现形式。


无论如何,都不要透支自己的价值,因为那是透支自己的未来。


目前的行情基本是,大家都已经唤醒了自我,却丧失了本分。


觉得自己比别人都聪明的人,最后基本都是以悲剧收场。悲剧程度要看什么时候发现真相,发现得越晚越悲剧。


不登高山,不知天之高也;不临深溪,不知地之厚也;故不积跬步,无以至千里;不积小流,无以成江海。骐骥一跃,不能十步;驽马十驾,功在不舍。


你永远无法说出一个你从未见过的东西,所以只有大量地泛读,才存在一个领悟的基础。


世界大部分事情是基于信息不对称的,所有的骗局你都知道,也就没人能骗你了;所有的商业模式你都看过,也就没人能忽悠你了;所有的投资人你都认识,你就知道这个行业是不是开始缺钱了。


盲目的相信和盲目的不信都是不聪明的表现,一定要加入自己的思考过程,对错不重要,起码要有符合逻辑的理由。


止损、从头开始的能力,是投机者最重要的能力。


盛喜中,勿许人物;盛怒中,勿答人书。


后来你会发现,人生每个阶段的事情,只要你认真做了,就不会是没有用的,它们都会在你之后的某个节点对你帮助良多。


没有什么事情是浪费时间的,也没什么事情是没有价值的,只要你认真去做了,或多或少都会有一些收获,而这些收获可能会在很多年之后,让你受益良多。


要么不做,做就做好,做却不用心,那就是责任问题,往大处说,就是人品问题。钱是赚不完的,但口碑,是说完就完的。


做事负责,做人负责,命运也会对你负责。


出世只是小成,如果你想修大成,就还要入世。


聪明是一种生存能力,而智慧是一种生存境界。


不管做什么,第一,找到自己有才华的部分;第二,依旧要付出100%的努力。


目前社会上的人努力程度之低,大部分时间内还轮不到拼天赋。


想要做什么大事,必须敢于舍弃,舍弃掉所有不必要的东西。


与其鼓励一个女孩子拒绝一个不靠谱的人,倒不如等她被坑了,借一个肩膀给她哭效果来得更好。


中国人向来不喜欢防患于未然的故事,而总喜欢齐心协力救灾救难的桥段。


管理的核心就是决策,也就是选择,选择的核心就是价值观。你选的一定是最符合你利益的,但这个利益是你认为最符合你的。


人重要的不是理想,而是自知之明。知道自己能干什么比知道自己想干什么更重要。


成功很难复制,但失败多数有迹可循。


所以人生最伟大的五个字可以解决一切问题:习惯就好了。


不要觉得认识什么人很厉害,很厉害的人需要你,你才很厉害。


喜欢不喜欢做是爱好问题,事情做得好不好是能力问题,不要用自己不喜欢不爱好没兴趣来为自己开脱。


其实最后你回头看看,人的一生,无非就是两个字:取舍。


人生最大的定量是成本,最大的变量是感情。


群体的特征就是智商很低,道德感很高,主流思潮一定应该是公平第一等。


你做不到深度,就只能靠广度来吃饭。


公平不是大家享受一样的待遇,而是让有价值的人获得相应的回报。


群体的特征就是智商很低,道德感很高,主流思潮一定应该是公平第一等。


你做不到深度,就只能靠广度来吃饭。


公平不是大家享受一样的待遇,而是让有价值的人获得相应的回报。


有德有才是极品,有德无才是良品,无德无才是废品,有才无德是毒品。


结果是考核执行力的唯一标准。


脆弱的人都貌似坚强,坚强的人都玩世不恭。


能力越大责任也就越大。薪水越高,压力就越大。


其实活得越久,你越发现,很多事情更多的是命运,而人力不可违。


有意无意都是天意。


木秀于林,风必摧之。


团结能人做大事,团结庸人能做事,团结小人不坏事。


爱我所选,选我所爱。用中国古代的话说叫既来之,则安之。


所谓职业化,就是不掺杂感情地把工作做好;所谓成功者,就是把事情做好的同时还热爱它。


过得幸福的人,往往都不是很强的人,而是要求不太高的人。


怪不得诗人有人生若只如初见的感慨,所有事情都过去之后,想想刚开始,觉得,实在是太好了,但再也回不去了。


钱不是最重要的东西,但钱是一个最明确的价值衡量单位。


提升自己最快的方法不是学习新东西,而是弥补旧短板。


要记得,你做的事情远不如你是个什么样的人更重要。


对于我们来说,辉煌是可选项,但不犯事是必选项。


这年头最难的是装傻,比较难的是聪明,最容易的是真傻。


选择告诉我们,即使无聊的事也是有意义的;机遇告诉我们,任何时候都是最好的时候。


大部分时候,困扰都来自:平凡的人渴望不平凡,不读书的人热衷思考,没有能力的人想担当重任,不会做事的人想多赚钱,却都没有把自己手头擅长的事情做好。


最大的优点并不是口才好,而是不但口才好,还知道闭嘴。


成功的本质是价值实现,而赚钱的本质则是利差。


人的痛苦永远来源于预期过高,不是对自己过高,就是对别人过高,要么就是对社会对用户过高。而现实都是残酷的,永远有最好的期望和最坏的打算,永远不要把希望寄托在别人身上会比较好。


这是一个最好的时代,但也是懒人最坏的时代。


贫穷不是收入低,而是丧失了从这个社会获得资源的能力。


读书带来的知识只是一方面,重要的是,它给你进入新的社会层次的可能。


所以,门槛儿是一种筛选,是给你一个成为少数派的途径。


人要有一颗能做大事的心,也要有赚小钱的行动。