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《读孩子如读书:0-6岁情商培养经典工具书》是美国儿童心理学家25年研究精髓,颠覆性的养育理论!
国内情商培养经典工具书!简单清晰地告诉父母怎么应对孩子的41种常见行为,从而培养孩子的情商!
早教中心——金宝贝发给妈妈的秘而不宣的教材!
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《读孩子如读书:0-6岁情商培养经典工具书》细致分析了孩子这些行为后所蕴藏的成长心理,明确指出妈妈们应该怎么做,千万不能怎么做,希望能够帮助家长像读书一样读懂孩子,在孩子情商形成期说对话,做对事,培养孩子完美情商!
《读孩子如读书:0-6岁情商培养经典工具书》适合广大家长阅读。
孩子哭的时候,你是不是曾经任他哭到累停下来,希望培养他的耐心?看到孩子将所有东西说成是“我的”,你是不是就开始教他分享?可能你一直觉得这是最正确的选择,但你错了!
美国著名儿童心理学家琳恩·怀斯经过25年对0-6岁儿童成长的观察与了解,发现:90%的父母在孩子41种常见行为后对孩子说的话、做的事都是错的!可能导致孩子一生重大人格缺失——没有信任感、缺乏自我、不自信、没有权力意识,缺少自制力!

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作者的话
编者序:从现在开始,改变你的养育习惯
第一阶段(从出生至一岁半)——帮助孩子建立信赖感
本阶段孩子主要表现
1. 孩子动不动就哭?这是建立信赖感的最好时机
2. 孩子烦躁又大闹?他正对身体的变化不知所措!
3. 孩子特别难带?其实只是你没有给他有效的帮助!
4. 孩子惊恐不安?你应该站出来保护他了!
5. 孩子整天都无精打采的?你可能忽略了环境的变化
6. 孩子实在太乖了,你还需要做什么?

第二阶段(一岁半至三岁)——帮助孩子形成自我意识
本阶段孩子主要表现
1. 孩子非常黏人?你需要帮他克服离开妈妈的焦虑感
2. 为什么孩子不愿意你离开他的视线?
3. 任何东西孩子都说是“我的”,怎么办?
4. 孩子乐此不疲地玩和身体相关的游戏?恭喜你!帮他了解自己的时间到了!
5. 孩子不愿意你插手他的事情,怎么办?
6. 六招应对孩子反复无常的情绪
7. 怎样面对孩子啼笑皆非的模仿行为?
8. 孩子总和你唱反调,你该做什么?
9. 孩子攻击别的小朋友,是学坏了吗?
10. 为什么孩子有时候固执得不可理喻?

第三阶段(三岁至四岁)——培养孩子的自信心
本阶段孩子主要表现
1. 为孩子的探索欲设定“三岁适用”规则
2. 孩子的创意能力取决于你
3. 孩子抢着帮忙?这是帮他建立自信的最好时机!
4. 怎样应对孩子源源不断的“为什么”
5. 三岁孩子莫名其妙的“坏”行为
6. 帮孩子打败幻想中可怕的东西
7. 孩子有时也会感到压力和沮丧
8. 怎样正确对待孩子幻想中的朋友?

第四阶段(四岁至五岁)——培养孩子的权力意识
本阶段孩子主要表现
1. 孩子开始认识到“权力”的作用
2. 正确对待孩子的自以为是
3. 他用攻击性行为建立权威,怎么办?
4. 一颗糖让孩子学会了利用父母之间的矛盾
5. 孩子偶尔说谎、偷东西,你要这样教
6. 孩子意外频出怎么办?
7. 他强悍霸道的初衷其实只是保护自己
8. 小心,四岁的孩子很容易感到茫然!
9. 你知道他“耍脾气”是为什么吗?

第五阶段(五岁至六岁半)——培养孩子的自制力
本阶段孩子主要表现
1. 变身“管家婆”的孩子要这样教
2. 教孩子合理处理内心涌现的同情感
3. 教孩子诚实有方法
4. 怎样对待孩子对“公平”的诉求?
5. 孩子欺负别的小朋友怎么办?
6. 孩子在学校很乖,在家很任性,你该表扬他还是批评他?
7. 孩子事事追求完美是怎么回事?
8. 孩子说脏话、不被允许做的事也要做,怎样趁这个机会培养自制力?
附录:0—6岁五大情商简易测评表
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1. 孩子动不动就哭?
这是建立信赖感的最好时机
终于把孩子从医院抱回家了,可是他的哭声可能会让你感到紧张,因为你不知道他为什么哭,也不知道如何才能让他不哭。但渐渐地,你就可以分辨出孩子不同需求的哭声之间有些许的差别,有时是肚子饿了,有时可能只是想要让人抱抱。在能分辨他的哭声之后,你就感觉有自信多了,因为你知道该怎么去安抚他不同的哭闹。
慢慢地,孩子大了点,他开始会用哭声来唤起大人的注意,当你抱起他时,他马上就安静了。有时候,你也会从孩子的哭声中判断出他可能生病了,这时你如果想在摇篮里把他哄好,似乎是非常困难的,所以你必须带他去医院看医生,稍后情况就会好转。
当你可以照顾好孩子的需要以及安抚他的哭声时,你就会觉得自己很了不起。但如果你不清楚他为什么哭,他的哭声就会使你心烦意乱,而你也会因此觉得无助和沮丧。
孩子酌想法与惑觉:哭是引起注意酌最好方法
我正开始探索这新的世界,我发现如果我需要爸爸或妈妈的帮助时,有个办法可以让他们过来,那就是哭。刚开始我也不明白自己为什么哭,大概只是生物本能吧!但现在我知道了,只要我一哭就可以引起他们的注意,所以我不舒服了就会哭,那样妈妈就会过来哄哄我。但当她发现她也无法让我舒服的时候,她就会带我去看医生。嗯——于是我觉得好多了。
有时候我哭是因为觉得孤单与害怕,而爸爸和妈妈又不在身边,但只要我一哭,他们就会过来,看到他们会让我觉得安心。有时候他们还会把我抱起来,我觉得很开心,因为我知道他们一直在我身边,我可以信赖他们对我的照顾。
有时我也用哭的方式告诉他们我尿湿了,这时候妈妈或爸爸就会拿片尿布赶过来,他们帮我把湿尿布脱下来,然后帮我洗洗屁股,再撒上些爽身粉,嗯——很清爽、很舒服。我知道只要我一哭就可以得到这些照顾,我相信这一切。
这意味着:建立信赖感的最好时机来了
孩子会通过哭的方式来表达他对外界的需求,也许最初你并不知道他的哭声中有何含义,当然,孩子本身也不知道。但慢慢地,你们俩就会建立一个共同的沟通方式,你终于知道了如何给孩子提供有效的帮助,这真是太让人兴奋了!
其实,婴儿的需求非常简单,饿了想要吃东西,不舒服了就希望你帮他调整一下位置,尿湿了的时候他希望你能帮他换块尿布。他还消受不起太冷或太热,所以他需要你的照顾与关心,你应该偶尔抱抱他或者拍拍他。
如果你想要了解婴儿的感受的话,那么只有一个词可以形容,那就是无助。很有趣的是,这种“无助感”却也促成了他另一种情商基石——“信赖”的形成。因为“无助”,他必须学着将“信赖”交付于他人。
信赖,是婴儿在成长的第一阶段所必须学习的。在别人帮助他满足了需求之后,他就开始学着信赖他人。因此,当婴儿表达出自己的需求以后,你就应该及时地满足他,因为他还无法照顾自己,所以必须依靠父母或者其他成年人的照顾。
在出生后的前十八个月里,婴儿还是一个完全无助的个体。期间,他的身体和心理都在不断地成长,而他要学习的第一课便是——信赖,相信别人会满足他的需要。
父母都希望能尽量地满足婴儿的需求,但有时候仍然事与愿违。比如在你生病的时候,孩子就只好托给其他人照顾。但如果一个孩子要被多位保姆照看的话,他就必须一直适应不同保姆的习惯,因此很容易产生不安全感。又或者当你有忧郁的倾向时,婴儿也会受到忧郁情绪的感染,不论你是否能感觉得到,婴儿确实已经受到了伤害。
还有一种情况是,父母刻意想让孩子在这个阶段里学会耐心,可是婴儿的信赖感却会在等待的过程中减退。
父母应该及时地满足婴儿的需要,因为对不解世事的婴儿来说,一分钟的等待就像一小时一样漫长,因此你不能让婴儿久候。但婴儿自身也会慢慢地成长,如果他是喝牛奶的,那么当他听到熟悉的摇瓶声或者舀奶粉声时,他就会因为得到了情绪上的安抚而停止哭泣。当然,如果父母能在做手上动作的同时,一边开口对婴儿讲话,一边安抚着他,那会更有助于其信赖感的建立。
如果婴儿生病了,即使你无法为他治病,但你的出现仍然能够安抚他,因为你的安慰让他知道,他并未被遗弃。
父母是培养孩子信赖感的关键人物,即便孩子白天是托人照顾的,他也会学着去相信你为他选择的保姆。在你和孩子的互动过程中,他基本的生理需求被满足,信赖感也由此养成。婴儿时期信赖感的养成是他其他品格——诸如:耐心、诚实、同情等形成的基础,而他将来面对人生的态度,更与其信赖感的建立紧密相连。
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从现在开始,改变你的养育习惯
不管是新手爸妈,还是久为父母,你可能都有为孩子一筹莫展的经历:为了孩子的一个反常举动,要么半夜还泡在好孩子论坛上求助,听各路妈妈七嘴八舌地给你建议,要么苦思不得其解……但往往你会发现,大部分中国妈妈都有同样的迷思。以情商培养为例,面对0~6岁的孩子,中国妈妈们要么把情商培养的地位远远放在智商、健康之后,要么即便意识到了情商的重要性,也不知道从何处做起,更不会想到只要家长日常的养育习惯改变一点点,孩子的情商就会大大提高。
但只要你拿起了这本书,三个强大的理由会促使你改变你的养育习惯:
最具有诱惑力的理由是:培养情商其实非常简单,而且能帮你解决你正一筹莫展的难题。作为父母,你的孩子是不是曾经有过这样的行为:动不动就大哭大闹?和你对着干?源源不断地问你“为什么”?欺负别的小朋友?在家很淘气,一到学校就很乖?……实际上,你在应对这些问题时所说的每一句话,所做的每一件事,都会影响到孩子的情商。这本书就是从孩子的这些行为出发,分析孩子的心理,教你应该怎么做,千万不能怎么做,而你每做对一次,孩子的情商指数可能就会提升一分。
最势不可挡的理由在于:情商的影响力是智商的9倍——这个结论源自美国一家很有名的研究机构对188个公司高级主管智商和情商的测试及对比分析。同时,情商是后天的,是可以培养的,但绝不是靠读书、考试的学习,而是从小的培养,尤其是在0~6岁情商形成期的培养。
此外,同样为人父母的作者25年来潜心研究的诚心给了我们一个最温暖的理由——作为两个孩子的母亲,琳恩?怀斯不仅是美国最权威的心理专家,也是最了解孩子的心理学家,她通过对0~6岁孩子以及孩子父母、保育老师的观察,发现:90%的家长在孩子41种常见行为面前说的话、做的事都不可取!可能导致孩子一生有重大的情商缺失,在此基础上,她潜心研究,总结出了书中实用、好用的方法。
本书自出版以来就一直被美国家长热捧,也被拥有35年早教经验的金宝贝早教中心奉为秘而不宣的家长教材。在此,我们特别感谢北京金宝贝早教中心,如果不是他们将本书英文版作为教材发送给家长,中国读者可能不会这么快见到本书。感谢所有看到这段文字和购买本书的读者,您选择的是紫图图书和奇迹童书用诚心为您制作的家教经典,希望这本书能对您有所帮助,也祝您的孩子健康、快乐!
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2011年7月

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$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
Yami
欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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