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1、好父母胜过好老师,好家庭才是较好的早教班。

2、盲目投入不是疼,言传身教才是爱;让家庭成为课堂,把快乐留给孩子

3、早教班痛苦着孩子的童年,影响着亲子关系,您愿意吗?

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父母对孩子的教育还是应该采取顺其自然的态度。顺其自然不是说放任孩子、不管孩子,而是尊重孩子成长的规律,为孩子提供适合他们年龄的教育。在这种教育中,父母应该着重培养孩子的生活习惯、动手能力、思考能力、情绪控制能力等,至于那些生硬的知识,父母应在孩子能接受的年龄再教给他们。

本书所表达的主题——孩子不必上早教,其实是说孩子在6岁之前,没有多大的必要去早教机构学习,而不是说孩子在6岁之前,父母没必要教育孩子。当然,在父母教育孩子的过程中,应该重在培养孩子的认知能力和健全人格,而非给孩子灌输知识。这样才能更好地培养孩子的智商和情商,为孩子的健康成长打下良好的基础。


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石娟

女,教育心理学硕士,出版科普著作数十种,在儿童智能开发、儿童心理研究、亲子家教等方面很有研究,目前主要致力于中国式家庭教育方面的理论研究及普及类图书的写作,现任某儿童智能研究中心的智能开发指导教师。已参与策划、指导、编著出版的图书有:《每个孩子都能成为天才》、《400个侦探思维游戏-珍藏版》、《不娇不惯把孩子送进清华北大》等。


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什么是早教——揭开早教的危害性
1.早受教育会压垮成长中的幼苗
2.别听早教机构坑人的“早教神话”
3.上早教班等于在星级酒店吃炒饭
4.父母想到培养“神童”,理智就“歇菜”了

第一章 面对早教,家长存在矛盾观望心理
1.育子成才是父母最美好的心愿
2.个别早教成材案例让父母心痒痒
3.攀比心理促使家长给孩子报早教班
4.多数家长既怕浪费,又不甘落后
5.很多父母对早教持观望态度

第二章 家教胜于早教,“家”是最好的早教班
1.孩子3岁前没必要进任何教育机构
2.孩子3岁前背诗识字都是徒劳
3.社会不需要高智商的低能儿
4.斯托纳的自然教育更值得提倡
5.不要随便把孩子扔给老人
6.爸爸妈妈要多花时间陪孩子

第三章 言传身教,好父母胜过好老师
1.爱成绩,更要爱孩子
2.关起门来为孩子鼓
3.要言传,更要身
4.为孩子做敬重长辈的典范
5.带孩子做文明的公
6.领着孩子招待客
7.做孩子的诚信榜
8.给孩子做个乐观的榜样
9.培养孩子的生活习惯
10.培养孩子惜时的好习惯

第四章 家庭环境是孩子最好的课堂
1.创造一个有益的刺激环境
2.为孩子布置一片想象的天地
3.选择有益的卡通
4.给孩子制作一面涂鸦墙
5.创造“变废为宝”的条件
6.营造自由宣泄的环境
7.创造感受音乐的空间
8.保持整洁卫生的家居环境

第五章 把家变成游乐场
1.锅碗瓢盆皆可“玩”
2.玩积木,永远不落伍
3.户外游戏省钱又有趣
4.与孩子一起制作玩具
5.角色游戏让孩子明白社会百态
6.利用电游培养亲子感情
7.文字游戏激发学习欲望

第六章 培养孩子适应社会的能力
1.带孩子“串门”,学会与人交往
2.让孩子在交往中有礼貌些,再有礼貌些
3.带孩子去购物,了解简单的购物知识
4.给孩子小钱,让他自己去买小东西
5.教孩子礼貌地拨打、接听电话
6.鼓励孩子自我介绍或介绍别人
7.学会安慰,培养孩子的爱心
8.参加聚会,教会孩子餐桌礼仪

第七章 规矩让孩子更优秀
1.规矩到底要不要
2.懂规矩,才能保安全
3.有规矩就是不要无原则地迁就
4.吃饭、睡觉要有规矩
5.站要有站相,坐要有坐相
6.听长辈说话要注意的规矩
7.去别人家里要注意的规矩

第八章 激发孩子的本能就是最好的教育
1.安全感是最本能的需求
2.理解并尊重孩子对秩序感的需要
3.尊重孩子“自己动手”的本能
4.细心呵护孩子的探索欲望
5.挫折和失败是孩子成长的阶梯
6.唤醒并正确引导孩子的好胜本能

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什么是早教——揭开早教的危害性

什么是早教呢?很多家长没有搞清楚这个问题,就盲目地把孩子送到早教机构,片面地认为早教就是教孩子认字、背诗、学算术,以为这样可以为孩子将来上小学打基础,殊不知这种认识多么可笑。其实,早教是指孩子在0~6岁这个阶段,根据孩子生理和心理发展的特点,进行有针对性的指导和培养,帮孩子打下良好的多元智能和健康人格的基础。也就是说,早教重在培养孩子的认知和人格,并非让孩子掌握多少“死知识”。

1.早受教育会压垮成长中的幼苗

不知是哪个天才说了句“不能让孩子输在起跑线上”,从那以后,很多家长便纷纷行动起来,恨不得在孩子还没出生的时候,就对孩子进行教育。孩子出生以后,父母更是忙开了,又是教孩子认字背诗,又是给孩子报早教班,其实,这种做法直接摧残了孩子脆弱的内心和稚嫩的肩膀。

不到6岁的孩子就认识上千字,会背几百首古诗。看看这么大的数字,想想这么小的年龄,孩子应该学得不轻松吧?某城市的幼儿园升小学,给出了一道让成人抓耳挠腮的试题:“一只小鸡和一只小鸭在路上走,小鸭掉到坑里了,小鸡应该怎么救小鸭?为什么北极熊不吃企鹅?”据说这道试题考的是孩子的常识能力和推理能力,看看这些题,孩子做出来应该很吃力吧?

是的,对于年幼的孩子来说,能够做到这些,并非因为他们是“神童”,而是因为他们早早地受到了教育,这就是很多家长所说的早教,是他们让孩子赢在起跑线上的关键举措。可是家长没有考虑孩子的感受,没想过孩子会有多么累。

一天,刘女士给上幼儿园的女儿报了一个儿童英语学校的培训班,每个星期六上一次课,4个课时,教课的老师是从英国回来的留学生,口语不错。刚开始,女儿上课的兴致挺高,因为交了几个新朋友,而且老师上课的形式很新颖。为了调动小朋友的热情,老师将幽默故事穿插在课堂上,还和小朋友们玩小游戏。

不过上了两次课后,刘女士就发现女儿没了热情。为了让女儿去上课,每次,刘女士都苦口婆心地做说服工作。有一次,老师在课堂上发给每个小朋友一张白纸。下课的时候,刘女士发现女儿把那张白纸的正反面画得一点儿空隙都没有。刘女士和女儿交谈后,了解到她早就不愿意听课了,老师给她一张纸,她正好用来涂鸦。

看着那张被涂得乱糟糟的纸,刘女士开始怀疑自己给女儿报班是不是错了。就在这时,女儿说了一句话:“妈妈,我的负担太重了,我学不动了。”因为女儿不只是上英语班,还有上其他的兴趣班,还要认字、画画、背诗。从那以后,刘女士就再没让女儿上英语补习班。

现在很多父母对孩子的要求不只是高,还早。比如,让年幼的孩子上早教班,说是为了提前适应幼儿园的生活;让本该上幼儿园的孩子上小学,说是自己的孩子很聪明,应付得了小学的学习内容。父母为孩子争取时间,为的就是让孩子在将来的竞争中占据优势,然而这样做是在拔苗助长,对孩子的成长有很大的危害。

◎不要太高看了年幼的孩子

早教早教,就是让孩子早点儿受教育,这是很多父母对早教的误解。在父母的努力下,年幼的孩子早早地学会了很多知识,本该上幼儿园的孩子,被父母要求上小学。当小学老师不同意时,家长会不厌其烦地向老师或校长介绍自己的孩子有多么优秀,找各种关系来说情。有的父母甚至会动用关系改户口本,把孩子的出生日期往前推移。所有这些做法只是为了让孩子早入学。

教育专家认为,家长之所以这么做,关键在于他们总认为自己的孩子是最优秀的。既然那么优秀,就要早点儿让他们上学。遗憾的是,他们没有明白,新一代孩子越来越优秀已是一种普遍现象。因此,家长不能太高看了孩子,而要把孩子放到群体中去考察,才能发现年龄小的孩子确实是弱于足龄的。如果强行让孩子提前入学接受教育,到时候无论是在人际交往上还是在学习上,孩子都会有很大的压力。

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