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Long Yingtai, who can read children




"Son, Take Your Time" is the second Long Yingtai book I bought This book tells some of the stories of the younger son and Andrei as children very close to life Note-type articles but small stories This book will not only give many parents some advice on educating their children It also allows readers to realize the philosophy of life from subtle things


My favorite is the little story called "Bowtie" in the preface of "Take Your Time, Kid" < span class="s3">The story mainly tells that Long Yingtai went to the market to buy flowers And then a five-year-old child helped her Binding up the bouquet she bought Because she is a child, she is not skilled The little finger held the rope to the other side and just accidentally released it < span class="s3">At this time, the little boy's grandma couldn't help but scold the little boy and said Your slow Guests are waiting for you

However Long Yingtai comforted the child by saying It's okay take your time< span class="s1"> Even at the end of the article, Long Yingtai wrote


Muslims and Jews are killing each other, Ethiopian women and children are starving to death, New York Wall Street 's stock market is crowded with people with nervous expressions——I, sitting on the stone steps under the setting sun, willing to wait For the past life, let this child tie that bow with ease, with his five-year-old fingers.


Long Yingtai's gentleness and kindness moved me Long Yingtai's kindness Only those who have seen all kinds of situations in life will have such a calm and peaceful state of mind







If you like reading Education, Kids & Parents these topics then I will also give You recommend Long Yingtai's "Dear Andrea" book about the conversation between Long Yingtai and her eldest son Most of the articles are in the form of letters. So it is the real relationship between Long Yingtai and her eldest son. Contents of correspondence some even excerpts from online chats


Long Yingtai wrote in the book The eldest son grows with age< /span> The gap between generations seems to be getting wider Then she thought of writing a book in the form of a letter with her son bringing closer to the child The relationship between asked the elder son's opinion span>He's excited This is where this book comes from Long Yingtai's letter to his son in the book resonated with me a lot < /span>Gives me great solace during a time when I was struggling Because I also encountered similar troubles with Andre Lovelorn < /span>Long Yingtai's letter contains a passage that deeply moved me  ;


"Life is like a big river, it may be beautiful, but it may be stormy. You need a partner, preferably someone who can be by your side Standing on the bow of the boat, singing the scenery on both sides of the strait in a low voice, and at the same time, the person who can hold your hand tightly in the stormy sea. In other words, it is best that she is not the stormy sea you have to deal with.< span class="s1">”


The other sentence is that Long Yingtai expressed his deep love for his son Although Distressed that the child is wronged but will never let the child be hurt a little Because Long Yingtai understands that children should reflect on their own mistakes and pain Growing up gradually This is a special kind of love


"I can only make you fall, watch you fall, I can only hope that you will get up where you fell, hope the sun Shine here, illuminate your sad heart, and illuminate the unseen road in front of you.

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Yami 특선

会读懂孩子的龙应台




《孩子,你慢慢来》是我买的第二本龙应台的作品 本书讲的是小儿子和安德烈小时候的一些片段故事 非常贴近生活的一些记事类的文章 但是却是小故事大道理 这本书不仅能给很多做爸爸妈妈的人一些教育孩子的建议 还能让读者从细微的事情上悟出人生的哲理


我最喜欢《孩子,你慢慢来》中序言的名为《蝴蝶结》的小故事 故事主要讲述龙应台去市场买花 然后是一个五岁的小孩帮她把她买的花束包扎绑起来 因为是小孩子所以手法不熟练 小小的手指拿着绳子穿过去另一边的时候又刚好不小心松开 此时小男孩的奶奶在一旁看到忍不住骂起了小孩子说 你慢吞吞的 客人都在等你啦

然而 龙应台却安慰孩子说 没事 慢慢来 甚至文章的结尾龙应台更是写到


回教徒和犹太人在彼此屠杀,衣索匹亚的老弱妇孺在一个接一个地饿死,纽约华尔街的证券市场挤满了表情紧张的人——我,坐在斜阳浅照的石阶上,愿意等上一辈子的时间,让这个孩子从从容容地把那个蝴蝶结扎好,用他五岁的手指。


龙应台的温柔和善良让我动容 像是一个历经岁月风雨看尽了人生百态的人才会有如此这般从容平和的心境







如果你喜欢读 教育、孩子与父母 这些话题的话 那么我还会给你推荐龙应台的《亲爱的安德烈》本书讲述龙应台与她的大儿子之间的对话 大多文章是以书信的格式展开话题的 所以是龙应台与她的大儿子之间真实的书信往来的内容 有些甚至是网上的聊天记录摘录


书中龙应台写到 大儿子随着年龄的增长 两代人之间的鸿沟好像越来越远 然后她想到用与儿子书信的方式出一本书 拉近与孩子之间的关系 问了大儿子的意见的时候 他很兴奋 这是这本书的由来 书中其中有一封龙应台给儿子的信让我产生了巨大的共鸣 在我曾经很煎熬的一段时期里给予了我莫大的慰藉 因为我也遇到跟安德烈相似的烦恼 失恋 龙应台的信其中有一段话让我深深感动 


人生像条大河,可能风景清丽,更可能惊涛骇浪。你需要的伴侣,最好是那能够和你并肩立在船头,浅斟低唱两岸风光,同时更能在惊涛骇浪中紧紧握住你的手不放的人。换句话说,最好她本身不是你必须应付的惊涛骇浪。


另外一句是龙应台抒发了对儿子的深沉的爱 虽然心疼孩子受到委屈 但是绝不会不让孩子受到一点伤害 因为龙应台明白孩子应该在错误和伤痛中自我反思 逐渐成长 这是一种特别的爱


我只能让你跌倒,看着你跌倒,只能希望你会在跌倒的地方爬起来,希望阳光照过来,照亮你藏着忧伤的心,照亮你眼前看不见尽头的路。