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[Little Cola's Book List] An excerpt from "Please advise me for the rest of my life"



A book especially for girls.

It's so warm, so warm.

It can also be regarded as a small holiday for one's nerves.

We will take our time and teach us the rest of our lives.


That cloud is what I watched with you, and so was the gust of wind.

I will be you for the rest of my life.


I always wanted to take a look at the higher world, but I haven’t gotten up yet, but I’ve fallen down again and again. Over the years I’ve walked I have passed some roads and met some people. I tried to write down some stories, and I deliberately lost some of the past.


People start to miss the days when mail was slow, but can’t stand it withoutWi-Fidays.


I want you to come a little later, walk slower, see every scene along the way, and live up to what you encounter Every affection.


Work hard to digest what’s in front of you,

For poetry and distance.


From crying to painless,

Maybe this is life.


The rest of life is long and life is slow.

We have time.


There are countless mountains and rivers and stars and seas ahead, and we will arrive together.

Those Pi Li Chunqiu and Muyun Chunshu, we will talk about it together.


The most beautiful love may be, after going around for so long, you are back and I am still here.


"Two people who are together, both dependent and independent of each other, doing things at the same frequency and pace. Two people Even if we are silent together, we do not feel embarrassed. Even if we just do some ordinary little things, we still feel full of interest. That is a good love.——< span class="s2">Because if you're with someone you don't love, you'll feel lacklustre no matter what you do.


"Love is never about recruiting. Love does not need one-of-a-kind talents, it just requires two people to be together when they are together In your eyes, when you separate, put the other person in your heart.


I know the world is going to be tough, but I still believe it’s human.


There is no turning back.


You have a story, he has a story, who doesn’t have a story?


 Grief and goodbye take time , in this city where time is money, it is obviously not worth spending time on those things.


Adolescent love is that simple, pure, without too much pressure from living, and without too many worries about survival .

As the song sings——It was sunny and breezy that day Exactly, with a smile on your lips, you said you want to grow old with me.


Love is easy, but staying together is hard.< /p>


You depend on him because he is good to you, which is a good feeling.

Because I have similar interests with him, I feel that it is a very good thing to be with him, which is like.

Because of good feelings and liking, you and him went through the first two stages smoothly, and then you feel that if you can be with him for the rest of your life, even if there are conflicts and disputes, you are willing to Compromise and patient communication are appropriate.


Be willing to make changes for the other person< span class="s2"> is the minimum threshold for love.


In the face of life and death, love and hate are small things, only peace.


 Time sneaks away, When people are busy, they don't know what Monday and Sunday are, and the days are counted according to the week.


To fall in love with someone is to involuntarily lower yourself into the dust. My pride is crumbling in front of you, and I just want to It doesn't matter if you can be with me in the future, I can see you smiling now.< /p>


Actually, all the good things in this world are probably the most delicious when they are lost when they are cherished.< span class="s1">”


I used to be ignorant, and I felt ashamed and hypocritical to talk about growing up. In fact, if you asked me to talk about growing up now, I would still I can't really tell.

But if I had to say it, it would be the feeling of the tear ducts gradually failing.

Since you have passed the age where you can cry and eat sugar, don't show weakness easily. Your tears have been hard to exchange for distressed.


Even if the scenery of Fengling Ferry was good when I was sixteen, we would never go back.< span class="s1">”


Never fail him, but also yourself. span>


Healing wounds takes time, healing hearts takes new love. span>


Wishful thinking, you have to be willing to lose.< /p>


This world has no ifs, and there is no starting over. Youth that has experienced disappointment and loss is growth. And because of this, Desperate love in adulthood is even more precious.


It’s cheap for the spectators, proud of the villain, and miserable for myself. "

God’s will is not only repeated, but also very impermanent.”< /span>


You have to watch the fireworks from across the bank to avoid the choking smoke.


However, emotions are the most unimportant thing in this world, and they will not be as balanced as business cooperation. Every time you do something, you must first care about your comings and goings, the complex even includes the self-moving emotions brought by the effort, and the speed of fading will always catch people off guard.


"The most fearful thing in a relationship is this kind of thing. Your habit is his unreasonable, her daily life It's your unbelievable, you have different ideas, you can't talk together.


Some people say that the impermanence of the world lies in the unpredictability of the road ahead.


Usually when a girl is in a bad relationship, it’s not far from her promotion and raise.< /span>


There are always things in this world that you have to get through and don’t talk about.


Walking through mountains and rivers, all the way to your side, in order to give you a fiery beating heart, not to let You appreciate my perfect armor.


If he doesn’t want to say it, then don’t say it. The most important thing about making friends is not to lose your sense of proportion.< /span>


Not all encounters are as perfect as one would like, and some encounters make you so happy that you can’t wait to jump up and shout old Long live the sky, but some encounters are more like a doomsday. There is no warning. They bumped into each other on the huge road, and they turned their backs. span class="s1">”


In one’s life, one must do something to be regarded as a lunatic by others, and one must be one’s own hero.


"This is a car, just like a living person, it is common to be twisted and twisted. You look at the smooth road ahead, but there are actually many pits. Don't think that you can walk a good road forever, everyone wants to walk a good road, who will take the detour?


In fact, the power of time is very powerful.


We all have only one life and cannot give generously to those we don’t love.


What is it like to eat? What is it like to drink? What is it like to breathe? What is it like to sleep? The experience of loving someone becomes a habit: I can not do any of the above things, but I can't tolerate one day when I don't love her.< /p>


   It's a wonderful thing to remember, When you rack your brains to forget something, you remember it better; occasionally try to recall something just past, only to find that you have completely forgotten it.”< /span>


In love, when we are tempted, we don’t care how long we can love.

I don't care if my face is getting old, I don't care if we will be separated in the future, I don't care if you and I will meet again, I only know that you have the clearest eyes I have ever seen, I I only know that you have the most beautiful face I have ever seen in my life.


Saury will expire, canned meat will expire, and even the plastic wrap will expire, so don’t worry, I always have my heart for you One day it will expire too.


Who are the guests? They are outsiders. Politeness and attention to detail are exquisite masks we leave to outsiders, and they are the most important part of social occasions. An indispensable tool for dealing with outsiders.

But what is love? Love is the process of smashing two people together. Your camouflage, your scheming, your mask, your thick black science, all have no place in love and should not be used.


The friendship between gentlemen is as thin as water, what is weak is connection, and what is not weak is friendship.

There are things that you only know when you experience them, and that only take up an infinitesimal percentage of your life.

Future future, now and now.


Do you know what is the most embarrassing thing in love?

It's the return of no chance, the waiting of unrequited love, and the never-let-up after the love is exhausted.


Sometimes in life you have to have it, but in your life, don’t force it


Do your best to say goodbye.


Protecting yourself is the greatest kindness you can give the world. "


Everyone has a fire in their hearts, but passersby can only see smoke.


Cherish encounters and respect losses.


Similar likes and dislikes are the simplest prerequisites and guarantees for friendship in youth.


Each country is in the south and the sea, and each other cherishes peace.


In fact, it seems that the person who belongs to the title of good friend is indeed a phased person, and time and distance are the killers that wipe out feelings .


Life is like a long run. We set off together at that time, enjoyed the same scenery along the way, accompanied and supported each other and walked a long way.

But in the end, there is a gap in physical strength. Some people gradually surpass you and run in front of you, and some people gradually exhausted and fall behind you.

Physical strength can no longer support you to take care of each other, so you can only watch each other drifting away from each other, the friends in front of you have no time to take care of them, and the friends behind you want to catch up with you even more Powerless.

At this time, what you should do is to keep running and wish them all the best.


"Growing up is actually such a thing. When I was a child, I thought that everything was born for me, and gradually realized that it was not the case. Realize that you are alone in the end.


Obviously knowing what is irreversible, stopping the loss in time is the first priority.


Qingshan is immortal, and it is the snow that wishes to grow old.


A good word is warm in winter, and a bad word is cold in June.


The only heroism in life is to love life after you realize that the world is not wonderful. In terms of life, I prefer to show the beauty of life, rather than blindly pursuing the truth of the world.


No loneliness, no growth.


Loneliness is an emotion, and loneliness is a state.


Stay in the group, keep the heart alone, and loneliness is a required course for growth.


Learning to enjoy solitude and appreciate the benefits of being alone may be the first step in your growth. Avoiding meaningless gregariousness is also The best choice for improving the quality of life.


Does not deliberately cater to and does not mean deliberately out of the group. It is also necessary to practice in the workplace while being yourself and dealing with interpersonal relationships. Skills. Being too gregarious is not a good thing, it means you will lose yourself in the group. The key is to grasp the balance between maintaining yourself and integrating into the group.


There is no empathy in this world, and no one can live your life for you.


"Loneliness is a hurdle, but it is also a pair of armor. When you cross the swamp through thorns and thorns, you wear loneliness and carry strong wine. With the sword in your hand, you will surely be able to defeat the dragon, and then go all the way forward.


You can expect a better man, but only if you are a better woman.


Believe that someone is living the life you want.


If you’re not living the life you want, it’s because you’re not good enough< span class="s1">”.








 













































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【小可乐的书单】《余生请你多指教》好句摘录



特别适合女孩子看的书。

好暖好暖。

也算是给自己的神经放个小假。

我们慢慢来,余生多指教。


那片云是我和你一起看的,那阵风也是。

至此终老,我的余生都是你。


总想看一眼更高处的世界,还没上去,却已经一次又一次地跌倒。这些年我走过一些路,也遇到过一些人,我试图记下一些故事,也刻意地丢掉一些过往。


人们开始怀念车马邮件都很慢的年月,却不能忍受没有Wi-Fi的日子。


我要你们来得晚一点,走得慢一些,看遍沿路的每一处风景,不辜负所遇的每一份深情。


努力消化眼前的苟且吧,

为了诗和远方。


从哭哭啼啼到痛而不语,

也许这就是人生。


余生还很长,日子也很慢。

我们有的是时间。


前方无数的山高水阔和星辰大海,我们会一起到达。

那些皮里春秋和暮云春树,我们会一起说。


最美好的爱情也许是,兜兜转转那么久,你回来了,我还在这里。


在一起的两个人,既相互依赖,又彼此独立,做事情的频率和步调能够保持一致。两个人在一起哪怕沉默着,也不感到尴尬,即便只是做一些寻常的小事,也觉得兴味盎然,那就是很好的爱情了——因为如果是和自己不爱的人在一起,无论做什么事都会感到乏善可陈。


爱情从来都不是招聘。爱情不需要百里挑一的人才,它只要两个人在一起的时候,把对方放进眼里,分开的时候,把对方装进心里。


我知道世事艰险,却依旧相信事在人为。


再无岁月可回头。


你有故事,他有故事,谁没有故事呢?


 悲伤和告别是很费时间的,在这座讲究时间就是金钱的城市,把时间耗费在那些事情上显然太不划算。


青春时期的恋爱就是那样简单、纯粹,没有太多来自生计的压力,也没有太多关乎生存的烦恼。

就像歌里唱的那样——那天阳光不燥,微风正好,你嘴角带笑,说要和我一起变老。


相爱容易,相守太难。


因为他对你好,所以你依赖他,这是好感。

因为与他兴趣相投,觉得如果能和他在一起是一件很不错的事,这是喜欢。

因为好感和喜欢,你和他顺利走过前两个阶段,然后你觉得,如果余生都能和他在一起,即使发生矛盾、发生争执,也愿意为爱妥协、耐心沟通,这是合适。


能够心甘情愿地为对方做出改变是爱情的最低门槛。


生死面前,爱恨皆是小事,唯有平安。


 时间总是偷偷摸摸地走掉,人一忙起来就不知道什么叫作周一周日,算日子都是按礼拜算了。


爱上一个人,就是不由自主地让自己低进了尘埃里。我的骄傲在你面前溃不成军,只想沉下一整颗心来对你好,你以后是否能和我在一起不重要,现在我能看到你笑就好。


其实,这世上所有的好东西,大抵都要在珍惜中失去才最有味道。


以前不懂事,觉得谈成长羞耻而矫情。其实如果你叫我现在谈谈成长是什么感觉,我还真说不上来。

但如果非要说,那就是泪腺渐渐失效的感觉吧。

既然已经过了那个会哭就有糖吃的年纪,就不要再轻易示弱了。你的眼泪已经很难换来心疼。


纵使十六岁那年风陵渡口的风景再好,我们也不会回去了。


决不辜负他,但也要对得起自己。


治愈外伤需要时间,治愈心伤需要新欢。


一厢情愿,就得愿赌服输。


这世界没有如果,也没有从头再来。经历过失望和失去的青春才算是成长。也正因为如此,成年之后的拼命去爱就更显得弥足珍贵。


便宜了看客,得意了小人,弄惨了自己。

天意这东西,不但反复,而且无常得厉害。


要隔岸观赏烟火,才躲得过呛人的烟尘啊。


可感情偏偏又是这世间最不能计较的事,压根儿就不会像商业合作那样得失平衡,若是每做什么事都要先计较你来我往的话,那份复杂的甚至包含了付出带来的自我感动的情感,褪色的速度总会让人措手不及。


一段感情里最害怕的,也就是这种事。你的习以为常是他的不可理喻,她的日常生活是你的不可置信,你们观念不同,聊不到一块去。


有人说世事的无常之处,就在于前路的不可预见。


通常情况下一个女生感情不顺的时候,离她升职加薪的日子也就不远了。


这世上总有些东西得自己挺过去,不足与人谈起。


跋山涉水,一路披荆斩棘来到你身边,为的是把一颗炽热跳动的心交给你,而不是让你欣赏我完美的盔甲。


他不愿说,那就不说。交朋友这件事,最重要的就是不能失了分寸。


并不是所有的相遇都能尽如人意得那么恰到好处,有些遇见让你高兴得恨不得跳起来高呼老天万岁,而还有些相遇却更像是一次劫数,毫无征兆突如其来,在偌大的路上撞得彼此人仰马翻,起身拍拍土想要尽力处变不惊一些,才发现身后就是万丈深渊。


人这一辈子,一定要做一次被别人当成疯子的事,一定要当一次自己的英雄。


这开车啊,和活人一样,歪七扭八是常事,你看着前头一片坦途,其实藏坑的地方多着呢。不要想着永远能走好路,谁都想走好路,那弯路谁来走?


其实时间的力量是很厉害的。


我们都只有一个一生,不能慷慨赠予不爱的人。


吃饭是什么样的体验?喝水是什么样的体验?呼吸是什么样的体验?睡觉是什么样的体验?爱一个人成习惯的体验就是:以上这些事我都可以不做,但我不能容忍自己有一天不爱她。


   记忆这个东西很奇妙,当你绞尽脑汁想要忘记什么的时候,却记得更清楚;偶尔试图回想一些刚刚过去的事情,却发现自己已经忘得一干二净。


在爱情里面,我们动心的时候并不在乎能爱多久。

我不在乎容颜是否老去,不在乎我们以后是否会分离,不在乎你我还会不会相遇,我只知道你拥有一双我见过的最清澈的双眼,我只知道你拥有我这辈子见过的,最美最美的脸。


秋刀鱼会过期,肉罐头会过期,连保鲜纸都会过期,所以你放心,我对你的心意总有一天也会过期。


宾客是什么人?是外人。礼貌和讲究都是我们留给外人看的精致面具,是社交场合上对待外人的必不可少的道具。

但爱情是什么?爱情是把两个人砸碎了糅合在一起的过程。你的伪装你的心机你的面具你的厚黑学,在爱情里统统没有也不该有用武之地。


君子之交淡如水,淡的是联系,不淡的是情谊。

有些事经历过你才知道,这些事只占据你生命里的无数分之一。

未来未来,现在现在。


你知道爱情里最让人难堪的事是什么吗?

是无缘的回头、单恋的等候和情尽后的不放手。


命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求


每一次告别都请用尽全力。


保护自己,是你能施予这个世界最大的善意。


每个人的心中都有一团火,但路过的人只能看到烟。


珍惜相遇,尊重失去。


喜恶相似是年少时的友情最简单的前提和保证。


各自天南海北,互道珍重平安。


其实现在看来,好朋友这个称呼所属人确实是阶段性的,时间和距离都是磨灭感情的杀手。


人生如同一次长跑。彼时一起出发,欣赏沿途相同的风景,互相陪伴扶持走了很远的路。

但终究体力上有差距,有些人渐渐超过你,跑在你的前面,有些人渐渐力竭,落到你的身后。

体力已经无法支撑你们互相顾及,以至于只能互相看着彼此渐行渐远,你身前的朋友无暇他顾,身后的朋友想追上你更是力不从心。

这时候的你,应该做的是坚持跑下去,并祝福他们过得都好。


成长其实就是这样的一件事,小时候认为万物为我而生,逐渐意识到并非如此,再之后又意识到终究只有自己一个人。


明明知道已经无法挽回的事,及时止损才是第一要务。


青山本不老,为雪愿白头。


好言一句三冬暖,恶语伤人六月寒。


生命中唯一的英雄主义是当你认识到世界的不美妙之后,依然热爱生活。成年之后,于个人生活而言,我更希望演出生活的美,而不是一味追求世间的真。


无孤独,不成长。


寞是一种情绪,而孤独是一种境界。


群处守行,独处守心,孤独是成长的必修课。


学会享受孤独并能体味独处的好处,或许是你成长的第一步。避免无意义的合群,也是提高生命质量的不二选择。


不刻意迎合并不代表刻意离群,在做好自己的同时处理好人际关系,也是职场必须修炼的技能。太合群也不是什么好事,那意味着会在群体中失去自我。关键是把握好保有自我与融入群体之间的分寸。


这世上没有感同身受,也没人能替你走完一生。


孤独是一道坎,却也是一副盔甲,披荆斩棘蹚过沼泽的时候,你穿着孤独带着烈酒举起手中的剑,必定能将恶龙打败,然后一路勇往直前。


你可以期待遇到一个更好的男人,但前提是你也得是个更好的女人。


你要相信,一定有人在过着你想要的生活。


如果你还没能过上你想要的日子,那一定是因为你还不够优秀