
Two different Longyingtai
"Watching" can be said to be the most popular works of Long Yingtai in the past few years It was even on the bestseller list at one point Friends who may not have read "Watching" have heard of this A paragraph
"I slowly and slowly learned that the so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship only means that you and him The fate of his life is to keep watching his back go away in this life and this life. You stand on this end of the path and watch him gradually disappear at the turn of the path, and he silently tells you with his back: Don't chase. 0 span0”
It can be seen from this passage that Long Yingtai cares about children growing up The reluctance and helplessness when I was slowly estranged from myself But I also understand from it that this is a person that must be experienced as a parent The birth stage is to keep watching the children drift away It's actually a letting go process
The book "Watching" can be said to be a collection of notes and essays by Long Yingtai Each essay is accompanied by one or more photos taken by Long Yingtai Every photo has a A story Writing about many details of my life with my amnesic mother with Alzheimer's includes every call to the old mother Old mothers will not remember who she is Then Long Yingtai will patiently tell her mother that she is her number one. A daughter I then write that I have to pick up my mother every month to accompany her home for a period of time But many of my mother's memories stay in the old society However, Long Yingtai has long been accustomed to it. Writing about his father's death This is a very heavy memory for Long Yingtai /span> She went from unacceptable to relief There are also many records in the text of Long Yingtai's living conditions and lifestyles all It's very touching I think Long Yingtai's "Watching" is very suitable for me to read as a bedtime reading because each essay is not very long You can fall asleep reading an article every night
Another book that I highly recommend my friends to read is Long Yingtai's relatively new book, Silver Cactus < /span>"Silver Cactus" is a short story written by Long Yingtai when he was young includes about a dozen short stories with bizarre plot twists This book will show you a completely different Longyingtai Trust me If you only read the content and not the author < /span>You wouldn't think it was Long Yingtai's work at all because It's really subversive even many of the storylines are scary (maybe just me being timid) p>
Before I read The Silver Cactus I thought it would continue The comfortable and relaxed writing style that Long Yingtai is used to so it used to be my bedtime reading span> I could barely sleep until I read its "Silver Cactus" and "The Affair" Silver Cactus This article is full of despair If you have an affair, the plot is scarier
Anyway I highly recommend watching Silver Cactus It will let you see a different Longying Terrace


两个不一样的龙应台
《目送》可以说前些年龙应台大热的作品了 甚至曾一度被放在畅销书排行榜中 可能没读过《目送》的朋友都曾经听说过这样一段话
“我慢慢地、慢慢地了解到,所谓父女母子一场,只不过意味着,你和他的缘分就是今生今世不断地在目送他的背影渐行渐远。你站在小路的这一端,看着他逐渐消失在小路转弯的地方,而且,他用背影默默告诉你:不必追。”
从此段话中可以看出 龙应台对孩子长大成人与自己慢慢疏远的时候的不舍与无奈 但是却也从中明白这是作为父母必须经历的一个人生阶段 就是不断目送孩子们渐行渐远 其实就是一个放手的过程
《目送》一书可以说是龙应台的一本记事散文集 每一篇散文都配有一张甚至多张龙应台拍下的照片 每一张照片都背后都有一个故事 文中写到过自己与老年痴呆的患有失忆症的母亲的很多生活的细节 包括每次打电话给老母亲 老母亲都不会记得自己是谁 然后龙应台会耐心的告诉母亲自己就是她的第几个女儿 再写到每个月都要去接母亲回家陪着一段时间 但是母亲的很多记忆都停留在旧社会 然而龙应台却早已习以为常 又写到自己的父亲去世 这对于龙应台来说 是非常沉重的回忆 她从一开始的无法接受到后来的释然 文中还有很多记录龙应台的生活状态和生活方式 都是非常感人至深的 我认为龙应台的《目送》是非常适合我作为睡前读物去读的 因为每篇散文都不是很长 每晚看一篇就能入睡啦
另一本我非常推荐朋友们读的书是龙应台的比较新的一本作品《银色仙人掌》 《银色仙人掌》是龙应台自己整理出来的自己年轻时候写的短篇小说 收录了大概十几个短篇小说故事 情节曲折离奇 本书会为你展现一个完全不一样的龙应台 相信我 如果你只看内容不看作者的话 你会完完全全不认为这是龙应台的作品 因为真的太颠覆性了 甚至很多故事情节比较惊悚吓人(也许只是我胆子小)
在我还没读《银色仙人掌》之前 我以为它会延续龙应台一惯的那种舒服的轻松的写作风格 所以它还曾经是我的睡前读物 直到我读到它的《银色仙人掌》和《外遇》我吓到几乎没法入睡 银色仙人掌这篇文章是充满了绝望 外遇的话就是情节比较惊悚的
不管怎样我非常推荐大家去看 《银色仙人掌》 它会让你看到一个不一样的龙应台