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【Little Cola's Book List】A good sentence excerpt from "The Weakness of Human Nature" Pt.3




Do what you love.

Be the person you like.

Don't complain and don't hold grudges.  

We all only come here once.

Be sure to cherish it.  

(last part)

"Happiness does not depend on the generosity of others, but on earning the needs and love of others.


Many people are lonely and lonely because they don’t understand that love and friendship are not gifts from heaven.


Despite the advancement of medicine, there is still one disease that is becoming more common in crowded people. Loneliness.


If we sacrifice our lives,PayWe are fools if we give too much to worry."


Worry makes the toughest people sick< /p>


God may forgive our sins, William·James said,But our nervous system doesn't forgive us.


Face reality, don’t worry, and figure it out.


"Concentrate all your wisdom, all your enthusiasm, and do your work today to the best of your ability. This is the best way for you to meet the future. method.


Life is life, every day, every hour, every moment.


Only one grain of sand flows at a time, one thing at a time.


Every day is a new life for a smart person.


Use an iron gate to separate the past from the future, and live in a completely independent today.


Life is very short, don’t get caught up in the little things.


"Confusion is a major cause of worry. Don't think about how to solve a problem until you have collected all the facts in an objective manner .


Half the problem is solved if you can explain it clearly.


Everything that matches our desires appears to be the truth, everything else makes us angry.


Keeping you busy is the best cure for mental illness.


A comfortable sense of security, a sense of inner serenity, a feeling of being unresponsive to pleasure can make People are calm when they are focused on work.


People worry about having free time to think about whether they are happy or not.


We are often brave enough to face the big crises in our lives, only to be discouraged by the little things.


Of our concerns, 99% Not at all.


"If we can stop worrying, we can assess whether our worries are worthwhile based on the average rate of things happening, so that , I think you and I should be able to remove 99% of worries. "



What we will learn sooner or later is that we must accept and adapt to the inevitable.


This must be the case, there is no alternative.


"We can only accept and cooperate with the immutable reality. Philosopher Schopenhauer once expressed the same idea: "Submissiveness is life. required.” Jesus said, “Heaven is in you, and of course there is hell.”


"Let's learn to go with the flow like trees, facing night, storm, famine, accident and setback.


The only way to be happy is not to worry about what is beyond your control."


No one will have enough energy to fight the unchangeable reality while having the spare energy to create a new life So you can only choose between the two. In other words, life is under the irresistible impact, if you can't bend over, you can only break.


Pray that God will give me the peace of mind to accept the unchangeable; give me the courage to change the things I can; and Grant me the wisdom to distinguish between the two.


One of the greatest secrets to peace of mind is having the right values.


The price of a thing needs to be exchanged on the spot, or paid at the end. Another way to say it is: if we take A part of life is paid as a price, and if we pay too much, we are fools in this world.


When you start worrying about things that have been done or past, you are just sawing wood chips. span>


"Smart people never sit there grieving their losses, but happily find ways to make up for them trauma.


We can think of ways to change180The impact of what happened seconds ago, but we cannot change what happened then.


The only way to make past mistakes count is to calmly analyze them, learn from them, and then Forget mistakes.


It is much easier to teach twenty people what to do than to do it alone.


If possible, try not to spill the milk; if you do, forget about it completely. Don’t Cry over spilled milk.


Don’t spend too much time worrying and discussing what’s wrong, but more action to fix it.< /span>


Anyone who does a job they love infinitely can s0d.


Happiness in one’s life should come from as little dependence on external things as possible.


If you’re always dissatisfied, you’re going to be sad even for the whole world.


God favors those who are brave and strong.


"Doubt is the rebel in our hearts, fearful of pursuing it that will cost us what we would normally be able to win.< /span>


"Time is merciless, once you are wrong, it will never give you another chance to start from scratch .


Your future joys and hardships will depend on the seeds you sow.


"Hours of rest are not a waste of life, it allows you to stay awake more so you can do more Sober and productive.

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【小可乐的书单】《人性的弱点》好句摘录Pt.3




去做自己喜欢的事。

成为自己喜欢的人。

不去抱怨不去记恨。 

我们都只来这经过一次。

一定要好好珍惜啊。 

(最后一部分了)

幸福并不是靠别人的布施,而是自己去赢取别人对你的需要和喜爱。


许多人之所以会寂寞、孤独,就是因为他们不了解爱和友谊并非是从天而降的礼物。


虽然现在的医学已经很发达了,但仍然有一种疾病愈来愈普遍,那就是处于拥挤人群中的孤独感。


如果我们以生活为代价,给忧虑太多的话,我们就是傻子。


忧虑会令最顽强的人生病


上帝可能原谅我们所犯的罪过,威廉·詹姆斯说,可是我们的神经系统却不会原谅我们。


要面对现实,不要忧虑,然后想想办法。


要集中所有的智慧、所有的热忱,把今天的工作做得尽善尽美,这就是你迎接未来的最好方法。


生命就在生活里,就在每天、每时、每刻。


一次只流过一粒沙,一次只做一件事。


对一个聪明人来说,每天都是一个新的生命。


用铁门把过去和未来隔断,生活在完全独立的今天。


人生非常短促,不要拘泥于小事。


混乱是产生忧虑的主要原因。在没有以客观的态度搜集到所有的事实之前,不要想如何解决问题。


只要能把问题讲清楚,就已经解决了问题的一半。


一切和我们欲望相符合的,看来都是真理,其他的都会使我们感到愤怒。


让你忙着是精神疾病最好的治疗剂。


一种舒适的安全感、一种内在的宁静、一种因快乐而反应迟钝的感觉,都能使人在专心工作时精神平静。


人们之所以忧虑,就是有空闲时间来想自己到底快乐不快乐。


我们通常都很勇敢地面对生活里那些大的危机,却被那些小事搞得垂头丧气。


我们所担心的事情中,有99%根本就不会发生。


要是我们能够停止忧虑,我们就可以根据事情发生的平均率来评估我们的忧虑究竟值不值,这样,我想你和我应该可以消除99%的忧虑。



我们迟早要学到的东西,就是必须接受和适应那些不可避免的事实。


事必如此,别无选择


我们只有接受并配合不可改变的现实。哲学家叔本华曾表达过相同的想法:「逆来顺受是人生的必修课。」耶稣说:「天堂在你心中,当然地狱也在。」


让我们学着像树木一样顺其自然,面对黑夜、风暴、饥馑、意外和挫折。


快乐之道,仅此一种,就是不为无法掌握的事烦恼。


任何人都不会有足够的精力,一面与不可改变的现实抗争,一面又有余力去开创新生活。因此,你只能在两者之间作出选择。也就是说,人生在不可抗拒的冲击下,你如果不能弯腰,那就只有折断。


祈求上天赐予我平静的心,接受不可改变的事;给我勇气,改变我可以改变的事;并赐予我,分辨此两者的智慧。


获得心灵平静的最大秘密之一,就是要有正确的价值观念。


一件事物的代价,需要当场交换,或在最后付出。用另外一种方式说就是:如果我们以生活的一部分来作为代价付出,如果付得太多,那我们就是这个世界上的傻子。


当你开始为那些已经做完或过去的事忧虑的时候,你不过是在锯一些木屑。


聪明的人永远不会坐在那里为他们的损失而悲伤,却会很高兴地想办法来弥补他们的创伤。


我们可以想办法来改变180秒钟以前发生的事情所产生的影响,但是我们不可能去改变当时所发生的事情。


让过去的错误产生价值的唯一方法,就是平静地分析过去的错误,并从错误中汲取教训,然后忘记错误。


教二十个人该怎么做,要比自己一个人去做容易得多。


只要可能的话,就尽量不要打翻牛奶;万一打翻了牛奶,就彻底忘记这件事。不要为已经打翻的牛奶哭泣。


不要花太多时间去担心、讨论出什么问题,而是应该以更多的行动来解决问题。


每个从事自己所无限热爱的工作的人,都可以成功。


一个人生活上的快乐,应该来自于尽可能减少对外来事物的依赖。


如果你一直都觉得不满足,那即使是给你整个世界,你也会觉得伤心。


上帝偏爱那些勇敢和坚强的人。


疑虑是我们心中的叛逆者,由于害怕去追求,将会使我们失去我们通常能够赢得的东西。


时间是毫不留情的,你一旦错了,它是绝不会再给你一个从头开始的机会的。


你将来的欢乐和困苦,都将取决于你撒下的种子。


小时的休息并不是在浪费生命,它能够让你保持更多清醒的时间,使你能够做更多清醒而有效率的事。