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【Little Cola's Book List】A good sentence excerpt from "The Weakness of Human Nature" Pt.2




This book is longer than the previous ones.

But about three parts will end.

This section is more about the quality of married life and how to get along with those around you.



You are not born with judgment, everything comes from experience.


We are only half awake compared to what we should have achieved. We now use only a fraction of our physical and mental resources. A small part. Broadly speaking, the human individual lives as such, well within the limits of his due; he has powers that are never used. "


Shakespeare said: “If you don’t have a certain virtue, assume you have. As ifAssumingthe other person has the virtues you want to inspire, give him a good reputation to show, and he will do his best I can, and I don’t want to disappoint you.”


"If you want to influence a person's behavior without causing him aversion, give him a good name and let him go Hold.


Yes, sometimes people are ruled by toys.”< /span>


"In all the fire, in the evil, love-destroying plan invented by the devils of hell, chattering It is the deadliest. It is like the venom of a viper, and it is always eating people's lives.


I may have made many mistakes in my life, but I am always planning to marry for love.


"More than 50% of marriages fail; why are many sweet dreams all shattered after marriage? She knows that only One reason is heartbreaking criticism.


"Unreasonable is the cancer that devours love. While we all know this, the bad thing is that we treat own family, but not as polite as strangers.


Henry· Clay ·Rishner said: "Courtesy is the inner quality that guards the door and invites the inner courtyard Attention flowers.”””


Pastor Badfeldt continued, "Happy marriages are rarely the product of chance, they are like buildings, It has to be sensible and designed with heart.”


"I've only passed through here once, so any good I can do, or what I can say to anyone Any kindness, just let me do it now. Don't let me delay, don't ignore because I won't be passing through here again.


Trivial things are the source of most marital misfortunes.”< /span>


"If you can sit around and listen to unhappy couples all day long, you know that love is "destroyed by the little ones" things”


Children like to blame inanimate things or irrelevant people, and it seems that doing so will reduce their falls pain.


To mature oneself, one must first learn to take responsibility.


"It is important to transform people's lives for the better, not to wallow in self-pity all day long.


In the eyes of immature people, they can always find some reasons, and external reasons, through which to release some of their own shortcomings or misfortunes.


Psychologically immature people see their differences as flaws and obstacles, and then expect that they will be Special treatment. Mentally mature people recognize their differences first and then decide whether to accept them or improve them.


People often complain that their circumstances are not going well, thus keeping them from achieving little. I don’t believe that. If You can't get the environment you want, you can make one!


Difficulty does not mean unfortunate, it may be a lucky start.


Unfortunate encounters are not the end of the world. Sometimes they are the catalyst for action that is necessary to improve the situation.


Now, when I look back on that life, it feels as if the ship had gone through a great storm , is now back on calm seas.


At the first blow, the world seems to stop and our suffering seems to never end. But in any case, We always have to move forward to fulfill the goals in our life plan. And once we complete these life operations, the pain will gradually ease. One day, we will be able to recall the happy memories of the past and feel Bless, not hurt. Time is our best ally in overcoming the shadows of misfortune, but only when we open our hearts to fully accept the inevitable fate will we not sink into the abyss of pain." /span>


Indian Krishna once taught this: "The happy ending of a man is not a plain, peaceful joy. , but a vigorous struggle against misfortune.”


Life is not a smooth journey of happiness, but a constant swing between happiness and misfortune, ups and downs, light and dark We cannot bury our heads in the sand like ostriches and refuse to face all kinds of troubles, and troubles will not disappear. Suffering is a part of human life, and it is only when we face it in real life. Mature performance.


Never stop until the game is over.


ShoutoutWhy this happened to me", there is only one answer: "Why not?"


"God favors no one. As human beings, we all have to go through some hardships, just as we also experience many joys The same. Sooner or later, life itself will teach us that we are all equal in the experience of suffering.


Once we have a firm belief, it is time to act. "


Maturity must be learned, and often through hardship.


One does not stumble because of lack of faith, but because of inability to turn belief into action and persevere through it regardless.

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Only behavior is effective. If we don’t show action, any philosophical theory, no matter how valuable, works for us Nothing big. No great truth or principle will do us any good unless we build on our beliefs and then act on them.


Each person’s life experience is unique. Although the genes that make up the human body are the same, each of us lives a wonderful life It's all in itself and never the same.


"The process of spiritual maturity is a continuous process of self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless people understand themselves first, it is difficult to Get to know others.


Our hearts are like quiet springs, the beauty of which is found only when we are alone.


Real freedom should be to accept the challenges of life, to struggle constantly, and to experience all kinds of disputes.< /span>


Time will give us the opportunity to come up with a value system of our own.


"When a person who does not follow the crowd and is willing to hold on to his beliefs to the end when under attack, then it shows that he has great courage .


Following the flow can give you some kind of emotional satisfaction for a short period of time, but it also interferes with you from time to time Peace of mind.


"Only when people find themselves will they understand why they came to this world, what they will do, and what they will do in the future. Where to wait for such questions.


Boring of speech is a symptom of a personality disorder and a sign of no longer growing.


The best way to gain friendship is to focus on giving, not gaining——It should be earned by yourself, not by temptation or coaxing.< /p>


Humility precedes greatness.

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【小可乐的书单】《人性的弱点》好句摘录Pt.2




这本书相比之前的都要长。

不过大概三部分就会结束啦。

这部分更针对婚姻生活品质及与周围人的相处之道。



你不是生来就具有判断力的,一切都是由经验而来。


与我们本来应有的成就相比较,我们不过是半醒着。我们现在只利用我们身心资源的一小部分。广义地说,人类的个体就这样生活着,远在他应有的极限之内;他有着各种力量,但从未被利用过。


莎士比亚说:「如果你没有某种美德,就假定你有。就好像假定对方有你所要激发的美德,给他一个美好的名誉去表现,他会尽其所能,也不愿意使你感到失望。」


如果你要影响一个人的行为,而不引起他的反感,那就给人一个美名让他去保全。


是的,有时人就是会为玩具所统治。


在所有的烈火中,在由地狱的魔鬼所发明的、狞恶的、毁灭爱情的计划中,喋喋不休是最致命的。它就像毒蛇的毒汁一样,永远都侵蚀着人们的生命。


我一生中或许会犯很多错误,但我永远都在打算为爱情而结婚。


“50%以上的婚姻都归于失败;为什么许多甜蜜的美梦,会在结婚以后全部破碎呢?她知道只有一个原因,那就是令人心碎的批评。


不讲道理是吞食爱情的癌细胞。虽然我们每个人都知道这一点,但糟糕的是,我们对待自己的家人,却不及对待陌生人那样有礼。


亨利·克雷·瑞生纳说:「礼貌,是内在的品质,它看守着门户,招引着门里院中花儿的注意。」””


白德费尔特牧师继续说:「快乐的婚姻,很少是机会的产物,它们就像建筑,必须是有理智的,用心设计过的。」


我从这里只经过一次,所以,我所能做的任何好事,或者使我能对任何人表示的任何仁慈,就让我现在做吧。不要让我拖延,不要忽略,因为我将不会再从这里经过了。


细琐的事情是导致多数婚姻不幸的根源。


如果你能终日地坐在那里听那些不快乐的夫妻们陈述,就知道爱情是「毁于小小的事情」


孩子们喜欢责怪那些没有生命的东西,或是毫不相干的人物,似乎这样做就可以减轻自己跌倒的痛苦。


一个人要让自己变得成熟,首先要做的就是让自己学会承担责任。


把人的生活改造得更美好才重要,而不是整日沉溺于自怜的深渊。


在不成熟的人眼里,他们永远都可以找到一些理由,而且是外部环境的理由,通过这些来解脱他们自身的某些缺点或不幸。


心理不成熟的人总是把自己与众不同的地方看成是缺陷和障碍,然后期望自己能受到特殊的待遇。心理成熟的人则不然,他们先认清自己的不同之处,然后再决定是要接受它们,还是改进它们。


人们时常抱怨自己的环境不顺利,因此使他们没有什么成就。我是不相信这种说法的。假如你得不到所要的环境,可以制造出一个来啊!


困难并不意味着不幸,或许它会是一种幸运的开始。


遭遇不幸并非就是世界末日。有时候,它还是促使我们采取行动的催化剂,对改善状况大有必要。


现在,当我回过头去再看那段生活,就会感到好像船只虽然历经了一场巨大的风浪,如今已又重驶回风平浪静的海面上。


在初受打击时,整个世界似乎停止运行,而我们的苦难也似乎永无止境。但无论如何,我们总得往前走,去履行生命计划中的种种目标。而一旦我们完成了这些生命中的种种运作,痛楚便会逐渐减轻。终有一天,我们又能唤起以往快乐的回忆,并且感受到被护佑,而不是被伤害。要想克服不幸的阴影,时间是我们最好的盟友,但唯有我们把心灵敞开,完全接受那不可避免的命运,我们才不会沉溺在痛苦的深渊里。


印度克里士纳曾有过这样的训言:「人的幸福结局,并非是平淡、安稳的喜乐,而是轰轰烈烈地与不幸抗争。」


生命并不是一帆风顺的幸福之旅,而是时时摆动在幸与不幸、沉与浮、光明与黑暗之间的模式里。我们不能像鸵鸟一样把头埋在沙堆里面,拒绝面对各种麻烦,而麻烦也不会因此消失。苦难是人类生活的一部分,只有实实在在地去面对,才是成熟的表现。


除非比赛结束,否则绝不停止。


对那些叫喊为什么这会发生在我身上的人来说,这里只有一个答案:「为什么不呢?」


上帝并不偏爱任何人。身为一个人,我们都得历经一些苦难,正好像我们也历经许多快乐一样。迟早,生活本身便会教我们明了:在受苦受难的经历里,我们每个人都是平等的。


我们一旦有了坚定的信念,就应当付诸行动。


成熟必须靠学习得来,而且通常必须经过苦难才能学到。


人不是因为没有信心而跌倒,而是因为不能把信念化成行动,并且不顾一切地坚持到底。


只有行为才是有效的。如果我们不表现出行动,则任何哲学理论再有价值,对我们也起不到丝毫的作用。除非我们以信仰做基础,然后付诸行动,否则任何大道理与原则对我们都无济于事。


每个人的生活经历都是独一无二的。尽管构成人体的基因相同,但我们每个人的生命都很奇妙地自成一体,绝不相同。


心灵成熟的过程,是持续不断地自我发现、自我探索的过程。除非人们先了解自己,否则很难去了解别人。


我们内心就像幽静的泉水,只有在独处时才能发现其美。


真正意义上的自由,应该是接受生活的各种挑战,是不断奋斗,并经历各种争议。


时间会给我们机会,让我们归结出一套属于自己的价值体系来。


当一个不随波逐流的人,愿意在受攻击的时候坚持信念到底,那么就表明他具备极大的勇气。


随波逐流虽然在短暂的时间内能使你得到某种情绪上的满足,但同时它也在时时干扰你平静的心灵。


人们只有在找到自我时,才会明白自己为什么会到这个世界上来、要做些什么事、以后将要到什么地方去等这类问题。


言语乏味是人格生病的一种症状,也是人格不再成长的一种现象。


得到友谊的最佳方法,是必须注重施予,而不是获得——应该是亲自赢取得来,而不是靠一时的吸引或哄骗。


谦卑先于伟大。