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◆杨冰阳（Ayawawa）独门分段式“恋爱心法”

人在江湖，如何能发招有力，时刻自保？除了勤奋修炼内功以外，别无他法。而在感情处事之中，这内功绝学就是——恋爱心法。本书是百万畅销书作家、进化心理学派情感专家杨冰阳（Ayawawa）独门分段式“恋爱心法”，参透它，会让你内功护身，爱成高段位。

◆不可错过的“幸福百科全书”式入门读物

只有你不知道的技巧，没有你搞不定的关系。本书归纳和总结了所有感情问题中的“重点题”和“易错题”，能够帮你解决掉所有情感困扰，并深入挖掘男女相处背后的规律，给出恰如其分的解决方法，是不可错过的“幸福百科全书”式入门读物。

◆心术+话术的完美结合

心术是内功，修炼爱商，提高情商；话术是招式，爱情技巧，随学随用。心术与话术完美融合，才能参透爱情秘籍，见招拆招，遇敌克敌，幸福得有恃无恐。

◆多版块设置，可读可听

每篇文章后都提炼Ayawawa语录，方便读者提炼重点和做笔记，更增设读者微问答和深度阅读板块，帮助读者解决现实问题和了解更多情感知识。

★千万粉丝翘首期盼，精美图文四色包装，值得你用心珍藏，或与闺密分享。

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《恋爱心法》
男友总是吃你和男闺密的醋，却又不肯和他的红颜知己保持距离？
一直说爱你，却迟迟不肯主动走入婚姻？
虽然嘴上对你好，对你花钱却不那么大方？
看起来毫不相关的问题，其实都是亲子不确定性、生殖利益、伴侣价值……在作祟。
你从小就被教导要像男人一样奋斗，为什么在恋爱中却不受欢迎？
男人事业有成就一定不缺女人，为什么女性职场精英却往往事业和爱情难两全？
为什么有些女人能柔情温暖，有些却怨气满满？
搞清楚女性性别优势的运作规律和生效机制，你就能从根源上理解这些问题。
为什么看得越紧的男人越容易出轨？
为什么你越怕伴侣会家暴、出轨和欺骗，他往往就越容易这样做？
为什么你的每一任男友，都会做同样的你无法接受的事情？这是寓言还是诅咒？
当你了解了“自我实现的预期”心理机制，这一切问题将不再困扰你……
而这些，不过是恋爱心法的一部分。本书将为你找出男人每一句话、每一个行为、每一种表现背后的内在深层动机，而这，才是理解和解决所有情感问题的关键。

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杨冰阳（Ayawawa）

百万畅销书作家、进化心理学派情感专家、微博知名情感博主，被《鲁豫有约》评选为值得关注的有料自媒体。

女性贴心择偶顾问，爱情风险控制专家。著有《聪明爱：别拿男人不当动物》《完美关系的秘密》等多部畅销书，自上市起即在各大图书网站长年热销！

同名原创情感类公众号Ayawawavip，上百万渴望幸福的女性正在关注，每天提供对症下药的爱情方法论，过目不忘，随学随用！所有你想知道的幸福秘密都在这里。

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男朋友挑剔你？那是你还没有学会这一招！

“他无时无刻不在挑剔我。”“他让我多打扮，要求我穿高跟鞋。可是高跟鞋真的很难穿，一天下来脚上全是水疱。”“他说我的发型好看，让我别戴帽子，冬天风吹着可冷了。”“他让我睡觉时别含着胸，只要我一蜷起来被他发现，他就会把我扳直，抗议也没用。他说我只要含着胸睡，他就会把我弄醒。” ……“他是不是不爱我啊？”这是一个网友曾经问我的问题。其实，先不要把这个问题提升到爱或不爱的层面。我可以很肯定地告诉你，你是他爱的人，只是这个“爱”仅仅是对你身上优点的肯定和欣赏，离你所要的包容和接纳，乃至无条件的喜欢，还差十万八千里。

换句话说，你是他在现阶段比较合适的人选。比你条件好的，未必能看得上他，也未必能像你一样对他好，只是他并没有把你看成他的女神罢了。

不是他的女神，更不是他的天使，他当然不会诚惶诚恐、小心翼翼，也没必要字斟句酌，唯恐将你吓走或气走。有什么不满意，脱口而出便是，你要是能接受那自然好，不能接受的部分，大不了事后赔个不是，你也不能将他大卸八块。

不是他的女神，他当然不会对你顶礼膜拜，遇到什么问题，送死的都是你。要是有朝一日他遇到心目中的女神，你大概就不得不让出位子来。从他自身来说，他一定认为自己遇得到甚至配得上更好的女人，所以你一定要变得更优秀才行。这样的男人，一般对你的优点视而不见，也极少加以肯定，特别是在两个人私下相处的时候。而当着别人的面，则恨不得你的优点尽人皆知；或者恰好相反，人前一直打压你，私下却对你讨好有加。总之，在人前人后呈现出截然不同的态度，是这类人显著的特点。前者是明知你的好，却要挫你的锐气，以显示你高攀了他；后者则是故意彰显自己的不在意，以便为被甩埋下伏笔（前者更多是自尊心作祟，后者更多源于自卑）。那么，不是女神的你应该如何面对这样的窘境呢？两个办法：一、视而不见；二、以其人之道还治其人之身。学过基本生物学知识的你应该记得巴甫洛夫的狗的条件反射实验，人的反射也不外如此。当你对他的某种行为不做任何回应，他得不到应有的回馈时，便会开始调整自己的行为。如果你每次都积极地回应他的刺激，他就会试图进一步“改造”你。倘若你之前已经积极地回应过，则现在可以用消极的方式来对待他。当然，这需要你在一开始就有很大的决心去漠视他的挑剔。倘若不是抱着不成功便成仁的决心，你便不会得到任何好的结果。另一方面，你需要以其人之道还治其人之身。一般来说，挑剔过度的人本质上都是源于自卑或自我膨胀，以及对自己社会地位的定位不够准确。对这样的人，他拿你的弱点攻击你，很大可能是他内心对被攻击者有着极深的恐惧的缘故。偶尔装作不经意地将他与其他人比照，说不定会取得不错的效果，倘若他暴跳如雷，你就提醒他将心比心好了。

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男朋友挑剔你？那是你还没有学会这一招！

圣母是怎样炼成的

在恋爱前，一定要清楚的心理学小常识

对一个男人好，就可以拿下他吗

炼爱第一步：学会做一个优秀的对手

慧眼篇

关键时刻不会站在你这边的男人，

绝不会只让你失望一次

极品男和极品女总是成对出现的

他拖着不结婚的原因，你真的知道吗

选A还是选B的通用参考答案

什么样的男朋友最该被甩

如果偶像剧中的情节，发生在你身上…………

为什么你会舍不得离开渣男

距离篇

在开始一段不被看好的感情之前，你应该知道的事

狗血的剧情如果发生在现实生活中…………

什么样的男人会催你生孩子

为什么姐弟恋是爱情雷区

如何与原生家庭有问题的人恋爱

更好的工作机会VS安稳的爱情，如何二选一

“不想耽误你的青春”是男人的免责条款

“物质”的老婆宠坏了“精神”的老公

危机篇

危机篇莫须有的罪名越大，翻牌的概率越高

很多傻女人都经不起男人逗

这哥们儿其实是“盗版软件”

没有足够的爱，就很难适应婚姻的柴米油盐

标榜“性与爱分开”的男人都是逢场作戏

出轨篇

劈腿男人的常用金句，你知道吗

恋爱时出轨的男人不能拿来结婚

那些只想睡你的男人，都曾经发出过短择声明

发现老公找小姐之后，聪明女孩这样做126

什么样的男人会说“出去找女人是正常的”

女人孕期出轨的男人，能要吗

出轨的女人，在想什么

矛盾篇

对方父母，早见早好

如何搞定恶婆婆

如何对付凤凰男家里的懒亲戚

老公失业了，你该怎么办

性格不合，真的值得分手吗

烦恼篇

离异男，能嫁吗

为什么找男友最好不要“吃窝边草”

地下恋情该如何走到地上

如何对付那些“心里有另一个女人”的男孩子

为什么不要和曾经跪舔过你的男人在一起

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