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为青少年立界线

Name: 为青少年立界线
Brand: Jingdong book
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不要紧张！你和你的青春期孩子都能安然度过这段动荡不安的时期——只要你能为他们着想，为他们设立起健全的界线，《为青少年立界线》将告诉你如何做到。这本教养青少年的书以畅销书《过犹不及》的原则为根基，加上一些崭新令人振奋的观念，将帮助父母在青少年的生活里扮演正面积极的角色。你将会从这《为青少年立界线》学到一种简单的技巧：知道什么时候说好！以及怎样说不！也就是：如何去和你的青少年小孩确实执行你所设立的健全、有爱心的界线。
同时为畅销书作者与心理学家的约翰·汤森德博士，将指引你如何帮助你的孩子为他们的行为、态度、情绪负起责任，而且对你、对他们自己的生活能有更深层的评价与尊重。
探讨你的青春期孩子是如何思考的。《为青少年立界线》可以帮助你建立明智、有爱心的限制，在你的青春期孩子、家人以及你自己身上都产生正确的影响。

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约翰·汤森德博士以智慧、理解和同情的原则，教导你如何指引你的孩子安然度过青春期，完成这个极富挑战性的任务。他将告诉你：如何处理你家青少年小孩失敬的态度与棘手的行为；如何设立合理的界线与实际的后果；如何有爱心去建立规则；如何有策略性地去正视各种大小不同的问题。从这《为青少年立界线》，你将会学到无论是父母或小孩都很需要的一种简单的技巧：知道甚么时候说好！以及怎六说不！也就是：如何去和你的青少年小孩确实执行你所设立的健全、有爱心的界线。

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亨利·克劳德和约翰·汤森德，是美国广受欢迎的讲员、知名作家与执业心理医师，并共同主持全美播出的心理咨询节目“新生命”（New Life Live），也合办讲习会、研究中心与教会训练小组。两人毕业自同一所心理学研究院（Rose-mead Graduate School of Psychology），获临床心理学博士学位，也在加州新港滩合开心理辅导诊所。他们是许多畅销书的作者，包括《过犹不及》、《为孩子立界线》、《为约会立界线》等。

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青春期障子的世界……可以是世是最残酷的地方，它可以是很无情的。
——托利·阿摩司

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感谢
译序完成一个不可能的任务
前言谁按下开关的
第一部做一个有界线的父母
第一章重返你的青春期
第二章立界线
第三章建立关系
第四章面对你的愧疚与害怕
第五章管教要同心
第六章做一个有整合性的父母
第七章单亲父母
第八章继父或继母

第二部了解青春期孩子的世界
第九章青春期：成年期前的最后阶段
第十章发生巨大转变的时期
第十一章青春期孩子的想法不同
第十二章和父母分开
第十三章了解男孩与女孩之间的区别
第十四章文化的影响

第三部为青春期的孩子立界线
第十五章深入探讨问题
第十六章善用设立界线的四锚
第十七章不要脱轨
第十八章后果概论

第四部如何处理常见的问题
第十九章学业问题
第二十章攻击性的行为
第二十一章酗酒、嗑药，与其它瘾头
第二十二章爱争辩
第二十三章违约
第二十四章家务事事
第二十五章衣着
第二十六章违反宵禁规定
第二十七章自我伤害
第二十八章欺骗与撒谎
第二十九章忤逆
第三十章不健全地和家人疏离
第三十一章失敬
第三十二章驾驶与车子
第三十三章漠视父母
第三十四章冲动的行为
第三十五章网络
第三十六章金钱
第三十七章情绪化
第三十八章派对
第三十九章朋友
第四十章电话
第四十一章离家出走
第四十二章性关系
第四十三章沉默
后记
附录一寻求专业人士的帮助
附录二不知所措时的诀窍

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第一部做一个有界线的父母
第一章重返你的青春期
17岁的时候，有一天晚上，我开着我父母的福特飞雅兰（Fairlane），把油门踩到底，一路疯狂飙车。然而，只开了很短一段距离后，车子就熄火不动，车子的引擎必须换新的。我真不知我当时在想些什么，那不过是一部家庭旅行车（stationwagon）啊！我必须半夜一点钟打电话给我父亲请他载我回家，隔天再找人把车子拖去修理。
飞雅兰事件当然不是一段美好的回忆，却让我记忆深刻。所以，当儿子说他把我送给他的手表搞丢了，我记起自己必须打电话给我父亲，告诉他飞雅兰事件时内心痛苦难熬的感受。那段回忆帮助我了解儿子丢表后内心可能会有的感觉。因此，我告诉他说：“算了，再买一支新的，以后记得小心一点就是。”
我相信每个人都有些青春期的难为情的事。青少年做事一向不太负责，这是青春期的特质。有人在那段时期会犯些小错，石些人则面对一笔又一笔乱七八糟的烂账。
所以，为了你家青春期孩子的缘故，不要忘记你自己的青春期。你越是能记起那段时期的感受或所做过的事情，你越是能成为一位好父母。
你的青春期孩子需要你也有一段过去
为什么需要深掘你那一段过去呢？这对你的青春期孩子能有什么益处呢？记起过往的历史其实是很重要的，可以帮助你向你的孩子显示：
同情与理解。父母很容易忘记那段青春期的艰难，因此有时对身处青春期的孩子会过于严厉地指责。
但你的孩子需要一位能和他沟通的母亲，能向他显示出同情，能体会他的观点、感受，能了解他在那个时期里内心的挣．扎，他必须知道他并不是一个人在孤军奋斗。
你只要想想，即使是成年人，每天为生活劳苦奔波，不也很需要有人能倾听你的难处，能在你的身旁随时支持你吗？假如每次事情一搞砸了，所听到的就只是：“你到底在搞什么鬼啊！你想要毁掉自己一生吗？”你难道不会痛心，甚至想干脆放弃算了？你家青春期孩子大脑发育还不如你健全，听到这种批评所受的创伤一定比你更难复原。你的扶持，将可以减轻你的孩子在那些难以避免的困境中所受到的伤害。
……

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