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★红遍朋友圈走心情话:抱歉,这么晚才找到你,你没等着急吧。
★畅销书《你只是看起来很努力》作家李尚龙倾情作序,人气作家小北、苏辛、老丑、有温度的自媒体二更食堂联袂推荐。
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漫长岁月中,你是否曾深爱过一个人?他是否依旧陪在你身边,还是已经消失在茫茫人海?他是陪你粗茶淡饭,还是陪你骑马喝酒走四方?你的爱情,又是哪一种模样?作者乔诗伟用温暖的笔触带给你25个温情故事,不一样的结局,引发不一样的爱情思考,给你重拾爱的信心,赋予自己相爱的能力。不管你曾经历过什么,遇见过什么,都有相信爱,勇敢爱。终有一个人告诉你:“抱歉,这么晚才找到你,让你久等了”。

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乔诗伟,想要一直写到老的青年作者。常见于微信、豆瓣、片刻、人人、简书等多平台,自称是“二十多年前的一颗受精卵,六七十年后的一把骨灰;做好事从不留名的乔诗伟,讲道理的唐僧先生”。已出版《我们好像在哪见过:讲给有故事的你》。

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我看了诗伟的大多数文章的开头和结尾,让我感动的,就是那些对爱情描写的细节。那些爱情有成功,有失败,失败的偏多,成功的较少。幸运的是,还有诗伟这样的作者,他把爱情看的很透,生活看的很细腻,一个个的故事里,透着爱情婚姻的酸甜苦辣。愿这本书能在你忙碌的过程中看到收获,去相信爱情,去让自己变得更好。
——畅销书作家李尚龙

爱和青春是不需要讨论的,它总有自己的模样,依托在故事里,悲伤的叫过去,美好的叫未来,迷茫的叫现在。愿你走进这些故事时,既能循着别人的光亮,又能找到自己的影子。
——情感作家老丑

有的爱情轰轰烈烈,但更多的是细水长流。乔诗伟笔下的爱情,大多平淡而真实,有着无数爱情里的雷同部分,但是你总会在某一个故事里遇见自己,又不得不重新审视自己。你会遇见很多的人,却只有一个人能陪你说一世晚安。
——二更食堂主编食堂君

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Part1茫茫人海,你在等谁来
抱歉,这么晚才找到你003
有些人你永远不必等013
为了见你,我给你上了三炷香023
等你变好,我就老了032
你还会再遇见一个人044
只要在路上,每个人都有来不及054
Part2我们爱得刚刚好
和喜欢的人吵架,不能说分手065
我喜欢的人跟我有夫妻相074
我们的恩爱应该都拿出来晒晒084
有我在,你不会不完整095
你俩再在我面前秀个恩爱试试105
无须开口,我们就能在一起114
当你没有了新鲜感,你还爱我吗127
Part3世界那么大,刚好遇见你
我有一个关于她的消息告诉你137
爱情战役148
即使是路痴,也有人带你回家160
水到渠成的爱情174
一个永远不会放弃你的人184
如果108张好人卡能召唤出一个爱人198
Part4有的人,一旦错过就不再
他只是舍不得你的好209
那个说晚安的陌生人221
在爱情里,遇见一个不对的人235
那个一直单身的男人247
勿忘初心,方得始终261
就这些吧,你多保重273
一直写到老的故事287

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抱歉,这么晚才找到你
来和悠悠相亲的马脸男,要比悠悠小三岁,他好奇地问她,大龄单身女青年是一种什么体验?
悠悠说,大概是周围的人都在替你着急,建议你赶紧去传宗接代、传宗接代、传宗接代。
噗,马脸男还没来得及喝下去的水,猛地炸成了空中一片细雨。
一时之间,马脸男觉得有些尴尬,就寻了个借口离开了餐厅,再也没有回来。
悠悠淡定地抹了一把脸,心里想着,还好没有上菜,不然全糟蹋了。
刚刚离开的那位马脸男其实和悠悠同住一个小区,不过两人很少有来往,也是父母劝她去相亲,她实在有些不耐烦才答应和他们安排的这个对象见面。
结束以后,她才回到家里,爸妈就号令群亲召开了声讨大会。
悠悠爸激动地唾沫星子乱飞。你说说!你说说!你所到之处,男生望风而逃是怎么回事?
悠悠妈在旁边也帮衬,就是,对方这么好忽悠的一小伙,就这么被你傻B叨叨的吓跑了。
边上的亲戚们根本毫无立场可言,一听到悠悠爸妈要留吃晚饭,就不停地附和他们说,是呀是呀。
登时,悠悠被念得头晕脑涨。
感觉有五十六种语言在她耳边汇成一句话,你快结婚!你快结婚!你快结婚啊!
最终,悠悠妥协了,答应老老实实一直相亲,直到她找到对象为止。
这也让她明白了这个社会为什么会变得这么急冲冲的原因。
当你慢悠悠不心急的时候,自然会有一大帮子人来替你着急,更离谱的是他们还不允许你不着急。
你要是敢风轻云淡不当回事,他们就要轮番教育让你重新做人。
所以说,每个家庭在对待上了年纪的单身狗的态度上,都是丝毫不留情面的。
这样虽然心烦,但悠悠没有抗议也没有争执。
一来是悠悠自己耳根子比较软,二来是为了让自己不再受到被念紧箍咒这样痛苦的折磨。
于是,关于相亲,悠悠去了一次又一次,但最终还是没有遇见自己觉得合适的那个人。
于是,她的爸妈每次相亲结束都会翻来覆去说这么一句话,挺合适的,你怎么就看不上人家呢?
悠悠不想争论这些,但心里还是会想,合适,哪里合适?一张从来没有见过的脸,能成为自己最亲密的人吗?和对方牵手接吻睡同一张床,然后生一个小孩。两个人又没有感情基础,对方出轨怎么办?我自己出轨又怎么办?像诸如此类的问题只要想想她就觉得可怕。
但她依然会去,就当是在应付家里的担忧与操心。
周末的时候,悠悠在爸妈无数的叮嘱下去了一家餐厅。
她找着自己坐的那个位置,找到那个正在等待自己的陌生人。与对方千篇一律的对答显得那么无趣。
你叫什么名字?
你叫什么名字?
你住哪里?家庭条件怎么样?有弟弟妹妹吗?
你愿意尽快和我结婚吗?
哦,对不起,我们不合适。
有时候这句话是悠悠先说,有时候这句话是对方先说,但悠悠每次都是最后一个离开,她不想太早回去,这样能少听一些家里的唠叨。
她一个人靠在沙发椅上,长长地叹息。为什么遇见一个喜欢的人会这么困难呢?而且这么难的事情,偏偏还必须得去干。
在悠悠想着这些烦恼愁眉苦脸的时候。
你好,我能坐下吗?一个声音在悠悠的对面响起。
对了,我叫慕白。
他是个和悠悠年纪相仿的男人。
悠悠看着他,坐吧,反正我一会儿就走了。
场面沉默了一会儿,这个叫慕白的男人觉着有些冷场,开始和悠悠有一搭没一搭地聊了起来。
你也是来相亲的吗?
因为拥有丰富的相亲经验,悠悠对于这样的问题没有露出半点不自然,她大大方方承认了这个事实。
对啊,我来这儿很多回了。
慕白继续追问,来了这么多回,你就没有遇见一个合适的?
悠悠不想跟陌生人谈这件事,就岔开了话题,那你呢?你又为什么来相亲?
慕白顿时露出一股难以言语的无奈表情,你是不知道,我的敌人太强大了,我根本没有一点还手之力。
每个周末,我爸我妈,就叫上一大堆亲戚聚会,十几个人围上一大桌子。等我一个个给他们盛好饭,我坐被审判席不准端碗,他们坐审判席吃得很欢。接着他们就开始聊了。
……

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愿你的爱情如期而至
诗伟是我的好朋友,我们有过几面之缘,我还没出书的时候,他的文章已经在“人人”很火了。这次他让我作序,告诉我是一本爱情故事,说实话我挺惭愧,毕竟自己很少写爱情故事,而诗伟的爱情故事又写得很动人。有时候我会很佩服那些特别会写爱情故事的人,甚至会生气地想,他们是不是没事儿就找女朋友然后分着玩。
后来发现错了,其实,不过是在感情中受伤次数多,变得敏感了,变得善于发现生活了。
我谈的恋爱不多,甚至不知道什么是浪漫,我所理解的爱情是等价的交流,平等的高度,大多数的爱情悲剧无非输给了时间、距离、冷漠、现实,其实说白了,就是不平等。
可是,掰碎了看,就算分了,也是美的。毕竟,在男生一无所有的岁月,在女生懵懂无知的年龄里,那样的爱情太美,虽然很多时候毕业季是分手季,但却让爱情变得更加永恒。
我工作五年了,现在一边当着老师,一边一只脚跨进了娱乐圈,有时候会明显地对比两个世界,一边是有吉他有路灯的单纯,一边是灯红酒绿的浮躁。随着年龄越来越大,也就越来越少地对一个人动心,越来越少春心荡漾地去想着那一个人。
爱情,变成了快餐,真爱,变成了奢侈。我遇到太多人跟我说,不就是爱情,失恋了又如何,谈不下去又怎么样!
我看了诗伟大多数文章的开头和结尾,最让我感动的,就是那些对爱情描写的细节。那些爱情有成功,有失败,失败的偏多,成功的较少。
那次我看着他那篇《我喜欢的人跟我有夫妻相》,这是少数两人幸福在一起的故事,忽然觉得结尾和过程相比其他分手的文章来说,很平淡,于是我开始想,为什么成功的爱情能这么平淡。
忽然我懂了,爱情这东西,平平淡淡才能长长久久,分手了的,总会被记得轰轰烈烈。那么,我们到底应该追求什么,是短暂的轰轰烈烈,还是长远的平平淡淡,或者,是否有着持续的轰轰烈烈。
写到这里我忽然开始疑惑,因为,我不懂了。
幸运的是,还有诗伟这样的作者,他把爱情看得很透,生活看得很细腻,一个个的故事里,透着爱情的酸甜苦辣。
愿这本书能让你在忙碌的过程中看到收获,去相信爱情,去让自己变得更好,我想,这也就是我作序的原因了吧。
是为序。
李尚龙
2016年4月17日

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