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本书在台湾地区出版后广受社会好评；
《爱与和解》运用了心理学中系统排列的方法去解决家庭矛盾，“系统”即“各种关系网”，家庭就是一个完整和谐的系统；“排列”即利用清晰的图像呈现每个人在各种关系网中扮演的角色。利用这种方法对家庭关系进行剖析，能更清楚地为每个家庭成员定位，使其回归正确序位，并以接纳、和解的正确态度，让爱散发智慧的光芒。
家庭对每个人来说非常重要，家庭关系一旦破坏，家庭成员会受到一些消极的、无形的影响，这种影响甚至会波及到下三代子孙，所以和谐的家庭关系是大家都渴望的。书中有解决各种家庭矛盾的真实案例，读者从中可以学习如何创造健康平衡的家庭关系，受益匪浅！

光有爱是不够的，唯有站在正确的位置上，并且尊重系统里的每一个，才能创造真正的幸福关系。

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为什么，当她释放了对丈夫的愤怒，孩子就不再叛逆？
为什么，他要享受金钱、她要减肥成功，都必须和父母和解？
为什么，想拥有快乐的婚姻，一定要尊重对方的前任伴侣？
人和人的关系并不是独立的，背后存在着一个系统，尤其家庭关系，是跟我们最亲近、最重要的系统，一旦爱的流动阻塞了，不只影响人情感和身心健康，甚至会跨越世代在亲子之间形成难题
系统排列是一个有效方法，以清楚的图像，呈现出家人间的深层心理互动，有哪些未竟之事在默默影响我们？问题症结在哪里？透过爱与和解，我们能让堵塞的能量再次流动，重拾家人间的快乐与亲密
《爱与和解：华人家庭的系统排列故事》以十六则精彩的华人家庭案例，呈现家人间的深层心理动力，并且示范如何回归正确序位，以接纳、和解的正确态度，创造健康平衡的家庭关系！全书轻松易读、非常实用，在好看的故事中蕴含温暖的智慧与启示。

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周鼎文，国际知名的系统排列导师。他是将系统排列引进华人世界的第一人，曾任亚洲系统排列大会主席，创办了在台湾地区的海宁格机构和国际系统排列学院（TAOS）。经常受邀至国际学术大会演说，以及到大学、研究所、医院等机构进行心理咨询与心理治疗的授课和临床指导，成功地将系统排列运用于个人成长、家庭关系、企业管理等方面，帮助人们正确面对经营瓶颈，重新找到创意发展与解决之道。著有《爱与和解》、《我带着爱，让你走》、《两性奇迹》、《大冲突》、《家族创伤与重生》等著作，同时推动了许多有关“系统排列”的外文图书的翻译及出版工作。同时也是著名学者和心理辅导师。他在中国、新马、欧美都开设了专门的课程，是很多大学的品牌课程，其讲座在国内外受到了广泛的欢迎；同时他还受聘多家知名医院做临床指导，帮助很多病患重拾生命希望。
周鼎文老师的学术擅长是处理家庭中的艰难情景、处理人际关系的复杂矛盾和提升个人生命品质等，著作有《爱与和解》、《我带着爱，让你走》、《两性奇迹》、《大冲突》、《两性创伤与重生》等，另外为有关“系统排列”的外文图书的翻译及出版工作做了很多工作。

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自序
前言

第一章关系的深层奥秘
透过关系成长
了解系统排列
什么是“系统”
系统排列的发展
系统排列进行过程与运用
关系五大法则
检视你的关系

第二章两性关系
男女：不同且互补的圆
尊重序位，平衡两性
案例外遇，发生在我身上
关于婚外情
离弃的深层恐惧
婚外情的承认与宽恕
流动的平衡法则
报复与和解
练习：实践两性平衡法则
案例堕胎，我心中的痛
堕胎对伴侣的影响
伴侣该如何面对堕胎
堕胎对男性的影响
堕胎对孩子的影响
如何与另一半沟通
内在排列：为堕胎的孩子祈祷
案例囍，背后家族的助力与阻力
爱的忠诚与良知
流动法则：联系背后男性与女性祖先的力量
内在排列：连接生命的源头

第三章父母关系
生命：最珍贵的礼物
案例爸爸，其实我很爱你——单亲家庭
序位法则：从盲目的爱转变为成熟的爱
案例妈妈，对不起——序位与身材
胖的女人吃掉她的妈妈
序位法则：回到自己的序位来爱
……
第四章亲子关系
第五章手足亲人关系
第六章身心关系
第七章活用关系法则
尾声唤醒内在的力量
附录一关于国际系统排列学院
附录二参加系统排列前的事先准备
附录三延伸阅读

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“好吧！我们来看看这段缘分该怎么圆满。”我回答。
我请几个人分别代表守义、子萱，还有子萱的妈妈。当子萱妈妈的代表一站出来，便看到她一直往远方望去，并朝着那个方向走。
我问子萱：“你知道妈妈的家庭状况吗？”
她回答：“妈妈和爸爸离婚了，外公跟外婆好像也处得不好。”
“你们家上两代的婚姻似乎都不顺利。”
“是的。”
我将子萱的爸爸与外公、外婆的代表加进来，不久便看见外婆对外公很生气，所以离这个家远远的，也看见子萱的妈妈从头到尾都不看她的先生，只想朝着离家的外婆走去，最后甚至走到外婆身边跪下来拉住她。
“我们现在知道，为什么你妈妈不赞成这桩婚事了。”我看着排列说道。
子萱点点头，“我妈妈从小就得不到外婆的爱，外婆很辛苦。”
“是的，你妈妈很爱你的外婆，甚至想跟着她离开这个家，而你妈妈会和爸爸离婚，也是她对外婆表示忠诚的方式。”
接着，我请子萱对她的妈妈、外婆深深地鞠躬，之后再请子萱对她们说：“我看到你们的命运了，我知道你们在婚姻里受苦，也知道夫妻在一起并不容易，但是我会努力，也请你们祝福我。如果我的婚姻状况跟你们不同，如果我可以拥有自己的幸福，请你们祝福我。”
子萱流着眼泪，对她的妈妈及外婆这么说，只见妈妈与外婆抱着她，祖孙三代紧紧抱着哭泣。
的确，如果家族中的女性长辈们对婚姻都有一种不信任感，也都在婚姻里遭受不公平的待遇，那么这个家的后代女性出自于对女性长辈们的忠诚，往往很容易承受相同的感受，甚至发生相同的婚姻模式。
当三人结束哭泣后，我请守义向子萱的父母鞠躬，并向他们保证一定会好好照顾子萱，但是子萱的妈妈连看都不看他一眼，照样紧紧抓住子萱。
情况就这样僵持在那里，耗费不少时间，眼看着就快没希望了，突然间我灵感一来。
……

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要如何爱?
如何能幸福成功？
是否有什么法则可以依循？
这就是本书探讨的主题——“关系法则”。
你知道什么是“关系法则”吗？
“关系法则”就是“爱的法则”、“幸福成功的法则”，也就是“生命的法则”。
然而，奥秘的法则常隐而不显，往往只有觉醒的智者能够有所领悟，或是饱受煎苦的人们在最后发出的感慨，担也有太多想要幸福的人因为违背关系法则导致失败，许多遭遇挫折的人因为重新领悟它而扭转命运。本书所介绍的“关系法则”是国际盛行的心理学模式“系统排列”之核心内涵，是站在许多巨人肩膀上的智慧结晶，也是透过数万个家庭、数万人的生命血泪所获得的宝贵经验。
本书特别针对我们最亲近的家庭关系做详细探讨，包括两性夫妻、父母亲子、手足亲人以及身心关系的常见议题。书中的案例（除为了保密身份略做修改外）都是参加课程者的真人真事，更是你我生活里熟悉的故事，因此不妨在阅读时敞开心与之共鸣。另外，本书也设计了一些简单却深刻有效的练习，非常适合在生活操作。本书所叙述的内容已在全世界帮助过无数家庭，如果我们能用心领悟那些法则并加以活用，同时秉持信心朝向爱相信生命将会为我们开启另一扇通往幸福成功的大门！

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