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穷养男孩的100个细节

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《穷养男孩的100个细节》是新教育经典。科学研究发现:染色体、大脑结构、荷尔蒙,这三大生理因素决定了男孩女孩的养育方式天生就是不同的。
不同的性别,就要用不同的养育方式。
男孩的动手能力一般比女孩强,而女孩普遍比男孩更早学会说话,男孩女孩在生理、心理上都各有特点,存在不少差异。
穷养男孩“必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤,空乏其身,行拂乱其所为”,这样的男孩才可以“动心忍性,曾益其所不能”,从而担当大任!

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《穷养男孩的100个细节》男孩的空间感知能力比女孩好,女孩的语言能力比男孩强。当他们还在母体中时,女孩大脑的发育速度就明显快于男孩大脑的发育速度。所以,养育男孩、养育女孩天生就不一样。穷养男孩不仅是一种教育投资,更是对男孩一生的投资。
只有经历过坎坷磨砺、性情坚忍的人才能担当大任,只有“穷”过的男孩才明白优裕生活的可贵,才知道如何去创造财富,才懂得珍惜来之不易的幸福生活。

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肖骁,教育工作者、青少年心理咨询老师、资深编辑。曾工作于教育一线多年,对现行的家庭教育方面有独到的见解。现从事儿童、青少年教育研究和文字创作,思想成熟,视角独特,教育理念先进新颖,力求给父母切实可行的教育方法,给孩子一片快乐的天空。

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第一章男孩、女孩到底有什么不一样
细节1:小男孩的奇妙行为
细节2:男孩在脑发育中具有的优势和劣势
细节3:探秘男孩独有的Y染色体
细节4:睾丸素影响男孩一生的秘密
细节5:男孩入托、入学不宜过早
细节6:关注、善待那些不一样的男孩
细节7:以正确的教育突破性别的局限
第二章男孩的成长蓝图
细节8:0~6岁——属于母亲的温柔岁月,爱是一切
细节9:6~13岁~在父亲的指引下,走向更广阔的世界
细节10:14岁到成年——从男孩变成男人的关键期
细节11:男孩天生就是“冒险王”
细节12:英雄情节主宰男孩的一生
细节13:男孩都是精力旺盛的“小淘气”
细节14:男孩比女孩更需要加强的一些弱项
细节15:“男孩有泪要轻弹”——哭泣也是男孩的权力
细节16:如何妙用男孩的运动天性
第三章穷养,才能培养最了不起的男孩
细节17:穷养,激发男孩的无限潜能
细节18:穷养,增强男孩的社会适应力
细节19:穷养,让男孩学会自理、自立、自强
细节20:穷养,让男孩不折不挠、坚韧顽强
细节21:穷养,让男孩更加自信
细节22:穷养,让男孩更加勇敢
细节23:穷养,让男孩充满阳刚之气
细节24:穷养,不等于打骂和惩罚
细节25:穷养,不等于没有物质或金钱的投入
第四章穷养关键之一:注重品格塑造,培养最具修养的男孩
细节26:正直——男孩一生最基本的品质
细节27:成功者不一定要争强好胜
细节28:如何让男孩学会尊重他人
细节29:磨掉棱角,培养男孩的韧性
细节30:谦虚不满足,让男孩不断进步
细节31:如何培养男孩积极进取的生活态度
细节32:彬彬有礼是绅士的标签
细节33:干净整洁为男孩增添魅力
细节34:孝顺,男孩做人的根本
细节35:善良、同情是男孩爱心之始
第五章穷养关键之二:富有责任感的男孩才能成大器
细节36:让男孩明白“负责任”的意义
细节37:允许失败,不做扼杀孩子责任感的杀手
细节38:怎样建立男孩的集体荣誉感
细节39:培养男孩的不可缺少的“大器”意识
细节40:迅速解除男孩的依赖心理
细节41:父母的信任和尊重能唤醒男孩的责任感
细节42:如何让孩子明白“对自己的承诺负责”
细节43:学会自主选择,培养孩子的责任心
细节44:处理男孩找借口的方法
细节45:让孩子当当家,参与到“家庭动员”中来
细节46:让孩子为自己的过失买单
第六章穷养关键之三:好个性、好习惯决定男孩的一生
细节47:做事有计划——让男孩学会有安排、有步骤
细节48:宽容大度——男孩的心胸能“海纳百川”
细节49:诚实守信——男孩的立身之本
细节50:做事讲效率——让男孩不再因拖拉而疲惫
细节51:细心认真——请相信男孩也可以做到
细节52:爱心——会让男子汉更具生命质感
细节53:自我激励——男孩成长的自驱力
细节54:忍耐力——训练男孩学会控制自己的第一步
细节55:节俭——让男孩懂得一分一厘来之不易
细节56:自我反省——让男孩学会总结经验教训
细节57:勇于探索——打造最聪颖的男孩
第七章穿养关键之四:授人以鱼不如授人以渔,培养男孩的学习能力
细节58:让男孩快乐学习的7个秘诀
细节59:男孩最该学的是“如何自学”
细节60:面对学习上的挫折该怎么办?
细节61:学习上,男孩需要短期目标为引导
细节62:理性看待男孩的学习成绩
细节63:训练记忆力,让男孩学习如虎添翼
细节64:增强注意力,打开男孩智慧的天窗
细节65:培养想象力,展开男孩创造的翅膀
细节66:英语——其实难不倒男孩
细节67:发挥先天优势,让男孩成为数学天才
细节68:以兴趣为引导,轻松提高男孩语言能力
第八章穷养男孩,父母更应掌握111种教育艺术
细节69:这样沟通,男孩最易接受
细节70:如何对男孩进行性别教育
细节71:把挫折还给男孩
细节72:在同龄人面前,给孩子留点自尊
细节73:6个步骤,接纳男孩的独特性
细节74:适时来点“棍棒教育”
细节75:男孩教育应着重“家校结合”
细节76:放养计划,让男孩像野花一样生长
细节77:捍卫男孩“玩”的权利
细节78:“爸爸什么时候回来?”——父亲是儿子人生的引导者
细节79:教育男孩,请尊重男孩的知情权
第九章10项能力训练,让你的儿子出类拔萃
细节80:思考能力——引导男孩自己寻找答案
细节81:交往能力——带给男孩一生的好人缘
细节82:倾听能力——让男孩更受欢迎
细节83:领导能力——培养男孩的领袖气质
细节84:自控能力——男孩把握自己才能把握世界
细节85:创新能力——决定男孩一生的成就
细节86:实践能力——让男孩离未来精英更近一步
细节87:应变能力——培养男孩从容应对各种突发状况
细节88:选择能力——培养一个有主见的男孩
细节89:理财能力一一培养男孩的经济头脑
第十章让青春期成为男孩潜能的爆发期
细节90:“青春叛逆期”——父母向左走,男孩向右走
细节91:为什么青春期男孩满身是刺
细节92:青春期,不让孩子虚荣心同身体一起“发育”
细节93:无需严防死守,早恋也可以避免
细节94:敏锐发现男孩性意识的觉醒
细节95:教男孩正确面对开放的社会
细节96:帮青春期男孩驱散紧密相随的孤独
细节97:如何对待男孩吸烟、喝酒行为
细节98:别用唠叨来表达爱与关怀
细节99:让沟通方式跟上孩子时尚的脚步
细节100:一次用心的倾听胜过无数的说教

Book Abstract

男孩完成自己的性别认同往往通过模仿,如果一直都是和妈妈或者阿姨生活在一起,身边缺少男性榜样,他们就会模仿身边这些女性的行为。随着年龄的增长,男孩的性别认同会渐渐定型,这样,即使男孩在幼儿园或学校会接触到其他男孩,他们女性化的行为也不会轻易发生改变。
男孩“娘娘腔”的结果就是很容易陷入孤独之中,因为不管是在生活中还是在学校里,一个正常的男孩是不愿意跟一个“娘娘腔”的男孩交朋友的,而女孩们似乎也不是很欢迎这些行为有些怪异的男孩。所以,有“娘娘腔”倾向的男孩常常会生活在孤独和痛苦之中。
如果这些男孩一直生活在孤独和痛苦之中,他们的心理难免出现扭曲,比如他们很敏感,常常会猜疑别人,心胸狭窄,常常会嫉妒别人等等。这样的男孩往往是没有办法在社会上立足的。所以,家长一定要用科学的方式对男孩进行性别教育,以防止他们出现“娘娘腔”倾向。
首先。父母要了解男孩性别认同的发展历程。
大多数男孩在两岁左右,就已经有了基本的性别意识,这时他们知道自己是男孩,与女孩是不同的。不过这时他们仍然会对自己的性别感觉到迷茫。到了3岁左右,男孩的性别意识有了进一步的发展,但如果遇到特殊情况,比如妈妈要求男孩扮演成女孩,这时男孩的性别意识就会发生混淆,他们往往会思考这样一个问题:当我穿上女孩的衣服时,我还是男孩吗?如果男孩在两三岁时,能够很好地感受并认同自己的性别,到了五六岁时,他们就会形成一种稳定并持久的性别认同。当男孩形成稳定并持久的性别认同之后,如果没有特殊情况(刻意地去训练或是改变),他们的这种性别观念就会跟随着年龄的增长一起延续下去。
其次。给予男孩恰当的环境和教育。
父母要尊重男孩的性别,不能根据自己的特殊喜好对孩子进行错误的性别教育。父亲要在男孩的教育中负起责任,在某些时候,父亲要用自己的行动向男孩展示,什么是真正的男子汉。在适当的时候,家长可以加深一下男孩的性别观念,比如给男孩买了一本图画书,你可以告诉他:“这是一本专门为男孩写的书。”想让男孩做一些力所能及的家务,可以这样对他说:“你是男孩,你的力气大,就应该为妈妈分担一些家务。”给事物披上“性别”的外衣,这样更容易强化男孩的性别,并鼓励男孩去培养男子汉气概。
再次,可以利用“偶像”培养男孩的男子气概。
男孩大多是通过模仿来学习经验的,包括他的男性气质。对于正在成长的小男孩来说,当他们有了明确的性别意识之后,他们都会为自己找一个伟大的男性偶像,作为成长的模仿对象。他们也许会把家长的说教当成耳旁风,但绝对会关注自己的偶像最近有什么动态。因此,培养男孩的男子汉气概,家长不妨从男孩心中的那位偶像入手。
不过,男孩能够接触的人有限,他们常常把爸爸当做自己的模仿对象,比如在他们眼中,爸爸的行为就是规则。所以,爸爸有责任通过自己的行为,让男孩了解什么才是真正的男子汉。比如勇敢、坚强、乐观等,爸爸可以根据具体的情况,通过自己的行为向男孩灌输这些观念。
细节4:睾丸素影响男孩一生的秘密
研究发现,所有动物在生命之初都是雌性,在人类的生命发育中,是Y染色体使胎儿发育成婴儿。这条染色体在子宫内发挥作用,使男孩具备男性应有的器官,同时终止女性器官的发育。当妈妈怀孕8周的时候,在胎儿的小小身体内,Y染色体开始在细胞内移动,睾丸激素开始形成。由于睾丸激素的作用,胎儿的睾丸和阴茎开始发育,一旦睾丸发育成熟,它们就会产生多余的睾丸激素,胎儿也会变得越来越有男性特征,与此同时,胎儿大脑和身体也发生细微的变化。值得注意的是,如果妈妈在怀孕期间压力过大,就会抑制胎儿体内睾丸激素的产生,导致胎儿的睾丸和阴茎得不到完全发育,以至于出生后功能不全,生长发育一年后才能达到正常水平,所以妈妈在怀孕期间切不可有过大压力。胎儿出生后,睾丸激素刺激着男孩的身体发育。它会使男孩的身高猛增,使他情绪高昂,使他不怕失败、敢于竞争和挑战。睾丸激素使4岁男孩开始变得淘气、好动,使13岁男孩进入快速成长期,使14岁男孩遇到人生历程中的第一次考验,开始进入成年期的早期阶段。
其实,睾丸激素在男人的整个生命历程中,都起着不可低估的作用,即便是在整个雄性世界中,也占有举足轻重的地位。关于睾丸激素,科学家已经研究出了很多结论,多了解这些科学结论对我们进一步了解男性有很好的帮助作用。而且,其中的很多结论是新奇、有趣、令人惊叹的!来看一看下面的内容吧——
睾丸激素是否充足,决定了一个成年男人是否拥有强健的肌肉、粗壮的骨骼,是否思维敏捷、精力充沛,更对男人保持旺盛的性欲和正常勃起功能起到至关重要的作用,而且,睾丸激素还能刺激生殖腺产生精子,实现男人繁衍后代的功能。
男性的思维方式与女性明显不同,他们的行事风格看上去积极、果断、大气,富于斗志和进取心——这也是睾丸激素的作用。在睾丸激素的刺激下,男人随时准备发起和接受挑战,无论是在足球场上还是谈判桌上。当他“赢”了时,睾丸激素的水平会上升,于是,男人感到更加自信,更加充满力量。女人所欣赏的男人的“阳刚之气”正是拜睾丸激素所赐。
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Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

Shipping Information

Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

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Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Dear All, Due to the shortage of flights and workforce in the holiday season, the delivery time may be delayed by about 2 weeks. Thank you for your patience. Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

Yami Points information

All items are excluding from any promotion or points events on Yamibuy.com

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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