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★一部坦露自我的真诚之作

此部作品,区别冯唐以往的杂文作品,人到中年的冯唐,在这本书中,从成功、爱情、亲情、生活的意义、自我价值的体现各个方面,对自己四十多年的生活进行梳理和总结。让人能够从中学习和领悟一些人生智慧,也让人能够以此反思如何更好的生活。

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冯唐全新作品,一部坦露自我的真诚之作。

全书分为如何获得成功、爱情如何对抗时间、生活怎么过才算有意义、自我价值如何体现四个章节,并收录《如何避免成为一个油腻的中年猥琐男》《找个好看的扑倒》《爱情如何对抗时间》《我爸认识所有的鱼》等知名篇目。

此书对冯唐来说,是一个新的开始,中年的冯唐在书中坦言自己的中年危机、父亲的去世、老妈的人生哲学,以及对过去和未来的自我审视。冯唐父亲、母亲等私人珍藏照片,初次放进书中,以图文结合的方式直观展现《无所畏》中谈及的人、事、物。

活在这世上,什么都不要怕,做自己认为对的事儿,慢慢放下输赢和计算。


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冯唐,1971年生于北京,诗人、作家、古器物爱好者。

1998年,获协和医科大学临床医学博士,2000年,获美国埃默里大学MBA学位,2000—2008年,麦肯锡公司全球董事合伙人,2009—2014年,华润医疗集团创始CEO,2015年始,从事医疗投资。

已出版作品:长篇小说《欢喜》《十八岁给我一个姑娘》《万物生长》《北京,北京》《女神一号》;短篇小说集《安阳》《搜神记》;散文集《活着活着就老了》《三十六大》《在宇宙间不易被风吹散》;诗集《冯唐诗百首》《不三》。


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壹 成功十要素


如何避免成为一个油腻的中年猥琐男

比成为油腻中年更可怕的是成了油腻青年

“极品”装腔指南

陪护装腔犯生存指南

九字真言

成功十要素

不怕压力不生癌

未来已来,君子不器

给我写首情诗好吗

中国人为什么不爱排队


贰 爱情如何对抗时间


爱情如何对抗时间

找个好看的扑倒

自己穿暖,才是真暖

女神一号是如何炼成的

除了包包,还有诗歌

你不要轻易开一家咖啡馆

有人相信爱情,有人相信灵修

喝几口就成了女神


叁 想起一生中后悔的事儿


毫无意义的一天

真正的故乡

我爸认识所有的鱼

没有父亲的父亲节

如何和老妈愉快相处

想起一生中后悔的事儿

最简单的快乐

一只玉鸟的悟空

醒来,在路上

靠天堂最近的地方

一间自己的书房


肆 天用云作字


你对我微笑不语

小小的一个人

把美一点点找回来

我为什么写作

想起三十五岁的作家冯唐,还真难过啊

出门看场电影

血战古人,让世界更美好一点

佛界易入,魔界难入

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如何避免成为一个油腻的中年猥琐男

更能消几番风雨,最可怜一堆肉躯。曾几何时,我们除了未来一无所有,我们充满好奇,我们有使不完的力气,我们不怕失去,我们眼里有光,我们为建设祖国而读书,我们下身肿胀,我们激素吱吱作响,我们热爱姑娘,我们万物生长。曾几何时,时间似乎在一夜之间,从“赖着不走”变成了“从不停留”。曾几何时,连“曾几何时”这个词都变得如此矫情,如果不是在特殊的抒情场合,再也不好意思从词库里调出来使用,连排比这种修辞都变得如此二逼,不仅写诗歌和小说时绝不使用,写杂文时偶尔用了也要斟酌许久。

不可避免的事儿是,一夜之间,活着活着就老了,我们老成了中年。在少年时代,我们看书,我们行路,我们做事,我们请教老流氓们,我们尽量避免成一个二逼的少年。近几年,特别是近两三年,周围的一些中年人被很持续地、很有节奏地拎出来吊打,主要的原因都是油腻。这些中年人有些是我的好朋友,有些是我认识的人,有些我耳闻了很久。他们有的是公共知识分子,有的是意见领袖,有的是相对成功的生意人。

“小楼一夜听春雨,虚窗整日看秋山。”男到中年,我们也该想想,如何避免成为一个油腻的中年男?

我请教了一下周围偶尔或经常被油腻中年男困扰的女性,反观了一下内心,总结如下,供自省:

第一,不要成为一个胖子。如果从小不是个胖子,就要竭尽全力不要在中年成为一个胖子。中年男的油腻感首先来自体重。人到中年,新陈代谢速率下降,和少年时代同样的运动量、同样的热量摄取,体重一定增加。管住嘴、迈开腿,人到中年,更重要的还是管住嘴。还要意识到,中年的体重不只是在皮下,更多的是在内脏,想想这么多年来吃的红油火锅和红烧肘子就不难理解了。所以,轻度、适度锻炼不能保证体重减少,建议考虑阶段性轻断食。我们曾经玉树临风,现在风狂树残,但是树再残再败再劈柴,我们也要努力保持树的重量不变。我们要像厌恶谎言、专制、谬误、无趣、低俗、庸众一样厌恶我们的肚腩,我们要把四十岁还能穿进十八岁时候的牛仔裤当成无上荣耀。朝闻道,夕可死;朝见肚腩,夕可死。一室不扫,何以扫天下?一胖不除,何以除邪魔?如果我们觉得保持体重太难,就多想想周围那些为了减轻体重义无反顾、万死不辞的伟大女性。

第二,不要停止学习。我做实习医生的时候,听一个心内科副教授和我们谈人生,他大声说:“三十不学艺,真老爷们儿,四十岁之后不必读书。”在我的少年时代,这是第一次有个男人让我体会到了浓重的中年油腻感。如今,有网络和书,随时随地皆可学习。尽管“北上广深”房价太贵,无房可以堆书,可我们还有Kindle。“腹有诗书气自华”,人丑、人到中年更要多学习。吹牛能让我们有瞬间快感,但不能改变我们对一些事情所知甚少的事实,不能代替多读书和多学习。人脑是人体耗能最大的器官,多学习、多动脑的另一个好处是帮助减肥。

第三,不要待着不动。陷在沙发上看新闻,陷在酒桌上谈世界大历史,陷在床上翻新浪微博和微信朋友圈,不能让我们远离“三高”,不能让我们真正伟大。四十岁以后,自然规律让我们的激素水平下降,但是大量运动可以让我们体面地抵抗这一规律。人到中年,能让我们快乐的而且合法合规的事儿越来越少,大量运动是剩下不多的一个,运动之后,给你合法合规的多巴胺。如果肉身已经不能负担大量运动,说走就走,去散步,去旅行,也好。

第四,不要当众谈性(除非你是色情书作家)。少年时胯下有猛兽,不谈性不利于成长;中年后大毛怪逐渐和善而狡诈,无勇而想用,要有意识地防止它空谈误国,要树立正确的“三观”: 招女生喜欢这件事其实和其他复杂一些的事情一样,天生有就有, 天生没就没,少年时不招女生喜欢,中年后招女生喜欢的概率为零。中年后,女生可能喜欢你的其他一切,除了你。如果心中还有不灭的火,正确的心态是,看女色如看山水,和下半身的距离远些,相看两不厌。需要特别注意,和山水不同的是,在征得对方同意之前,请不要盯着女生看,即使忍不住盯着看,也不要一嘴的口水和一双大眼睛里全是要吃掉她的光芒。关于眼神的告诫, 也适用于权、钱等其他领域。

第五,不要追忆从前。我们都是尘埃,过去的那点成就其实都谈不上不朽。中年不意味着生命终结,不意味着我们只能回忆从前。纠集起最好的中学校友、最铁的前同事、最爱的前女友, 畅谈一壶茶、两瓶酒的从前,再尬聊,也只能证明我们了无新意。就算到了二〇二九年人类不能永生,四五十岁也不能算是生命的尽头。积攒唠叨从前的力气,再创业,再创造,再恋爱,我们还能攻城略地、杀伐战取。大到创造一个世界上没有的产品和服务, 小到写一首直指人心的诗、养一盆菖蒲、写一本书、陪一只猫, 做我们少年时没来得及做的事,耐心做下去。

第六,不要教育晚辈。尤其是,不要主动教导年轻女性。我们有我们的“三观”,年轻人也有年轻人的“三观”。我们的“三观” 有对的成分,年轻人的“三观”也有对的成分,世界在我们不经意间一直在变化,年轻人对的成分很可能比我们的高。即使我们坚定地认为我们是对的,也要牢记孔子的教导:不愤不启。即使交流中不能说服对方,也不要像我老妈一样祝福其他持不同意见者早死。

第七,不要给别人添麻烦。两年前才第一次去日本,给我印象最深的不是那些美好到伟大的食物,而是日本人骨子里不愿意给人添麻烦的态度。在高铁车厢里,不仅没人不戴耳机看视频, 连打电话的都没有。人到中年,管好自己,在经济上、情感上、生活上不给周围人添麻烦。

第八,不要停止购物。不要环顾四周,很冲动地说,断舍离, 太多衣服了,车也有了,冰箱里吃的吃不完,实在没什么想买的东西了。完全没了欲望,失去对美好事物的贪心,生命也就没有乐趣。一个老麦肯锡,八十多岁了还在教麦肯锡年轻的项目经理如何管理自己、管理团队、管理事情。他偷偷告诉我保持年轻的诀窍,不能常换年轻女友,一定要常买最新的电子产品,比如最新的电脑、最新的手机、最新版的《VR女友》。

第九,不要脏兮兮。少年时代的脏是不羁,中年时代的脏是真脏。一天洗个澡,一身不油光。一旦谢顶,主动在发型上皈依我佛。买个松下的电动剃头推子,脱光了蹲在洗手间,自己给自己剃,两周一次,坚持一生,能省下不少时间和金钱。即使为了抵抗雾霾而留鼻毛,也要经常修剪,不要让鼻毛长出鼻孔太多。

第十,不要鄙视和年龄无关的人类习惯。哪怕全世界都鄙视,我还是坚持鼓吹文艺,鼓吹戴手串和带保温杯。所有的世道变坏都是从鄙视文艺开始的,十八子、一百零八子佛珠流转千年,十指连心,触觉涉及人类深层幸福;保温杯也可以不泡枸杞,也可以装一九七一年的单桶威士忌,仗着保温杯和贱也可以走天涯。

因为苦逼而牛逼,因为逗逼而二逼,因为装逼而傻逼。愿我们远离油腻和猥琐,敬爱女生,过好余生,让世界更美好。


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