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培养孩子的独立性,亲子双方同受益,孩子具有独立性,就等于家长获得了更多的时间和自由。独立性是孩子将来的立身之本。读本书不仅能使您学会如何培养孩子,与此同时您也成了合格的家长。
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就某种意义上说,家长就是孩子的老师。
要胜任这一称号,仅有爱心是不够的。“要当家长先考执照”。每一们家长都必须清醒地认识到:当一个成功的家长是需要学习的,是需要相当资格的,而核心就是不断提高自身的教育素质——使自己由生理、血缘意义上的家长,成为社会、教育意义上的家长。
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第一章 家庭对孩子独立成长的影响
一、孩子独立成长的意义
1.什么是独立成长 /3
2.孩子需要独立成长 /4
3.孩子在独立成长中所需要的爱 /5
二、培养孩子独立性应注意的问题
1.孩子单独居住的危害 /9
2.电脑影响儿童心理健康/11
3.用讲故事和读书的方式陶冶孩子的情操/12
4.父母怎样做好培养孩子独立性的家庭教育/14
三、现代家庭教育对孩子的影响
1.孩子必需的七种家庭教育/16
2.家庭教育对孩子成长的影响/18
3.父母对孩子应该做到“真爱”/20
4.给自己的孩子早打“预防针”/23
第二章 人格培养,孩子独立成长的基础
一、尊重孩子的人格
1.不尊重孩子人格的种种表现 /29
2.什么是真正的爱和理性的爱/32
3.责备孩子的技巧/33
4.适当让孩子接触有危险的事物/34
二、让孩子建起人格独立的根基
1.培养孩子独立的性格/36
2.培养孩子的独立意识/38
3.让孩子学会独立地做/40
4.培养孩子独立问答/43
第三章 让孩子学会独立生活
一、帮助孩子迈出独立的第一步
1.独立生活,从小开始/49
2.查清孩子依赖别人的原因/50
3.让孩子依赖自己/51
二、怎样培养孩子独立生话的能力
1.学习丹麦父母“置之不管”的做法/53
2.父母要注意的问题/53
3.让孩子独立面对学习生活/56
4.让孩子自己“飞”起来 /59
第四章 应让孩子做自己的主人
一、解放思想,做自己的主人
1.正确对待和处理孩子的逆反心理/65
2.让孩子用自己的头脑处理问题/66
二、让孩子学合自我管理
1.培养孩子养成独立思考的习惯/67
2.培养孩子的责任心/69
3.让孩子更独立/70
三、孩字自我管理实例解析
1.蹲下来同孩子谈话/72
2.让孩子走出“摇篮”/73
3.培养孩子独立之我见/74
第五章 让孩子独立地学习
一、有条不紊,让孩子的学习自成体系
1.让孩子明确学习的体系结构/79
2.让孩子掌握系统学习法/80
二、如何帮助孩子尽快适应学习环境和学习生活
1.帮孩子调整好学习心态 /82
2.对孩子学习的管制要适度/83
3.教育孩子,人生处处是课堂/8S
三、让孩子掌握科学的学习方法
1.帮助孩子制定学习目标和计划/87
2.帮助孩子培养良好的学习习惯/90
3.加强孩子听、说、读、写能力/91
4.学习方面的准备工作/93
5.教育孩子热爱学校和教师/95
6.早期教育不能急于求成/96
7.批评孩子应该讲究方法/97
8.不能鼓励孩子当“小大人”/99
第六章 让孩子拥有自己的交际圈
一、怎样让孩子学合自己玩
1.让孩子自己交友/103
2.帮孩子体味友谊的快乐/104
3.父母要成为孩子的朋友/106
二、培养孩子善于交际的能力
1.了解孩子不爱交际的原因/107
2.要让孩子有平等的观念/108
3.让孩子掌握良好的交际原则/109
4.教孩子善待别人 /109
5.培养孩子的团队精神/109
三、给孩子一片自主发展的空间
1.过分保护有碍孩子独立成长/110
2.要为孩子发展着想/113
3.让孩子发自内心地交朋友/115
4.让孩子健康自由地成长/117
5.给他勇气,让他飞翔/120
第七章 让孩子自己理财
一、如何培养孩子树立正确、健康的金钱观
1.3-6岁孩子的金钱观/123
2.7-12岁孩子的金钱观/124
3.13-17岁孩子的金钱观/125
4.让你的孩子诚实地面对金钱/126
5.让孩子在金钱面前保持自尊/127
二、如何让孩子学会自己理财
1.帮助孩子从零花钱开始制定理财方案 /128
2.定期指导孩子的“财政计划”/130
三、必须具备的理财品质
四、理财素质训练的六个环节
第八章 让孩子独立面对困境
一、让孩子感受“逆境”
1.让孩子经受一些挫折 /151
2.让孩子吃点苦 /153
3.锻炼孩子的勇气 /154
二、做一名合格的家长
1.要善待孩子的荣誉 /156
2.该放手时要放手 /156
3.让孩子增长面对困难的勇气 /158
4.国外父母如何教孩子自立 /160
5.改变家庭教育观念 /161
第九章 让孩子独立创造
一、孩子与独立创造
1.培养孩子的创造性思维 /169
2.创造性从何时培养最好 /173
3.培养孩子的创造素质 /176
4.培养孩子的创造思想 /178
二、测试自己的孩子是否具有创造力
1.如何衡量孩子是否具有创造力 /180
2.创造力发现法 /182
3.对孩子的刨造力的测试 /185
三、培养孩子的创造性
1.正确对待孩子的好奇心 /188
2.通过游戏发展孩子的想象力 /188
3.注意让孩子由观察走向成功 /189
4.让孩子参加艺术活动 /190
5.青少年“双重人格”的现象不容忽视/191
第十章 让孩子学会自我控制
一、了解孩子自我控制的情况
1.对孩子的日常情感进行调查 /195
2.了解和掌握孩子产生不良情绪的原因及解决办法 /196
二、如何进行情绪辅导
1.家长如何增强对孩子进行情绪辅导的能力 /199
2.哪些时候不适合情绪辅导 /203
3.进行情绪辅导的具体做法 /207
三、增强孩子的自我控制能力
1.缓解新环境给孩子带来的压力 /214
2.教孩子排解内心的苦闷 /216
3.让孩子学会压制怒火 /218
4. 让孩子懂得羞愧和内疚的价值 /225
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4.父母怎样做好培养孩子独立性的家庭教育孩子的年龄、性格有所不同,其生理和心理特征就有所不同,这些差异是客观存在的。家长一定要根据孩子的具体情况,有针对性地做好孩子的教育工作。有的家长不看孩子的具体情况,不顾孩子的身心发展水平,只凭主观臆断,以主观主义教育方法对待孩子。这是违背儿童身心发展规律的,往往达不到教育效果,甚至还会适得其反。父母都希望自己的孩子能够成才,这是无可非议的。希望孩子学到更多的知识和技能也是可以理解的,但不能超越幼儿本身的接受能力。有的家长希望把孩子培养成为“全才”,画画、音乐、舞蹈、书法等等,恨不得一下子让孩子什么都学会。结果却把孩子搞得无所适从,结果什么也没学好,甚至还把身体搞垮了。孩子的天赋和智商是有差异的,如果孩子不具备某些天赋,家长只凭主观愿望,要求孩子学这学那,这就是强人所难了。这样做的结果,必然会给孩子造成很大的负担,引起孩子的反感,进而影响孩子的身心健康。每个孩子的个性、爱好、智商都不同,家长应该根据自己孩子的具体情况,采取适当的方法,进行有针对性的教育。
(1)家长要用心观察孩子在品德、性格和行为等方面的表现,及时进行启发、引导和教育。有的孩子很自信,认为什么事情都会干,不妨让他做一件较难的事情。做完后,可适当地指出他的不足之处,使他认识到自己还有些事情做不好,逐步培养孩子谦虚谨慎的美德。相反,有的孩子缺乏自信心,什么都不敢做,就可以让他做一些简单的事,在做的过程中给予指导和帮助,在适当的地方给予充分的肯定,让他认识到通过自己的努力是可以做些事情的。这样就能使他逐渐建立起自信心。
(2)在现实生活中,有些家长不注意培养孩子的劳动观念,甚至有的家长连吃饭穿衣都不让孩子自己动手,其结果必然造成孩子好逸恶劳的不良习惯。应该让孩子懂得懒惰是万恶之源。劳动可以促进孩子的智力发展和身心健康,家长要注意给孩子创造适当的劳动机会,让孩子从小养成热爱劳动和爱护劳动成果的好习惯,同时也培养了孩子独立生活的能力,这是家长对孩子进行早期家庭教育中不可忽视的。
(3)在对孩子进行家庭教育中,家庭成员要互相配合、协调一致,使孩子的品德和行为按照统一的要求发展。培养孩子形成良好的品德和行为习惯不是讲一次道理或做一两次练习就可以办到的,而是要经过多次练习不断强化和巩固才能形成的。家庭成员对孩子教育的态度和要求一致,就会促使孩予乐于对某些品德和行为进行多次练习,从而得到强化和巩固,最终形成良好的品德和习惯。
(4)通过实践活动教育孩子是取得良好教育效果的重要途径。在条件允许的情况下,家长尽量给孩子创造可以开展游戏和娱乐活动的空间。让孩子玩得高兴快乐,好奇心得到满足,想象力得以发挥,从而训练孩子的思维,培养孩子的动手技能。
(5)父母关心和爱护自己的孩子是人之天性。这种爱是培养孩子良好品德和行为的感情基础,没有这种爱,就谈不上教育,就难以达到好的教育效果。但爱而不教,管而不严,自然也达不到教育的目的。因此,家长在教育孩子时,要注意把关心爱护和严格要求结合起来,做到爱而不溺,严而不厉。
(6)父母首先做出榜样。也就是既重视言教,又要注意身教,把二者统一起来,使教育取得良好的效果。父母的思想品德和行为习惯,对孩子的发育成长有很大的影响。为此,做家长的要努力提高自身素质,为孩子做出榜样,把言教与身教结合起来。

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