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《搞定难搞的女孩》内容丰富,案例精彩,从女孩成长过程中的各个方面来阐述,为父母指明了一条正确教育女孩的道路。所以,为了让您的女儿性格、品质、人生观得到提升,为了让她远离性格的缺陷、苦难的沼泽,您不妨翻开这《搞定难搞的女孩》,学习正确的教育方法,避免错误的教育方式,从而让女孩从细节处开始蜕变,绽放属于她的美好!
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每一个女孩,部是来到人间的天使。
女孩天性柔弱,容易生气或者难过,稍不如意就大声哭泣;她们有时候刁蛮任性,恃宠而骄,我行我素;她们敏感叛逆,时常离家出走,还早恋、痴迷网络……父母们为这样的“叛逆天使”而非常头疼。
其实,这些只是女孩性格中的一部分,父母服中的育儿烦恼,或者是让父母头疼的“问题女孩”,都是因为父母缺乏正确的培养方式造成的。
《搞定难搞的女孩》结合当今教育情况,根据女孩的性别特征以及心理特征,从不同的角度出发,为家长们提供了一套行之有效的教育方案。《搞定难搞的女孩》中用最典型的实例,言简意赅地剖析了家长的言行,帮助父母们及时纠正自己的错误,并传递了科学合理的教育理念,教授父母们如何通过正确的引导,将女孩的美丽本质发掘得淋漓尽致,使女孩成为展翅高飞的天使!
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第一章 你们是我最好的“护花使者”:没有难搞的女孩,只有教育方法有问题的父母
母亲对女儿人生的影响:品德、习惯、爱情观
女孩缺少母爱,长大后易叛逆
父亲:女孩生命中的“指路灯”
父亲对女儿人生的影响:性格、气质、择偶标准
与女儿关系升温的“法宝”:理解、宽容、尊重、关注
教育女儿不要一个“红脸”,一个“白脸”
单亲家庭,更应重视女孩的性别教育

第二章 我另类,因为我来自遥远的水星:要搞定难搞的女孩,请先进入公主的世界
“用糖果、香料做成的女孩”:女性荷尔蒙的秘密
“谁误解了女孩”:解读父母养育女孩的认知误区
从出生到7岁:塑造女儿一生的关键
8~12岁:着重培养女儿的个性及能力
13~18岁——引导女儿平稳度过“青春期”
认清女孩的天赋和优势
敏感、骄纵——女孩早期教育中心理培养的重要性
帮助女孩建立“关系式人生”

第三章 我不是天生就矫情:你的娇俏女儿也有“公主病”
“我就想一个人待着”:女孩的孤僻心理
“我总觉得害怕”女孩的胆怯心理
“我为什么总是不如别人好呢”:女孩的自卑心理
“我觉得我没做错”——女孩的倔强心理
“我想怎么做就怎么做”:女孩的刁蛮任性心理
“长得漂亮就是资本”:女孩的虚荣心理
“她比我优秀我就恨她”:女孩的嫉妒心理
“我就是离不开你啊”:女孩的依赖心理

第四章 我这么娇弱的人今后怎么生存:培养女孩的能力,为她插上天使的翅膀
观察力:让女孩的学习更上一层楼
创造力:让女孩成为有灵气的才女
记忆力:把女孩培养成学习的天才
想象力:为女孩插上“飞翔”的翅膀
理财能力:让女孩既是“才女”也是“财女”
动手能力:让你的女孩心灵手巧
承受力:让女孩更能经受挫折

第五章 好看没用,她们总说我是个野丫头:给她美貌娇颜不如让她气质如兰
女孩有孝心,才是“贴心小棉袄”
从小就在女孩心中种下诚信的种子
给女孩一颗博爱与感恩的心
拓宽女孩的心胸,不要让她斤斤计较
不耐烦的小丫头:培养女孩的耐性
不能太软弱:如何让女儿变得更坚强
做人要勇敢:帮助女儿打开勇气之门

第六章 我的心如同含羞草一样敏感:注意和女孩的沟通方式,多交心少训诫
选择抚慰心灵的沟通方式
尊重是相互的——女孩需要父母的尊重
与女孩做朋友——引导她敞开“心门”
沟通可以是无声的——重视与女孩之间的非语言沟通
批评女孩有技巧——既要让她听话又不受到伤害
表扬女孩讲艺术——内容要具体,态度要真诚

第七章 你们必须把我培养成大家闺秀:从来富贵多淑女,女孩一定要“富”着养
大家闺秀是如何塑成的
千金的名字由何而来
“富养女孩”的真正涵义
自小就给女儿穿上自信的“水晶鞋”
培养女孩的好心态:让女孩由丑变美
培养女孩的“糊涂心”:提高幸福指数
培养女孩的幽默感:让女孩找到人生乐趣
开阔女孩的眼界:引领女儿认识精彩的世界

第八章 我不想面对这个烦恼的世界:别让女孩成为心灵脆弱的“玻璃美人”
让女儿做个快乐的智者
淑女是不会被愤怒淹没的
让女孩从重重压力中解放出来
宽容的女孩,可以升华自己
忍耐可以造就女孩飞翔的翅膀
离家出走不能解决问题
“追星”无错,与女儿一起追星又何妨
安全教育,如何让女孩学会保护好自己
生命可贵:教女儿正确认识生与死

第九章 有些话,我不好意思和你们说:帮助女孩度过叛逆的青春期
与青春期的女儿坦诚相处
给女儿独立的空间,尊重她的隐私权
青春期女孩更要自尊自爱
让女儿正确理性地看待减肥
和女儿谈谈爱情和早恋的那些事
性,你可以这样和女儿谈
消除女孩离家出走的心理障碍
避免女孩染上“电子病毒”

第十章 我不需要“狼爸”“虎妈”:别因为你们的错误让小公主变成“丑人鱼”
“我是你妈,你就得听我的”:不要以家长的身份压人
“你哪来那么多的为什么”:不要扼杀女孩的好奇心
“你只管把你的分数提上去就行了”:不要把分数当作学习的终极目标
“少看闲书,把你的课本看好就行”:不要禁止孩子读课外读物
“为什么别人行,你不行”:不要拿孩子跟别人作比较
“你怎么那么笨啊”:不要伤害女孩的自尊心,要给女孩留面子
“你要考好了,我给你买裙子”:不要过度用物质奖励“诱惑”孩子
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恰好,同一个小区里面有一个8岁的小女孩叫田慧茹,这个女孩看见有人下棋就跑过去调皮捣蛋,院里有人晒衣服的话,就给人弄得满地都是。更可气的是谁稍不如她的意,她就对别人进行谩骂,难听程度不亚于某些大人,有的时候语言压根就不像是一个8岁的孩子。
有一天,这俩孩子在小区里面玩,赵月月抱着一个漂亮的布娃娃,和别的孩子在花坛边玩游戏。田慧茹想要赵月月的布娃娃,于是走过去说道:“喂,把你的娃娃拿给我玩,我喜欢。”赵月月抱着娃娃说:“不行,这是我妈妈刚刚买给我的礼物。”田慧茹见索要无果,就直接上前去抢,赵月月抱着布娃娃不松手,田慧茹一看,更生气了,就推了赵月月一把,结果赵月月倒下去的时候手一扬正巧打在田慧茹的脸上,而赵月月的头磕在了花坛边上,额头被树枝划了长长的一道口子。
看见孩子受伤了,周围的人赶忙将孩子送到医院包扎。结果田慧茹反而跑回家去告诉她妈妈,说赵月月打了她。田慧茹的母亲一看,气坏了。跑到赵月月家就是一通乱骂,还摔坏了人家家里的花瓶和杯子。
赵月月的母亲并没有因此对她恶语相向,反而轻声劝说,让她先不要生气。问问孩子们这到底是怎么回事。那天周围的邻居和孩子都证实了,是因为田慧茹想要抢玩具,推倒赵月月,还让人家受伤了。
田慧茹的母亲自知理亏,也怕赵月月家让自己赔钱,于是一边起身,一边骂着自家孩子,还对着孩子一阵推操,借机离开了赵月月家。
从故事中可以看出,一个母亲平时的言语习惯、品德修养是足以影响到孩子成长的。母亲如果是一个品德宽厚的人,在平常的生活当中,女儿通过自己的观察,就会接收到这样的信息,潜意识里告诉自己这样是对的,具体就会表现在未来的为人处世中,在不知不觉中,就会影响到自己的品德。而一个母亲如果处处斤斤计较,动辄恶言恶语,就会导致孩子品德低下,甚至是品德恶劣。
习惯虽小,但是足以影响一个女孩的一生。有些看似很小的习惯,却会影响一个人的行事方法、性格等多个方面。作为母亲,应该注意平时生活中的一些习惯,让孩子看到你积极向上的一面。
相比之下,女孩子较男孩子而言,要更早熟一些,而母亲对于女孩的爱情观,有着至关重要的影响。有一些母亲会主动引导孩子对爱情进行正确的认知,让孩子明白凡事应该有个界限,其中包括:爱情的本质,爱情在生活中的位置,如何面对失恋,等等。这样的引导无疑是明智的。
如果在这方面对女儿畏首畏尾、不愿提及的话,就会让女儿有提早尝试的想法。
而母亲对女儿在爱情观方面的影响,让女儿在未来的感情道路当中,可以有一个标准当作参考,这方面会和母亲有相似之处,比如说择偶标准。
母亲对女儿的影响十分深远,如何利用好这些影响,让女儿在品德、习惯、爱情观等方面得到好的引导呢?下面有几个方法可以借鉴:(1)母亲是女儿生活当中的镜子。
注意自身的言行举止,本着为孩子好的目的进行自我约束,尽量避免一些坏的习惯、语言、动作的出现,否则会造成一些不好的影响,让孩子形成不良的习惯。
(2)眼光长远才能有美好的未来。
满足女孩正确的好奇心,告诉她遇到事情应该怎样去做,怎样去培养自己的爱好。而不是眼光局限在当下:当下的好处,当下的喜悦,当下的痛快。
母亲是女儿生命中很重要的一位老师,在艰辛的成长道路上,如果女儿能得到母亲的正确培养,将会使她一生受用,甚至会决定她未来生活的质量。
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很多家长都常常抱怨:女孩真是个“难搞”的角色。她们生性懦弱,稍微一点不如意就大声哭泣;她们度量狭小,在与人交往的时候很容易生气或者难过:她们刁蛮任性,从不顾及他人的感受;她们骄纵自私,常常目中无人,我行我素;她们敏感叛逆,不仅时常离家出走,还早恋、痴迷网络……其实,在父母心中的育女烦恼,或者是让父母头疼的“问题少女”,都是因为女孩的父母缺乏有效的培养方式。这些女孩就像是不会飞翔的天使,如果能得到父母的有效教育,那么她们一样能够在天空自由翱翔,因为她们有着自己独特的优势。
女孩和男孩相比,虽然逻辑性不如男孩强,没有男孩的体力和耐力,但是:她们有一颗聪慧的心,能去发现世间的奇妙;她们有一双明亮的眼睛,能看见细微的美好;她们有一双灵巧的手,能勾勒出自己的未来;她们有一副动听的嗓子,能唱出自己的生命……女孩之所以敏感,是因为她们有洞察的能力;她们虽然看似娇弱,然而也有着别样的坚强。
正因为这份坚强,让她们有勇气去面对一切困难,并坚信自己能够克服它。她们能颠覆人们的认知,从“弱者”的头衔下悠然走出,创造属于自己的荣耀。
那么,作为父母,应该如何解决如今孩子出现的问题,让女孩能够发挥自身最大的潜质,让她们能够收获属于自身的那份幸福呢?本书将从十个方面来进行诠释,为父母提供一套行之有效的育女方案。以下是本书中所体现的部分教育思想,着重探讨父母应该怎样去培养一个女孩,避免女孩在人生的道路上迷失自我,难经风雨。
首先,在所有的教育当中,父母对女孩的教育和影Ⅱ向显得尤为重要。
不仅女儿的品德、习惯会受到父母的影响,甚至就连性格、择偶条件都在影响范围之内。父母应该适当利用这些影响,以身作则来引导女儿往对的方向前行。
其次,从女孩的荷尔蒙影响说起,处于某个年龄阶段的女孩具有特殊的优势和天赋,而这些优势和天赋常被误认为是“难搞”的一面,针对这些方面来着重培养女孩的个性和能力,是塑造女儿一生的关键。
再者,女孩天生的敏感、娇弱、胆怯、依赖等心理,需要父母的正确引导,只有父母正确认识孩子语言当中潜在的心理,才能帮助孩子克服这些困难,纠正孩子不良的心理,让孩子能够健康成长。
总之,无论你想把自己的女儿培养成兰花还是牡丹,都要根据女孩自身所具备的条件进行,不要把自己的意愿强加在孩子身上。一定要相信,没有难搞的女孩,只有方法不正确的父母。
本书内容丰富,案例精彩,从女孩成长过程中的各个方面来阐述,为父母指明了一条正确教育女孩的道路。所以,为了让您的女儿性格、品质、人生观得到提升,为了让她远离性格的缺陷、苦难的沼泽,您不妨翻开这本书,学习正确的教育方法,避免错误的教育方式,从而让女孩从细节处开始蜕变,绽放属于她的美好!

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    Standard Shipping is $5.99 (Excluding Alaska & Hawaii). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    Local Express is $5.99 (Available in Parts of CA, NJ, MA & PA). Free on orders of $49 or more.

    2-Day Express (Includes Alaska & Hawaii) starts at $19.99.

Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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Service Guarantee

Yami Cross-store Free Shipping over $69
Yami 30-days Return

Yami-China FC

Yami has a consolidation warehouse in China which collects multiple sellers’ packages and combines to one order. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to your door. Cross-store free shipping over $69.

Return Policy

You may return products within 30 days upon receiving the products. Sellers take responsibilities for any wrong shipment or missing items. Packing needs to be unopened for any other than quality issues return. We promise to pack carefully, but because goods are taking long journey to destinations, simple damages to packaging may occur. Any damages not causing internal goods quality problems are not allowed to return. If you open the package and any quality problem is found, please contact customer service within three days after receipt of goods.

Shipping Information

Yami Consolidation Service Shipping Fee $9.99(Free shipping over $69)

Sellers in China will ship their orders within 1-2 business days once the order is placed. Packages are sent to our consolidation warehouse in China and combined there. Our Yami consolidation warehouse will directly ship the packages to you via UPS. The average time for UPS to ship from China to the United States is about 10 working days and it can be traced using the tracking number. Due to the pandemic, the delivery time may be delayed by about 5 days. The package needs to be signed by the guest. If the receipt is not signed, the customer shall bear the risk of loss of the package.

Sold by JD@CHINA

Service Guarantee

Free shipping over 69
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Shipping

Yami Consolidated Shipping $9.99(Free shipping over $69)


Seller will ship the orders within 1-2 business days. The logistics time limit is expected to be 7-15 working days. In case of customs clearance, the delivery time will be extended by 3-7 days. The final receipt date is subject to the information of the postal company.

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Return Policy

You may return product within 30 days upon receiving the product. Items returned must be new in it's original packing, including the original invoice for the purchase. Customer return product at their own expense.

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