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孩子成长不容易，家长教育不容易，长大不容易！
首席教育专家、“知心姐姐”卢勤30年一线教育践行经验
两代父母、一亿家长的共同选择
值得阅读一生的成长之书，亲情之书
教育与励志并重、真实的案例分享、常用常新的理念
“卢勤文集”之《长大不容易》——案例真实、鲜活，集作者30年参与、跟踪与分类
作者卢勤多年主持《中国少年报》“知心姐姐”栏目，针对当今时代背景下家庭教育面临的各种新问题，卢勤提出全新的“成长有规律”教育理念，帮助家长了解孩子成长规律，以孩子为本，培养出有责任心、有爱心、自立自主的孩子。

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《卢勤文集：长大不容易》是一本写给孩子的书，是一本能够帮助父母了解孩子真实境遇和想法的书。《卢勤文集：长大不容易》通过大量珍贵案例的详细描述和对孩子普遍存在的问题的剖析，将孩子们成长中可能遇到的问题概括为50个话题，大到面对生活、面对命运、面对青春，小到面对长相、面对暗恋、面对手淫等，细细分析，殷殷教导，进行平等的、面对面心贴心的“知心对话”，指导孩子摆脱困境，自强、自信、乐观地找到自己成功的方向，做最好的自己。
《卢勤文集：长大不容易》是孩子们喜爱的励志书。书中有很多至理名言，很多鲜活生动的经典案例，通过阅读这本《卢勤文集：长大不容易》，孩子们将学会自信地面对世界，大声说出：“我能行！”家长也能更多地了解孩子，帮助孩子。

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卢勤，原中国少年儿童新闻出版总社总编辑，现为中国家庭教育学会常务理事，全国更新家庭教育观念报告团成员，中国关心下一代工作委员会专家委员会委员。
卢勤长期主持《中国少年报》“知心姐姐”栏目，被广大少年儿童及父母热情地称为“知心姐姐”。她以亲切、平易、认真、深情、理解及独具特色的亲和力，影响着一代又一代少年儿童，守护着孩子们心中的希望，曾获中国新闻工作者最高奖韬奋新闻奖、中国内藤国际育儿奖、联合国颁发的支持儿童杰出成就奖，并获全国优秀少年儿童工作者、中国保护未成年人杰出公民、全国三八红旗手和巾帼建业标兵等称号。
卢勤的作品是教育的经典，超级畅销书，总发行量超过700万册，荣获国家第六届、第八届五个一工程奖，中国图书奖等多种大奖。卢勤在全国各地巡回演讲数千场，听众过亿人次，是中央电视台、中国教育电视台、北京电视台等多家传媒名牌栏目的常邀嘉宾，深受千万家长和孩子的爱戴。

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★姐姐、妈妈、奶奶，卢勤老师集几个身份于一身，她的眼里总是有孩子。
——央视著名主持人敬一丹

★知心姐姐卢勤用爱心和几十年的努力为中国家庭教育和儿童教育作出了巨大贡献，《长大不容易》会让所有的家长更好地教育孩子，让孩子更加容易长大。
——新东方教育科技集团董事长俞敏洪

★用科学态度给生命一份承诺，用爱的温柔给梦想一片天空。
——著名文化专家于丹

★养孩子是一项拉动内需、增加动力的全民运动，运动指南请参照知心姐姐卢勤的《长大不容易》。
——《蜗居》作者六六

★每个孩子都是父母的宝贝，但什么对孩子好？只有经历过才知道，从别人的经验中科学地学习，长大虽不易，我们还是能陪着孩子“慢活”，一起快乐地成长！
——凤凰卫视著名主持人吴小莉

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自序长大不容易，成长有规律

第一章孕育生命期
不要生“蜜月宝宝”
心情影响长相
好心情从哪儿来？
爱子先爱妻
道德教育从胎教开始
准妈妈的情绪影响孩子智力
天赋可以培育
胎教音乐三阶段

第二章婴儿成长期
宝宝出生那一天
名字左右孩子的一生
妈妈的微笑是最好的礼物
孩子要自己带
抓住大脑发育各个关键期
世上没有笨孩子
0～3岁：大脑开发黄金期
该“吃手”时就“吃手”
重复是小孩子学习的必要手段
“嘘”——小孩玩时别打扰
返璞归真的玩具最有益

第三章幼儿成长期
妈妈，我从哪里来？
上幼儿园的孩子哭给谁看
怎样让哭闹的孩子安静下来
幼儿园给我留下了什么？
发现的乐趣
无理取闹不能赢
眼光可养人也可杀人
从“口吃”到“口才”
想象力比知识重要
冒险和闯祸是一步之遥
培养同情心从养小动物开始
童年离不开童话

第四章儿童成长期
上学了“太好了！”
习惯影响一生
“替孩子”等于“害孩子”
放手才能放心
幸福从分享开始
我陪他哭
爱心决定快乐
父母，你到底要什么？
兴趣班呼唤兴趣
专注能够产生美
创新从提问始
把问题留给孩子
怎样惩罚孩子才有用
别对自己说“不可能”

第五章少年成长期
远离“羡慕、嫉妒、恨”
小孩吵架，大人不用管
一句话成就人生
善解人意的孩子不抱怨
有面子的孩子有尊严
小孩说话也管用
“重要人物”是这样产生的
梦想让你了不起
理财教育从小开始
礼貌与德行不是教出来的
小学生活留下的六大财富

第六章青年成长期
龙生九子，子子不同
热忱能激发潜能
舍得用，孩子才能成大器
儿子给您挣回来了
商量，沟通的好方法
过程比结果重要
一声叹息让孩子心碎
男孩女孩一起走
自制，做情绪的主人
理解了，就长大了
生日，给孩子写封信
美丽世界的“孤儿”
留守，农民工孩子的新考验
积极面对父母离异
公益心把世界点亮

第七章步入成人期
步入大学第一难题：人际关系
选择，生存的本领
男生怎样选择女友
女生怎样选择男友
责任心让你成为自己的贵人

第八章家的影响
把孩子培养成财富
《陈氏家纲》的启发
夫妻之间：善待与包容最重要
亲子之间：思念与牵挂最重要
婆媳之间：倾听与知心最重要
岳婿之间：使用与赞美最重要
快乐生活的秘诀

Book Abstract

世界上没有什么比生孩子更让人刻骨铭心的了。
1978年6月22日19点，我走进了坐落在北京骑河楼街的北京妇产医院，陪同我的是近70岁的父母亲。老公因在长春工作，未能赶回来。
“马上住院，都开两指了。”医生果断地说。
我住院了。“你们回去吧！别惦记，我挺好的。”我大声说。父母搀扶着走了，留下三块鸡蛋糕。望着他们年迈的背影，我的泪水不知不觉地流了出来。忽然觉得，他们把我养大，多不容易，况且他们养育了六个子女，我排行老五。
肚子里的宝宝很乖，静静地等着。他很有耐性，知道“不到火候不揭锅”。
平静地坐在产房候诊室里，看着眼前新奇的一切，我惊呆了：产床上躺着一个个挺着大肚子的妈妈，每个人的脸上都痛苦无比，一个个大声喊叫着：“妈呀！疼死啦！”我才知道，人疼痛时为什么要喊“妈”，因为是妈妈将你领到这个世界上来的，你认识的第一个人是妈妈，你信任的第一个人是妈妈，你依靠的第一个人也是妈妈。
突然，我的肚子强烈地疼起来，一阵紧似一阵，医生立刻把我推进产房。我忍着剧痛，尽量不喊“妈”，因为我不想让我年迈的妈妈替我担心。
可是，实在是太疼了，我口中紧紧地咬住床单。
“使劲！使劲！”医生在一旁加油。
我一次一次使劲，终于筋疲力尽了。夜里11点多上的产床，到第二天凌晨，孩子还是没有出来。我已经痛得快昏过去了。
换班的医生来了。
“高龄产妇，30岁，血压低，心率快，血小板少，马上手术。”只听见一个似乎是领导的医生在指挥。“孩子头太大，你需要侧切。”医生对我说。
“行行！”我连忙点头。我想，怎么切都行，只要让孩子快出来，别憋死就行。
“电吸！”又一声命令。
只听“轰轰轰”，一个机器推过来。
“哇！”孩子终于出来了！
“男孩17斤8两，很漂亮！”医生兴奋地把孩子抱过来先让我看看他的小鸡鸡，确认是男孩；又看看他的头，头发黑黑的密密的，像他爸爸，可脸上有许多皱纹，有点像小老头。人家说，刚出生的孩子都这样。
1978年6月23日早晨7点35分，儿子出生了，那一刻，泪水从我眼眶里流出来，那是幸福的泪。“我做妈妈了！”我真想大声喊，可是喊不出来，只是小声地说：“谢谢大夫了。”只见大夫一个个喜笑颜开，很有成就感。
回到病房时，已是清晨。
我满头大汗，全身都湿透了。护士来查房觉得屋里空气不好，打开了窗户。一阵凉风吹进来，直接灌进了我张开的毛孔，从此落下了“风湿病”，一着凉风就疼。真后悔，当初应该小心点。
第二天下午，我妈来看我和孩子。我妈可高兴了，说那么多孩子，我儿子哭声最洪亮，将来一定能吃能喝。话都让她说对了，儿子长大后特能吃，肺活量特大，能唱出男高音。
产后最大的痛苦是伤口不愈合，痔疮长得很大，像三个大葡萄，疼痛难忍，如坐针毡。每次坐着喂奶，我都会疼得满头大汗。别人住三四天就出院了，我却住了十天。人家是先苦后甜，我是先甜后苦，看来“痛苦”的过程谁也逃不脱。
住院那十天，我想了很多。
我想，我妈生了六个孩子，是多么多么不容易，我要好好孝敬我妈。
我想，我儿子将来一定要孝敬我，最好不要等到30岁才明白，最好从小就明白；我想我儿媳将来生孩子，我一定要陪她去医院，让她住一个单间，不让她受风，我要看着她把孩子生出来。
31年后，儿子的儿子就要出生了。我让儿媳住条件很好的医院，医生、护士满脸微笑，如同家人一般。
儿媳因为生理问题，不能顺产，只能剖腹产。院长破例让我和我儿子进了产房，目睹了剖腹产那激动人心的时刻。
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