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心理学与藏心术:内敛心性的智慧

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人心难窥测。于是始有读心术和藏心术。藏心术的关键在于正己保身,减少自我损伤。
藏心的最高境界是无形。无形是道,是世界万事万物的最高境界。懂得藏心,自然能够修炼读心术.从一言一行上挖掘出他人的蛛丝马迹。
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第一章 你的城府有多深
1.胸有城府天地宽
2.“出丑”会让你更受欢迎
3.让人永远看不破
4.别把话说得太满太绝
5.多在背后赞美别人
6.一杯冷水加一杯热水
7.为何总爱得罪人
8.直来直去要不得
9.顺着别人的思路来
第二章 心性内敛的智慧
1.内敛是一种功力
2.以平和心态面对一切
3.性格沉稳一些才好
4.不要太急于求成
5.谨慎,最优雅的从容
6.口渴之前先掘井
7.把握好“小节”,处理好“大节”
8.虚心的姿态让人无法拒绝
9.踏踏实实做好每一件事
第三章 说话的隐显之道
1.倾听可以赢得对方的好感
2.适时地保持沉默
3.巧妙迎合,见什么人说什么话
4.实话不一定要直说
5.拒绝要懂点心理学
6.千万别成为“漏斗嘴”
7.善意的谎言不可少
8.别把别人的隐私当众“曝光”
9.心事不要随便说出来
10.选好时机再开口
第四章 掌控自己的情绪
1.时刻保持冷静
2.喜怒不形于色
3.得意时不要太张扬
4.培养自己过人的自制力
5.让自己远离愤怒
6.不要让焦虑症害了你
7.收敛起你的锋芒
8.装做不知最聪明
9.决不要陷于骄傲的泥潭中
第五章 把握好交际距离
1.保持友谊的“弹性美”
2.一见难如故,浅交不深谋
3.凡事都要“留一手”
4.多给彼此一些私人空间
5.完全袒露不如有所保留
6.与人开玩笑要有分寸
7.过犹不及,保持恰当距离
8.善待对手,不要穷追猛打
9.要恰当地表现自己
10.领导不可随便表现自己的情绪
11.多报喜,少报忧
第六章 你是伪装高手吗
1.表现出委屈的卑下姿态
2.激发对方的同情心
3.运用道歉,求得谅解
4.故意暴露自己的“弱点”
5.用你的“软弱”来感化对手
6.人心都是肉长的
7.不要让人摸清你的底细
第七章 隐忍低调是王道
1.不要让你的光芒抢了别人风头
2.木秀于林,风必摧之
3.适时低头保护自己
4.满足对方的虚荣心
5.做老二,不做老大
6.维护好领导的面子
7.装一装“低能儿”
8.才不可露尽,力不可使尽
9.密藏不露好做人
第八章 沉稳的处世技巧
1.利用首因效应,留下良好第一印象
2.记住对方的名字
3.时时让别人感到重要
4.用“我们”代替“我”
5.心理置换,将心比心
6.学会换位思考
7.送礼送到心坎里
8.激发共鸣,拉近心理距离
9.抓住领导的心理进行交谈
10.诱发下属的“逞能”欲望
第九章 用暗示力影响他人
1.正面强化的神奇力量
2.自信是给对方的定心丸
3.巧妙利用权威效应来影响别人
4.尽量引导对方多说
5.物以稀为贵,制造短缺的假象
6.恰当使用肢体语言
7.用“同步行为”引发对方的好感
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城府本是一个物化的词语,却用来形容人的性格和心胸,本身不含褒 贬 义,是中性词。但在“心无城府”和“城府极深”、“心机深沉”的影响 下, 城府有了贬义的倾向。而“心有城府”可以往好的地方说,也可以往坏处 想。 心理学的解释是,讲一个人城府很深,含有两种意思。一是褒义,说 这 人有心机谋略,思想深邃,且不愿意随便吐露。二是贬义,说这人不坦率 ,让 人猜不透心思,不敢把他当朋友看。城府是每个人都有的,只不过有的人 多一 点,有的人少一点罢了。 吕不韦就是一个城府极深、富于谋略的人。吕不韦是卫国濮阳人,出 生 在一个珠宝商人家庭。成年以后,吕不韦奔走于各国,经营珠宝。后来, 他到 了韩国,成为阳翟“家累千金”的巨富。 吕不韦生活在战国时代。其时农业、手工业、商业兴旺发达,商人活 动 频繁。有些商人主张用兵家之道来经商,吕不韦却用经商之道来从政。 秦昭王四十二年(公元前265年),吕不韦经商来到赵国都城邯郸,巧遇 秦 国公子异人(后改名子楚)。吕不韦认定异人是有用之人。异人是秦国安国 君之 子、秦昭王之孙,安国君此时已被确定为太子。安国君有20多个儿子,异 人不 是长子,他的生母夏姬也不受安国君宠爱。异人在赵国当人质,秦赵经常 发生 战争,异人在赵国处境危险,饱受赵国人白眼,他的日用起居车辆都很简 陋, 十足的落难公子,人们都认为他将来没什么大出息。 吕不韦依据生意经上的“人弃我取”原则,认为异人是个奇货可居的 对 象,是一个可以收买并进行政治投机的对象。于是,他决定助异人一臂之 力。 吕不韦对异人进行了一番试探以后,便和盘托出了自己的计划:秦昭 襄 王已经七十有余了,太子安国君人主王位为时不远。太子宠幸正妃,然而 正妃 华阳夫人没有儿子。异人在安国君20多个儿子中排行居中,又久为质子在 外, 皇祖和父亲极少亲近,宫中又没有人相佐,一旦安国君即位,再想立为嫡 子, 几乎没有可能。要想改变目前的处境,结束这种囚禁的生活,目前来看, 只有 趁安国君还未继位进行疏通。 异人被吕不韦的分析所震动。接着,吕不韦表示他要竭尽全力,为异 人 谋取王位继承人的宝位:先资助重金,到秦都为异人四处活动,尤其是笼 络住 华阳夫人;华阳夫人没有儿子,一旦她接受,由她在安国君面前说句话, 异人 就极有可能被立为嫡嗣。 一切按计划进行,十分顺利,异人获得了华阳夫人的喜爱。吕不韦又 让 华阳夫人的姐姐说动华阳夫人,预先准备了一套说辞,针对华阳夫人的心 病, 层层深入。华阳夫人的姐姐劝说华阳夫人:“我听说,女人靠姿色得宠, 到 了红颜衰残时,受到的宠爱就会淡薄。只有趁受宠之时,确立自己的儿子 为王 位继承人,即使丈夫去世之后,自己也不会失势。现在夫人侍奉太子,非 常受 宠,可惜没有儿子。何不趁机在众位公子中物色一个既能干又孝顺的立为 继承 人,并认他为儿子呢?这样,你丈夫在世时,你受到尊重。万一丈夫死后, 你 认的儿子继位为王,你终身也不会失去权势。如果不抓住目前你受宠的时 机奠 定牢固的基础,等到宠衰色褪时,即使你想说一句话,恐怕也没人听你的 了。 现在异人本事大,而且他知道自己排行居中,照常例是不能立为继承人的 ,他 的生母又不受宠爱,现在他又主动来投靠夫人。你如果立他为继承人,他 定会 感激不尽,夫人你在秦国的地位便永远不会动摇,你一辈子都能在秦国受 到尊 重。”华阳夫人被说动了。 华阳夫人侍候太子安国君时,便主动提出让异人做继承人。她流着泪 说:“我有幸能到后宫充数,不幸没有儿子。希望能把异人立为继承人, 让 我将来有个依靠。”安国君答应了华阳夫人的请求,与她刻玉符为凭证, 立 异人为继承人。安国君和华阳夫人不断送钱财给异人,并聘请吕不韦担任 异 人的老师。 异人回到秦国去见华阳夫人时,吕不韦知道华阳夫人原籍楚国,便让 异 人穿楚服进见。华阳夫人见了异人非常高兴,当场让他改名为子楚。不久 ,子 楚作为安国君的继承人这个消息便在诸侯国中传开了。 P2-3
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周先生曾经有一段时间活得有些郁闷,入职多年,职位一直原地踏步 。 能力是没说的,绩效是很棒的,人缘又那么好,问题出在哪里呢? 周先生想起了同事对他的评价:随和、直率、坦诚、热心、性情中人 。 这些中肯的评价,正是周先生对自己不太满意的地方。 “心里总是藏不 住事, 为什么控制不住自己呢?高兴、不高兴会全写在脸上,让人一眼就看透。” 周 先生心想,我什么时候才能像上司那样含蓄、内敛呢?一个不够成熟稳重的 人,上司怎么会放心提拔他呢? 周先生想起了刘备。当年刘备寄居在曹操那里,天天种菜、浇水、除 草,看似没什么远大抱负。曹操青梅煮酒,窥测刘备志向,刘备闻雷失箸 ,隐 藏得那么从容。这个故事在周先生心里刻下很深的印记,他决定学会把心 隐藏 起来。 半年以后,周先生的努力有了收获。有同事开玩笑说,他不拘言笑, 学 会玩深沉了。上司与他谈话的次数也多了起来。最让周先生心中暗暗得意 的 是,他的职位升了一级。 人生如棋,我们的生存与生活,犹如与人对弈。在人生这盘棋上,善 藏 心者,看透的是对手的心;不善藏心者,乃是让对手看明白自己的心。藏 心是 一门学问,是一种内敛心性的智慧。 善于藏心的人,是一个有内涵、有魅力的人。一个人有潜藏隐秘的城 府,有平和内敛的心境,则清澈深不见底,男人沉稳睿智,女人秀外慧中 。 善于藏心的人,具有隐忍、沉稳、大度的优秀性格。一个人懂得低调 、 忍耐、沉着、包容,具有一种柔性,则能经受人生的种种考验,能够等待 时 机,能够伸屈自如,从而达到圆融的境界。 善于藏心的人,说话懂得隐显之道。什么时候该直言不讳,什么时候 当曲意 委婉,都能够把握得恰到好处。 善于藏心的人,能够自如地掌控自己的情绪。藏于心而发于行,喜怒 不形于 色。许多事情都能冷静地面对,处世是那样的从容。 善于藏心的人,能够把握好交际的距离。亲密有间乃相处之道,或远 或近分 寸有度,交际总能产生奇效。 善于藏心的人,精通伪装术,也能看破别人的伪装。伪装只是保护自 己的一 种姿态,目的是减少自我损伤,不会因伪装而虚伪。 善于藏心的人,思想深邃,性格成熟,为人精明,处世老成。藏心已 经植根 他的生命深处,成为其本性的一部分,世界上很多的人和事,其中的种种 玄机自 然会清晰呈现、昭然若揭、无法遁形。 藏心是一种境界,并非每个人都能够做到。不会藏心的人一定会在社 会上碰 壁、受伤,会藏心的人自然拥有一套掌握进退成败主动的高效人生谋略, 成为竞 争时代的强者。 本书从心理学的角度出发,紧扣“藏心”二字,结合实际生活案例, 对日常 生活中可能遇到的各色心理现象进行了较为详尽的分析,并提供了操作简 便的解 决思路与方法。帮助人们在了解现象背后的深层心理原因的同时,内敛心 性,隐 藏自我,了解他人,以成为职场上、家庭中、亲友圈中最有分量、最受欢 迎、最 有成就的人。

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欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折
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欣葉
2种选择
欣叶 御大福 芋头麻薯 180g

周销量 600+

$1.66 $1.99 83折

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