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洞悉孩子的灵魂

Name: 洞悉孩子的灵魂
Brand: Jingdong book
SKU: 3116045691
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你也许一遍遍问自己，问所有可能给你答案的人：我的孩子怎么了？他（她）到底怎么了？
他/她莫名其妙地生病，言行格格不入，甚至厌学、逃学、吸毒，他一次次想要离家出走，甚至想要自杀……你也许甚至尝试检讨自己，学习调整自己，努力沟通……可所有的努力都付诸东流，似乎完全无法改变孩子的生命走向。
打开这本《洞悉孩子的灵魂》，你也许会在那么久的黑暗中探索之后看到一些光明，甚至如释重负的豁然开朗……
◎海灵格语录：
父母和孩子，这意味着什么？意味着孩子从父母那里接受了生命。除了他们之外再也不会有其他的父母。因此，他们就是zui好的父母，唯一可能的父母，也是唯一合适的父母。
如果孩子有着非常沉重的命运，那么他们并不只是看着他们的父母，他们还往前看到许多代，看到生命的源头。如果孩子能从源头获得生命，看到自己的生命，经由世代，顺延而至，他们的心灵会豁然开朗。
许多的疾病和意外都是愧疚的结果。人们带着愧疚的感觉，人们渴望通过惩罚把自己从愧疚里解放出来，尤其是通过自己的死亡获得解放。
孩子是一对伴侣关系的圆满。伴侣关系是为孩子设计的。没有孩子的伴侣关系是不完整的。现在很多人在讨论伴侣关系的时候只考虑男人和女人。在早期一个孩子在婚礼后一年到来是很清楚的。伴侣关系的目标是孩子。唯有通过孩子，伴侣关系才变得完整。孩子是伴侣关系可以看到的结果。

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伯特·海灵格，这位年过九旬的智慧老人，在这本《洞悉孩子的灵魂》里向我们娓娓道来那些寓意深远却与我们每个人命运相关的故事，以惊世骇俗的洞见引领着我们，去探索和追寻新的视野与答案：不再问“孩子怎么了”，而是问“我怎么了？我们怎么了？我们的原生家庭怎么了？小小的孩子到底担负着怎样沉重的家族命运？那些显而易见的命运背后，又隐藏着怎样不为人知晓的生命秘密？”

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伯特·海灵格，德国享有盛名的心理治疗师，他所创新整合的“家庭系统排列”，轰动了整个欧洲。近十年来，美国及欧洲其他国家地区争相邀请海灵格前去演讲示范。自2001年以来，海灵格曾两次来到中国大陆地区开展“家庭系统排列”工作坊，在与会的数百名临床心理学工作者和心理学爱好者中引起极大反响。海灵格早年曾任二十年牧师，卸下牧师之职后开始潜心研究精神分析，最后在家庭治疗的训练中，自成家庭系统排列治疗方法。海灵格目前居住在德国。

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第一部分孩子的灵魂
第一章帮助面临挑战的孩子 3
背景 3
束缚 5
凯文的排列 11
受害者 14
我把你带去你的父亲那儿 15
儿童看护者 19
我为了你 20
好的良知 28
帮助一个自闭症的妹妹 30
有自杀倾向的女儿 36
领养的孩子 40
一名收养的孩子 48
强奸的后果 52
一名残疾孩子 54
监护 57
原谅与迫害 70
另一种爱 77
第二章共振 80
所有的孩子都是美好的，他们的父母也都是美好的 80
家庭的灵魂 88
第三章另一种表达方式 97
语言障碍 97
你疯了吗？ 107
秘密 115
和谐助人 123
与对立和解 124
第四章流浪的孩子 125
真实的人生 125
案例：请求你 126
案例：爱 132
第五章学校 137
系统教育 137
亲爱的妈妈 140
谁归属于系统？ 142
有学习困难的学生 146
患厌食症的女学生 149
全力以赴拯救父母的孩子 152
老师和父母 154
妈妈，我替你死 155
身体穿洞 161
困难的孩子 161
隐藏的爱 162
短暂的生命 171
我很爱你的父亲 179
妈妈，我愿意为你做任何事情 182
海灵格教育 188
第二部分爱的课程
第六章神秘的良知（I） 193
介绍 193
展示：光明 194
展示：突破 197
通往成功的途径 198
展示：我们的职业 200
展示：与伴侣的成功 203
地球上的天堂 207
展示：幸福 208
展示：问题 213
我的书 215
展示：徒劳 215
第七章神秘的良知（II） 219
介绍 219
第一个维度：“现在够了” 219
第二个维度：“现在我停下” 220
第三个维度：你更棒——现在我们一样了 222
第四个维度：我值得拥有 226
第五个维度：干得好 226
第六个维度：处理一个游戏 227
第七个维度：“哦，我这么晚才认出你来！” 227
第八个维度：现在到此为止 228
第九个维度：你去死吧 228
第十个维度：我在这里停下 229
第十一个维度：够了 229
第十二个维度：右边 230
第十三个维度：你这个无赖 232
第八章男人和女人，过去和未来 233
故事开始：两种幸福 233
合二为一 235
你心中的位置 241
权力与反抗力 244
问题和答案 246
简短排列 248
问题和答案 252
孩子 255
孩子的牺牲 258
结束语 263
附录 268

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