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那些年，我们都学着自己长大

Name: 那些年，我们都学着自己长大
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★《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》推荐理由一：艾莉这本新作《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》不只有爱情的成长故事，也有不少关于生活与工作的成长故事，或许没办法让你忘掉成长过程的辛苦与痛苦，但我相信你一定能在书中找到共鸣与释放。

★《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》推荐理由二：人气作者，温柔慰藉！

艾莉，台湾人气情感作家。真的长大是对世界柔软看待，并学会善待自己，而不只是遗忘。艾莉的《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》，有着对人生的一些感触与体悟，相信也能温柔地给大家慰藉陪伴。

★《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》推荐理由三：四色印刷，精美插图，插画师倾情奉献近70张手绘图，阅读性非常高！

★《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》推荐理由四：拥抱过去的自己，和青春和解。

陶晶莹，黄子佼暖心推荐

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谁没经历过青春时的不知所措。但无法逃避地，还是要从不知所措中摸索出一条朝向未来的道路。即使，心中一点把握都没有。并且还不敢告诉别人。

其实自己根本看不见，道路的尽头是不是有光。

在《那些年，我们都学着自己长大》中，作者写了一些成长的故事，写了一些看在眼里、心疼的故事。当然也有对人生、爱情的感触。

Author Description

艾莉，姊妹淘网站超人气驻站作家。现任媒体节目制作。

曾任无线台综艺节目编剧、执行制作，从事媒体工作逾十年。

执笔多出广播剧、偶像剧电视小说、报章杂志旅游报导及乐评。

出版作品：《没有你，到不了的地方》等。

Catalogue

Part1

善用自己的不甘心

不必加油也没关系，因为你已经太努力了 …002

怕麻烦的个性 …006

假装两个人的一个人 …012

坚强症候群 …016

女人内心的小剧场 …021

不离开的理由 …025

认真，到底会输掉什么 …030

并桌的路人 …035

善用自己的不甘心 …041

不要忘记第一个给你机会的人 …046

Part2

听他们的故事，学会自己的爱情

是因为你，我才这么笨 …052

有一种爱情叫作《李李仁与陶晶莹》…056

对自己的爱情与决定负责 …061

每个人都有可以幸福的机会 …065

女人要的真的不是英雄吗 …070

稳稳的幸福 …075

人生的一部分 …081

因为，你不是别人 …085

心该回去的方向就是有他的地方 …089

没有同类的聂隐娘 …094

谁是你心中的徐太宇 …099

Part3

那些年，我们都学着自己长大

跟自己和解 …106

谢谢你在我的人生中缺席 …111

18岁时，料想不到的事 …116

那些年，我们都学着自己长大 …120

岁月不只偷走了什么，它还给了我们更多 …128

迟到的生日贺卡 …133

感谢那些曾经的错 …138

学会跟自己相处 …142

管不住别人的嘴，就学会管理自己的心 …147

跟自己赛跑的人 …151

学会谁才是该狠下心，残忍的对象 …156

原谅自己比原谅别人更不容易 …161

Part4

因为单身得太久了

最难的不是相遇 …168

30岁的你，还应该凭感觉找对象吗 …172

因为单身得太久了 …176

安全感短少怎么办 …181

不是因为别无选择 …186

浪费 …190

从相信自己可以幸福开始 …195

恋爱不是大风吹游戏 …200

看见你变好的可能 …205

到底要跟谁交代 …209

一句话的终极魔力 …214

Part5

忘记一个人最难的是

忘记一个人最难的是 …222

没说出口的再见 …227

无法分手的恋爱 …231

在那个夏天结束之前 …235

无法成双的恋人 …239

对你来说，爱情是什么 …243

初恋不光只是为了遗憾 …246

被控制的人，往往也控制着对方 …250

还能去爱人的能力 …254

Part6

不必最好，只求刚好

两个人没有比一个人容易 …260

暧昧与爱情之间的距离 …265

一起慢慢变老 …269

不必最好，只求刚好 …272

二十九岁的你与爱情的距离 …276

每个女生都该有个Gay蜜 …282

到底是不是一对恋人 …286

女人什么时候心眼最坏 …292

王子病新解 …297

是用心还是交差 …302

不是一见钟情不是爱 …307

Book Abstract

陈奕迅：你们说我的老婆能花钱？没关系，我只要稳稳的幸福

一对伴侣如果不是常常出来一起走动，身旁的朋友很难看出他们的感情是否一切安好。

很多时候，面对着其中一方就算想要关心，也往往不知道要从何问起。更何况当这样的人是一位公众人物时。

以前的陈奕迅Eason是个不太主动提起自己私事的人。来到台湾宣传最新专辑《Rice&Shine米·闪》时，媒体普遍都发现他变了。不但瘦了一大圈，话还变多了。

“再过几个月，我就要40岁了，40岁这件事让我想了很多……”面对着大批的媒体，Eason的谈话内容相当“心灵鸡汤”，眼神也变得很深邃。

“我一直习惯迎合别人，只要身边的人开心我就会开心，因为我喜欢让人开心、我喜欢看见我喜欢的人脸上开心的笑容。”他像是在布道大会上似的，双手敞开随着讲话的节奏挥舞着，眼神很诚恳。

“可是，慢慢地，我觉得这样下去是不对的，我愈来愈明白其实人生最重要的应该是要让自己开心。”

“所以，现在的你开心吗？”

有人问。

他笑了，脸上是一种满足的安心表情。

聊着天，Eason又继续说，说他之后打算更“Free”一点，要放慢工作步调，要做一些自己真正想做的事，比方说，放个长假带着家人一起去希腊旅行。

他还说今年40岁生日，不想庆祝，只想和老婆女儿安安静静吃顿饭。

“因为，我们一家人很需要这样的时间。”

不得不承认，Eason的老婆徐濠萦在大众眼中并不是贤妻那类型的。媒体看见的是工作繁忙的Eason，总是以大量的金钱弥补对老婆的愧疚，而徐濠萦对于金钱的花费方式超乎一般人可以理解的程度。

但朝夕相处的是他们夫妻俩、一起生活面对所有好与不好的也是他们，外人如我们真的没有资格多说什么。

“你知道我最喜欢她什么样子吗？”说到老婆，Eason眼中满是笑意。

“我最喜欢她在家里的样子。”

在家里的样子？是穿着性感睡衣还是名牌居家服？

我想象着那样的她在上亿的豪宅中，用白细修长的手拿起法蓝瓷优雅喝着花茶。

“我喜欢她在家里干干净净不化妆的脸，穿着我的T-Shirt舒舒服服地跟我天南地北地瞎聊。”Eason的回答惊醒了我自以为是的偏颇想象。

伴侣之间的相处真的不需要跟旁人解释太多，从他们谈论到彼此的方式与口气，往往就清楚地说明了一切。

现在的Eason已经好好认识了自己，也终于可以好好面对自己、面对另一半。

看着Eason温暖的眼神，我想起了他唱的一首歌。

有一天

我发现自怜资格都已没有

只剩下不知疲倦的肩膀担负着简单的满足

有一天

开始从平淡日子感受快乐

看到了明明白白的远方我要的幸福

我要稳稳的幸福

能抵挡末日的残酷

在不安的深夜能有个归宿

我要稳稳的幸福

能用双手去碰触

每次伸手入怀中有你的温度

稳稳的幸福，让我就算只身一人面对全世界的刁难都不觉得可怕。

稳稳的幸福，只要想起有个人始终等着我回家，就根本不会疲累。

一份安定的感情来的时候，也在彼此已经懂得珍惜的时候，这是最稳稳的幸运。

……

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