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翘起你的大拇指

Name: 翘起你的大拇指
Brand: Jingdong book
SKU: 3113025481
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著名经济学家茅于轼，中国第一职业经理唐骏博士盛情推荐。
周弘，赏识教育倡导人，全球热爱生命奖得主，中央教科所特聘家庭教育专家。
凝结周弘老师二十多年的心血，倾力构筑“大拇指”的和谐文化，帮助你在家庭教育、婚姻相处、自身修养和团队管理中获得幸福与成功。

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如何教育孩子，是一个永恒的热门话题，也是一个压在所有父母心头的沉甸甸的话题，因为任何成功都无法弥补教育孩子的失败。教育孩子的失败，是许多父母心头永远永远的痛。
亲子关系是否和谐，是家庭幸福与否的重心，也是社会人格病症的根本原因所在。
和谐的亲子关系，能够让孩子在一个充满爱的环境中成长。
在这种轻松偷悦的氛围之下长大的孩子，身心舒展，拥有健全的人格，对生活充满热情，潜力无限，前途一片光明。
和谐的亲子关系，能够让家长省心、放心、舒心，不必为孩子问题焦头烂额、愁眉不展，可把更多的精力投入到作或生活中去，在让家庭幸福美满的同时，也推动了社会的发展。
和谐的亲子关系，对家庭也好，对社会也好，都极其重要，不可或缺，需要我们努力去改变与完善。

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周弘，一位具有传奇经历平凡而伟大的父亲，他与命运抗争，将双耳全聋的女儿培养成了留美博士生，创造了被称为世界六大教育方法之一的“赏识教育”法，被誉为“中国第一位觉醒的父亲”。
他从20多年的赏识历程中，提炼出了“大拇指”的赏识理念精华，教你在家庭教育中构建亲子和谐、婚姻和谐、自身和谐，并把爱心传递给身边的每一个人，构建一个和谐的团队，从而赢得幸福美满的人生！

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我们每个人都会生儿育女。但是大多数人未必都会教育小孩。教育儿童是一门大学问，每个父母都应该学习，学不学大不一样。懂得儿童教育的方法，同样的努力效果就好得多。方法不对头甚至可能适得其反。中国有重视下一代教育的优良传统，父母都愿意花钱让孩子学习，但是最重要的是父母首先要懂得如何教育小孩。看看周弘老师写的这本新书，会大有裨益。
——著名经济学家茅于轼
在飞机上偶然认识了周弘，之后的几年里不断收到他的短信，他的人生感悟，他对事物的观察和解释，更多的是从人性的角度阐述一些真谛，我也经常把他的短信转发给我的朋友们，这样的短信不下于百条。今天看到了他的新书《翘起你的大拇指》，感觉书上很多内容是那么的熟悉和那么的亲切。因为在我的记忆短信中都能找到影子，这样会给更多的人带来启示。带来温馨……
——中国第一职业经理人、微软（中国）终身名誉总裁、新华都集团总裁兼CEO 唐骏博士

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引言生命，像一条河
第一部分亲子和谐——态度就是最好的方法
第一章爱好孩子的关键是“会爱”
第二章态度就是最好的方法
缺爱，就要补爱
二拇指的叛变
高粱秆子打狼，装也要装得坚强
让每个生命都有安全感

第三章凡事发生好心态
永远别忘记光明
都是坏念头在作怪
凡事都往好处想
在不幸中找万幸

第四章将赏识进行到底
一个字：行
两个字：骄傲
三个字：太好了
四个字：花苞心态

第五章态度一变，方法无限
合格父母的修炼法则
打开孩子心门的钥匙

第二部分婚姻和谐——爱是一切的答案
第-章没有比幸福的婚姻更幸福的事
第二章幸福婚姻的前提条件
有一颗感恩的心
找一个平衡点

第三章幸福婚姻的相处原则
最怕一个“疑”字
“好爱人”是“信”出来的
通则不痛，痛则不通
生命成熟的基点
好男人懂女人，好女人懂男人
爱到老，悟到老

第四章幸福婚姻的四大技巧
疼：为爱修筑的温馨港湾
乖：男人的大智慧
服：婚姻稳定的平衡杆
娇：不断轻轻抽打在男人身上的皮鞭

第三部分自身和谐——让生命成为爱的发光体
第一章做一个自己快乐并给别人带来快乐的人
第二章爱好自己的黄金法则
放下对自己的不满
享受生命的夜晚
凡事有度，人生无大误
感恩身边的每一个人
不自卑，也不狂妄
牢记“馒头”，忘记“拳头”

第三章快乐生活的阳光心态
保持心底的恬淡和安宁
勇敢面对失败与不幸
手背有多大，手心就有多大
永远都是“太好了”

第四部分团队和谐——都不容易
第一章把爱传给身边的每一个人
第二章构建和谐团队的成功要素
好环境决定好心情
感恩心与花苞情
做快乐的人中人
按规律行事
人心齐，泰山移
豆腐嘴，刀子心
保持一颗平常心
转念是一种智慧

第三章个人与团队的四大融合
把职业当作爱好
把工作当作娱乐
把同事当作朋友
让梦想照进现实

第四章好习惯造就好团队
谈心是沟通的最好方式
要包容，也要提醒
把建议当成一种鼓励
翘起你的大拇指

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第一部分亲子和谐——态度就是最好的方法
第二章态度就是最好的方法
二拇指的叛变
我们几千年传下来的教育，几乎都是在指责孩子身上的毛病，认为不打不成才。用这种方式教育现在的孩子，就好比一群渔民把鱼打捞上岸，让它们在岸上赛跑，一点也不符合生命成长的规律。
用一句话来概括，就是做父母的根本没有与时俱进。
那么我们现代的孩子应该怎么来教育？很多家长都感觉孩子难教，我却正好与他们相反，我感觉现在的孩子太好教了。我不敢说百分之百，有95％的孩子见到我，只需要一会儿，就会把心里话说给我听了。很多家长想不明白，自己的孩子为什么从来不对他们说心里话，却愿意对我说。
其中的奥妙在哪里？
很简单，因为我叛变了！我把教育上用了几千年的二拇指，叛变为今天的大拇指。早在20年前，我就已经对我的女儿翘起了大拇指，翘到今天，已经翘得得心应手了。
我们在教孩子学说话、学走路的时候，没有一个父母会去请教别人的，他们都是打心底里为孩子骄傲，从眼神、表情到语言、举止，都是在为孩子欢呼，是孩子最忠实的拉拉队员。
然而只要孩子一上学，父母就学会了攀比，为孩子骄傲的感觉没有了。要知道人比人，比死人。眼朝上看，心情黯淡。比多了，家长就由原来的骄傲变成失望了。
我对待女儿的态度，却与那些家长对待孩子的态度十分不同。我身上其他肌肉不发达，唯有大拇指的肌肉很发达．女儿从小到大，只要在我身边，我的大拇指总是在她身边晃来晃去，反正闲着也是闲着。不断强化她“行”的感觉和“好孩子”的感觉。我曾经对女儿开玩笑说：“爸爸的大拇指总是这样翘着，早晚有一天要抽筋。”我对女儿使用得最多的手势就是翘起大拇指，在女儿心中，大拇指就是一道金色的阳光，时刻照耀着她的生活。
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