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◆《我们为什么会分手？》真实记录了15对分手恋人的分手经历，而恰恰正是经历同一段感情的两个人，会给出完全不同的分手理由。原来，她心中的相爱理由不等于他心中的相爱理由，他心中的分手理由也不等于她心中的分手理由。或许，你曾认定的分手理由，也只是你一厢情愿的自我安慰，或者误解。
◆全书共收集15段真实的感情经历，以男女双视角的独特呈现方式，以分手为切入点，令你重新了解爱情。
◆写给每一个曾经失恋、正在失恋、即将失恋的人。任何一次分手，都能令人成长。

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“我们似乎热恋过，但我们似乎从未彼此了解。”
任何一次分手，留下的都不该只是伤痛，或是对爱情的怀疑，也可以是一次成长。
遭遇过分手的人都会问：“我们为什么会分手？”而恰恰正是经历同一段感情的两个人，会给出不同的答案。分手是如此微妙，让作者毛路和赵珈禾萌生了采访分手情侣的想法。她们在网络上征集，愿意单方面讲述的人众多，双方都愿意的则寥寥无几。在三年多的坚持下，最终采访到22对分手恋人。
《我们为什么会分手？》会与您分享其中15对的故事。在男女双方分别回顾恋爱过程、讲述各自心中真实的分手理由时，你会惊讶地发现，性别视角和思维方式上的差异，竟让同一段感情呈现出迥然不同的两种面貌，仿佛两个人谈的根本不是同一场恋爱。
无论是刚刚分手的你，还是正在恋爱的你，在冷眼旁观别人的故事之后，都会在反思中对男女交往多一分更清晰的理解，也更懂得如何爱下去。
翻开本书，换个令人惊醒的角度，重新了解爱情。

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毛路，专栏作家，编辑，译者，曾出版《人生对人生观开的玩笑》。
吃喝玩乐蹦跶，文学电影八卦，样样都不落下。曾长期冒充男性，为某知名男刊撰写书评专栏。作品散见于《东方早报》、《单向街》、“ONE？一个”APP等。

赵珈禾，审计师，南方姑娘，一个在当地较为俊俏的处女座。

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写在前面的话
分手故事一：
“爱得更多的那方没资格提要求”
她说：“他从来没有主动说过‘我爱你’。”
他说：“爱上一个人需要时间。”
分手故事二：
“两个人在一起，光有爱是不够的”
她说：“他对我越好，我越恐惧失去……”
他说：“她不应该为了我变成另一个人。”
分手故事三：
不信任，是爱情的头号杀手
她说：“你要么选她，要么选我。”
他说：“她不信任我。”
分手故事四：
在想象中热恋，在想象中分手
她说：“我要留点尊严，早点撤吧。”
他说：“她爱的、恨的，都是想象中的我。”
分手故事五：
不爱了，就是不爱了
他说：“我搞不懂是怎么结束的……”
她说：“我确定我不爱他了。”
分手故事六：
自己都丢了，如何爱下去？
他说：“时间久了，我有一种要窒息的感觉。”
她说：“分手那刻，我反倒有一种解脱的感觉。”
分手故事七：
没有沟通，感情就会死掉
她说：“我说他没有出息……”
他说：“我从头到尾没有和她探讨过我的想法。”
分手故事八：
你可以一辈子迁就对方吗？
她说：“激情总有烧光的一天。”
他说：“我的自私把她越推越远。”
分手故事九：
那是一种类似爱情的东西
她说：“他有老婆，他很爱自己的儿子。”
他说：“我大概就是她的摇钱树。”
分手故事十：
跨越得了距离，却跨不过人心
她说：“异国恋，总是夜长梦多。”
他说：“为何不能直截了当地沟通，而总是猜心思呢？”
分手故事十一：
被偏爱的都有恃无恐
他说：“她完全没有为我着想过。”
她说：“在一起六年，我也没有走进他心里。”
分手故事十二：
有多少问题是脑补出来的？
她说：“他有恋母情结。”
他说：“她总是火上浇油。”
分手故事十三：
越走，越远
她说：“他对我的工作和生活方式指手画脚。”
他说：“她觉得花我的钱天经地义。”
分手故事十四：
在爱里，我们都是卑微的傻瓜
他说：“我大概是癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉。”
她说：“事事都是我主动，很委屈。”
分手故事十五：
不是每一段感情，都有复合的机会
她说：“我不要做他心里的NO.2。”
他说：“我竟然干了那么多蠢事。”
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一年多之前，麦子和幼衡分手了。他们曾是我们这帮朋友眼中的“模范情侣”，我一度认为，就算全世界的情侣都分手了，这两人也不会分手。麦子和幼衡都是我很好的朋友，分手后他们也都来找我倾诉过。让我吃惊的是，本是同一段恋情，从两人口里讲出来，就成了两个故事。
原来她心中的相爱理由不等于他心中的相爱理由，他心中的分手理由也不等于她心中的分手理由。这真是一个又有意思又很残酷的话题。这让我冒出了采访分手情侣的想法。也许只有从男女双方的角度去叙述，才能在最大程度上接近分手的真相。我跟好朋友赵珈禾说了自己的这个计划，她也很有兴趣，于是我俩就开始着手寻找采访对象。
找到双方都愿意接受采访的分手情侣，比我们预想的困难。很多人跟我们联系，想讲讲自己的故事。当问到对方是否也愿意来讲一讲时，多数却是否定的回复。
我们发动了身边所有能发动的人，一起寻找，并利用网络平台，最后终于找到了二十二对分手情侣。本书选取了其中十五对的故事。
这些故事的侧重点并不是爱情，而是两性关系。以爱情为出发点去分析两性关系，太理想化，很多两性关系远没达到爱的程度。男女双方只有多些了解，少些误会，才能建立良好的两性关系。当然，良好的两性关系不一定就是爱，但良好的两性关系可以帮助我们通往爱。
在挑选故事的时候，我比较倾向于因为“主观原因”而分手的情侣，也就是说，是双方自身导致了分手，而非外界的压力。有一对接受采访的情侣，两人感情很好，但男方的母亲很迷信，认定两人八字相克，以自杀相逼，非要两人分手。还有一对是女方家里要求男方有房，但男方实在买不起房子。这样的故事，已经超出了两性关系的范畴，就没有收录在此。
每篇文章都是从当事人大量的口述素材中整理提炼出来的，以第一人称的形式呈现。写完之后，女方的部分我会发给女方看，男方的部分会给男方看，确定没有扭曲和误解之处后，才会定稿。这里面有一个我自己的故事，完稿后，也得到了对方的确认。
受访者中对待分手这件事的态度千差万别。有充满自责，对另一个人没有一句恶言，把主要责任往自己身上揽的；也有互相指责，把对方描述得无比极品的；当然也有既自责又指责对方的。看了这些故事，你就会发现，同样的世界，在不同人眼里竟是如此迥异的面貌。所以永远不要相信一个人的一面之词。
最后，感谢所有接受采访的人。谢谢你们的分享，从你们身上，我们也明白了很多东西。祝愿大家谈一场永不分手的恋爱！
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