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一个女人在一生当中,要经历多种角色,譬如说:在职场上,你要叱咤风云——面对你的下属,你应当是一个好上司;面对你的上司,你又得充当一个好的助手。在家里——面对你的公婆,你得是一个好媳妇;面对你的老公,你得是一位好妻子;面对你的孩子们,你要扮演好母亲这个终生不得退休的角色。除此之外,你要处理好你与自己父母姊妹的关系,你还要打理好邻里关系等。相信在每个女人的心里,都把这样的一个女人形象作为终生奋斗的目标。但往往事与愿违,我们经常发现,无论在职场还是在家里,总有一些事情我们无法摆平,陷入无尽烦恼之中无法自拔。莫说是很好平衡两端关系,根本就是两头都没抓到。

因此,在《用女人的方式赢一生》中,吴娟瑜划分了“两性之间”“婆媳之间”“夫妻之间”“亲子之间”以及“自我成长”共5大专辑52个案例,等于将作为一个全方位的女性所可能面临的问题都一一列出,同时辅以客观又弹性的建议,让读者可以轻而易举地找到破解的方法。在书中,吴娟瑜对于问题的解析均从于“心”,善于挖掘问题的根源,对于女性自我成长有着非常重要的意义。


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《用女人的方式赢一生》是一部女性心灵成长书。从职场、家庭生活、亲子关系等几个不同角色入手,共包括5个章节,52个案例,囊括了作为一个女人一生的方方面面。在本书中,吴娟瑜老师对于问题的解析均从于“心”,善于挖掘问题的根源,对于女性自我成长有着非常重要的意义。

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吴娟瑜,美国印第安那坡里斯大学应用社会学硕士,华人世界的演说家,北京时代光华教育发展有限公司特聘高级讲师,演讲5000场以上。丰富的肢体语言、风趣专业的分享使她在情绪管理、压力管理、沟通管理、生涯规划等领域独树一帜,经常受邀到世界各地演讲。在台湾,吴娟瑜老师被喻为“成长之母”,她以“把好的影响分享给更多的人”做为终身事业,帮助了许多个人、家庭和企业。

吴娟瑜同时是一位知名作家,曾获2010年马来西亚星洲日报读者票选十大受欢迎作家之一。著有《不做情绪的奴隶》《商务沟通与人际关系拓展》《教孩子,从放下开始》《吴娟瑜的成功父母学》《吴娟瑜的幼儿养育学》等书,同时已出版(DVD)《如何提高员工个人EQ和团队EQ》《商务沟通技巧》和《情绪管理》等。

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第一辑 两性之间 / 001

可以停止打探我的私事了吗? / 002

谁说我不能做这种工作? / 008

公司的重要客户对我毛手毛脚,怎么办? / 012

公司来了个外国同事,果然有 Culture “Shock”,怎么办? / 016

我渴望“永久的吸引力” / 020

我算是谈恋爱了吗? / 024

我不是男人婆! / 030

“男人婆”也是女人! / 034

就事论事,女人上班不要摆脸色! / 038

切勿成为独来独往的 OL / 042

第二辑 婆媳之间 / 047

为了家庭经济而努力,婆婆却不谅解,怎么办? / 048

我还不想生孩子 / 052

我不是爱花钱 / 058

婆婆太溺爱孩子了,该如何是好? / 062

婆婆,我不是外人啊! / 066

婆婆如猛虎? / 070

婆婆偏心妯娌,我心中有气! / 074

奇怪?婆婆就是不疼我老公! / 080

婆婆又来劝我了,我听还是不听? / 084

婆婆不被公公疼爱,我要插手吗? / 088

第三辑 夫妻之间 / 093

老公对于我的薪水和职位都比他高,他很不能接受,怎么办? / 094

我也不想让你成为我和婆婆之间的“夹心饼” / 100

工作谋杀了我和老公之间的感情 / 104

我希望老公能和我一起分担家务…… / 108

女强人?小女人? / 112

老公提出离婚,让我错愕万分! / 118

我不想做“老板娘”! / 122

为什么我回娘家照顾爸妈,老公超不爽? / 126

勇于和男人互动成长 / 130先分担,才有分享! / 134

第四辑 亲子之间 / 139

每天披星戴月,我从孩子的成长中缺席了 / 140

孩子长大了,家好空…… / 144

虽然我懂的不多,但我还是希望和你一起长大 / 148

我不是爱拿你跟别人比 / 152

为什么孩子老是跟我唱反调? / 156

爸妈赚钱很辛苦的~ / 160

我老了,你会养我吗? / 164

全新的眼光看老爸 / 168

对孩子说狠话,我后悔了 / 172

我可以学到“记忆改写”吗? / 178

第五辑 自我成长 / 185

雏形上班族,岂可慢飞? / 186

如何甩掉职场上的“母亲”角色? / 192

你有办公室自主权 / 196

你有成为 VIP女性的决心? / 202

“人性主管”正流行 / 206

职场追、赶、跑、跳、碰 / 212

为什么我留不住人才? / 216

升迁的人,不是我? / 220

我实在不想应酬 / 224

为自己加薪 / 228

换工作,新老板欢迎你! / 230

加速升迁的两把刷子 / 232

Book Abstract

最近在演说会场,我常开心地分享:“认识老公40年后,他终于从一个彻底的大男人变成新好男人,不但对我温柔体贴,还懂得嘘寒问暖。”

乍听之下,我的女性粉丝们都忍不住地说:“哇——还要等40年后?”

哈哈——我赶快解释:“我前面可以学习的对象不多,所以慢了些,你们眼前就有一个现成的人可以学,一定快多了。”

说说笑笑中,大家终于听明白,是我毛遂自荐,愿意无私地提供自己一路成长过来的心路历程给大家作为参考。

有本书提及:“人生智慧早就存在每个人的生命里,若愿意早早去挖掘、去体会,就可以免去还在受苦受难的过程。”

看到这个说法,我也暗自反省和觉察,确实有许多历程若能更早地发现和改进,不就提早享受幸福了吗?这也是我写作《用女人的方式赢一生》的初衷,如果能及早提供一些更具体、更有效的思维给渴望成长的女性,大家在人生道路上可以省时省力,这岂不是皆大欢喜的事吗?

提起我个人的成长,身为一个“女人”,从20多岁到40多岁之间,一直处在婚姻风暴期,要离却离不掉,因为我没有本事像有些前辈,她们登高一呼,就把老公fire掉了。

我是那种犹豫不决,又拖拖拉拉的人(现在的果断明快是后天学习来的),除了常和先生吵架,孩子的教育观两人不一致,还有,我的生涯发展也不尽如人意。

可以说,我没有做好一个“女人”的角色(女儿、妈妈、媳妇、老婆、姐姐),更别说有没有活出“人”独立个体的感觉(总觉得在职场上并没有把个人才华发挥到淋漓尽致)。

我发现关键因素是——我用了相当传统的女性思维和行为,在走一条现代女性力争上游的人生路。

传统的女性会以婆家立场来决定自己的婚姻关系,会以老公的看法来决定自己的职业发展,还有,会以娘家几个世代以来女性的眼光(例如:妈妈、阿姨、外婆、外曾祖母……)来考虑自己的可能性。

而,现代女性,则是享受个人充分的自主性,是从内在声音出发,听从潜在本能的需求,然后不断开发自我的无限性,好让自己在人格上、情感上和经济上有自在踏实的感觉。

这样各位可以明白中间的差异和矛盾了吧!

我就是在夹杂着各种声音的环境中迷失了自己,我也曾经在“他要的人生”和“我要的人生”之间来来回回地徘徊了数年。在徘徊的过程中,很自然地我把被耽误、被埋没的矛头指向了周边的男人,例如:怪罪老公无法让我活出自我,怪罪男性主管压抑了我的才华,怪罪两个儿子让我在“母亲”照顾者的角色待太久……

说也奇妙,怪罪越多,个人成长的路就越绕越远……

如今,我发现,原来智慧就在身边,原来责任就在自己,当我看懂自己此生来到人世间的责任,当我逐渐发现自己的好,当我看到自己的生涯从中学老师、报社主编、电视台主编,到国际训练机

构讲师,再到美国念应用社会学硕士,又从台湾的演讲拓展到华人世界各地,如今,演讲场次已经超过5000场以上……

人生这样翻了好几转之后,我的生命景况才逐渐回归正途了,然而总觉得从原来的“女孩”到“女人”再到成为一个真正个体的“人”,在这条路上,我待太久了。

如果我能更早接受自己的角色,如果我能再早几年进到“人”的角色,如果我能更早醒悟——活出自己,看重自己,栽培自己,相信我能服务的人一定比现在更多,接触的范围也一定更广。

《用女人的方式赢一生》要告诉大家的是,在现实社会里,在既定的制度、既有的环境,还有既存的限制环环相扣之下,使得女性在家庭生活、职场生态和生涯发展上,难免觉得束手束脚,所

以学会采取刚柔并济、软硬兼施的步骤,在不轻易让步,但也不至于咄咄逼人的原则下来成长,这才是明智之举。

这本书从“两性之间”、“婆媳之间”、“夫妻之间”、“亲子之间”,到“自我成长”,总共五大辑,等于将做一位全方位女性所可能面临的问题都一一列举而出。同时以客观又弹性的建议,希望让阅读的你,能轻而易举找到破茧而出的妙方。

在此要谢谢所有支持我写作不辍的报社主编们,也谢谢孟春燕女士的大力推荐和东方出版社的看重,让这本书能在中国大陆出版,因此得以和各位在成长路上邂逅,相信这就是我们的缘分,这就是我们的幸福相遇。

最后,要谢谢我的家人,尤其是老公,他的“苦口婆心”,曾经是泼我的“冷水”,如今,“盆栽是泼冷水长大的”。我这个“盆栽”历经造化,也成为国际演说家,还写了30余本书,你说这怎么能不好好谢谢他呢?

相信各位读者捧读之余,会看到我成长的轨迹,会看出我隐藏在文字里的生命经验,人生不就是应该互相提携、彼此造就吗?

祝福你哦~~~~

……

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